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*overBoy91
writes:Hey, I have a question; Would it be selfish of my girlfriend not to return me the favor if I gave her an orgasm with cunnilingus?I gave my girlfriend her first orgasm with this technique. I must admit it felt great and Id certainly do it again, but Id like to get it back too, not that I do this with the sole purpose of getting anything back but Id sure appreciate it if I had the favor returned, right?Well thats my question, would she classify as selfish if she doesnt return the favor?
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reader, LoverBoy91 +, writes (4 February 2010):
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010): If you give her oral sex without her asking for it, and she doesn't return the favour, then I don't think that is selfish. But if she puts pressure on you to do it, and then won't return it herself, then I think that may be a bit selfish.
I honestly think that she may not realise you would like to experience this too. Why not try saying something like, "I really enjoy doing that to you, and it would be great if you would do it to me too..." Then see how she reacts. She may be more than happy to once she knows how you feel!
If she is reluctant though, she might be nervous about doing it. Perhaps she is unsure of what to do, or is worried about doing something "wrong". If that is the case, I think you will need to give her lots of reassurance and encouragement to boost her confidence! But if she just doesn't want to give you oral sex, then there is nothing you can really do but accept that. If you don't mind that she won't return the favour, it should be fine. But if it bothers you, then that might cause you too feel a bit resentful in the long run.
So try talking to her first. Hopefully you'll get more of an idea of what is going on then. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010): She might have just been completely blown away - it's quite exhausting, having your first orgasm. She could also be unsure what to do.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (4 February 2010):
 Give her some time.
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