I'm trying to figure out my ex boyfriends thoughts. Any suggestions?
Q. Ok, i need some help here. Im trying to understand my ex's thoughts. We just recently started talking again after being broken up for about 6-7 months. He got a girlfriend right away and him and i haven't talked since. But we just recently started...
A. 14 May 2010: You are like back to square 1 and it is a bummer. He is unstable and fickle minded .He is like a man walking in a fog.
There are too many misunderstandings between you two and I think , you should take a break from this problem.
Go out with y... (read in full...)
I'm trying to figure out my ex boyfriends thoughts. Any suggestions?
Q. Ok, i need some help here. Im trying to understand my ex's thoughts. We just recently started talking again after being broken up for about 6-7 months. He got a girlfriend right away and him and i haven't talked since. But we just recently started...
A. 14 May 2010: You are both a confused lot. The only way to solve it is to talk to him and thrashed out all those confusions.
Don't beat about the bush but lay your cards down so that you will know what's inside your respective heart.
As to his picture on F... (read in full...)
I don't mind helping someone get on their feet, but I don't want to be taken for a fool.
Q. I have started seeing a man 22 and i'm 43. It started well but he asks me for five or ten dollars here or there and i pay for our dates since i have a full time job and his is part time. He is looking for a full time job also to get a car and we ...
A. 12 May 2010: He only likes you because you are experienced, more mature, undemanding and his sugar momma.
He likes to take but does not want to give. This type of relationship will not last.... (read in full...)
How can I get over my fear of my boyfriend cheating on me?
Q. I suffer from severe anxiety and depression and I can't stop thinking my bf is going to cheat on me. He's 27, I'm 26 and I know in my heart he wouldn't. He's very against cheating, but I can't get rid of the sick feeling in my stomach when he goes ...
A. 10 May 2010: Whatever will happen ,will happen .You cannot change events that will happen in the future.
You can only accept whatever will occur and accept whatever is fated to happen.
Try to think more positive or develop a positive attitude.
Sto... (read in full...)
Should I say something about his browsing online dating sites?
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for around 7 months. I have known from the start that he previously had social dating accounts - but has never met or hooked up with people or paid for subscriptions.. He likes to look at profiles, at what is out ...
A. 10 May 2010: If it bothers you , you will need to tell him about your feelings.
If you do not tell him , he will not know and he cannot read your mind.
If he loves and respect you , he will stop as he does not want to hurt your feelings.... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend wants to research my past! Does he not trust me?
Q. hello friends.. am very worried, my one month boyfriend and i are very open to each other but the problem with me is he wants to know my friends and classmates.. he also want to know about my past ,he even told me hes going to make a research about ...
A. 10 May 2010: If you have nothing to hide,why be afraid ? Let him check all he wants.
If he does not like your past, then say goodbye to him!... (read in full...)
We are in love but afraid to be with each other
Q. I meet the man of my dreams 2 years ago. From the very first night we met we have talked ever single night without fail for 3 to 5 hours depending on the day and work. We have become best friends. We talk about our future all the time. It's a ...
A. 10 May 2010: God bless you two.You made my day ! Thank you for your response.... (read in full...)
My friends have ditched me for relationships. How do I let them know that it hurts?
Q. Should i tell my friends it really hurts me that they've all ditched me for boyfriends and girlfriends? I recently moved to a new school and have found it really hard to fit in, anyway about a month or two ago I felt really sure that I had made ...
A. 10 May 2010: Friends come and go in our life. There is nothing we can do when they leave us for a relationship.
We should bless them and congratulate them and we should not look at it negatively. This is natural when you become involved in a relation... (read in full...)
We had sex but I don't see having a serious relationship with him.
Q. This is a long one! i met this guy in a club, at the time i was trying to get over my ex who i really liked but he didnt have the same feelings. So I was going out and kissing a few guys.anyway met guy, guy and i hit it off and we didnt kiss for ...
A. 10 May 2010: Maybe , after his exams , you can decide if the relationship is worth keeping . Every thing happens for a reason.... (read in full...)
Should I divorce my workaholic husband?
Q. Should I divorce my workaholic husband? I am tired of being alone after 15yrs of marriage and want more.? He isn't a bad man but he has a full time job and then started a second business. I have spent our entire marriage begging him to spend mo...
A. 10 May 2010: Being a workaholic is a sickness of the mind. He is not aware of anything except to find pleasure in what he is doing everyday.
Life is about balance. It is hard to convince a workaholic about enjoying life or having a life.
The only way ... (read in full...)
I love this married man so much...what should I do?
Q. Hia, i've got a major problem and it's really tearing me up cause i don't know what to do. I've just turned 18, and my parents know this woman (let's say her name is amy) and have done for a few years,and they are very good friends.She's ma...
A. 10 May 2010: Married men are off limits. That is the golden rule of life.
Get involved with one and your life will go downhill all the way and your heart will be shattered into a thousand pieces.
That is the bitter and putrid fruit you will have to tak... (read in full...)
Is my co-working seeing me only because I'm convenient?
Q. A male co-worker of mine (a good looking, fun loving, church going, very nice guy) was having major issues with his marriage. His wife had become a hypochondriac, never wanted to do much of anything, and was basically boring. He had brought his ...
A. 10 May 2010: You are just rationalizing and justifying your actions so that you won't feel guilty or wrong. You are both birds of the same feather.
Whatever happens in his family is not a matter for you to judge. For in judging you also condemned yourself... (read in full...)
Does his friend's reaction mean that this guy likes me?
Q. I have a huge crush on a guy. We get on very well and often smile at each other and generally are really comofrtable around each other. Sometimes I sense he might like me as well but like me he's hesitant to show it. One day we were talking and...
A. 10 May 2010: His friend knows that he likes you .He has given you a coded message about Scorpio's good at hiding it.... (read in full...)
I didn't get a card for my birthday and now, the GF is upset at me??!
Q. It was bothering me that my GF didn't get me a card for my birthday(2 days later). She noticed that something was on my mind and asked me. I asked her if she got me anything for my birthday and she told me she "didn't know what to get me" (so I got ...
A. 10 May 2010: She handled the situation wrongly . She could have just apologized, give you a sweet kiss and moved on but instead had to make you feel guilty for reminding her.
Just act normal when you see her or better still invite her out on a date and fete... (read in full...)
B/f wants to get more intimate but I'm unsure about it
Q. Im a 16 year old guy. And I'm gay. Me and my boyfriend have been togethr for a while..but now he wants to get more intimate with me. I want to.. but i'm afraid at the same time. What do i do?...
A. 10 May 2010: Go slowly , begin with more touchings and caressing's and slowly progress from there. Do what you feel is comfortable and enjoyable .... (read in full...)
I give up my friends, job to be with him in another country and then he leaves me?!
Q. I met this guy 2 years ago while traveling throughout the world. We dated for a few months and went our separate ways. We kept in contact and i ended up going to see him in his home town and staying for 4 months living with his family, it was ...
A. 10 May 2010: There is not much you can do now except to pick up the pieces and do the best you can until the time comes for you to go home.
I am very sorry and my sympathies to you .... (read in full...)
When I flirt with her she doesn't seem to flirt back
Q. Well, there is this girl...let's call her Jude. Well i like Jude for a few months, and i can almost say i actually love her, though we spend little time together, about 4 times a month we go out together or with friends. Last time we went out, she ...
A. 10 May 2010: She could be feeling not confident,fearful or too careful ,of saying the wrong things to you when you flirt with her.
You need to be braver and take it in your stride if you are rejected. Love is not for the feign hearted.... (read in full...)
He sees me only for casual sex and I care about him a lot! How do I deal with this?
Q. I feel so lonely... I have great friends,I am surrounded by great people but I feel so low. I found out the guy I was seeing only sees me as someone for casual sex, and I know for a fact that he is sleeping around. There are 2 other guys who I...
A. 10 May 2010: He is a Casanova and he spins his charms all over you . If you want to learn life lesson's the hard way ,be my guest.
Hope you will enjoy the emotional roller coaster.... (read in full...)
Why is she telling me that other women are checking me out?
Q. Ok so my girlfriend and I go out to clubs and go dancing. We both love to dance and have a great time. One thing that drives me crazy is that she keeps telling me about other girls that are checking me out. I am there do dance with her. I dont ...
A. 10 May 2010: She is indirectly telling you that,"WOW! You are hot!."... (read in full...)
Changing his passwords on his accounts--says its "his business not mine"
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together a year, living together for 6 months. Last week he changed his hotmail and facebook passwords out of no where. He says its his business and none of mine. Why the sudden change? Should I be worried something is ...
A. 10 May 2010: If you are in a relationship , I believed everything should be like an open book.
He should not change the password because it will give rise to the notion that he may have something to hide from you .
If you have nothing to hide, why change... (read in full...)
I'm trying to figure out my ex boyfriends thoughts. Any suggestions?
Q. Ok, i need some help here. Im trying to understand my ex's thoughts. We just recently started talking again after being broken up for about 6-7 months. He got a girlfriend right away and him and i haven't talked since. But we just recently started...
A. 10 May 2010: He is confused and cannot read your mind. He is unsure of your stand and that's why he text you that you should not talk when you are both still in a relationship.
He may have confessed his feelings for you but he is aware of the pragmati... (read in full...)
How do I get this depressed feeling out of my chest?
Q. Hello I'm soo depressed and I feel is killing me inside. Sometimes I wake up feeling ok and others days feeling down and I throw up and I dnt even eat. How can I make or what do I do so I won't think negative. When I think negative is when I get ...
A. 9 May 2010: Try to think more positive and have a more positive attitude towards life. Reject any negative views that comes into your brain.
You want to be happy or sad is your choice. If you choose to be sad , then you will enjoy sadness...... (read in full...)
Guys who say they aren't ready for relationships..yeah right
Q. So I have a question that has been bugging me. Four years ago I had just arrived at college. I met this guy first at the club and I hooked up with him. The day after I realized I just wasn't interested in the guy I met at the club however I did ...
A. 9 May 2010: You asked him when he just came out of a bad relationship .When he was ready , you rejected him.
Your destiny was not on the same path and you were not meant to be together.
Sometimes, when the girls are more aggressive or doing the chasin... (read in full...)
My parents limit the time that my b/f and I can talk on the phone together
Q. Dear Aunties, My parents limit the hours I may text/talk to my boyfriend. my mom won't let me have my phone past 10 on weekdays and 11 on weekends. My boyfriend and I have been together over a year, and I love him. I know I'm only 16 and I know no...
A. 9 May 2010: You could chat on Facebook or talk using Skype on your pc.You should count your blessings that your parents allowed you to talk to each other.
Some very strict parents do not allow that luxury to their kids. They are not even allowed to date.... (read in full...)
He's married and I have a boyfriend! Should we stop seeing each other?
Q. hello evry 1 i have a question im a female 30 i hav a boyfriend but i rarely see him but i love him...but on the other hand i met a great man wonderful hes perfect in every way hes tall dark n handsome i ended up cheating on my bf with this ...
A. 9 May 2010: Don't trust the words of an adulterer. If you believe his words, you will set yourself up for more heartbreaks.
This chapter in your life have ended and you should begin a new chapter in your life.
... (read in full...)
How can I get my b/f in the mood?
Q. Hey i was wondering when me and my bf are away from each other we mostly text or talk on the phone, well most the time when i want to talk about sex il say some thing like "im cold come here and warm me up or im hot help me cool off" Do you have any ...
A. 9 May 2010: You can Google online for more talk dirty tips.
Just type in the search window ,"talk dirty to your man."... (read in full...)
Wont have sex but keeps getting off 2 porn!
Q. hi i am a 26 year old woman and i am with a man 17 years older than me. for a while now he keeps making every excuse you could think of so he dosnt have to sleep with me. he might look for it once or twice a month and expects me to be all on for ...
A. 9 May 2010: It is normal for men and women to masturbate even after they are married.
If you are not satisfied with him about your sexual needs ,you should talk to him about it or you simply initiate it when you feel like it.... (read in full...)
I've fallen for him, but I don't know just how fond of me he is
Q. please advise me here. i have totally fallen for my best friend i know hes fond of me but dont know how much. on occasions i have vaguely made jokey suggestions and he says he has lots of affection for me in a sisterly way. i was crushed then lat...
A. 9 May 2010: If you are his center of attractions,then he would love you a lot.
Just enjoy his presence and stop worrying.everything will fall into place when the time is right.... (read in full...)
I don't mind helping someone get on their feet, but I don't want to be taken for a fool.
Q. I have started seeing a man 22 and i'm 43. It started well but he asks me for five or ten dollars here or there and i pay for our dates since i have a full time job and his is part time. He is looking for a full time job also to get a car and we ...
A. 9 May 2010: Don't be a fool and don't allow yourself to be used . Time to change a newer model.... (read in full...)
Is there potential for a lasting, healthy relationship?
Q. I met this wonderful man on Match.com and we really connected. He is 40. I am 32. We started going out over a month ago. For some reason, I felt really comfortable with him and revealed alot about myself to him right away: the fact that I was ...
A. 9 May 2010: If a man is not interested, it is all over. Nothing you do will make him change his mind. You need to accept the reality and move on.... (read in full...)
Is my co-working seeing me only because I'm convenient?
Q. A male co-worker of mine (a good looking, fun loving, church going, very nice guy) was having major issues with his marriage. His wife had become a hypochondriac, never wanted to do much of anything, and was basically boring. He had brought his ...
A. 9 May 2010: They say ,love is blind and I am inclined to think so. Someday you will find out the hard truth.
I wish you all the best if you think there is hope that one day you will be together.... (read in full...)
I've been in love with him for 4 years but we aren't really together
Q. i have been in love this this dude for almost four years now but we havent been in a committed relationship. he is or has been engaged.but says he's loves me and want to be with me. I dnt kno if i should wait on him or move on? he havent talked ...
A. 9 May 2010: 4 years and still not committed .I don't think he will ever commit to you in another 4 years.
If he cannot do it in 4 years, he won't be able to do it even if you give him 10 years.
You should move on and forget about him.
... (read in full...)
Husband doesn't put forth any effort in the bedroom
Q. hi im 21 years old and have been married for a couple of months. I love my husband so much but when it comes to the bedroom he dosnt put any effort in it anymore, i have been fighting over this with him because i dont feel as though he appriciates ...
A. 9 May 2010: There could be a reason/s why he is not putting in any efforts. Maybe, you could talk to him and find out why he is acting cold in the bedroom.
Could it be some criticisms of his performance or his tool ? ... (read in full...)
He acts like he doesn't care about me anymore and only cares about himself
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and a half and we live together. when we first got together our relationship was great. he showed me a lot of love and attention and always made me feel wonderful. but lately all of that has ...
A. 9 May 2010: You b/f is quite immature and you should stand up to him about the way he treats you . You should not allow him to treat you like a door mat.
It is because he knows that you love him and will never leave him that he is acting in such a childish... (read in full...)
What I see in my police job makes me afraid for my own kids
Q. I am a father of 3 teenage children 1 son and 2 daughters (13, 15 and 16) I am also a police officer. Over the past year we have been called to many parties with underage drinking/and or fights and once we got there we found live sex, orgies, group ...
A. 9 May 2010: It is very sad when our society has degenerated in to such debauchery.
It is the modern lifestyle which caused our children to experience such a lifestyle.
Today ,both parents are working full time and have little time for their children .... (read in full...)
He broke up but then acts all weird when seeing me
Q. i was with a much older man (33 years) and he sent me a message ending it (were together for 6 months). he said he couldnt see me to do it as if he did he want to get back with me......like why would you send someone a email saying it??! how unfa...
A. 9 May 2010: He has ended this relationship and you need to move on. He is no more interested in you and you should forget him and live your own life from now.
He is no more special and treat him like any normal friend.... (read in full...)
I have never felt like this about a women before
Q. 3 month ago we hired a clerk to do work for another department. We started flirting right away, then she quickly came to work for my department since I needed help. The flirting went to kissing and she even came to my place once. We are both ...
A. 9 May 2010: If you love her, you should go for it even if she already has a b/f. In time, she will select the better person as her b/f.... (read in full...)
He says I have a special place in his heart..what does that mean?
Q. i have intense feelings for my close friend-we have the deepest conversations and get on amazingly well. he calls me 7/8 times a day and we're always on the phone for ages. i know i love him but cant ask if he feels the same way as hes told me hes ...
A. 9 May 2010: He would not call you 7/8 times daily if he has no feelings for you . That's more like a person in love.
You have a special place in his heart, meant that he respects you and hold you in very high esteemed. Probably , he loves you inside of him a... (read in full...)
I think he's cheating because he doesn't answer my calls
Q. So if you call you boyfriend after you come back from shopping, he doesn't pick up when you call the first two times and it barley rings 4 times, you wait a while and call a third time and the other time it rings 5times.. I'm pretty sure he i...
A. 9 May 2010: Your intuitions could be correct but you need concrete proof that he is cheating ,otherwise it would be a travesty of justice.
You can confront him about not answering your phone and listen to his answer .You maybe able to feel if he is cheating... (read in full...)
I'd love to date my close friend but I'm ashamed of my financial situation
Q. i adore my close friend and would love us to date-i know hes fond of me. im scared of him knowing stuff-like how my ex left me edging on bankruptcy thanks to his grasping so im insolvent for 3 more years and my flat looks really bad. i have little ...
A. 9 May 2010: If a man is really interested in you ,it is only about you and not your financial situation or your assets.
He will understand your situation and you should not feel ashamed because it was not your doing or fault.
Love do not see the faults o... (read in full...)
Parent's have gone too far
Q. Hello, I posted on here a few times about a breakup but now I have another problem, my parents. I’m sorry this is long. They are very young and very strict. They have always made me feel horrible about any decision I have made in my life ...
A. 9 May 2010: Thanks for your update and I am very sorry that you are going through a very hard time.
You are never alone . There is God who is besides you, if you allow Him to enter into your life.
Call upon Him and pray and give Him your heavy burdens.He... (read in full...)
He has issues with my past
Q. I've read a good number of posts on the subject, but I want to see if anyone can give me a little insight on what I can do. A few days ago my boyfriend questioned my past. We had a long talk about it, not going into any specifics, and things seeme...
A. 9 May 2010: Thanks for your update. It is great news. He will see the truth and it will set him free.... (read in full...)
I have a good job while he is very depressed about his, and very moody, what can I do for him?
Q. I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now (living together for 1) and I’m 22 and he’s 27. When we first got together I was studying at university and he was earning a lot so used to spoil me rotten and pay for everything. However when I ...
A. 8 May 2010: Maybe you can get him a dog.Interacting with them will help him to get over his problems.
Make love more as the brain will produce more serotonin and make him feel happier.
Do something together or go on a trip.
Count your blessings ... (read in full...)
Clingy or having healthy emotional needs?
Q. How do you determine if a girlfriend is being "clingly" or is just having healthy emotional needs? Where do you draw the line?...
A. 8 May 2010: Being clingy means having excessive needs and wanting his incessant attentions over each and every single details in your life .
You are always checking him out . What he is doing or where he is at that moment?... (read in full...)
Parent's have gone too far
Q. Hello, I posted on here a few times about a breakup but now I have another problem, my parents. I’m sorry this is long. They are very young and very strict. They have always made me feel horrible about any decision I have made in my life ...
A. 8 May 2010: I am very sorry about your status in your family. I am afraid that being an adult has got nothing to do with your parents.
They do not think that you are an adult because you still need them for your needs and wants.
You have to live by thei... (read in full...)
He has issues with my past
Q. I've read a good number of posts on the subject, but I want to see if anyone can give me a little insight on what I can do. A few days ago my boyfriend questioned my past. We had a long talk about it, not going into any specifics, and things seeme...
A. 8 May 2010: The past made you what you are today . Never regret your past. It was right at that time . It is a matter of choice.
If he loves you , he has to accept your past as it comes in a total package. If he has issues with your past, it means that his... (read in full...)
Is my co-working seeing me only because I'm convenient?
Q. A male co-worker of mine (a good looking, fun loving, church going, very nice guy) was having major issues with his marriage. His wife had become a hypochondriac, never wanted to do much of anything, and was basically boring. He had brought his ...
A. 8 May 2010: It is all over and you should salvage what's left and move on.He is not coming back . He realized the full implications of what he was doing and has gone back to the straight path.
You should accept the reality and not live in your dreams.... (read in full...)
We are in love but afraid to be with each other
Q. I meet the man of my dreams 2 years ago. From the very first night we met we have talked ever single night without fail for 3 to 5 hours depending on the day and work. We have become best friends. We talk about our future all the time. It's a ...
A. 8 May 2010: Perfect love casts out all fears.
Let your love grow strong and your fears will slowly recede . When the time is right your love will overcome those fears.
Believe in God and have faith in Him. He can protect and guide you through your lif... (read in full...)
I have never felt like this about a women before
Q. 3 month ago we hired a clerk to do work for another department. We started flirting right away, then she quickly came to work for my department since I needed help. The flirting went to kissing and she even came to my place once. We are both ...
A. 3 May 2010: Let nature takes it's course.Just follow the current flows. Be patient and if she is meant to be yours, it will be someday.... (read in full...)
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