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writes:Heyy. I've been with my boyfriend for a little under a year now and we're in a open relationship (per his request). I've always been fine with it, but prior to the situation I'm about to tell you about, I've only made out with a guy that wasn't my boyfriend. When my boyfriend and I started dating, I was a virgin and he wasn't. We always talked about him being my first, but we were going to wait until I was ready. Well, I think I was ready about a week ago because I ended up having sex with a guy friend of mine.Now, my dilemma is I don't know if I should tell my boyfriend. We don't exactly disclose anything we do with other people unless asked. But I feel like this is pretty big and he should know. But on the other hand the open relationship and the whole no details thing was mainly his idea. I guess I'm kind of scared to tell him because I don't think he'd react well to it.What should I do? Advice? Thoughts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010): You may not tell him that you've slept with someone else but you SHOULD tell him that he is risking STD exposure with you now. Partners have the right to know these things. Regardless of whether or not he is technically supposed to be assuming you might date others, it sounds pretty clear that he does not assume this right now.
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reader, SillyB +, writes (27 November 2010):
 Hun, why let yourself be in an open relationship. You're so young, you should be in a romeo & juliet type of relationship..lovey dovey, hand holding, kissing and always wanting to be with one another. Innocent!!! YOu're boyfriend is sick at a very young age. Open relationships should be left to older people, at your age you are damaging yourself!!!
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