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writes:hi well i had sex for the first time today..it didnt hurt but now after im really really sore my legs and everything...is this normal? i know they say it hurts the first time and in the process it didnt not really it was like a bee sting but now im in agony Reply to this Question
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reader, 0000BraveHeart0000  +, writes (25 November 2010):
first time sex is different for eveyone. It depends on how your body takes it. many girls have told me that they did not feel any pain at all when they had sex for the first time. some said that it was the worst they have ever felt.
after first time sex girl usually bleed but not all and they tend to feel a soreness around the vaginal area and belly.
do not worry, it will go away soon. i guess it is just your body's way of reaction and i am sure that when you continue to have sexual intercourse ...it would get better.
hope i helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): Yes it's very normal. I remember my first time, i could hardly walk for about 3 days. It will go away in a few days.
It's just all the muscles down there have never been used before in that way so it's going to feel a bit uncomfortable.
Unless you have seen any injuries or have started bleeding days after i wouldn't worry.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (24 November 2010):
 Your body isn't used to being in that position, especially for any length of time. It takes a while for you to adjust. Depending on the pain you're feeling you may want to consult a doctor but I don't see anyting unusual. I know that after prolonged or vigorous sex it's common to be quite sore until you get used to it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): yeah its normal because the line where the sperm is supposed to go breaks and it will stop by morning u might bleed a little but its very normal
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reader, ImogenLD  +, writes (24 November 2010):
This is totally normal every girl goes through this. You know the feeling when you have not worked out for awhile then when you do the parts of the bodys you were working on hurt? Well this is exactly the same you have used muscles and parts you never have before and your body is just getting use to it. This pain might come back the next couple of times but after awhile will go and everything will be fine.
Hope your okaay
Imogen x
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reader, Fail.. +, writes (24 November 2010):
Yes,the soreness is complety normal and should stop in a couple of days. you might wanna try to strech more often so you won't get as sore
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): well your legs is normal if you were on top. your body wasn't really used to it obvioulsy but the soreness should go away in a couple of days.
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reader, alternaterealities +, writes (24 November 2010):
 It is normal, and there are lots of factors that can have you feeling this way. I hate to use the expression, but popping the pith from the cherry is a good one. It's kind of like that actually, and luckily it's not something you'll really have to deal with again. (Though if you go long periods in between it does take a little more adjusting.)
Secondly, his size can be a big factor. If he was very well endowed and this being your first time, it can wreak havoc on your insides. Your vaginal secretions also play into it. Perhaps you aren't secreting enough? A little lubricant next time might help a lot. And as I hope you were using condoms, they never have enough lube on them. Extra is always better.
He may have lacked the experience to know to be gentle with you either, and you need to ensure that during sex you have enough charge to communicate. Tell him what you need. "Too fast, too hard, too slow, you're breaking my ribs get off me you big lug."
But yes it is normal to feel that way.
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