I said I'd have sex with this player, and don't know how to get out of it
Q. So I'm 14 , and theres this guy I really like , hes 15 We had a little thing going on at the beginning but then he went out with one of my friends. He's a player and really only wants a girl to put out for him , thing is i said I would , it all star...
A. 3 June 2010: Thanks for your update. You are welcome .
Thats the ideal solution . Have nothing to do with those kind of people and your life would be much better.... (read in full...)
We broke up because of this sticky situation but we still love each other, help!
Q. So I have a bit of a problem... 2 weeks ago me and my boyfriend broke up :( we broke up because he is going to work away soon and I wouldn't see him for upto a month or two at a time or even be able to talk to him because he won't have any phone ...
A. 13 May 2010: If you love him,let him go and if he comes back to you he is yours.
What you are going through is a period of uncertainty .If your love is strong, distance does not matter.
Love is patient and kind.... (read in full...)
I’m hurt, saddened, angry, betrayed, confused. What do I do now?
Q. My wife and I have been happily (or so I thought) married 3 years. I’m a good husband to her, I love her with all my heart, treat her well and always look after her (her words previously). Major area I am lacking in at the moment is finances as ...
A. 13 May 2010: My empathize to you . It is a double whammy . You need to salvage what is left of your marriage and rebuild your life again.
Try to think more positive ... (read in full...)
I've never fancied anyone before and I don't know how to handle the situation! Help!
Q. Hey. I need advice! Sorry if this turns out as a long mess but I’m confused. I’ve got an infatuation with a boy in college with me. I don’t know what I’m thinking let alone him, so any help and I’ll be happy. I’ve never fancied anyone before. ...
A. 13 May 2010: A case of unrequited love. You could wait forever under the apple tree for that particular apple to fall down to your feet. You would need lots of patience .
You could stretch your neck waiting for this forlorn love .When that man only have eye... (read in full...)
I'm questioning our relationship - if I have doubts does this mean he is not right for me?
Q. Hi I feel like i'm in a mental cloud at the moment. I seemingly are unable to make a decision as i want to be sure its the right one when i do. I have been with my bf for a year a half we split funnily enough at the same time last year when ...
A. 13 May 2010: He is not the right material for you . He does not respect you and treat you with much contempt and ridicule.
He is such a lowlife creature. You won't lose anything if you dump him.
... (read in full...)
The girl who advertised on-line for casual sex is using my sister's photo!
Q. A few weeks ago, I responded to an online ad for casual sex. I'm 27 and single, and I was planning to use protection, so I didn't think it was that big of a deal. I chatted online with the girl who placed it a few times, and she seemed really cool, ...
A. 13 May 2010: First confirmed with your sister about this case .
Then tell this girl to stop using your sister's picture or you will make a report to the police and also report her to the webmaster or owner of that website.... (read in full...)
How much space and distance should I give him? I do not want to lose him
Q. My boyfriend of ten years has all of the sudden starting to question our relationship and whether we should stay together. He is saying that he is unhappy and feels likes there is no hope. But he still loves me but it feels different and that he ...
A. 13 May 2010: In love, you want the other person to be happy and that is your paramount objective.
You would allow him to enjoy those things which will make him happy. It is better to have a happy man than a sad man.
You may have to bend backwards to acc... (read in full...)
I think my colleagues are taking advantage of me!
Q. I have a really frustrating problem at work which I need advice on. I seem to be the only one in my office who has paracetamol for headaches, colds, pain etc.... So my colleauges instead of buying themselves any come and scrounge off me! I do...
A. 13 May 2010: Your friends in the office are lowlife creatures...LOL! Don't store those pills in your drawers. Keep them inside your bag.
Or you can start doing a part time business at your office. Sell the pills to them. No money no pills... it's business... (read in full...)
He wants me to abort the other man's baby but then he wants me to accept his stealing son! I don't think these conditions are fair....
Q. My husband and I have separated due to financial issues, his disrespectful stealing son, and his disrespectful self. Anyway I became pregnant, he want to reconcile but cant see himself raising another mans baby. So in other words he want me to ...
A. 13 May 2010: If you want to accept him back ,then he will have to come back on your terms.
Either your terms or don't come back.... (read in full...)
Why is my ex acting like he still loves me when he has a g/f
Q. My question why is my ex acting like he still luvs me when he has a new girlfriend he still wants to see me talk to me everyday text have sex if i let him but tells me he has feelings for the new gf....
A. 13 May 2010: He thinks you are his sex slave at his bidding's. You should shut all the doors on him and do not let him enter your life again.... (read in full...)
I said I'd have sex with this player, and don't know how to get out of it
Q. So I'm 14 , and theres this guy I really like , hes 15 We had a little thing going on at the beginning but then he went out with one of my friends. He's a player and really only wants a girl to put out for him , thing is i said I would , it all star...
A. 13 May 2010: Tell him you are not available this weekend.
You know he is a player and want only sex. Why do you still want him to like you ?
Or you tell him that he heard it wrongly or you only meant it as a joke.... (read in full...)
What's his deal? Should I just move on?
Q. So I'm in this relationship, 11 months near the end of this one. Some things are wonderful and them some things just make me want to tear my hair out and smother him with a pillow. I love my boyfriend to death and I try to show him when I can that ...
A. 13 May 2010: He is not the right material for your happiness. After he has given his self to his World of Warcraft and his ex's, there are only crumbs left for you .
Why settle for crumbs that drop off the table?... (read in full...)
Should I give him up or wait until his family holiday is over?
Q. iv been seeing a guy for little while now and he wants me exclusive but he has a girlfriend of 1 yr who he only sees once a fortnight and said hes just waiting till hes been on holiday with the kids with her as he promised them .i really like him as ...
A. 13 May 2010: If you think he is worth it , you can wait till his holiday is over. A promise is a promise and he has to fulfill it. Give him some slag.... (read in full...)
My period is a bit late -- is it just stress?
Q. My period is 2 days late and I have not had any symptoms that it will come (I usually feel some cramps a week before it starts). I've been having protected sex with my boyfriend and there have been no accidents with the condom. I am not on the ...
A. 13 May 2010: You can continue to take the test until the 14 day after your period or when the period comes. Take a test every 3 days until your period shows.
It is probably stress in your case.... (read in full...)
We are forever breaking up and getting back together again, what should I do?
Q. ok..this may be long and i appologize but its doing my head in..also i hope it makes some kind of sense! 2 and a half years ago i moved interstate with my partner for work ,hes always earned a lot of money and i also ended up with a pretty g...
A. 13 May 2010: Three strikes and he is out. If you both can't work it out, it meant that you guys are not compatible with each other.
You are now back in the control of your life.
Good luck to you !... (read in full...)
How can I show my love without saying it outloud?
Q. What are some ways to show my love and care for him without actually saying the words out loud, because I'm nervous and a little bit scared to say them? We have been friends for a year, and until 3 months ago, started to flirt and hang out more...
A. 13 May 2010: You can learn to cook. Get those cook books and just follow those the recipes..
If you don't want to spend your money on books, you can go online and get those recipes FOC.
Spend more time with him and walk that extra miles for him and he shoul... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't love me anymore that he cares for me as a friend.
Q. I'm really upset, my boyfriend of almost 9 months just randomly broke up with me. It started with 2 days of no talking after a stupid argument in which he pretty much assumes I told him he couldn't go to the movies with his friends when I never said ...
A. 13 May 2010: He is behaving like a small kid. There is not much you can do about that.He has to grow up.
If you still like him , you will need to stop contact with him and wait until he comes crawling back to you .... (read in full...)
This isn't love when he treats me like crap...what can I do about this?
Q. I`ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he treats me like shit. Sometimes i really dont believe he cares for me. I moved in with him about 2 years ago and he has bad anger management problems so we keep getting into fights over stupid things. He ...
A. 13 May 2010: If you want to stay in this relationship , you need to put your foot down and stand up to him when he treats you like crap.
Tell him that you will not take it anymore. Don't be a door mat or a martyr. If you do not speak up, he will slowly c... (read in full...)
My daughter is dating a co-worker that I don't want her to date!
Q. I have 4 children all adults and I have neve rtried to interfer in any of their lives before/. I think that kids need to learn from their mistakes, until now that is. I own a contracting compnat and have a lot of young men work for me. As guys will ...
A. 13 May 2010: Just tell her what you know about that boy and allow her to make the final decision. If she respects you , she will not date him or fall into his clutch.
You could fire him or send him to work in some sectors that you won't see each other in the d... (read in full...)
G/f flirts every day and its really getting old!
Q. OK my girlfriend and i have been dating for 9months, we have are good days and bad days, i usually start the fights. ino were only in high school but she flirts every single day. it gets really old quick and i dont know if i should just take it or ...
A. 13 May 2010: Your g/f is cheating behind your back.It looks like she is not committed to you and maybe using you until you have served her purpose or a new and better guy comes into the picture.
Cut your losses and let her go.... (read in full...)
The only person I have ever loved hates me and it hurts!
Q. i don't know what to do. the only person i have ever truly loved broke up with me. she wont talk to me, she hates me...and it hurts. the worst thing you can say i did was lie about walking her dog one night. i have been working 2 jobs and going to ...
A. 13 May 2010: Now that you know what she is , you should cut your losses and move on .
It is not worth shedding tears for such an ungrateful and cruel friend.
Don't cast your pearls before swines.... (read in full...)
He always says he has to go and he'll call me back but he never does!
Q. I met this Guy online and after a month of phone call and emails were met in person. Everything went very well. We talked for hours and have kept in contact. Recently when I call him he always have and excuse to get off the phone and tell me he will ...
A. 13 May 2010: He may still be interested in you but it seems like he does not like to engage in long conversations on the phone.
Either he could be busy or he is tired of the long chatter.... (read in full...)
Need an excuse to break up with him...any suggestions?
Q. I'm being split into two!!On one hand is my ex who is back..He says he does love me [We broke because he broke my trust]Now,I find him loving and caring. On the other hand is this good friend of mine who i had i a crush when i broke up [Its a ...
A. 13 May 2010: The most often used excuse is , 'You are not compatible with each other.' This excuse covers all the angles of why you need to break up.... (read in full...)
Friend acts like he's attracted to me but says he isn't gay
Q. me and well.. lets call him tom... me and tom have been good friends for about 2 years now, best friends even, he knew i was gay cause im open about it but not obviously gay... about a year ago my atraction to him went from friendship to wanting to ...
A. 13 May 2010: He says he isn't gay ,probably in self denial .He could be a closet gay or experimenting with gay feelings.
Actions speak louder than words. Judge his actions and not his words.... (read in full...)
Did I get her pregnant? How do I deal with this?
Q. I'm a male 20 yrs and I think I may have ejaculated inside this woman, I'm positive that I ejaculated outside as I saw with own eyes. But my lack of self confidence makes me doubt myself. I'm totally freaking out and I'm constantly cursi...
A. 13 May 2010: Even if you did not ejaculate inside of her, you still run the risk of getting her pregnant. You release pre-cums inside of her and it may contain sperms. It is also possible you may even leaked some sperms at the height of your excitements.
... (read in full...)
Stuck between two guys!
Q. Right... Well I broke up with my boyfriend months ago and I'm much happier. I've met this lad online who i've now started texting he seems perfect: He's sweet, funny, Gorgeous, Lives Close and He's the real deal. But he likes to talk dirty alot. Th...
A. 12 May 2010: I think you should choose your guy friend over the internet one. It is better to have a known quality one than an unknown .
Have you met the internet one yet?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend never wants sex so how do I fix that?
Q. Help!! My bf is training for the marines, and now he never wants sex! Or anything to do with coming near me, this isn't like him, he used to b all over me and constantly wanted sex wot has happend to change this and how can I fix it? ...
A. 12 May 2010: Perhaps, he is too exhausted mentally and physically and have no juice left to give it to you .
Or he could be under some sort of pressure and stress in the marine corps.
Wait until the training is over and see if there is a change in his be... (read in full...)
I am uncomfortable with the other woman he has in his life, yet he claims there is nothing going on!
Q. ive been with my partner for two years we live together and have a 8 month daughter. he keeps texing a girl he used to have sex with he got her pregnant once but she got rid of it. they split up on good terms but ive read the texts and he is always ...
A. 12 May 2010: As long as he is happy and treats you right , you will need to learn to live with this extra baggage of his.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend lied about her sexual past, what should I do?
Q. hey i dont know how to ask this but here goes ..... i have been with my girlfriend for some time and love every minute i am with her , i knew she has had sexual partners in the past one being her ex boyfriend and the other was a boy she was seeing a...
A. 12 May 2010: Leave her past alone . The more you know, the more you ill be troubled and I think it will constantly trouble you to no ends.
If you enjoy the present, just be that way and let the past be history.... (read in full...)
How do I choose between these two guys?
Q. I've been causally dated 2 guys but its grown to a time where I must choose one of them. The problem is I can't decide who. On the one hand I have this totally sweet guy who shares a lot of the same interests as me and we have very similar mor...
A. 12 May 2010: Choose the one that has the chemistry .It will be more exciting than the man with no sparks.
Choose the man who will put your priority first.... (read in full...)
I'm worried I might lose my wife due to my erection problems
Q. Im 29 year old, everytime i sex with my wife i loose erection half way i dont know what is going on, im afraid i might loose her for this problem im having please help. ...
A. 12 May 2010: Go get yourself treated by a doctor. Have plenty of sleep , exercise and eat well.
It could be due to stress or being over worked or you are too anxious about your performance.... (read in full...)
Am I still covered by the morning after pill that I took in the morning?
Q. I took the aftermorning pill yesturday and had unprotected sex again on the night time, will that pill still cover me or will i have to go for another one?...
A. 12 May 2010: The Plan B pills are most effective when taken within 72 hours. The earlier the better.
There is only a 24-hour window during which an egg can be fertilized. If you take the morning after pill after 24 hours, you may not be protected. Once con... (read in full...)
How can I eject everyone out of my life?
Q. Hi guys. I have a really difficult question and I hope you can help me. I have the opposite problem to most people. Most people try to attract plenty of friends into their life. But I want to get almost everyone out of my life. I am anti-social a...
A. 12 May 2010: The one sure way is to leave your place and go live in a deserted island or place.
The other way is to lock yourself in your room and don't come out and have everything send to your room.
Or you can leave your place and stay in a new place wher... (read in full...)
Could I get pregnant from this?
Q. is there is a chance of pregnancy if my partner does not penetrate in to my vagina and if we are without clothes on a bed...
A. 12 May 2010: If he cums and his penis is in contact with your vagina or your hands or his hands which have sperm comes into contact with your vagina then you run the risk of being pregnant.
The chances of getting pregnant in such a scenario is very low.But ... (read in full...)
I know something isn't right but I don't know how to fix it.
Q. Hello Agnony Helpers, So my problem is that on and off for a few months now I just keep feelings like my boyfriend (of almost 2 years) isn't that interested in me. I feel pretty stupid for even mentioning this but it's just been bothering me for...
A. 12 May 2010: He has taken you for granted and stopped the chasing and the wooing. He has settled down to the humdrum of life .
Life has become so routine and lacking the varieties and excitements.
You need to talk to him about women needing the roma... (read in full...)
I accidentally offended my colleague, what should I do?
Q. I have a workplace problem. I am a 40-year old male, and I have a female colleague of about the same age. It is very clear that neither one of us cares much for the other. A week ago, I got into a very embarrassing situation. I stood up to ask ...
A. 12 May 2010: Do nothing. She was inappropriately dressed to show off her cleavage. She is at fault too.
I don't think she will complain. If she complains, you can tell them that you did not mean to look but it was shoved right in front of your eyes. Stop wor... (read in full...)
We are forever breaking up and getting back together again, what should I do?
Q. ok..this may be long and i appologize but its doing my head in..also i hope it makes some kind of sense! 2 and a half years ago i moved interstate with my partner for work ,hes always earned a lot of money and i also ended up with a pretty g...
A. 12 May 2010: When love is gone , sex will feel like a chore. This is true in everything when love has flown out of the windows. You will begin to see all his faults .... (read in full...)
Does age really matter in a relationship?
Q. I have this boyfriend whom i met a while back. We've been together for 3 months, he's amazing. I feel like we connect. He understands me, he listens to my doubts. I am 20 years old, he is 28, I have my doubts sometimes. I don't want this feeling or ...
A. 12 May 2010: It matters to only those who think so.
Age is just a number and it is the maturity levels that are important. A mans' maturity may not belies his age.
If you love each other and can understand each other,what else do you need?... (read in full...)
Is it right for us both to be cheating and seeing other people?
Q. Is it right for a boyfriend or girlfriend to cheat on you after six months and you forgive but he or she still see's other goys or girls, and then you cheat on her or him more then once but she still see you? and and have sex with you but she she ...
A. 12 May 2010: If you are the religious type ,then it is wrong .If you don't subscribe to any religious views, then you may feel there is nothing wrong.
You are both considered 'loose or promiscous' and the woman could be called a 'tart or a tramp or a scrubber... (read in full...)
Is he for real or just playing games?
Q. About 4 months ago a me and a guy that i have been friends with my whole life started talking, txting and an occasion would see each other. It was agreed that we didn't want anything serious that we were just friends. two weeks ago he starts ...
A. 12 May 2010: He nearly fell in love with you and in the nick of time he realized his mistake. That seems to me that he all along only wanted to be your friend and nothing more.
He has avoided you and it means that he is running away from his emotions... (read in full...)
How do you chat up a guy?
Q. hi this guy has been giving me attention lately. he says hi and calls my name but never actually talks to me. he isnt like this with other girls so what does this mean? i know this is embarrising at my age to be asking but how do you chat up a guy?...
A. 12 May 2010: Ask him about his life, his hobbies, his interests,where he usually hangs out, his views about any interesting events or anything you can think about.
... (read in full...)
How do I finally put it all behind me?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 6 1/2 years. I love him with everything I have. Four years ago he left me for his ex girlfriend. He left me over an email and told me a week later he loved me but not in love with me. Oviously we got back together. ...
A. 12 May 2010: If you want to get it all behind you , you will have to wipe your slate clean and not to bring up anything that is from the past. Anything that comes out from the past, you will reject those thoughts.
You will also need to forgive all his transgre... (read in full...)
We are forever breaking up and getting back together again, what should I do?
Q. ok..this may be long and i appologize but its doing my head in..also i hope it makes some kind of sense! 2 and a half years ago i moved interstate with my partner for work ,hes always earned a lot of money and i also ended up with a pretty g...
A. 12 May 2010: Try your very best to resolve any conflicts with him.
Some men in the heat of the argument will say hurtful words or ask you to pack your things and go home. Then they will regret what they said and asked you to stay.
Words said in anger sh... (read in full...)
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