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I told my BF that I want to lose my virginity but now I'm scared!

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Question - (27 December 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hello...

ok well im 16 and my bf is 18....

im a virgin..

we have been so close to doin it but i stop him..he always says hes ''sorry'' that he just gets so carried away... n dat we wont do anything i dnt want to do...

so yesterday we were tlkin bout it n well i kinda told him that i want to do it...

but im scared...

i kno he loves me n cares for me... i love him as well but im still scared..wat should i do???

thanks=D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009):

you are not ready yet sweety if he loves you he will understand. its a big step and something that you cant get back once its gone. be strong and explain to him how your feeling. you will look back on this in a few years and laugh (i promise) good luck x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009):

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hey guys tahnk u so much for the advice....

so i talked tio my bf bout it last nite n he told me he is goona wait till im ready...that he loves me n that he jus want s to be w. me!!!!!=]]

im so supper happy....thank u once agian!! =]]

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (27 December 2008):

SirenaBlusera agony auntYou have reservations because deep down, you know that it's not right for you to be having sex.

There's a time and a place to have sex. If you have an intuition that it's not the right time, then you're probably right. We have our intuition to protect us. Our parents are here to protect us, too. How would your parents feel if you became sexually active? They would be opposed to it, I'm sure. Listen to the people who want to protect you because they love you.

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A female reader, Ellzy United Kingdom +, writes (27 December 2008):

Virginity is like a bubble.. one Prick and its gone!

Babe.. dont be in a rush too loose it ok

and at our age..hmm well we dont even know what love is!

chances are after you have sex a few times.. he will fuck off... or seem less interested.

Maybe not, but just be carefull hun ok

xoxxo =]

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A female reader, Seven United States +, writes (27 December 2008):

well listen if he really loves and cares about you he'll wait as long as you want him to wait....seriously...trust and believe i know for a fact.....just let him know that you thought you were ready but your really not....if he really loves you like you think he does then he'll understand...right??? if you need more details or questions just send me a private message. k.

-seven

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