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I really want to squirt. PLEASE help me out!

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Question - (3 February 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *sh89 writes:

Hello. When my boyfriend and I first started messing around he was fingering me and rubbing my Gspot. I've rubbed it before while masterbating but never got to far with it because it had always been a bit uncomfortable. Well, while he was down there he licked and sucked on my clit as he was rubbing my spot and it felt great. I started to noticed that I had the really bad urge to pee. It happened more so when he sucked on my clit than just licked it. I had him suddenly stop because I was really convinced I would pee and I got nervous. I told him about it and he told me I wasn't going to pee, that I was about to squirt. I read more about it and watched some videos of women squirting. I heard it was amazing and I wouldn't feel anything like it. So since then I have been trying to do it myself. I insert my fingers and start off slowly rubbing my spot and work my way to a faster motion. I get that urge to pee and I do have an orgasm but there is no squirting fluid and it feels just as good as a clitoral orgasm. I've been trying for almost a year now and I just recently started using a dildo inside me. The first time I used it I felt the 'pee' urge but I kept at it and I was positive I did pee because 1: It didn't feel good or feel like an orgasm, it felt like I was peeing. And 2:it had a hint of that pee smell. I was really upset when that happend. I've still been trying but nothing is happening. Just the same old orgasm and no fluid (the peeing thing only happened once). That one time with my boyfriend was the best it ever felt and closest I've ever gotten. Am I doing something wrong? Or even worse, is there just something physically wrong with me?

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A female reader, Ash89 United States +, writes (7 February 2010):

Ash89 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for the input and advice. Its appriciated. So since I've been working at it so long and it hasn't happened does that mean I don't have the ability to squirt? Should I keep trying?

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A female reader, KoriNickole United States +, writes (6 February 2010):

dont worry girl,not everyone is a squirter..me myself have been blessed with being a squirter,it took awhile for me to figure this out but when it happened it was amazing,dont feel insecure or like something isnt right because some girls do and some dont be happy with what you got :]

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (4 February 2010):

DoubleM agony auntFew women actually squirt. But most do emit the female version of cum during orgasm. It's typically a fairly small amount that often goes unnoticed mixed with all the other juices going on down there during sex.

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A female reader, girl from bristol United Kingdom +, writes (3 February 2010):

hi nothing wrong with you physically but if you have the urge to pee then you should thats the problem i have had the same problem myself

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A male reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather United Kingdom +, writes (3 February 2010):

Dr.LanceMerryweather agony auntUnderstand this: You either can or you can't. So much misconception about this subject. It is not something you can learn. Only about 2% of the female population can do this. I was lucky enough to have dated a 'squirter' a few years ago and we did our research, which is how I know.

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