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writes:Haay,I'm nineteen and I've never been in love before. I have only kissed with a couple of guys before, but nothing more. But I really want to. Any tips for how to grow into this stuff. Cause I don't want to be clumsy when it all happens for the first time. Like giving a handjob, a blowjob, sex ... How can I even tell the guy that I've never done anything but kissing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know that it's not that abnormal for my age not to have that kind of experience, but it's just hard sometimes for my confidence. Am I so difficult to fall in love with? What can a girl do to make her more attractive for guys to fall in love with?
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reader, ChristineD.  +, writes (7 December 2008):
 Personaly, I dont think you should have to tell them. But if you feel the need to, if you tell him and he drifts away because of it, he's definitly not worth it, because the right there is a red flag for only wanting sex and he knows he m ight not get it from you, or if after that he tryes to come more close to you, make sure he's not doing it just to take your virginity. Don't look at it as something that you need to do because of your age. Just wait for the right guy to come along. Just wait for the right time, and if your'e not sure when that is, then just wait. You'll know when the time is right.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm quite attractive, or so a lot of people tell me. Everyone keeps asking me why I don't have a boyfriend. But I think I'm afraid of opening myself up to people because of that unexperience... When do you tell a boy that you like that you're completely unexperienced and most of all how?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): Thats not a problem at all! No guy wants to think his girlfriends been with tons of guys before him. Not only would it make her look trashy but it could make him self conscious about his skills knowing you've had so much experience. My gf is the exact same way and I think its great. It lets you be more comfortable to know that if you make a mistake she wont be comparing you to someone else in her past. Also its fun to teach her things sexually. You actually are what I believe most other guys (or at least this one) would want in a woman.
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