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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2010): No need to sweat it cuz I'm anemic being a lover of rough sex I bleed frequently. Never had problems. As long as she stays up on her vitamins bleeding won't matter.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (30 November 2010):
 You're welcome. Remember, communication with your partner is very important in a relationship. It sounds like you two are on the right track. I'm very glad your discussion went well. Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlrighty thenn. I talked to her last night and i told her how scared i was. She told me that she understood but there wasnt anything to worry about. She said knows knows that itll hurt the first time but it isnt my fault that it does. After that i really felt so much better knowing that she understood how scared i was. Thats why i love her, shes really understanding. We didnt do anything last night but thats ok haha. When it does ill feel really good knowing that it wont be my faultif she gets hurt our first time.
Thank you all so very much. You really gave me the confidence i need to tell her how scared i was. And it couldnt have gone better :) and when something does happen I wont be nearly as scared as i was before finding this site. And dont worry, we'll use protection ^_^ thank you again so much
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reader, :)31215  +, writes (29 November 2010):
 I just read this and it's so nice to hear such loving comments from you.. You sound like such a great guy! Yay
haha
good luck with talking to her. I'm sure everything will go great :)
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reader, dirtball +, writes (29 November 2010):
Glad to help and I'm looking forward to the update.
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (29 November 2010):
 You sound like a very caring boyfriend! She is very lucky to have you!
:) Good luck! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both soo much!! You've really helped me feel a little more confident about this whole thing. Im going to talk to her about this tonight and ill update you guys in a day or two! ^_^ thank you againn
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (29 November 2010):
Being anemic just means she is low in iron. Most women suffer from this at some point! Basically she has a low red blood cell count. This can easily be fixed by taking iron supplements which you can get from the chemist (altho always talk to the pharmacist first).
This will not affect her having sex in any way, so you do not have to worry about hurting her! She is exactly the same as any other virgin, you just take it slow and make sure she is very turned on.
Make sure you use protection - preferably more than one (condoms + pill, or shot)
Good luck!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (29 November 2010):
Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with. Generally, anemia doesn't cause too many problems for people as long as they take their vitamins and have a proper diet. Losing her virginity will hurt her some, but that's different for everyone and she already knows that and is preparing for that. It's very refreshing to see you so concerned for her. It demonstrates the reasons why she's chosen you to be her first.
I think you should tell her what you're feeling. She can probably put your mind at ease better than anyone else. Perhaps her reassuring you that she knows what she's in for will be enough.
Make sure to use protection and again, don't do anything you aren't ready to do. She won't stop loving you if you're not ready.
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