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He wants to wait, but now I want it!

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Question - (13 November 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2010)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am an 18yr old virgin gal and my bf 21 not a virgin. So my bf and i have been dating for 2 years and we never had sex but attemptd but i ws 2 scared... He then decided we wait 4 marriage but now i want 2 do it badly. What should i do? Please help!

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A female reader, Mugzie69 United States +, writes (13 November 2010):

Mugzie69 agony auntYou’re ready for the relationship to move to the next level now. Have you considered mutual masturbation? When you kiss him, you might try slipping a leg between his and rock gently to provide stimulation to your area of interest. You can also try doing oral on him. Become expert at that and you can make him blow steam out his ears. Learn to leave him aching for more and he should come around. If he still isn’t onboard (if you take my meaning ;) after all that, I’d be a little concerned that sexual dysfunction might be at issue. Likely that isn’t so, but before getting more serious, you might want to make sure.

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A female reader, cheekyfriday Australia +, writes (13 November 2010):

has he proposed? When is he planning on marrying you?

I'd wait if you want to marry this man. He is being respectful to have waited this long.

Now it's time to decide when you want to get married, and if you don't or you want to wait years or he does, than say....now.

Put something sexy on, he won't be able to resist you.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (13 November 2010):

CindyCares agony aunt Just tell him that you changed your mind and now you feel ready. I don't think he will put up too much resistence...

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