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How can I get my boyfriend to break my hymen without it hurting?

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Question - (15 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey im sixteen years old. i have never trusted a boy to do anything with my vagina before but now i do. and he did try not tht long ago and he sort of just rubbed and nothing went inside cos it really hurt wen he tries to this has happened twice now and i dont know what to do. i took i mirror down there and had a look there is skin covering it and i know tht has to be broken how do i get him to do it without it hurting? or even how do i get him to do it cos it doesnt seem to be working.

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A male reader, ivanichiaynus United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2010):

 ivanichiaynus agony auntWell said, Monks!

Can I just add that you need to do things for yourself to ease you down there, so you can stop when it hurts: and yes, use plenty of lube - KY is easy to obtain in the UK at Poundland or the 99p shop!

Ivan.

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A female reader, MonksDaBomb United States +, writes (15 November 2010):

MonksDaBomb agony auntThe two of you need to do foreplay and lots of it! He can't just stick his penis (or even his finger!) in there right away cause it hurts a lot. You need a lot of foreplay to lube yourself up so that when it is time for him to penetrate you, it will slide easily and it shouldn't hurt. But foreplay is key!!

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