Am I pregnant or something else?
Q. ok so im a little freaked out but not that much. I have been spotting for a week and a half now. I am not supposed to start my period for another 6 days. i am on birth control and this has never happened before ever while on birth control. also ...
A. 19 May 2010: You should put your mind at ease as your b/f has spoken positively about it.
Sometimes , those test may only detect it on the 2nd week.If you need a quick result, you could go to the doctor for a pregnancy test.They use the blood test and it i... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant or something else?
Q. ok so im a little freaked out but not that much. I have been spotting for a week and a half now. I am not supposed to start my period for another 6 days. i am on birth control and this has never happened before ever while on birth control. also ...
A. 18 May 2010: If you have taken those pregnancy tests before your period,it would most probably come up negative as they not sensitive enough to detect the presence of the pregnancy hormone, human chorionic gonadotrophin (HCG) in your urine.
If you’re n... (read in full...)
We are in love but afraid to be with each other
Q. I meet the man of my dreams 2 years ago. From the very first night we met we have talked ever single night without fail for 3 to 5 hours depending on the day and work. We have become best friends. We talk about our future all the time. It's a ...
A. 10 May 2010: God bless you two.You made my day ! Thank you for your response.... (read in full...)
Is my co-working seeing me only because I'm convenient?
Q. A male co-worker of mine (a good looking, fun loving, church going, very nice guy) was having major issues with his marriage. His wife had become a hypochondriac, never wanted to do much of anything, and was basically boring. He had brought his ...
A. 10 May 2010: You are just rationalizing and justifying your actions so that you won't feel guilty or wrong. You are both birds of the same feather.
Whatever happens in his family is not a matter for you to judge. For in judging you also condemned yourself... (read in full...)
Is my co-working seeing me only because I'm convenient?
Q. A male co-worker of mine (a good looking, fun loving, church going, very nice guy) was having major issues with his marriage. His wife had become a hypochondriac, never wanted to do much of anything, and was basically boring. He had brought his ...
A. 9 May 2010: They say ,love is blind and I am inclined to think so. Someday you will find out the hard truth.
I wish you all the best if you think there is hope that one day you will be together.... (read in full...)
Parent's have gone too far
Q. Hello, I posted on here a few times about a breakup but now I have another problem, my parents. I’m sorry this is long. They are very young and very strict. They have always made me feel horrible about any decision I have made in my life ...
A. 9 May 2010: Thanks for your update and I am very sorry that you are going through a very hard time.
You are never alone . There is God who is besides you, if you allow Him to enter into your life.
Call upon Him and pray and give Him your heavy burdens.He... (read in full...)
He has issues with my past
Q. I've read a good number of posts on the subject, but I want to see if anyone can give me a little insight on what I can do. A few days ago my boyfriend questioned my past. We had a long talk about it, not going into any specifics, and things seeme...
A. 9 May 2010: Thanks for your update. It is great news. He will see the truth and it will set him free.... (read in full...)
Clingy or having healthy emotional needs?
Q. How do you determine if a girlfriend is being "clingly" or is just having healthy emotional needs? Where do you draw the line?...
A. 8 May 2010: Being clingy means having excessive needs and wanting his incessant attentions over each and every single details in your life .
You are always checking him out . What he is doing or where he is at that moment?... (read in full...)
I dreamed we had a threesome, am I a bad person?
Q. i had a strange dream last night =s. it was me, my boyfriend, and this boy in our class. i fancy this boy, and my boyfriend knows and doesnt worry anything will happen and nothing will. but last night i had a dream we all had a 3 sum.. why did i ...
A. 8 May 2010: Dreams does not make you into a bad person and you cannot control what you want to dream.
Maybe, you were watching some 3 sum porn and it was etched into your subconscious.... (read in full...)
Should I feel any guilt for wanting to make a new start for myself?
Q. I am a 46 yr old woman, I am in desperate need for change. I want to relocate somewhere else and make a new start. New job, meet new people, boyfriend, etc. I have two grown children 22,24 who I have raised alone, after divorce when they were ...
A. 8 May 2010: You should follow your heart and find your own happiness. You only live once .
It is a time where you will discover who you are and what you are capable off. Do not have regrets.
You are now free of all responsibilities and you should fly a... (read in full...)
I feel left out when my girlfriend is with my best friend...
Q. i love my girl a lot but I'm not sure whether she loves me or not cause whenever she is with my best friend they seem to have a lot of fun and I'm left out .......please help is it lack of trust from my side or what ?????????...
A. 8 May 2010: Sometimes being together for a long time can be boring and she needs a little excitements and fun. You need to have trust in her and that you are her b/f at the end of the day.... (read in full...)
How do I tactfully ask my partner to stop continually farting and belching in my company?
Q. How do I tactfully ask my partner to stop continually farting and belching in my company? He doesn't even seem to know he is doing this. I have talked to him about it and he thinks I am being unreasonable....
A. 8 May 2010: You will have to get used to it or you will need to live separately.
Tact does not work. You will need stronger arm twisting tactics to stop his belching and farting.
You need to give him a piece of your mind and he will fear doing it again i... (read in full...)
I have almost never liked my mother, do you think she is in the wrong or should I get over it?
Q. I'm 15 going on 16 and I have almost never liked my mother, and today one of my close friends funeral was today and we had been talking about it all week and she told that I could go, but when I woke up this morning I asked her if I could still go ...
A. 8 May 2010: It is unfortunate about the timing that she has somewhere to go . You should get over it and she can see your feelings and there is no need to tell her.
Being the eldest has it's responsibilities. You may not like it but the training will make you... (read in full...)
I told him I had a problem with porn, now I watch it myself
Q. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I'll get to the point. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. I love him very much. Each passing day I want and need and taste for him. I have had many abusive relationships. I told him that I ...
A. 8 May 2010: You watched too much porn and you are addicted to it. Porn has warped your mind and give rise to those lusty thoughts.
It is not normal and you need to focus your mind on more healthy activities, like exercise, games or going out with friends ... (read in full...)
I like him but he likes her and I want him to like me
Q. Hey guys! right, i have a problem, obviously. There's this guy i like, and i have done for a few months, ever since we met at this party, well ive been seeing a lot of him because i hang out with his mates and everything, and it's not just me, som...
A. 8 May 2010: Be better than her to win back his attentions. Change your outward appearances to appeal to his senses.
Be more open and flirt with him. He likes to flirt.
If nothing works, then stay away from him because his mind is only fixated on your ... (read in full...)
Is he interested or just weird? How do I get his number?
Q. So im wondering if this guy is interested or not..or if hes just weird. I see this guy at the bar every now and then.My drunk friend told him I liked him a cpl of months ago and she said that hes not interested.One night we played pool together ...
A. 8 May 2010: If you want his number, just ask him directly and he would oblige you .Most guys have no problems with that. You only have to ask him.
He has the interest in you . You can get to know his hobbies and interests and then you can take up those in... (read in full...)
I am feeling very unattractive at the moment
Q. I was just wondering about what some of the biggest turn ons and turn offs for single girls are? I'm just not feeling very attractive at the moment! So i want to do something about it. I dont mean to change who i am, i just want to change the way i ...
A. 8 May 2010: Biggest turn on is being confident of yourself, dress smartly and talk intelligently.
Biggest turn off is being clingy and obnoxious.... (read in full...)
The ball is in whose court?
Q. Well i know exes are meant to be forgotten in the past. I thought I was over mine. We haven't spoken for some 4 months due to my insistence that I don't want to talk to him anymore or him to call me. But the other night I was just alone and too ...
A. 8 May 2010: Yes! Be more philosophical about those detours in life.... (read in full...)
Which ex to choose, ..the cheater, or the emotionally closed one?
Q. I was dating this guy for 1.5 yrs.He was caring, sexy, respectful, educated. The problem was that he was against commited relationships. He assured me that he wasn't dating anyone else and he wasn't interested in doing so. But he couldn't call me ...
A. 8 May 2010: If you have no other choice and must choose only these two man , I think I would choose the emotionally closed one.
Give him a chance because 4 years has passed and he may have changed.
Perhaps , he heard that you are now available and th... (read in full...)
What should I do? Never have anything to do with Italy again!?!
Q. i and my husband lived together 5 years, before we married, i met a guy in Italy and had 2 ONS together. i told my husband this before we married, for him it's something definitely immoral and he disgusts about, but he still love me and be with me ...
A. 8 May 2010: That is mental and emotional abuse. You need to stand up for your rights and do not let him encroached into your space.
If you don't stand up to him , you will eventually lose all your will and become his slave.He will respect you more when you... (read in full...)
Could there be a deeper reasoning to all this?
Q. My boyfriend (now ex) finished with me about a month ago, telling me he needed space and wasnt ready for a serious relationship. It's not that I don't believe him, but I feel there was deeper reasoning. He has a demanding job and from what i've w...
A. 8 May 2010: The needing space is just an excuse to break off with you .It could be that he was not ready for a serious relationship but there must be something underlying which precipitated that decision.
I think it is his ED which sapped his confiden... (read in full...)
Looks at other women while talking to me. Haven't confronted him yet.
Q. Hi I have been dating this guy for 18 months and I really thought it was my imagination, but whenever we go out to a pub for a drink, I see that when he is talking to me, he isnt actually looking at me, he is eyeing up the barmaid or passing femal...
A. 8 May 2010: It is quite possible but then you cannot assume that he will unless you see with your own eyes or someone told you about what he did in the bar.
Some men only check those girls visually while some may hook up with them. Sometimes ,it is the girl... (read in full...)
His Coworker, Me, and Him.
Q. *OP's own title* Boyfriend tells me he doesn't want me thinking he doesn't want me talking to anybody that he knows that certain people are going to cross my path that I cant avoid, that it's life. He tells me he talks to this female co-worker and ...
A. 8 May 2010: He was trying to clarify some things which can be easily misunderstood.
Sometimes words can be taken out of context or that they come out and have a different meaning when the other person listens to it.
He does not want to go his father's way... (read in full...)
I really want to tell my partner I crossdress.
Q. *Op's own title* Hi all, Hope someone can help, I am a closet crossdresser and live with my female partner of 5 years. I only do it in the privacy of our home and I am totally devoted to my partner. I really want to tell her but I am afraid of ...
A. 8 May 2010: NO! Don't do that. Generally women will see you in a different perspective once they know you cross dressed.
They want a man and not a drag queen. Don't take that risk even if you have been with her for 5 years. It is their woman's nature. ... (read in full...)
How can I marry the man I love when my family is against it?
Q. I stay in Mumbai, India. I have got engaged with one guys but I don’t want to marry with that person as I love some else who is married person and has 1 child but he is divorced. I have informed them about this to my parent they are against it they ...
A. 8 May 2010: If you want to marry a divorced man with a child , you will have to move far far away from your parents and make a new start.
You may even have to say goodbye to your parents and never see them again.
I don't see any other way that you can con... (read in full...)
Just got married to a wonderful man, but I'm in love with my best friend
Q. *OP's own title* Hello Cupid, I'm extremely conflicted, I just got married to an amazing guy who I love like a friend (he feels the same way but we have four kids so it seem to be the right thing to get married). Here is the issue, I have been i...
A. 8 May 2010: You need to shift your focus on to your marriage and put those thoughts about your best friend into your archives.
The dice has already been cast and you should not turn back nor think that he is the better man.
Everything happens for a re... (read in full...)
He wont leave his 'baby momma' right now, .. is he worth waiting for?
Q. i met my boyfriend about 3 springs ago this spring.... well fell in love almost right away....he has a girlfriend who he has 2 kids with their young,....but he wont leave her right now because of court and her acknowledgements he works and suppports ...
A. 8 May 2010: He has a lot of baggage and it can be a long and weary journey together.
Are you sure you can carry his heavy burdens? You can't have him all to yourself and you will have to share him with the other .... (read in full...)
Was told, I talk to much and I am annoying.
Q. today i was told straight up to my face that i talk to much and that i am annnoying. this really hurt me a lot because this is one of my biggest problems and whenever someone says anything about it it really hurts me. i dont no how to stop and i ...
A. 8 May 2010: Learn to be a good listener ,for everyone loves a good listener. When you really listen to what other people are saying, you will have no time to talk too much.
Exercise more self control and know when to stop talking.... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the reality of this change?
Q. What do you do when you realize that your ex doesn't like you as a person? In most of my relationships, the guys said they liked me, and even wanted to spend a lot of time around me. But, when it came to romance, after the first few months, they...
A. 8 May 2010: Don't let your imaginations run riot. There is a very remote possibility of that.Anyway , he is an ex and he is no your concern anymore.
Look forward and think positive always. ... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant or something else?
Q. ok so im a little freaked out but not that much. I have been spotting for a week and a half now. I am not supposed to start my period for another 6 days. i am on birth control and this has never happened before ever while on birth control. also ...
A. 8 May 2010: It is a high probability that you are pregnant because you were not protected when you missed taking those pills.
Pregnancy symptoms may differ from woman to woman and pregnancy to pregnancy; however, one of the most significant pregnancy symptoms... (read in full...)
Parent's have gone too far
Q. Hello, I posted on here a few times about a breakup but now I have another problem, my parents. I’m sorry this is long. They are very young and very strict. They have always made me feel horrible about any decision I have made in my life ...
A. 8 May 2010: I am very sorry about your status in your family. I am afraid that being an adult has got nothing to do with your parents.
They do not think that you are an adult because you still need them for your needs and wants.
You have to live by thei... (read in full...)
He has issues with my past
Q. I've read a good number of posts on the subject, but I want to see if anyone can give me a little insight on what I can do. A few days ago my boyfriend questioned my past. We had a long talk about it, not going into any specifics, and things seeme...
A. 8 May 2010: The past made you what you are today . Never regret your past. It was right at that time . It is a matter of choice.
If he loves you , he has to accept your past as it comes in a total package. If he has issues with your past, it means that his... (read in full...)
Wait by the phone, or call him myself?
Q. I am now in my 50s and recently was in contact with my first boyfriend back in my teens. He says he prefers not to look back/attend reunions and took 3 weeks to make contact. He asked me to marry him when we were both just under 18, I felt too y...
A. 8 May 2010: He is like a shooting star you see in the sky. It comes on a short while and then disappears forever.
What happened in the past is in the past and does not apply to the present anymore.
He was just being civil and nothing more. If he is i... (read in full...)
Is my co-working seeing me only because I'm convenient?
Q. A male co-worker of mine (a good looking, fun loving, church going, very nice guy) was having major issues with his marriage. His wife had become a hypochondriac, never wanted to do much of anything, and was basically boring. He had brought his ...
A. 8 May 2010: It is all over and you should salvage what's left and move on.He is not coming back . He realized the full implications of what he was doing and has gone back to the straight path.
You should accept the reality and not live in your dreams.... (read in full...)
In love with a same-sex teacher
Q. im in love my teacher she doesn't teach me but i saw her in the hall at school assembly and i thought 'woah she is beautiful' and she looked at me and smiled i started to love her, a few weeks later she spoke to me and asked if i was ok and ...
A. 8 May 2010: Just enjoy those dreams and fantasies and keep it that way. Some day if you are meant to be together, your paths will crossed again.... (read in full...)
I am really keen on him but am I pushing too fast?
Q. i have this guy in one of my classes he always looks at me whenever i walk by..two days ago i talked to him the first time and it wasnt a conversation it was just talking about how much the teacher was being a bitch yesterday i saw him at lunch walk ...
A. 8 May 2010: It is still too early to tell if he is playing you or not . There is an interest in you but he is playing it slow and safe .... (read in full...)
Does this mean he has had his fun and is now done with me?
Q. Basically i have known this guy for about 3 weeks now...we used to text eachother everyday up until we met last thursday for a drink... i went back to his house and left the next morning; amazing night and we both said we felt very relaxed around e...
A. 8 May 2010: About the Facebook message, you should check again if it is really deleted. Sometimes it is the system which did not show your message and later it will appear.
If it is really deleted, it could be that he is cutting you off. Or he is scared o... (read in full...)
He is Mr Right but I can't commit
Q. when i'm with my boyfriend i love him and feel like i could be with him always. he's affectionate and sweet. i feel very lucky. but when we're apart - we live in different cites and sometimes don't see each other for a couple weeks - i feel lik...
A. 8 May 2010: It could mean that you are not ready to settle down yet and still want to enjoy the freedom of being single.
Or it could be the way you were brought up and have formed your own opinions or concept of a marriage .
Or you are wary of marriage... (read in full...)
He is Mr Right but I can't commit
Q. when i'm with my boyfriend i love him and feel like i could be with him always. he's affectionate and sweet. i feel very lucky. but when we're apart - we live in different cites and sometimes don't see each other for a couple weeks - i feel lik...
A. 8 May 2010: It could mean that you are not ready to settle down yet and still want to enjoy the freedom of being single. Or it could be the way you were b... (read in full...)
Why do people in happy relationships cheat?
Q. A close friend of mine recently confessed in secret he is cheating on his fiancee. However, he's been in a loving, committed relationship with her for 7 years...so I want to know why it is that people in happy relationships cheat?...
A. 8 May 2010: People cheat not because they are unhappy or happy.
They cheat because they have low willpower and they succumbed to those temptations.
Sex and emotions are very strong powerful forces and when faced with with those temptations,many... (read in full...)
Three year dating and he will not get an STI check
Q. My partner will not get an STI check up even though he has had numerous sexual partners and even a son! We have been together for three years but I have wanted to wait until we had sex. What should I do?...
A. 8 May 2010: No clean bill of health - no sex.
He is in a high risk group and you won't know if he has STD's.
Play by the rules or you will regret .
It is better to be safe than sorry.
If he loves you he should take the test .... (read in full...)
We are in love but afraid to be with each other
Q. I meet the man of my dreams 2 years ago. From the very first night we met we have talked ever single night without fail for 3 to 5 hours depending on the day and work. We have become best friends. We talk about our future all the time. It's a ...
A. 8 May 2010: Perfect love casts out all fears.
Let your love grow strong and your fears will slowly recede . When the time is right your love will overcome those fears.
Believe in God and have faith in Him. He can protect and guide you through your lif... (read in full...)
My family forced me to have an abortion, ...and now I think I am pregnant again!
Q. On March 27, 2010 I was forced to have an abortion by my mom and grandmom.They knew i didnt want an abortion, so they cut had made me stop going to school,cut off my phone, and took my laptop so that I could have any contact with any one who was ...
A. 7 May 2010: Did you missed the pill on any day ? When is your supposed period day?
Call the women's help center that is nearest you for any help and assistance. .You can Goggle the address online.
http://www.covenantnews.com/pregnant/... (read in full...)
He told me that he does not want me with anyone else!?!
Q. so my ex and i broke up like a month ago we still talk now and then (well he initiates it)he comes over and talk (no sex)and i told him that i think that we should move on that i cannot keep doing that, he told me that he does not want me with ...
A. 7 May 2010: Says a requiem for his poor soul!... (read in full...)
The ball is in whose court?
Q. Well i know exes are meant to be forgotten in the past. I thought I was over mine. We haven't spoken for some 4 months due to my insistence that I don't want to talk to him anymore or him to call me. But the other night I was just alone and too ...
A. 7 May 2010: The ball is now out of play and someone has to throw the ball back into play again.... (read in full...)
He told me that he does not want me with anyone else!?!
Q. so my ex and i broke up like a month ago we still talk now and then (well he initiates it)he comes over and talk (no sex)and i told him that i think that we should move on that i cannot keep doing that, he told me that he does not want me with ...
A. 7 May 2010: He is trying to work things out with you but it looks like your heart has died .He is trying to revive your heart and make you love him again.... (read in full...)
I need help with losing weight!
Q. I am 14 years old and am kinda overweight. I really want to lose weight and gain some muscle what is the best way to go about doing this without starving myself?...
A. 7 May 2010: Take up weight training or go to the gym. You may tone up your body , increase your muscles and lose weight .... (read in full...)
Should I rekindle this relationship?
Q. I broke up with this person who was married and I still care about this person. It has been 2 years now and want to know if I should pursue to rekindle a relationship with this person or leave them alone. This person said they still care and love ...
A. 7 May 2010: There is a reason why he is in the past. He is not meant to be yours.
Furthermore,he is married and he will not leave his wife for you . Don't be taken in by those sweet words .
He is history.... (read in full...)
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