How can I get my ex-boyfriend to stop talking to me?
Q. How can I get my ex-boyfriend to leave me alone? He broke up with me by text message telling me that he has another girlfriend and a baby (news to me). He was never all that great as a boyfriend. We only dated for a couple of months. I thought he w...
A. 27 April 2010: Thanks for your interesting update. The only way to remove this obnoxious man from your life is to forcibly removed yourself from his world and not to see him again.
You are quite an intelligent and wise person and I am sure , you will find a w... (read in full...)
Is it okay to be best friends with my teacher?
Q. My english teacher is my best friend, me and her dont see a problem with it, but some of my friends say im being stupid and i cant be best friends with a teacher. We will always be best friends, we decided on that a couple of weeks before the east...
A. 26 April 2010: Too much negative news about teachers falling in love with their students and inappropriate relationships in your country.You cannot blame them for having those perspectives.... (read in full...)
Partner says he'll give me more sex if I dye my hair!!!
Q. My partner says if I dye my hair blonde, he will give me more sex but I don't want to dye my hair. He watches a fair amount of porn by the way, which I think interferes with our sex life already. But should I leave him or adapt?...
A. 26 April 2010: His addiction to porn is a cause for concern. You should let him know where are your limits and boundaries . When he crosses them , be firm with him.
If he continues to enjoy porn at your expense, it is time to reevaluate your relation... (read in full...)
Should I accept a big pay reduction in order to achieve my dream?
Q. I have a good job in education but it was not my dream job. I have always dreamt of working for a large international airline as cabin crew. I turned down a job with BA to take up a management job. Now I am hating it. I love the money but no ...
A. 26 April 2010: Thanks for your update .It is great to see that you still have the enthusiasm and zest in life. All the best to you !... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant or did the pill mess up my cycle?
Q. My menstrual cycle for the past six months has been 28, 37, 32, 24, 25, 26, 26 days. This month, I had sex with my boyfriend on the 25th day and the condom slipped. He noticed it on time and pulled out of me and came all over himself. The condom was ...
A. 25 April 2010: The pill is effective up to 72 hours BUT once conception has formed, it will become ineffective.
Get a pregnancy test.... (read in full...)
Is our relationship dying or is it over?
Q. my husband got a job overseas and things have been okay. I confronted him about an issue involving his ex, and we got through that. things were good, he was sweet, happy, and loving when we spoke, all of sudden it stopped. when I explained how empty ...
A. 25 April 2010: You should not depend on him for your happiness.You need to seek your own happiness and when he see's you are happy , it will rub it on him.
To be happy , you need to think positive always and do those things that you like to do.
When yo... (read in full...)
How can I get my ex-boyfriend to stop talking to me?
Q. How can I get my ex-boyfriend to leave me alone? He broke up with me by text message telling me that he has another girlfriend and a baby (news to me). He was never all that great as a boyfriend. We only dated for a couple of months. I thought he w...
A. 25 April 2010: Thanks for your update. In retrospect, if you had open your eyes wide, you would have smell a rat.... (read in full...)
Just to be sure I'm not pregnant...
Q. I’m 19 and I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time…my period came about the 6 of April and I think I was ovulating about the 22. My question is that I did bleed a bit and I still am but light. We used a condom (it did not break) and he pull ...
A. 25 April 2010: You are over reacting . You don't have to take Plan B .
Get a pregnancy test only if you miss your next period. Those pregnancy test kits that claim you can know before your period are unreliable.
Having a pregnancy test before your next due pe... (read in full...)
He wants to be friends, I want more. How can I change his mind?
Q. I was seeing this guy for about 7 months...after going away on vacation for about a couple of weeks, he became distant and a bit withdrawn. I should also mention that there is a 7-year age difference between us. I am 24 and he is 31. I brought up ...
A. 25 April 2010: He has already decided and once he has decided on it , it is time to move on and close this chapter in your life. Focus on your life.... (read in full...)
It appears he's moved on, should I give up?
Q. So, my ex and I broke up about three weeks ago. I'm finally over the tears, I think,but I'm still really hurt. He dumped me because of fights that escalated over the past few months..I wasn't expecting it though. I begged for forgiveness, and when ...
A. 25 April 2010: What's there to hang on ,unless you want to give it another shot ?
Still thinking of him ?... (read in full...)
Is he REALLY that nice?
Q. I got of an abusive relationship about a month ago. I recently started seeing a friend of mine I have been friends with for a few years. I was never allowed to hang out with him but always kept in touch with him secretly online. He's the complete ...
A. 25 April 2010: Everyone has a dark side and no one is an angel. Focus on his positive sides and not go looking for his negative one's.... (read in full...)
How can I get my ex-boyfriend to stop talking to me?
Q. How can I get my ex-boyfriend to leave me alone? He broke up with me by text message telling me that he has another girlfriend and a baby (news to me). He was never all that great as a boyfriend. We only dated for a couple of months. I thought he w...
A. 25 April 2010: Try to minimize all contacts , avoid and ignore everything from him. Even if you see him , imagine he is invisible and pretend to walk by without giving him any chance to make any visible contact with him.Do not look at him at all. In time ,he will ... (read in full...)
I'm sleeping with my best friend's boyfriend. I don't know if I can do the right thing, can anyone help?
Q. For the last month I have been sleeping with my best friends boyfriend and I don't know how I feel about it. I know that sounds weird but I honestly don't know if its just sex or something more. In my mind I have separated the guy I'm sleeping wit...
A. 25 April 2010: Write a letter to your best friend seeking her forgiveness for what you have done.
Tell her that you did not have any evil intentions towards her but was cheated and tricked by that SOB.
Good luck to you.... (read in full...)
How do I stop my step dad bullying me?
Q. My step dad always says nasty and spiteful things to me. He belittles me and tells me that I'm going to fail school because I'm too stupid and he also tells me that I'm never gonna get a girlfriend because no woman would want me, my mom hears him ...
A. 25 April 2010: Talk to your school counselors that you are being mentally abused by your step father and they will advise you or will speak to him over this matter.
Another way is to tell your step father to back off or you will go to social service or the poli... (read in full...)
I am 22 living at home and my mom is making my life hell!!
Q. Hi.. I am 22 living at home and my mom is making my life hell!!! I hate the fact that she is always picking on me for something even if it has nothing to do with me. If she wants something done and both me and my sister are in the house then ...
A. 25 April 2010: Sometimes, you need to act like a lion and 'ROAR!' You cannot live like a timid mouse always and let everyone walk all over you .People will not respect you .
If you are in the right , you should roar and be not afraid. The one who pays will hav... (read in full...)
Boyfriend threatened to assault me!
Q. What should I do? my bf and i have been together for 8 months. Today, he threatened to assault me. He said "I am glad u are far away so I cant hit you" I am very scared of him. He has a temper and I feel like it is escalating to violence. ...
A. 25 April 2010: In love, there should be no fear. If you are fearful of him , it means that he is not the right one. You deserve some one better.... (read in full...)
Is it rude for two people to have sex while you're in the room?
Q. Does anybody else think it rude for two friends to have sex whilst your in the room! It made me uncomfortable, but, I perhaps I'm taking life too seriously or something. How would other people react? Btw it was a group if us sleeping at a mate...
A. 25 April 2010: Both of them are exhibitionist.It is very rude and indecent .... (read in full...)
Should I make his daughter leave?
Q. I have allowed my boyfriend who is 42 move in with me. He has lived in my home FREE for almost 6 mths. We have been dating 9 mths. He had financial problems so that was the only reason I let him move in. I thought by now he would be able to ...
A. 25 April 2010: You only know this guy for 3 months and you made the mistake of allowing him into your house.
After 6 months , your problem is compounded by his daughter's presence. There is too much burden being put on your shoulders.
You could have avoid... (read in full...)
Should I un-friend my ex-girlfriend on Facebook?
Q. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend about three days ago, and I am now just starting the very hard, heart-breaking and emotional healing process. Every time I log on to the computer, I have the urge to check her Facebook page, to see how she's doing ...
A. 25 April 2010: If you think it is finally over with her and you cannot control yourself looking at her status,you can remove her from friends.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend left me again, how do I get over him finally?
Q. Dear Cupid, I need a little advice..my boyfriend broke up with me last night for the second time in a year. The first time was because we fought over summer break and he needed a breather and so did I. We are college students or I am now..anyway, ...
A. 25 April 2010: You will survive and your heart will mend back to the original state. Take each day at a time and focus on those things that you wanted to do .... (read in full...)
Can you REALLY forgive someone after they cheat?
Q. Is it ever possible to have someone cheat in a relationship, and then really forgive someone? If you really forgive that person in your heart, can you still live happily ever after?...
A. 24 April 2010: No one is perfect and we commit mistakes .
To err is only human and to forgive is divine.
We should not judge others , lest we will be judged back with the same high standards.... (read in full...)
Depressed house mom
Q. hi, I am a young mother but sometimes get tired of doing the mother thing, I mean don't get me wrong I love my kids to death but sometimes I just need a little me time. I get up with them in the morning and I go to sleep with them at night. I have ...
A. 24 April 2010: This is typical of young fathers who are inexperienced and they do not know what is going through the minds of their over worked and over stressed wife.
Only when problems arise do those inexperienced young mothers cry out for help.They have tak... (read in full...)
Is it okay to be best friends with my teacher?
Q. My english teacher is my best friend, me and her dont see a problem with it, but some of my friends say im being stupid and i cant be best friends with a teacher. We will always be best friends, we decided on that a couple of weeks before the east...
A. 24 April 2010: Definitely no problem as long as you two don't cross the thin RED line.
Having a teacher as your best friend is a great motivation.... (read in full...)
My ex and I finally had our first conversation since breaking up...and I thought it was a disaster. Is this typical of every first conversation with an ex?
Q. Well doesn't seem like things are looking too good =( I finally had my first conversation with my ex after a month and a half since we broke up and over 3 weeks of no contact. As I've mentioned before she told me in her emails few days ago that she...
A. 24 April 2010: If she wants to talk to you,that is a very good sign that she wants reconciliation.
Both of you have been hurt and definitely , you may be carrying some resentments inside your system.
You need to draw out those poisons in your system befo... (read in full...)
Yikes!!! I think I may be pregnant! What do you guys reckon?
Q. Am i pregnant? My pill ran out around 7 weeks ago and i'm still yet to get it renewed. i've been sleeping with someone 2 or 3 times a week, for around 5 weeks now and each time he's came inside me. i'm still yet to come on since coming off my pill, ...
A. 24 April 2010: Most probably but a pregnancy test will confirm it. If you miss your period, you should test for pregnancy . By the 10 to 14 days, you should be confirmed pregnant.
Go take your pregnancy test now.... (read in full...)
I had sex the day I was supposed to start my period. Could I be pregnant?
Q. Could I be pregnant if I had sex the day I was supposed to start period but it never came? I'm 16 please help...
A. 24 April 2010: No days are safe from sex because your period can be irregular .
Whether you will be pregnant or not , it will be destiny that decides.
If you are meant to be pregnant, you will be.If you are not destined to be pregnant, you won't.
Always... (read in full...)
I pressed charges against b/f for his behavior, but should I drop them?
Q. I am so confused! Please can someone help me to sort out what I am feeling. Basically, my boyfriend attacked me when he had been drinking so I had him arrested and he is now on bail for 3 weeks, he is getting charged with common assault. But I a...
A. 24 April 2010: He was probably having a big headache and didn't like to be told to get off the bed. He was not acting normally under those conditions .
When you are sick and some one forced you to do something which you don't like it; if it was you ,how would yo... (read in full...)
I had sex without protection on the first day of my period. Could I be pregnant?
Q. Could I get pregnant if i had sex with my bf while menstruating? without protection. I was having my first day and had sex with my partner and now im worried i could be pregnant. any advice. thanks...
A. 24 April 2010: No days are safe for sex. Remember that.
Even if you use protection like condoms or pills,there is no 100% guarantee that you will not be pregnant.
There is still a minute chance of getting pregnant from 0.1% to 1% risk.... (read in full...)
I pressed charges against b/f for his behavior, but should I drop them?
Q. I am so confused! Please can someone help me to sort out what I am feeling. Basically, my boyfriend attacked me when he had been drinking so I had him arrested and he is now on bail for 3 weeks, he is getting charged with common assault. But I a...
A. 24 April 2010: If he is sick,he should be lying in bed . Why do you want to get him off the bed?
He was sick from drinking too much and got a big hangover.
He did not want to get up and you shouted at him and attempted to get him out of bed and he got mad???
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend left me again, how do I get over him finally?
Q. Dear Cupid, I need a little advice..my boyfriend broke up with me last night for the second time in a year. The first time was because we fought over summer break and he needed a breather and so did I. We are college students or I am now..anyway, ...
A. 24 April 2010: Life is for having fun. Don't be stupid and waste it on some guy.
Don't give that person the rest of you tears or a month or a year of your life when he treats you badly and doesn't mind to make you cry.
Every person deserves some one who mak... (read in full...)
Escaping the friend zone?
Q. So I've been friends with this girl for about 5 months now. We hang out like every other week and text for like a few days at a time during random weeks. When i first started talking to her i told her i liked her and she told me she didnt want to ...
A. 24 April 2010: There are two ways to do that .
One is to remain friends with her and work from the inside and the other is to get off her planet and date other girls which may make her jealous.
I would prefer the latter method.... (read in full...)
Can you REALLY forgive someone after they cheat?
Q. Is it ever possible to have someone cheat in a relationship, and then really forgive someone? If you really forgive that person in your heart, can you still live happily ever after?...
A. 24 April 2010: It is possible if you really love that person and love God.
Forgiveness means that you wipe his slate clean and start all over again. You may not forget that incident but it will not give you anymore pain.
If you cannot live happily ever aft... (read in full...)
Can I meet the right woman after college?
Q. I am a 22 year old college senior who is graduating in less than a month. I just got out of a 2 year relationship with a girl who goes to my college who supposedly decided that she never loved me, a few months before I was going to propose to her. ...
A. 24 April 2010: We try to make life so complicated when the simple truth is once we put God first in our lives, everything else will fall into place.
That doesn’t mean that life will be a bed of roses, but it does mean that God will be there to help us bring or... (read in full...)
Married man having platonic relationship with a married woman?
Q. Is it o.k for married man to have a platonic relationship with a married woman? My husband recently reconnected with a friend whose a girl in high shcool. They've never had any kind of romantic relationship, although my husband had admitted in ...
A. 24 April 2010: All affairs start from platonic friendship. Whether your case will become one will depend on some factors and how well you control and monitor them.
If they are meeting often without your involvement always, there is a greater risk of escalati... (read in full...)
Should I accept a big pay reduction in order to achieve my dream?
Q. I have a good job in education but it was not my dream job. I have always dreamt of working for a large international airline as cabin crew. I turned down a job with BA to take up a management job. Now I am hating it. I love the money but no ...
A. 24 April 2010: Which is more important to you , money or happiness?
If you can get along with less money and it is not a problem,then you should go for happiness.
You only live once.
... (read in full...)
Partner says he'll give me more sex if I dye my hair!!!
Q. My partner says if I dye my hair blonde, he will give me more sex but I don't want to dye my hair. He watches a fair amount of porn by the way, which I think interferes with our sex life already. But should I leave him or adapt?...
A. 24 April 2010: It was just a simple and maybe innocent request from your partner to spice up his sex life. Probably got the idea from watching those porn movies.
You could either accept it, modify it or reject it totally. To go looking for his intentio... (read in full...)
My cheating girlfriend got pregnant!
Q. what should I do my girlfriend I was with for 4 years in on and off relationship who wanted to have kids and love each other. recently got pregnant but she cheated but didnt tell me so I thought it was mine. I was with her through the whole ...
A. 24 April 2010: What is the point of loving someone when she does not love you anymore but loves another guy and even had his baby.
If you love her, let her go .She is not the one for you .
Time is a great healer .... (read in full...)
I pressed charges against b/f for his behavior, but should I drop them?
Q. I am so confused! Please can someone help me to sort out what I am feeling. Basically, my boyfriend attacked me when he had been drinking so I had him arrested and he is now on bail for 3 weeks, he is getting charged with common assault. But I a...
A. 24 April 2010: In your post, you only mentioned that you were attacked by your drunk b/f and did not mention how it happened?
It is very important to know the events that lead to his rage.
Everyone has a tolerance level.Just because a man has never exhibited ... (read in full...)
He's been taking me for granted, but now he's talking about how much he needs me?
Q. My boyfriend has been taking me for granted lately and I began pulling away to do my own thing. Last night he told me that I don't love him or care about him anymore. I responded "if this is a break up, just be up front with me and I will go on with ...
A. 24 April 2010: "CONGRATULATIONS AND A VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!" God Bless You!... (read in full...)
He's been taking me for granted, but now he's talking about how much he needs me?
Q. My boyfriend has been taking me for granted lately and I began pulling away to do my own thing. Last night he told me that I don't love him or care about him anymore. I responded "if this is a break up, just be up front with me and I will go on with ...
A. 23 April 2010: Sit back and let him do the chasing. Action is stronger than words. Words without action is like faith without deeds.
Let him proves to you what he said .He needs to show his appreciations and love more fervently.... (read in full...)
I've got a child-like mind, I daydream, and believe in things that aren't real. Is this normal or am I stupid?
Q. I,ve not really had a great childhood when i was five i moved house to the middle of nowere where there were no kids or anythin and I lived on the main road so i couldnt really go out anywere to explore. Now I,m 18 I tink myself I,ve a very child ...
A. 23 April 2010: You are the product of your environment because of the way you were brought up.
I think you are just a normal kid and you are not stupid.
Definition of stupid ;- Very dull; insensible; senseless; wanting in understanding; heavy; sluggish;... (read in full...)
He's being a jerk to me! Brainstorming needed please!!!
Q. hi i have been with my bf since last august, but there's been trouble in paradise, so to speak. at first everything was i love you and you love me and all this planning and dreaming ... we'd met through an online service quite by accident...but w...
A. 23 April 2010: I am very sorry you are going through such a harrowing time of your life. Your man seems to have lost his bearings and is floundering .
You are the only person who is closest to him and who can help him overcome his problems. May I suggest ... (read in full...)
B/f says don't mind her shes crazy...but I DO mind!
Q. hi! I just meet a new boyfriend now is about two month, I love him soo much, but I dont trust him, my boyfriend is also my boss and their like 7 girls working with him before I started working with them. but one girl since I work there I always ...
A. 22 April 2010: He has no respect for you and is treating you like a door mat.Have more self worth and get out of there.
If you stay there, you will get more humiliations. Even in your presence,they are doing it openly. He could not care less about your fee... (read in full...)
I think she wants me back, what should I do?
Q. Okay about a year ago me and my gf broke up but we stayed friends, but a few months after she got a new bf and we lost contact, but a couple of weeks we got back in contact and she wanted to meet up, but last night she was pouring her heart out to ...
A. 22 April 2010: Don't be treated like a ping pong ball. When she finds someone , she will kick you to the kerb again.She has problems holding on to relationships.... (read in full...)
Is there any way to prevent myself from thinking I could lose her?
Q. I need some help about this. It's been a pretty good couple months going out with my girlfriend. But it's like every minute i spend worrying i could lose her. I don't think it's normal to think this. I trust her 100% but i just live my life thinking ...
A. 22 April 2010: Life has got no guarantees and it is full of uncertainties. Live from each day to another and stop worrying about the future. Enjoy the present and accept whatever it may bring.
Try to think positive always. ... (read in full...)
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