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*tarry Meadow

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People are puzzles by nature. So as a puzzle, here

are a few of my peices:

*I'm Starry Meadow (I give my real name to my friends)

*I'm 18 years old

*I'm an aspiring romance writer

*I want to travel and see the whole world before I die.

*I'm a true-love seeking lesbian

And *I can and love to cook all kinds of desserts

That's alittle about me, I hope we can get to know each other. ^__^

I feel guilty after a drunken night! Help me.

Q.   okay so here goes the story....i met my partner 7 years ago and we were fantastic, we love eachother so much! but from i have been with him, he has always texted "this friend" he met on the internet ( who happens to live ten minutes away) they met ...

A.   15 January 2008: Tell your partner the truth, even if it'll upset him. Because if the text guy tells him, then he may never trust you again. But, if you sit down and tell him what happened and how sorry you are, then there's a better chance that he'll forgive you. ... (read in full...)

Am I being used and being made a fool of? I love her but I can't cope with this, what shall I do?

Q.   I am a 42 year old women who is in a relationship with a 26 year old woman. When we met she was in a relationship with a man for 3 years and they have a daughter and I was in a relationship with a woman for 3 years. Her relationship was very ...

A.   15 January 2008: She is a lying filthy creature and you don't deserve to take that mistreatment. You need to leave her or you'll only end up having your heart broken in more and worse way then you can imagine.... (read in full...)

What shall I wear for my date with with an old friend??

Q.   I recently met up with a old elementary school friend, whose really sweet and nice, but wants to take me out on a date.Don't get me wrong, I'm happy. But, here's the classic question: What the heck do I wear when I don't have a clue where we're go...

A.   14 January 2008: Thank You! All of you were sweet! I ended up wearing a blue blouse and black skirt, and we went to a movie and a restaurant. Unfortunatly, we couldn't stand each other, but Que cera cera. ;P... (read in full...)

I'm not gay, I have a girlfriend, but I'm turned on by gay men, why is that?

Q.   I am a 14 year old boy and I am "turned on by gay things". I dont want to be gay I have had a girl we have been going out for over a month and she wants to have sex so do I but im scared i want be preparied for....

A.   12 January 2008: I wouldn't worry too much, just keep having your relationship with your girlfriend and when you feel in the mood watch/read gay stuff. Just keep living and don't worry. And to be sure to yourself, when you're older, go out with a guy and see for ... (read in full...)

Me and my cousin are in love and thinking of moving out of state.

Q.   I've fallen in love with one of my cousin, and we are thinkin about moving out of state so we can really be together,what should we do?...

A.   12 January 2008: What are waiting for? Go for it! If you both feel the same, run through the gate of love, holding hands. ^__^... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my older sister

Q.   hi, i am 15 and in love with my 20 year old sister. when i was about 10 she used to put lip stick on and kiss me on my cheek ect. how do i find out if she loves me without me asking her...

A.   12 January 2008: That's pretty hard. The only way to know is to ask, but that would bring up the possibility of losing your realationship with her as a sibling. By the way, though I personally would go for that with anyone in my family. I truely believe that as ... (read in full...)

The whole school knows I love my teacher but every time I try and get over her it doesn't seem to work.

Q.   I really really love my teacher. Im almost 15 and shes married and 26. I have loved her since Feb 2007. Everytime i try to get over her it makes it even harder, and i was so convinced that she liked me that i told her how i felt and i acted on it ...

A.   11 January 2008: I believe you when you say you're in love. But, maybe to avoid being mocked or hurt, you should trade schools. I can't even imagine how much this hurts, but you should consider transfering if things get bad, even if you still love her. Don't... (read in full...)

My first love left me after 3 yrs, saying she doesn't want lesbian relationships any longer. What can I do?

Q.   i was in a lesbian relation-ship for 3yrs , and 3days ago , she told she doesnt want to be with me becuz she say its not right , she doesnt want to be with girls anymore ,she want to live her life the right way , and she said thats nothing i can do ...

A.   11 January 2008: I know how you feel. My best friend became my first girlfriend then left me for a guy. It's crushing, but you can live without her,you only feel she's yours because you knew your feelings were real and it hurt that hers weren't. But, if a lover ... (read in full...)

Am I being stupid or not?

Q.   i have been with my partner for 2 yaers now sex was amazing at the start and has slowly drifted of i have a realy high sex drive and want sex every day well to the point my boyfriend has totaly gone of sex and only wants it if he is drunk or watc...

A.   10 January 2008: Then try not to worry. ^__^ And I know how you feel,I feel that way about myself sometimes, too. But, I always feel better after a 30-60 min. excerise and a warm soapy bath. Maybe that'll work for you, too. Oh, and painting your nails after th... (read in full...)

Am I being stupid or not?

Q.   i have been with my partner for 2 yaers now sex was amazing at the start and has slowly drifted of i have a realy high sex drive and want sex every day well to the point my boyfriend has totaly gone of sex and only wants it if he is drunk or watc...

A.   9 January 2008: I think it's normal to feel insecure about yourself, but don't let it bother you, you're certainly not stupid. Your partner and you probably just need a little sex break (and I don't mean take a break to have sex ^_^ ). Maybe the two of you could ... (read in full...)

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