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reader, arielbriane +, writes (18 November 2009):
 No, pot makes you tired. Sex is something to ENJOY! dont waste your first time being high. It doesnt hurt that bad your first time, or atleast not for me it didnt. It hurts at first, but its more pleasure than pain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2009): you need foreplay and lube. Not pot. Good luck, :) mal
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reader, lazyman87  +, writes (18 November 2009):
i wouldn't.
if you want to get stoned before sex, it's only reasonable to assume your boyfriend would too. frankly i find it difficult to get it up when i've had a smoke.
stay off the pot for sex, especially the first time, nothing should detract from the experience!
take care x
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reader, Kat1235 +, writes (15 November 2009):
There is no need to smoke pot before sex.
Just make sure your first time is with someone you really trust and really care for, and try to relax.
If you can manage that, it won't hurt.
I was worried before my first time, but it didn't hurt.
Just be carefully, and do it with someone you can trust!
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 Are you asking us to advice you to commit an offence in your country?
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reader, s.a.r.ah_  +, writes (15 November 2009):
NO !
For me, it hurts more when i smoked up before sex.
When you lose your virginity, you think omg its guna hurt alot and stuff.
But really, if it hurt that bad the first time why would anybody do it again?
I actually didnt find it that bad. It did hurt, but it wasnt unbearable, and id prolly been through more pain then that.
& after awhile it just doesnt hurt anymore.
If your guna have sex, dont smoke wweed before.
Its not guna help.
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reader, bitch +, writes (15 November 2009):
Do not smoke pot for any reason. Seriously, it is not necessary. I think you should see a doctor before having sex and talk to her about your conerns if you are concerned but smoking pot is not a good thing and should not be used for any reason.
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reader, hijacked_dignity +, writes (15 November 2009):
 Pot definitely does not help in any situation where you want to be aware and enjoy a particular sensation. I would not suggest smoking before sex.
What you can do however is take your time and make sure that you are aroused and ready. If your partner does a good job getting you worked up before the dirty deed, your body will naturally lubricate itself before sex. This will make things a little less painful.
Also make sure to ask your partner to take things slow. Is this someone you trust? They can make sure that you are comfortable just by listening to your reactions. Don't be afraid to talk during sex about how you are feeling, especially if there is discomfort. Nice and slow will help! So good luck. And no pot.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 November 2009):
No, don't smoke pot. It will destroy your libido and in truth you'll probably feel worse about it all afterwards. Relx during it and make sure your boyfriend is gentle.
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