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We've broke up twice! Should give my ex another chance?

Q.   i was with my bf for 6months then we both decided we needed a break from each other but we still stayed friends (with benefits. This continued for about 3months and then he suggested we got back together properly so we did. Four months on and he has ...

A.   21 June 2008: Wow this is the exact situate i have been in, well i still have been me and my bouyfriend have broken up and got back together and i always said to myself that i will get over him and i did go out with a different guy and that didnt work But i lov... (read in full...)

It still hurts when I think of how little my ex gave me emotionally. how do I get over it?

Q.   Hello =] I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years over a month ago. The relationship was pretty much a chore and I always knew he didnt love me as much as I did with him. I always used to spend my money on him but rarely got anythng back. It...

A.   27 April 2008: Well you have obviusly got your head screwed on rigt because you are going out and enjoying yourwelf with mates that is the hardest part so you are almost there! =] of course its going to hurt you will think that you have wasted 2 years of you... (read in full...)

How do I dump the trouble women while keeping one or two lookers on the side for sex and still stay with me girlfriend?

Q.   My love-life has been pretty hectic lately and I need some advice. I've been in a relationship with this truly wonderful, sweet girl for the past seven years. We get along great, do all sorts of fun things together and really care about each other. ...

A.   27 April 2008: wow i know you said not to pass judgements but sleeping with married women and whilst you have a gf your just asking for trouble! you need to either stay with your gf and be faithful or end it with her and have sex with Single women because t... (read in full...)

Is there a way for me to forget the past?

Q.   help My current girlfriend has loved me for years. At the beginning she had almost no self esteem and asked me to a fireworks evening with her and a bi female. I turned her down and she went heartbroken with this female. The girl told her she lik...

A.   27 April 2008: you need to forget about what happend because no matter what gender she kissed its still kissing it dosnt make a difference that it was a girl. And you shoudlnt bring up the past when you are in love. And didnt she kiss the other gitl when you wer... (read in full...)

I'm worried that I didn't get pregnant with unprotected sex

Q.   how come ive bin having unprotected sex and i havent fell pregnant. i havent bin tryin but it still worries me a bit that i havent...

A.   27 April 2008: Well if you dont want to have a baby then i dont advise having uprotected sex. If you are worred about whether of not you can get pregnat then having unpretected sex isnt the answer, you should go see a doctor. They will do some test and then you ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend of 20 months just decided that she wanted a "break" in order to enjoy being "single" again ?

Q.   My girlfriend of 20 months just decided that she wanted a "break" in order to enjoy being "single" again and wants to try dating other people (thought she doesn't have anyone in mind). She also says it'll be healthy for us because she felt like ...

A.   27 April 2008: Well mostof the time when this happens, im sorry to say, but she may be thinking things are boring rite now one of my friends have said this to their bf I even did it at one point and to be honest i think that it may have been to get the attentio... (read in full...)

Should I meet him in person? I'm afraid of losing a friend and having my heart broken...

Q.   hi i have this problem i have been spking to this guy for just over 2 years. we have exchanged photos and he has a webcam so we know who we are talking to. he has anxiety and depression issues and confides in me alot about his life. we talk every ni...

A.   23 April 2008: Well you ca only go for it if yo sit back andnot do anything about it then you or him might move on. Also creating a realtionship over the internet can sometimes be quite false and desciving you may feel that you are falling for this guy bu... (read in full...)

We have a lot in common and he's never ONCE treated me badly, unlike my ex'es. Why don't I love him?

Q.   I have this AMAZING friend. He has truly proved himself to me that he is amazing. I mean most guys wouldn't bother being 'friends' with me if they knew they had no chance with me, but this guy, he doesn't care, he just likes me for me and really ...

A.   23 April 2008: I understand what you are going through and it realy is imposible to fall in lovewith the perfect guy who is your friend and it is simply because he is your friend a person that you can depend on when you want some help or comfort. You pick you... (read in full...)

I don't know if he likes me...

Q.   well, i know this guy at my school...he is very nice and i like him but i can't tell if he likes me back. I sometimes catch him staring at me and when i glance at him he just keeps looking at me but then finally i look away. also he sometimes tries ...

A.   23 April 2008: Things can move on from being mates to going out quite easily. If both the people like each other first you gotta know if he deffinatly likes you. You can do this through i friend or ask him yourself. Then why not talk to him more go out more to ... (read in full...)

I cant seem to make him cum when I give him a blow job

Q.   Hi there I have a serious issue here. i've just started seeing someone new and i cant seem to make him cum when i give him a blow job. I've never had this problem before... (Infact past partners have usually cum quite quickly). Its reached a po...

A.   13 April 2008: I went through thi problem with my boyfriend and he didnt seem to do it anymore. i think once you make it a problem and you think its is there then it will never fix For him to cum you both have to be relaxed and enjoying your selfs if it is ... (read in full...)

What do you think of my note of apology to my crush that I unsulted last week?

Q.   I'm now in a very awkard siuation because I think I offended my crush by accident. I should apologize, but how? Here's what I wrote in my apology note: "Hey, I'm really sorry if I offended you last friday. You have every right to be mad at me....

A.   13 April 2008: 'So what do you think? Here's a minor question, would you like a guy who won't talk to you and basically barely give you the time of the day? Probably not.' If this is guy that you are talking about then why bother with him. also if you offen... (read in full...)

I am a emotional mess, I need closure and I want to be happy once more.

Q.   I am so torn. I have been with this guy for 5 years. He has been verbally abusive to me for the past 3. I am only here because I think I might be afraid of starting over. Worse, he has done a number on my self-esteem. He's put me down so much and ...

A.   13 April 2008: You realy need to get out of this realationship What i suggest that you do is take up a good hobby or sport and realy loose yourself in that something that you can love like painting or jogging Make more time to go out with friends and meet new... (read in full...)

Is it alright to tell a girl that she is beautiful on your first date?

Q.   Is it alright to tell a girl that she is beautiful on your first date? I'm going on a date with this amazing girl who makes me laugh, i make her laugh and she's easy to talk to, and of course she's beautiful. Do you think if i tell her she's bea...

A.   13 April 2008: Yes! i think that it is definatly fine to do that Its realy sweet Girls love it when a guy is nice and shows their feelings Good Luck with your date =]... (read in full...)

If I waited longer would I have gotten her?

Q.   Thank you for even opening this thread .. I'm only a 16yr old male and this is the first time i've been this heart broken, I don't know if this applies to you but have you ever waited for someone you love soo much and in the end ...they slowl...

A.   13 April 2008: wow this girl is playing you around if she made you feel that bad then she isnt worth you i dont want to sound mean but her heart maby set with this other guy. if you feel like you should wait for her then do but there are plenty of girls out ... (read in full...)

I might be pregnant and I don't know what to do, please help me!!

Q.   Okay, I am only 13 years old and I recently had unprotected sex. My period was about a week before the sexual intercourse. And i'm so stressed because i'm bleeding unregularly and i'm afraid that i might be pregnant or even worse have a STD. It...

A.   13 April 2008: Because you are 13 you may be having irregular periods anyway. Yes you could have an STD or even be pregnant because you had unprotected sex the best thing to do is go to the doctors and they will give you the morning after pill but it needs to ... (read in full...)

I feel like the relationship isnt fun anymore

Q.   Hi. Ive been with my girlfriend for 6months, it started off well, but im not so sure now. She has just turned 17 and i am 20. There are qualities i like about her that are different to my ex, but other qualities im not so keen on. I feel l...

A.   13 April 2008: There are a few options that you have if you feel like things are fading and you want to move on then you should because there is no point in dragging things on. It will make things worse However you could stick too it and try and make things w... (read in full...)

14 and a virgin, I feel lonely and inadequate because all my friends have already had sex!

Q.   I'm 14 and from Hampshire, England. all my friends have had sex. i feel lonley because i'm still a virgin. they arn't saying i MUST pop the cherry but i don't fit in anymore eg. i'm not invited to party. i've always been a bit awkward around p...

A.   13 April 2008: Firstly you are underage and its not wise to have sex yet your body isnt mature enought and neither are your friends the fact that they have had sex dosnt mean that you have to Sex should happen when your are in a loving realationship with somebod... (read in full...)

We like each other, but he's my friend's boyfriend...

Q.   I'm a freshy in the university. I've met many new friends. One day I met my friend's boyfriend, I think he quite likes me and I feel that too. We exchaged our phone number and went out together. But the trouble is he's my friend's boyfriend. Please...

A.   13 April 2008: Hi i am in the same situation as you are - stared college and made a new friend and met her boyfriend. Except that i went out and dated the friend's boyfriend and got caught by MY boyfriends mum :( So now i have lost my boyfriend, my good friend a... (read in full...)

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