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... Send Ches a private message | | | Ches's profile:Hi I'm 27 years old and I live in Manchester, UK.
I'm a really good listener but I have a habbit of telling you what you need to hear instead of what you would like to hear - which means I'm very honest.
I have a boyfriend who I love dearly, but like any other relationship we have our ups and downs so I might be able to help you with that. |
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Are we ready to take the next step?
Q. I am 26 and my partner is 20 are we ready to get engaged??? We have been seeing each other for about 5 months now, and i have never felt as strongly for someone as i do her, we have been living together for about 3 months now and over come jealou...
A. 16 September 2008: Honestly, I think its way too early to even be thinking about engagement. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and we love each other very much and like you we overcame jealous people trying to split us up (sometime its was nasty gossip) ... (read in full...)
He's keeping photos of his Ex girlfriend. Why?
Q. hi im 24 years old and im in this relationship with my boyfreind for a couple of months and i discovered in his email and as well on his computer pictures of his ex they were all over i spoke to him about it and i told him to get rid of them and ...
A. 1 August 2008: Hi,
Ask him why he still has them and let him know that it bothers you and see what he says. He should be able to respect you enough to be sensitive to your needs. She is is ex for a reason and he's with you not her - maybe have a picture ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated, and I'm the one who ends up apologising for my jealousy! No more. Advice?
Q. boyfriend cheated on me in the past twice and begged me for his forgiveness, telling me how much he love me an all that. So i did because i do love him back. But now weve had problems with trust since then and he wanted us to have some time apart. ...
A. 24 July 2008: What a loser!!!
Please someone tell me if I'm wrong here but "some time apart" doesn't mean you've broken up and for him to use that when he can't keep his hands to himself then he's a joke, I'm sorry hun but you have to get rid he's playing ... (read in full...)
He's the one who dictates everything now, and I'm so confused!
Q. Hi there...... I really hope someone out there can help me and hopefully knock some sense into me as everyday that goes by im feeling lower and lower and all i can put it down to is an addiction, but of what is the confusing scenario!!! B...
A. 21 May 2008: Wow, it really does sound like he's playing with your head. By the sound of it he's trying to make you feel as if you need him when in fact its the other way around.
If he turns to you and says you won't go, shock him and go - it will knock hi... (read in full...)
How long to fall pregnant after sex?
Q. My current girlfriend fell pregnant two months after she was dumped by her former boyfriend. Is it possible that her former boyfriend is the father of the child? Some people are suggesting that she might have slept with someone else after the ...
A. 17 April 2008: This isn't abnormal. The midwife will tell her dates as to when the baby is due and how big the baby is at the fist scan therefore she can work our when she conceived.
My friend found out she was pregnant at two months as she missed her first pe... (read in full...)
I'm in the money -- but I need advice
Q. I have about $30,000 in credit card debt. I have made minimum payments for about ten years and my interest rates are high. Now I have inherited enough money to pay off the credit cards. What steps should I take? Should I simply pay the amount owed? ...
A. 17 April 2008: Hi there,
My friend was in the same situation last year and he just cleared off all the debt, that way its one less thing to worry about.
Hope this is of some sort of help... (read in full...)
I'm confused, and still in love with my ex-girlfriend!
Q. About two years ago, I got into a relationship with a girl. We were desperately in love, I was for sure. But 2 weeks later we broke up, I said something that she took the wrong way and from that point on it was wierd. From that point on I tried to ...
A. 16 April 2008: I take it this girl is your first love, and they are the one's that are the hardest to get over.
From what you have said I don't think she deserved you in the first place, your only young and you have a lot going for.
As for getting with one... (read in full...)
Will she ever go away?
Q. This might be a common thing but I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we are very happy except for one thing - there is this female friend of his who in her words is in love with him. She rings him all the time and if he doesn't pick up ...
A. 16 April 2008: But the thing is they were never a couple and if she asks him for a drink he always says yes.
He told me he sent her a text message saying that she should go away, but I know this was wrong - I checked his mobile and there was no message of the s... (read in full...)
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