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writes:im 15, i just turned 15, me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 1/2 months, things have moved really fast for us, we kissed after 2 days, made out after one week and started 'doing stuff' after about 2 weeks, since valentines day is coming up he wants sex.. since that is the 'next thing to do'. i do not want to, at all. so i just keep making up excuses. im too young. HES TOO YOUNG. hes still 14. i dont know what to tell him. help? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lightningrod +, writes (11 February 2010):
Here's how.
3)Tell him that it cost $7,000 on avg to raise a child.
2) You prepared to visit your OBGYN? Can you even do that without your parents at 15? You will no doubt encounter STI's along the way, so you had better be prepared to handle that as an adult.
1) Just say 'NO'
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (10 February 2010):
 Just say no. Not that easy, is it? But you are right, you are to young.
Boys got it easy, they can want sex, because society still views them as studs for getting laid while girls are still called sluts.
Girls are also the ones who end up pregnant or an STD that makes them infertile.
And most women don't exactly enjoy their first time or second time for that matter.
So who gives a fuck what he wants? He is behaving like a child, so treat him like one. A little kids do not have sex.
And if you need some convincing, read this site. Plenty of young girls in the same situation as you, read their experiences.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 February 2010):
Just say no.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (10 February 2010):
 Simple. Say no.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (10 February 2010):
 You have to tell him that it is not going to happen. Be honest and tell him why then say something that you two could do to try and take his mind off it. If he can`t cope with that then I hate to say it but he might not be right for you. Tell him that you are not ready yet because you should never have sex until your ready at what ever age that may be. I hope he understands and realizes that you two can still have a great valentines day together with out sex.
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