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*ivejust2bJess
writes:Ok so a few weeks ago I went to a grocery store that I don't go to often, but I am really glad that I did. Because there I saw the most greatest looking guy working there. I went to the bathroom and on my way there, he smiled and said hi to me. Then after I got done getting my groceries and headed to check out, he was the bagger in my checkout line and we started to talk a little bit. Truth is, I like him. Like really really like him. He is all I think about, and I can't get him out of my head. Even though I think he might be mentally slow, he really seems like a sweet guy and thats what I need mostin my life. What I need help is, how can I let him know how I feel and that I like him when all I do is see him at the grocery store every now and then? I dont know what his hours are, he doesn't have facebook, or any of that stuff. What do I say? What if he has a girlfriend already? He is just so wonderful and I never felt this way about anyone before, and I have no clue why. How do I deal with this? I really want to make him mine and treat him like he should be. Any advice? similar stories or experiances? anything would help me at this point. Thanks!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 April 2012):
I also think you should just go for it. You have nothing to lose, and as other have said it would be a shame for you to not do it and only regret it. I think you should maybe write a note with your phone number on it, and give it to him. Then all you have to do is wait. Maybe he'll contact you, maybe he won't. But it's best to try.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (24 April 2012):
 If you think he might be interested, you gotta just go for it. Give him your number as you're leaving and say something like if you ever want to get a coffee or something... Good luck! I have regretted not asking guys out before but I've never regretted going for it even if they turn me down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2012): Hey!
I know EXACTLY how u are feeling. First of all, forget what could go wrong. Take the negativity away and try and see this as a great opportunity for you. You really like him, and he seems to like you, you know where he works so make yourself familiar to him and just be polite friendly and chatty when you see him. This is a great chance to get talking when he's packing your bags, make excuses to talk to him, ask him where certain things are in the store etc.. He should get the message. If he does have a gf I'm pretty sure your gonna find out after some conversation. Then, when your in a conversation, just casually ask him for a coffee, you will soon find out if he likes you in that way. What you gonna lose? Worst case scenario, just don't go back to that store! Best case, you have a date & his number.
I had a situation like this myself, sometimes it's hard to make things happen as certain places you see someone you like isn't always the best time/ place to try and make more of it. But you HAVE to take the opportunity when it arises.
Good luck, make it happen.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (24 April 2012):
 Well the best thing to do is to make an effort and tell him you're interested in him. If you don't, there may be some time after that you would be kicking yourself for not taking a chance. If he really is what you say he is, and you truly do like him and think about him often, then you have to find a way to build up the courage to ask him for his number- or to give him yours.
And if he has a girlfriend or he declines to talk with you, at least you know you took chance and wouldn't be later wondering "What if?". As in "What if I asked him out?", or "What if he liked me also?".
I wish you the very best in your situation!
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