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Archived questions from: April, 2012 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

I really like him, but never spoken to him! help?

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30 April 2012 (F) - There's this boy I like, we are both in the same year; he's in one of my classes. The thing is I've never spoken to him and he does know who I am because we went to the same primary school but we don't talk. He's like one of those cool boys, those ...

Could he be realising and reciprocating my feelings? or is he just enjoying the attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Dear cupid, I am so in love with a guy I have known as hi friends for 4 years.We have been flirting more and more and well, now we even joke about him being my long awaited guy. But he tells me for him, sex is an important part of the relation...

Like a girl at work but she is seeing someone so I'd rather move on than be friends. So what is she doing now she claims she wants to go on another works night out soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - Hi, I really like one of my colleagues. I know this is not always a good idea, but I work in a big company and we don't work that closely together. We went out on a big works do a few weeks back and got on well but she went home early as she was ...

Crush on a guy who has a girlfriend...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4381 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I have a huge crush on this guy who has a girlfriend . Both him and me have been to the same VBS when we were kids and later after like 5 or 6 years we meet again at a friends place afterthat we met at tutuions after 2 years . And now he's in India ...

How to make a girl leave her boyfriend for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - I met this girl and we talked for the day. We exchanged numbers and we have started to text each other frequently, she also enjoys my company and when i call her, but she has a boyfriend. I am trying my best to think of the best way to go through ...

Mixed Messages

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - So...as these questions always start, there is this guy...he is a couple of years older than me, and I think he fancies me as much as I fancy him, however I am just not sure. I am 21, have never had a boyfriend, let alone been on a date, and I ha...

I'm engaged. But should I act on my powerful crush I have with my co-worker?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - I have been working with this married woman for about two years. I'm engaged. There was an instant attraction. She is this sexy hipster with a really cute face and a hot body. We started texting and the texts became heated. We decided to pull bac...

He's a teen and I am 22. Will the age difference not matter so much when we are in our 20s?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for over a year as we go to uni together. I am 22 and he is 18 turning 19 at the end of the year. We have kissed on a few occasions but nothing more and recently we have been getting closer and I have deve...

How do I get back my ex? We've started talking and see each other regularly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - What do I do? I think I love my ex again but this time it is different. We broke up two years ago and since then we have both matured and lately we have been speaking more especially over the last three months we have been speaking nearly ever...

My boyfriend is a great guy, and is definitely someone I can see myself settling down with BUT I really like my guy friend and want to pursue things with him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I've dated a lot of guys over the past year, but finally picked someone I could see myself having a future with. He's a great guy! We've been dating for about three months, he's really intelligent (working on his PHD), attractive, athletic, and has ...

This guy only texts me when he wants to talk dirty!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I really like this guy and it seems like he only texts me when he wants to talk dirty. He knows that I'm not ready for sex or anything but I don't know if I should still persue him becuse he doesn't text back or talk to me that often....

I want to do things differently and ask her out with a letter. Any ideas on what to say please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - Can someone please give me a sample of a letter to send the girl I wish to ask to be my girlfriend? I do believe she is ready for the next step, as I know I am. She's 17, I'm 19. We've been talking for almost a year, and we both know we like each ...

Does my potentially bi friend like me? He has a girl friend, but he maybe likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4383 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - My friend that i've known for about 6 months is bi...i think. I mean, I never thought he was, but people told me he was and then the other day we were talking in a group about girls we found attractive and then he started to list guys too. (Btw he's ...

Why has he not offered to take me out? He's my ex. He'll spend time with me but that's it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I am starting to develop feelings for my ex-boyfriend AND I don't really know If he's attracted or if he still has feeling for me. We dated years back AND I hadn't seen him in quite some time, like 11 years ago. He is not married, but he is dati...

The man I love is getting married and I need to leave but he doesn't know how I feel!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Okay, I have a question...... The man i'm in love with is getting married in three months when I called him to tell him I was relocating to another city after I heartbreakingly watched him be told by my pastor to officially get engaged to her on t...

He stares at me but I'm too shy to find out if that means he's interested!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

27 April 2012 (?) - Hi everyone! I need some help and would greatly appreciate any advice you have to offer. There's this guy that I work with who stares at me. At first I thought it was in my head, but when I look away and then look back, he's still staring. The ...

What is going on with my kinda sorta friend and nearly prom date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - Prom is in a couple months. My principal likes to playfully set up single students so without permission from either of us, he asked my kinda sorta friend and I if we'd like to go to prom together. And I was just like okay sure, we can go a...

I don't understand her, is she in or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - There's this girl in college, I used to see her, but she never noticed me until like a year ago, when our eyes met for the first time. After that I only saw her like 7-8 times (and she noticed me everytime) around 6 months ago when I started seeing ...

Can you make somebody love you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - Hi, I am confused. I know this girl who I have feelings for. But she has no emotional connection to me. She is not interested in dating me. A friend of mine and I saw the movie Cinema Paradisio, where the main character sits under the window of a ...

Girl I like seems to like me but she has a boyfriend, am I reading too much into this? Is this only a friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - A little background of my situation. I have been working in China for over eight months now and during this period I've not strongly pursued any girls. Most of my friends here are girls and they are simply that believe it or not. There is one g...

Does he like me? If he does, how can I make him ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4384 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - ok there is this guy in my dorm who lives next to me and he is really cute. sometimes when I am alone (I have a roomie) he comes over to watch TV and chat, we always smile at each other, also he liked a pic of me on Facebook (although he isn't very ...

If I stick it out with the texting and Facebook chat, will she eventually want to hang out with me more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - i met this girl in professional school (i am and INTP and she is an INFP for those who know Keirsey--we're both introverts). i am 28, she is 24. i really like her. we talk on FB chat all day most days, and she is generous to help me w/ schoolwork ...

Have I upset him or is he just bored of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - I have a male friend who I met while we worked together. After our job was done we would chat constantly and I know he is always online and we flirt with each other. We have been talking this way since January and he usually gets on his phone to ...

How can I read the signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - How can i tellers if a girl is showing a particular interest in me? Does she stare at you when she thinks you're not looking? Does she stand closer to you when it seem unnecessary? Does she start conversations with you out of the blue? The reaso...

I've fallen in love with my friends with benefits guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - hi everyone I could really use some opinions I was just wondering what you think this means I have been in a fwb for a while now he comes to mine I go to his for a coffee or a movie or something he somtimes just wants to cuddle me and kiss me I have ...

Our outlooks are different. I already have a Bf. So why an I crushing on this very different guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I am very confused. Something very strange is happening to me, and I really need an explanation. I met someone that I have been talking to..l will call him X X and me used to work together and were always good friends, he moved to another...

Why is it that he is super playful with every other girl but me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - He a trainer at the gym I go to and the girl also works there.. I also go to the class he teaches and when I'm around he I feel I put the wall up and end up pushing him away? How could I change that... Have I lost my chance? He seems mad when he ...

I think she likes me and I want to have sex with her, how do I ask her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) - Hi I have a problem. There is this girl I know and I have wanted to have sex with her for years but i have always been too afraid to ask. I have heard rumors that she likes me and that she has spoken to friends about having sex with me. I am a ...

Crush on a female colleague who has a boyfriend, but this comment has made me think twice about her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) - I have a major crush on a female work colleague. Thing is, she is taken. However, she recently vented to my male mangager whose last day it was about her boyfriend. She is 20 now and has been with him 3 years and worries that she will eventual...

Does my guy friend have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I have a really close guy friend for about 2 years now, we have a lot in common and we talk just about everything. I treat him just as a close friend and I have always been open to him about any topic, when he needs someone to talk to, I'd be the ...

I am in love with someone I work with and can't get over him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I feel a bit stupid writing this at all, even if it is anonymous, but the thing is I am going crazy, and it is starting to make me unhappy. I don't really know where to begin, but basically I am in love with someone I work with. I have been wor...

Crush on the guy at the grocery store, what do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - Ok so a few weeks ago I went to a grocery store that I don't go to often, but I am really glad that I did. Because there I saw the most greatest looking guy working there. I went to the bathroom and on my way there, he smiled and said hi to me. ...

Should I allow my 75 year old boss to seduce me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I am 33. I just got in a new job where my boss is 75 up...After few days i felt that he is trying to seduce me. He is physically very active even at ths stage of life. he takes vitamins only. Please advice what to do...should I go for it ....or...

How do I flirt a little with this uber attractive customer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - I work at a Chickfila and occasionally there are attractive men that come through the drive thru. I have worked the drive thru every morning for 3 months and I had never seen this guy before. Now he has been coming through and he's just uber ...

I love my friend but he is married!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - Hello, I'm in love with my friend and he loves me as well madly! The problem lurks in the fact that he's married !! First of all, regard the fact that we are muslims while analyzing our story ( as for the traditions, customs, etc..) Las...

Is he really interested in me? Or am I just another conquest? And inexperienced too

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - i've been seeing someone who is way more experienced than me sexually and most of his past girls have been very experienced and are into casual sex. it makes me feel like i'm just another conquest and i am curious if he is interested in me just beca...

I scared him off. Can I interest him again, despite this set-back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - I finished seeing this guy about three weeks ago because he said he didnt know if he wanted a relationship or not and we have been talking to each other for the last two weeks and he said that things between us when we were seeing each other were ...

Is he politely saying no to my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - Dear lovely aunts. I am sooo in love with a guy I have known as a class-mate/friend for 4years. Recently, I realise we are flirting a lot more..I guess because I am kinda hitting on him. By nature he is a lot more flirtatious.Now this is the ...

Do you think he can guess from what I told him that the boy I like is him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - Me and this boy have been close for nearly two years the other day e told me he like two girls and he named them but over te two years ive known him I think I have fallen for him! So when he told me he like these two girls he asked who I like so I ...

What is the right thing to do? I need help with my feelings for this man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - I'm going crazy here please help I'm 38 I have 3 children and have met a really lovely man who I've been talking to for months he is a security guard at a club I go to and we talk quite a bit. He has full custody of his two children but also has a ...

Should I tell him about my religion if he asks me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

20 April 2012 (F) - There is this one guy that really likes me, but I'm nervous about him finding out about my religion. I'm not saying I would date someone who would let something like that get in the way of things or bother him. I still can't rid of the butterflies ...

Is he becoming more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4390 days ago

20 April 2012 (F) - I have had a crush on a PT at the gym for a while now, i know that he is single because he told me. every time he sees me he smiles we talk and he always kisses me on the cheek, could this be a sign that he may like me, i get really nervous ...

What did I do wrong? How should I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

20 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend (22) and I (20) have been together for 3 years. We are currently in a long distance relationship. This past weekend, my bf came to visit. As we walked into my dorm, we both noticed a girl staring at him for a long time. After a fe...

How can I get over her? She only sees me as a friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4391 days ago

19 April 2012 (M) - Lets call me J and her M. Weve been friends for 11 years, weve known each other since grade school. Iv had feelings for her since high school, I told her this before and she told me she didnt want to ruin out friendship, because I mean so much to ...

Is he genuinely interested in me? What's your view on his actions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - Sorry in advance if this turns quite long ... I don't like skipping details. The other night at the bar I met this guy, lets call him S. I had no idea who he was at first, but one of my friends who was with me did; so I had no problem with it ...

Is this love, lust, or do I just like him a lot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - How can you tell if what you feel is actual love, lust or just strong like? I met this guy in December and we have become friends, i met him when he had a gig in my town. we talk by email every couple days; and i go too his gigs once a month when ...

Does this mean he likes me, or is it my imagination?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - There is a guy I like, but I don/t know if he likes me. He keeps walking towards me then going back to where he came from. Tries to show off lot. Got him staring at me. Then when he tries to talk to me, I answer, but then he walks away. Does this ...

Did he blow me off? Was I too needy? How do I get to know him better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - Well, here's the story: A week ago or so, I had a small get together at my house. I asked two friends of mine that are sisters to invite a few people that we know to come. Long story short, it started off as just us three girls because several ...

I've developed feelings for the guy I'm hooking up with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - Okay so this is kind of a long explanation so bare with me guys. Alright so about a month and a half ago I got out of a two year long relationship, basically the guy was really controlling and I was just getting fed up with it. Anyways, about tw...

Guys, what do you look for in a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - Guys, what do you look for in a girl? This includes personality and looks. I know everyone is different. Also do u guys believe that when a guy is a player he can change once he meets that right girl??...