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My boyfriend was angry that I was ill and didn't want sex so he left late and left my door unlocked all night!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I've been in an exclusive relationship for over 2 1/2 years we are both middle aged, and live in our separate homes, but we spend almost every night together. Last night my boyfriend comes over later than normal because he had a...

A.   21 December 2012: any caring guy will never put your safety at risk, all your guy cares is his sexual satisfaction and that is a very selfish thing to do...he is not worth u, u deserve better...u r bn used for sex only !!!! Ask yourself, if that was done to your... (read in full...)

Why has he changed since we started living together? We don't have sex and he says I'm no longer beautiful.

Q.   What makes a person to change when you have just stayed together a month when you have dated for years? My friend has changed a lot and no longer makes love to me and now he even told me that I'm no longer beautiful the way I was when we met. W...

A.   21 December 2012: pack your bags and leave, he aint worth u and the longer u wait the bigger u screw your life...u deserve better hun!... (read in full...)

Boyfriend really hurts me during sex

Q.   My boyfriend hurts me when we have sex. I'm a small built girl and quite skinny and he's a whole lot heavier than me. He lies down ontop of me and puts all his weight on me. He grinds his chest into my boobs and literally drags my nipples down my ...

A.   12 October 2012: pack your bags and leave before its too late. he is a greedy , self centred , sadistic bastard...you deserve more than that...if he respected and loved you, he will be sensitive to your needs and feelings but he isnt, so y do u put up with that ... (read in full...)

Was planning to move to be with my LDR, then found him on a dating site?!

Q.   Help !!!! in a serious long distance relationship, we communicate daily,have plans of moving together, with me making the relocation,and found that my man is on a site, lied abt his age and seeking younger women..he last logged in today...in our ...

A.   6 April 2012: Hi there, thnxs for your response, we have been together for two yrs now,, met his parents and frieends and almost every importnt persn in his life and mine knw we r an item.i received an email from a friend then wen i opened it sayys he was ... (read in full...)

I don't want to mess things up but I think he has gone to far with this comment to another woman....what should I do?

Q.   Hi, my boyfriend is quite a private person or so i thought esp in facebook, we have been in relationship for 13months now,few months ago i found he skyped a woman and in there conversation ,she asked wht he was doing and he replied,nothing,horny in ...

A.   10 January 2012:  I think what I put on my friends facebook should be up to me, I would Never ever dream of going through your face book reading and querying your posts or comments as I believe that is your space. If you really don't trust me since u keep going ba... (read in full...)

My partner couldn't be bothered that I miscarried our baby, and he's been busy texting his ex while I'm going through hell!

Q.   Hi I've been with my partner for 3 half years. I was due to move on with him next month. In October I found out I was pregnant and was so happy. I'm 41 and my son has left home. My bf wasn't too keen at first but eventually began to get excited....

A.   9 December 2011: My heart goes out to u..i have been in the same situation six yrs ago, in hospital having our first child after 4 yrs of waiting, and on on the day i was delivering, he was no where to be found, what hurt most is when he came to see me in the ward ... (read in full...)

We went on vacation together but he didn't post any photos of me!

Q.   Hi, would like some clarity pls.i went on vacation with my boyfreind,had a lovely time together,but im quite disturbed by the fact that he posted all the photos of our vacation,and he dint include any of me or of him,i also saw other vacations he ...

A.   19 April 2011: he dint post any of him either,just the photos of the places we visited. is this normal or what.... (read in full...)

Is it okay for a guy to give me oral sex but not kiss me? I'm getting turned off, what do I do?

Q.   I'm seeing a guy for 2 months now, he seems quite ok, but my worry is I noticed he doesn't like kissing me. He has been on vacation for a month and came back 4 days ago, we met and he just hugged me, I spent the night with him, cuddled no sex coz I ...

A.   21 January 2009:  unmcle phil thanks,what is the obvious that it might b stating? didnt get u wel... (read in full...)

Is it okay for a guy to give me oral sex but not kiss me? I'm getting turned off, what do I do?

Q.   I'm seeing a guy for 2 months now, he seems quite ok, but my worry is I noticed he doesn't like kissing me. He has been on vacation for a month and came back 4 days ago, we met and he just hugged me, I spent the night with him, cuddled no sex coz I ...

A.   21 January 2009: hi thanks,it is not about kissing down first then up,it is as if he doesnt want to kiss me at all,even when not having sex,he turns his head away when i want to kiss him... (read in full...)

"It's not a good time for me and you"?

Q.   can some one please tell me what it means when a man i have been seeing tells me" SORRY ,ITS NOT A GOOD TIME FOR ME AND YOU" AFTER I ASKED HIM IF HE WAS STIL INTERESTED IN ME...

A.   27 August 2008: can any man please give his opinion please?... (read in full...)

Was I too fast in sleeping with him? What did I do wrong?

Q.   I met this guy at a party, we danced and later exchanged contacts, three days later I called him just to say hi coz I was interested, we later started texting each other. He asked me out for a date and went over to his place, I spent the night, no ...

A.   31 May 2008: here i am again,i went to a party 2wks ago and met ex i just ignored him and sat with friends,later he came over to where i was,we hugged and he sat next to me,i dint want to be rude so we started chatting like nothing happened before,later he asked ... (read in full...)

Was I too fast in sleeping with him? What did I do wrong?

Q.   I met this guy at a party, we danced and later exchanged contacts, three days later I called him just to say hi coz I was interested, we later started texting each other. He asked me out for a date and went over to his place, I spent the night, no ...

A.   3 March 2008: Thanks Gals for the advice... (read in full...)

Was I too fast in sleeping with him? What did I do wrong?

Q.   I met this guy at a party, we danced and later exchanged contacts, three days later I called him just to say hi coz I was interested, we later started texting each other. He asked me out for a date and went over to his place, I spent the night, no ...

A.   3 March 2008: ON OUR FIRST NIGHT TOGETHER WE TALKED ABOUT SEX AND WHAT I PREFFERED ,I ASKED HIM TO B GENTLE AND IT WILL BE PAINFUL COZ I HAD A RECENT VAGINAL REPAIR,HE SAID OK.BUT ON SECOND WEEKEND HE KINDDA GOT DISTRACTED,DINT LOOK AT ME IN THE EYE,KEPT SENDING ... (read in full...)

Something I want to share

Q.   JOSEPHS LETTER TO HIS WIFE This is not my own work and at the end of this letter, show the origin, I had to share this with others as I could not have put my feelings any better than Joseph. Dear Whomever I know you are feeling the p...

A.   3 March 2008: (Mod: Caps off, please) IM HONESTLY TOUCHED,A PERFECT LETTER,THANKS FOR SHARING... (read in full...)

How do I get closure from a relationship if the person has disappeared?

Q.   How do I get closure from a relationship if the person has just disappeared? I don't really want to call him, text him, or email him ... I just want answers but don't know how to get them. I know I will never get the answers I want to hear. I ...

A.   3 March 2008: (Mod note; Caps off please) IT SURELY HURTS BUT GAL LIFE HAS TO MOVE ON,Y NOT CLEAR YOUR CONSCIENSE AND CALL HIM ,C WHAT HE SAYS AND MAY BE THAT WILL GIVE U A CLOSURE ,THINGS ARENT ALWAYS WHAT THEY LOOK LIKE,HE WASNT GUD ENOUGH FOR U,THERE MILLIONS ... (read in full...)

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