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anonymous
writes:Ok, this guy that I really like is a year and a half older than me. I am a virgin, but he has done everything. I would love to do everything with him and I am ready to give it all up for him. The only problem is I've seen his dick on webcam and it's huge! This might sound really stupid but whenever I try to masterbate I can only just do 2 fingers. If he goes in me he'll kill me! I dno what to do bcos I want him so much :s but if it hurts so much i'll end up stoppin him and feelin stupid and embarrased. Is it goin to be really painful? I don't know what to expect, what if i'm too tight? Please dnt anyone say I'm not ready bcos I am.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): how come you haven't seen his penis in real life and only on a webcame, do you know this person? *said in a nice kind tone, not a critical one*. I just wonder at it being your first time and all, that you may want to be more familar with your chosen partner if he is a stranger in person to you. Please think about it before rushing into anything. Also, before i had sex i was scared stiff of penises - my partner was really nice ... he let me poke him and prod him and chat about the experience to my hearts content with him. His penis didn't seem so big after i have become better aqquainted with it - not saying touch him up then jump on him, just saying more familarity may help with any nervousness of him being too big.
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reader, straight to the truth +, writes (29 November 2009):
ok i will be completely honest with you, no matter how big or small your boyfriend is, when you lose your vaginity it will hurt and i dont mean a little bit. it is a painful experiance and you are likely to bleed too.HOWEVER! so long as he is very slow and very careful with you then you will stretch, all women stretch. I have to admit for the first few times it hurt me alot whereas a few of my friend says it only hurt the first time. the walls of your vagina are desiged to stretch, just think a baby will come out of there one day! just make sure he is very careful, on my first time i even got upset but i was lucky to have someone who took his time and understood. also make sure it is what you want because if you are pushed into sex then you wont relax and it will hurt even more. I really hope this helps and i hope you make the right choice with the right man.
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