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writes:ok this may be really silly but im so confused.Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 months and its going amazingly well. I always thought that i would want to be with any guy i lost my viginity to for at least 8months but with him its different. Around him i lose self control and want to but he stops me (hes not a virgin).But why is this? and how can i stop wanting to go further because i dont think i want to sleep with him yet but when im with him i know i will!Help me please!thankyou!:-) Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 December 2008):
You need to learn the trick of the "First Date Bikini Line Insurance Policy."
If you are going to see him then make sure you have either not shaved your legs or under arms or bikini line.
Some thing that you can't see (I'm not saying to look ugly), but will stop you wanting to get naked. That or wear really ugly stained pants. This will make sure your trousers stay on.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): What a sweet person! To me it shows that he knows you're not ready for it, and therefore stops everything from moving on to the next level. I think he wants to make sure that not only you want to have sex with him, but that you both really like each other for it, as well. To me, it seems that he cares for you, and you are quite lucky for that. Some guys would love to have sex with virgins and then leave her (but that's only the dickheads.)
Don't forget, you're in lust with him at the minute, so you're going to want to jump on him. ;) But think to yourself; Will I regret this if I do sleep with him? Am I ready for this yet?
I think you should wait a bit longer, because you don't seem quite ready yet. Remember, once your virginity is gone, it's gone for good.
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