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writes:So this is a strange question I know, but about a month ago I lost my virginity (we used protection, no worries) and it didn't hurt at all. Whenever I hear stories I always hear about it hurting the first time. And I know sometimes it doesn't hurt for people, but I didn't feel anything unpleasant whatsoever. I always thought you would at least feel the hymen break a little bit, but it was as if nothing was there. He was definitely big enough, so is there something wrong?
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reader, KeighleySky  +, writes (13 November 2010):
 This is to nime, i just wanted to say that some girls do get really bad pains even if they dont have those conditions that you mentioned. Before i went onto the pill every month was horrid for me. The pain sometimes got so bad i passed out from it, i have none of those condtions, im perfectly healthy. maybe you just have a higher pain threshold than other girls/people.
this is to the question it might have been sports, horse riding can do it. My friend was exactly the same, she was 16 though and she did wait till she was a legal age. personally i think you should have waited.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (13 November 2010):
 There is nothing wrong.
Some women are born without an hymen. Or, more probably, you might have broken it practicing sports or playing when you were younger and did not notice.
The only wrong thing is that you are having sex and are not supposed to- you are under the age of consent.
If you really must have sex, please always protect yourself from STDs and accidental pregnancies !
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): There is no necessity that you should feel pain.Because some girls doesnt bleed at all..
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reader, angelbaby92 +, writes (13 November 2010):
No i don't think there's anything wrong. sometimes your hymen can tear in other activities so it may have already been torn before you had sex. i don't think there's anything to worry about so i guess be glad it wasn't unpleasant
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reader, Nime +, writes (13 November 2010):
 I don't know, I think some people are a bit dramatic. I didn't feel any pain my first time other than a bit of dryness. I also always hear girls complaining about how painful, even debilitating, their period cramps are, but I rarely consider mine painful enough to mention. (Note that I'm not talking about women who really do suffer excruciating pain during their periods, thanks to fibroids or endometriosis or some other malady). Same with giving blood. Every time I give blood I see everyone else who's finished before me laying around nursing juice and cookies like they're half dead. I just get up and walk out... I don't even get it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): nothing wrong. Probably your partner was good and knew how to excite you so you didn't feel the pain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): *sport, sorry, not support.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): Did you bleed? If not it was probably already broken (possibly from sports).Sex is meant to feel great but hey...your a little young to be playing around aren't you?
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