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hi everybody its me keonna! whats up its me here in the flesh now i know most of you have not known me or may not even trust but be sure that when you have questions,

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Why smoke?

This question has 9 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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20 August 2008: ok i dont know if dis is a article or not but its a poem i made here goes : why smoke its not a joke you know you could croak its not like sugar and spice its like making sure you have lice it makes you stink whats next you gonna drink...

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My best friend just moved and I miss her... will I get over it soon?

Q.   well i have a freind who is like my best freind in the whole world but something bad just happend my freind moved away going to a new school. she is gone now :( and i will probably never meet her again all i ahve to member her is the yearbook i h...

A.   31 August 2009: thnx pplz u have really helped me. i have moved on though the memories will always be cherished.... (read in full...)

How to get rid of these zits on my face in matter of days?

Q.   well heres my problem i have all of these zits on my face and i want to get rid of them any ways for me to get rid of them like in at least 2 ta 3 days cuz school coming up soon and i dont wanna look like this so any ideas...

A.   26 August 2008: well i heard tea tree oil clogs pores but they have it gel based so it does not cog your pores up but where da heck am i gonna get tea tree oil ... (read in full...)

I met one of my girlfriend's friends and now I sort of want to date her. But if things went wrong, I'd like to go back to my current girlfriend. What do I do?

Q.   ok. ive been with my gf (im 15 she's 14) for close to 2 mths. yesterday, her school had a pep rally (she lives about a half hour away). I went to hang out with her, but she's a cheerleader, and most of the time i didn't see her. I met two of her ...

A.   26 August 2008: dude you have to choose one i mean those are actuall people not just some dolls if you break up with her shes gonna be hurt and she a good chance she might not take you back so you have to choose one person her or her?... (read in full...)

Is it bad that we are having oral sex at our age?

Q.   Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for about...5 months now, and the other day she gave me Oral, we were both fine with it, we didn't feel bad or anything. Is it bad that at my age I'm having oral sex? We've both discussed actual Sexual In...

A.   25 August 2008: no its not it just matter if you guys were ready to do oral but uh i have read about many people do oral at your age even younger!... (read in full...)

Should I tell my best friend's mum that she hurts herself?

Q.   hi everyone i need some advice obviously my very good freind has recenly started cutting her self and she makes me very worried ....should i tell her mom ? or should i leave her alone?thz alot,me!...

A.   25 August 2008: yes you should unless you want your freind to have no boyfreinds cuz their intimidated by her cuts then no but unless then yes tell her... (read in full...)

I never told my boyfriend about the guy pinning me down making me do sexual things! I feel like I'm dying inside because of it.

Q.   My heart is breaking into a million pieces, and its all my fault. i have been with my bf for over 4 yrs, and jus over a month ago i made the biggest mistake of my life. i cant eat, i cant sleep, i jus feel like dying. i work with the same company my ...

A.   25 August 2008: 3 things you need to do to stop this madness: tell your boyfreind call the police sue its as simple as that... (read in full...)

Why smoke?

Q.   ok i dont know if dis is a article or not but its a poem i made here goes : why smoke its not a joke you know you could croak its not like sugar and spice its like making sure you have lice it makes you stink whats next you gonna drink...

A.   25 August 2008: oh yea like uh sorry that i uh kinda if i have maybe showed to some people if the message was inapropiate but i just put this on ya know just show the reasons of why its bad so like uh im sorry to some of the people... (read in full...)

Why smoke?

Q.   ok i dont know if dis is a article or not but its a poem i made here goes : why smoke its not a joke you know you could croak its not like sugar and spice its like making sure you have lice it makes you stink whats next you gonna drink...

A.   22 August 2008: well actully i dont need help i just want people to know about the evils of second hand of fisrt hand smokin... (read in full...)

Why smoke?

Q.   ok i dont know if dis is a article or not but its a poem i made here goes : why smoke its not a joke you know you could croak its not like sugar and spice its like making sure you have lice it makes you stink whats next you gonna drink...

A.   22 August 2008: well i would to ha ve real actuall coments or something better i could do with this not like little coments like oo that was sooo cute like coments that can make this poem better thank you i hope you can take this to reall ness or to seriusness... (read in full...)

I feel sad. Am I depressed?

Q.   huhh latley i have been sad and not been able to sleep or not wanting to eat and well sad am i depressed oh yea for a really long time i feel llike im goiing to cry but hold it in so like am i? cuz school is soon to start and i dont wanna be sad...

A.   22 August 2008: and well me and my brother we laugh till we cant breath every day on a regular basis we laugh a LOT but lately my bro ussaly been only resenting me every time a word comes out of my mouth he gets mad like one time i said bro im with you all the ... (read in full...)

I feel sad. Am I depressed?

Q.   huhh latley i have been sad and not been able to sleep or not wanting to eat and well sad am i depressed oh yea for a really long time i feel llike im goiing to cry but hold it in so like am i? cuz school is soon to start and i dont wanna be sad...

A.   22 August 2008: huh sad i dont have a school counselor heh elementry never does... (read in full...)

Is it OK to have an affair with a friend who's a hooker even though I have a girlfriend?

Q.   wow...! this' a little funny, but here it goes. I went to a pub one evening after a tiring day from work, and met a hooker. out of curiosity I thought I could just disturb her a little but without being serious on it. so I bought her a drink. b...

A.   22 August 2008: what do you think ?- of course not!... (read in full...)

Can you explain sex?

Q.   I am wondering besides humping what is sex? I am only 11 years old so, do not make your answers that detailed or gross. Thanks if you answer nicely....

A.   22 August 2008: so like yea i hope my idea works oh yes im am also 10-12!... (read in full...)

Should I try and stay friends with my abusive ex?

Q.   Hello, I recently have left my boyfriend of 2 years. It has been 1 month. I ignored him for about 3 weeks because the last day i saw him, he hit me. this is not the first time it had happened. he has been hitting me on and off for about 18months. he ...

A.   21 August 2008: no i dont really think thats a good i idea yea i agreee with jeni i mean f#$%* hit you for pete sakes i mean unless you have a thing to be with violent people as freinds but not then get the sicko out of your life... (read in full...)

Am I moving too fast?

Q.   i am 14 ,15 in december and i had sex wif my girl friend i have only been goin out wif her 4 2 weeks am i movin 2 fast...

A.   20 August 2008: inless you in love with her no but if not yes... (read in full...)

Am I too young to be in love?

Q.   Hi, i am 12 and i think i may be in love with my boyfriend...am i too young? My friends all think i am. Someone please help!...

A.   20 August 2008: no i dont think you are im eman i know this 22 year old who found her true love at 7! so no i dont think your too young... (read in full...)

In a long distance relation, how to cope with the distance at our young age?

Q.   i have a boyfrined and (yes i know i am young for my age to have a bf) but the distance is killing im in (i am going to use other states not my or my bf's actual state) new york and he is all the way in florida the distance is killing us what should ...

A.   19 August 2008: tee heee im actually im 10 soon to be elleven heh left out that detail... (read in full...)

Are my brother's friends really his friends...?

Q.   well i have a older bother and we were having a conversation or argument about who his freinds are i told them the meaning of having freinds well he said he has freinds who are his freinds but he does not know where they live there number and he ...

A.   19 August 2008: yea thats what i mean though so like uh yeah thanks!... (read in full...)

Was it my fault? And is it ever O.K. for a man to hit, push, and rough-house a woman?

Q.   Hi, Is it ever O.K. for a man to hit, push, and rough-house a woman? My boyfriend of three years bruised me up pretty bad a few weeks ago, but claims he had the right to do it, saying he was defending himself. What happened was, I ended up slap...

A.   13 August 2008: no its never ok to hit push a woman or rough house if he did horrible things to you you had to defend your self idk if you should stay with him....hope this helps!... (read in full...)

Can you help with my personal sex problems please?

Q.   I am 14. I'm straight, and i am a virgin. I like a 15 year old who is not a virgin. I like him a lot, but we haven't met in person yet. Well we have but a year ago. Now we just talk on the phone. I don't have any boobs, and i don't know if he will ...

A.   13 August 2008: i dont think he will care about boobs if you know he nice and does no really care bout that kind of stuff then i bet he wont care hope dis helps... (read in full...)

Help! My parents are splitting up.

Q.   Help my mum and dad are splitting up. Dad lost his job and things have gone down the hill since. They have no savings cos theyve been spending it on stuff they don't really need. Thats all they think about, what they can have next and what the peop...

A.   13 August 2008: i am sorry but if your parents are slpitting up you cant do anything about it but my parents split up recently too i just thought that it wasnt my fault and maybe you could set up a fancy dinner for them to realize the good times they had or ... (read in full...)

My best friend and her ex broke up two weeks ago. I always liked him. Should I go for it?

Q.   hi i am in love. he is my best friends old boyfriend. they borke up two weeks ago. i always liked him but now hes available i really want him. should i go for it? how can i tell if he is interested? HELP !...

A.   12 August 2008: ok i think you should wait until she heals up until then but i dont think you should ask her permission i mean you should ask if shes ok with it i mean the reason i think permisson is the word cuz he is not like an item he is a living thing who has ... (read in full...)

I only like him as a friend. I don't want to hurt him!

Q.   I've been texting this lad for quite some time now, and i've developed trust in him, and we were getting real good mates. the other week he told me he liked me and has done for quite some time. he also liked my best mate not so long ago, they ga...

A.   12 August 2008: well i think maybe you should go out with him you know take a chance cuz i know this sounds corny but i read a lot of real stories when people they take a chance and soon they fell in love so maybe you just try to take a chance and go out with him... (read in full...)

I am 14, he is 18. Should I date him?

Q.   dear cupid well im seein this guy ive known for a long time now and he is understanding and he would never pressure me to have sex he told me he wud wait for me when im ready but thats the thing im 14 and he iz 18 and he iz realy nice but i dont ...

A.   12 August 2008: ok i think you should date him if you wanna like keep it bf gf relation ship but unless you want him to go to jail you should not have sex with him ......welll at least not until your 18 oh yea if your parents arnt ok with it you should probably... (read in full...)

Am I overreacting about my boyfriend's stunning best friend?

Q.   My boyfriends best friend is a girl, and she is utterly stunning, she is very thin and striking, wheras i am very short and curvy. I have no problem with him having a best friend who is a girl, its just I get jealous sometimes as she always sits on ...

A.   12 August 2008: i think you should be cool with that their freinds and i think you should believe your bf cuz if they say their freinds theres a good chance its true sure shes sits on his lap and stuff but evry friend ship has a wierd thing about it sure maybe you ... (read in full...)

I caught my cousins smoking! What should I do?

Q.   well i went on a trip on a family reunion then i went to ya know hang with my cousins but the bad part is i caught one of them smoking im shocked oh yea 2 of my cousins were smoking thats horrible and disgusting now every time i see them i see big ...

A.   15 July 2008: if i tell on him with the adults he might not like me but if i dont it might hurt his body or make him addicted... (read in full...)

He wants to take my virginty during our outing with his parents!

Q.   ok, so me and my boyfriend are going to a monster truck show and he wants to have sex during our outing (6:00 PM- about 1:00 AM) He says that he loves me and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I just feel like losing my virginity ...

A.   13 June 2008: well i also think its a little weird as well but it all depends on whether you want to lose your virginity or not.... (read in full...)

Known him for 2 weeks - is it too soon for a visit to his town??

Q.   Hello everyone.. i have a question, and my friends are giving different answers, would be good to get some objective views! On a previous post, i mentioned my failing relationship. Well, it failed. To be honest, when it ended, i was devastated, but ...

A.   13 June 2008: i truly dont think its too soon it doesnt hurt to visit! i mean you said it your self you guys arent rushing why wait?... (read in full...)

My best friend stole my girlfriend!

Q.   Hey my best friend Nathan stole my girlfriend just today on the bus. What do I do to get my girlfriend back? p.s please help me. Scott....

A.   13 June 2008: first of all you cant nor you freind steal your girlfreind cause you gf is not a "thing" or item anyways you should probably talk to your girlfreind or nathan (probably nathan first) and talk about if he "stole" your girlfreind hope dis helps. p.s ... (read in full...)

Can an 18 y.o. get in trouble for getting a 15 y.o. pregnant?

Q.   can an 18 year old only get in trouble for getting a 15 year old pregnant if somone reports him? ...

A.   13 June 2008: uh yeah probably i mean it would be different if the girl was 18 well no but ussaly depends where you are so if thats you you should probably get look at some lawas in different states or ask people who have been there before and ask them the age of ... (read in full...)

My ex says he will marry me now but only if I let him have anal sex!

Q.   my ex bf wants me back now that I have a new bf, he is a good guy and while we lived together I had everything, except marriage and kids, he wants to give that now, but wants me to have anal sex with him, he says if I do not do it he won`t be able ...

A.   13 June 2008: well dis is just me but i do not think you should get back with your ex cause marriage is depended on love not money nor sexso i just dont think you should get bac with him unless he loves you and you love him truly and if he did he would be ok with ... (read in full...)

I was unfaithful - should I tell?

Q.   been dating my boyfriend for a long while now. i love him very much and a loves me too.a believe hes been faithful these past years and he means the world to me. problem is i havent been so faithful. he thinks im a saint but ive had a few flings and ...

A.   11 June 2008: well you should probably have a time where you two tell everything that happend like bad things and then when you tell him maybe you should tell him of how you regret it or tell him how you promised to never do it again not only will it make you... (read in full...)

My BF is a very abusive person, swears at me and even tried to strangle me. Is he iterating his father's violent behaviour?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have always had a great relationship but recently he's started to sort of bully me..ie pushing me pull my hair etc, nothing to serious. However, the violence seemed to escalate further just last week as we had been out at a pa...

A.   11 June 2008: i think you guys should go to a place where ya know they help couples marriges etc. or if you dont want to play it like that you should break up with him i think you should go to the place called marrige or couple counseling if you think there is a ... (read in full...)

Do you think smokimg pot affects a future marriage or that is ok?

Q.   My current bf smokes pot three times a day,but he seems like a nice guy, my ex wants me back (he does not smoke weed),do you think smokimg pot affects a future marriage or that is ok? Help...

A.   11 June 2008: actually i think it does you should probably speak with your bf about that like not smoking cause if you or a freind or bf keep on smoking it soons control your life and whatever you do so yes i think it does have a effect on a future marriage . ... (read in full...)

My mom got me a new bra, but the girls in my class frown upon it! I don't want to hurt my mom's feelings, what shall I do?

Q.   Is it OK to wear blck bras? My mum got me one the other day while I was at shcool, but girls in my class really frown upon it. I don't want to hurt my mum's feelings, that's all....

A.   25 May 2008: maybe you should break it to your mom if you really dont like but if you do like it go stand up to the girls maybe break gently to you freinds who are girls i mean the same thing happend to me and im around the point of your age all i did was ... (read in full...)

We split up but can't seem to leave each other alone!

Q.   I am in yet another dilemma. me and my bf split about a week ago now. I went over to his last night for the swapping back of personal items, as you do. However, when i got there we were talking for a while then we ended up sleeping with ea...

A.   23 May 2008: well maybe he is just trying to say he is happier as freinds and its ok if you sleep with your ex people do it but do you think that doing that was a mistake if it was you can learn from that in the future hope dis helps.... (read in full...)

"Am I really ready for sex?"

Q.   Using contraceptives for the first time can be daunting and stressful. Before you rush out for those contraceptives ask yourself "Am I really ready for sex?" Running through these few questions with a simple YES or NO answer may help you to be reall...

A.   23 May 2008: good article it will certainly help those in the future who are not sure of having sex.... (read in full...)

He couldn't get enough of me, but now he's gone AWOL.

Q.   Hello, Yes, I recently had 3 month fling with a guy who I met online. All good fun but we decided to cool off due to distance. We then kept in touch by email, text etc. However, in the past 2 months I haven't heard from him! I've emailed a few ti...

A.   23 May 2008: maybe something happend to him like a death to dearly beloved or something bad happend to him so it brung him not to contact at all or much maybe you should try contacting him some other way if not maybe visit to see how he doing.hope dis helps... (read in full...)

I'm upset all the time. Is there any reason for it?

Q.   Hi, ive been seeing my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, at the beginning we had a few problems but the last two years has been the best ever. the problem is, im not happy and i dont know why. My BF spoils me rotten and makes me laugh soo much and i ...

A.   23 May 2008: maybe its just a phase ya know and i am sure you feel so down when you to paris :)... (read in full...)

My husband has a very bad temper. I'm tired of this endless cycle!

Q.   My husband has a very bad temper. He always "blows up" and we get into a physical fight when we disagree. The other day he saw a baby picture of my brother in I in our photo album. He told me to take it out and stash it somewhere if I wanted to keep ...

A.   23 May 2008: dis is just me but maybe you should probably go to a class together or just talk about when he is at a calming time or mayb e he should probably help him out with the anger mangement or you could just tell him how you feel with his endless cycl... (read in full...)

Can you explain sex?

Q.   I am wondering besides humping what is sex? I am only 11 years old so, do not make your answers that detailed or gross. Thanks if you answer nicely....

A.   18 May 2008:  welll i really i dont think i will you should ask a parent someone you trust or even a relative about the *whispers* sex or surf the internet thats all the ideas i have.... (read in full...)

In a long distance relation, how to cope with the distance at our young age?

Q.   i have a boyfrined and (yes i know i am young for my age to have a bf) but the distance is killing im in (i am going to use other states not my or my bf's actual state) new york and he is all the way in florida the distance is killing us what should ...

A.   19 April 2008: the boy's age is 12... (read in full...)

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