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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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He takes his phone everywhere...how do I get access to it to prove he is cheating?
Q. Hi can anyone help i have been happily married for nine years or so i thought when two weeks ago i dropped my husbands phone and he freeked out so when i thought about his reaction i thought he must be cheating on me oh and boy what a shock i had to ...
A. 7 June 2007: Hey babe, uve seen these pictures tell him.. i think that is all the evidence u need. he may not have cheated but the fact he has another womans half naked pics on his phone would worry and disturb me! mail me if u want to talk, by the way my answer ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guys says "you're pushing me away?"
Q. What does it mean when a guys says youre pushing me away? but at the same time tells u he loves u but yet u rarely hear fom him? Its a longdistance realitionship beeen "together" for about 1month now....
A. 7 June 2007: It basically means you dont want to allow him into ur problems.. pushing him away from you, away from ur life.. ive started doing that and i have done that to my friends, thats how i know (by the way) lol talk2 him let him know how much you like him ... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex and I'm too young to have a baby! What can I do??
Q. I have had unprotected sex and I'm young, too young to have a baby, its been a few weeks and I feel like I am, I'm worried to death because i cannot tell anyone, the thing is it only lasted a few min, and he didn't "come" at all, but pe, is a ...
A. 7 June 2007: Hey darlin, if its bin two weeks and ur tummy feels hard etc ur not pregnant its something else (go to the doc) take a pregnancy test then continue from there. if u r pregnant dont make a desision urself about having the baby make sure you allow ... (read in full...)
I cheated and he's not sure he'll ever trust me again! How do I earn his trust back?
Q. Help, Please!! I am trying to gain the trust back in a relationship. I was with a guy for a year. We were engaged and found out we are expecting a baby. But we are not together right now. This is where the problem comes in. I love him and want to ...
A. 7 June 2007: Hey chick one word of advice dont let anyone find out u r pregnant or having sex with this lad.. anyone who is under 12 and if they have sex they can be taken to court. id sugest u do take things slowly and if he cant forgive you then leave him hes ... (read in full...)
Ladies..... what do you think of nipple piercings on guys?
Q. honest opinions ladies - what do you think of nipple pearcings on men because I've just got mines done but I don't know what womens' opinions are on the matter?...
A. 7 June 2007: Hey everyone's got their opinions on the situation.. I particularly don't mind but I think it's sexual. lol =P mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
his phone called mine while he was getting the dance and I got to hear the stripper saying do you like that baby.
Q. My boyfriend went to a bachelor party and before he left I told him that I did not like the idea of strip clubs and he seemed to respond well to this however, once he was there "his friend" bought him a dance. Unfortunately his phone called mine ...
A. 7 June 2007: Hey babe i totaly understand my boyfriend (20) is going to one and thats what they are doing.. buttt after a long convo wiv ma mum n er bf the strippers arnt allowed to physically touch the male and same with the male and the stripper.. just think ... (read in full...)
I'm meeting up with my new boyfriend tomorrow and I'm soooooo nervous, I don't know what to say to him, any ideas?
Q. hey im 16, and im so nervous about meeting up with my new boyfriend 2moro! i dont know what to talk about im not good with conversations and i need help! can anyone suggest anything without saying do an activity because we cant thank you xxxxx...
A. 7 June 2007: ummm ur going out wiv him already? take sum1 wiv u.. i int gona tel u to do an activity if u meant that in a sexual way..=\.. talk about you, be yourself, say your likes and dislikes, he should do the same, hope i helped, mail me if yoo wonna talk ... (read in full...)
He fingered and said he felt something hard in my vagina! What's wrong...help!
Q. hey this is a bit of an odd question but im gunna ask it anyways. my Boyfriend and i have been together a while n when he fingered me he said he could feel a hard thing in my vagina!!! is there summit wring with me or is it supposed to be there...
A. 7 June 2007: The male answer (No1) is wrong.. the female answer (No2) is completely right, its your cervix chick .. if you find some alone time and insert a thumb like (No2) suggested and feel around you will fink it, it could be about 2 inches into your vagina ... (read in full...)
He wasn't on the up and up about a night out with the lads! Do I have a right to be upset?
Q. i have been with my bf for almost 3 yrs so we really love each other. he is goin away in 3 weeks for 2 months and i wont see him. he is also goin to a festival this weekend and has decided to go early tmo without telling me. when i rang him earlier ...
A. 7 June 2007: Hey babe u do have a reason to be upset, your boyfriend is going away for such a long time.. but the thing is.. you have to either 'be ok' with it or maybe make a promise to be there for each other when he returns because it will be hard to be ... (read in full...)
I love her but she's ignoring me on MSN messnger to flirt with another guy! What should I do?
Q. Am i being selfish for wanting more? i love my girlfriend of 3 months. shes everything i don't normally look 4 in a girl thats y its working so well i think anyways. in the past month shes seems 2 be ignoreing me more than ever. i tal...
A. 6 June 2007: Hey babe im not an expert on this but i think she is getting bored (not in a horrible way im so sorry to have to sya it like this =S) but i think she may have something for that other lad and she may find it difficult in ending the relationship. You ... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex and he 'came' inside me! Will I get pregnant?
Q. Ok I am 14 years old and i had unprotected sex with a guy that i been with for 9 months, he told me he came in me, i dont know if i might be pregnent but this happened like a week ago, will i be pregnent???...
A. 6 June 2007: Hey babe dont panick about anything kai, if he came inside you (ejaculated) then yea sorri 2 say this darlin but you could be pregnant, you need to get a pregnancy test or go to your local GP anywhere you can get a pregnancy test kai babe. dont ... (read in full...)
Are tattoos a turn-on or a turn-off for women?
Q. are tattoos a turnoff for most women? i have one tattoo at the moment, girls don't seem to mind that, but im looking at getting another one on my back, legs and my forearm.... do you think this would be enough to make some girls lose interest...
A. 6 June 2007: Hey i find it so sexii that my boyfriend has tatoos, i think its a turn-on just dont go too far and get too manii =] mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
Does he just want me for sexual activities?
Q. Right I like this boy and he seems to like me and he invites me out alot and we go and we'll kiss often but really just talking, but now I'm not too sure if he likes me or if he is just trying to use me for sexual activites or something like that, ...
A. 6 June 2007: Hey chick you dont say why you are getting these worries of him wanting you for sexual activities.. mail me this info if you want.. if he tries to pressurise you into anything say no unless you are perfectly sure about it.. if you dont feel safe ... (read in full...)
Social services is charging my baby's father - my boyfriend - with sexual assault!! Can we get the charges dropped??
Q. i been with my boyfriend for 3 years now we just had a baby in february 07. social services are charging him with sexual assault because he is 29 years old and i'm 17 years old. do i have a chance to drop that charge? ...
A. 6 June 2007: Hey darlin, umm in the UK this wouldnt be that much of a problem as you both seem to be in 'love' because of the such a long relationship.. im not sure about the US but id suggest getting a lawyer ASAP, the court will take notice on the fact you ... (read in full...)
He tells his best friend (female) that 'he loves her'. What should I make of all this?
Q. I have a new boyfriend its only been a month, he introduced me to his whole family already, which is great but i dont know why he would im confused weather he likes me alot or not, and the reason why is because his best friend is a girl she lives in ...
A. 6 June 2007: the fact you have met her is good. i think you should try and forget your mind playing tricks on you making you think more about the situation.. she sounds like just a good friend to your boyfriend.. maybe spend some time with the friend, just you ... (read in full...)
Can I tell from her poonani if she's sleeping with other men??
Q. I am 25 years ols and very healthy.I am dating a female who is 35 years old and mother of two.I have sex with her twice a month.She is seperated fom her husband.Our sexual relationship is going fine.I am planning to settle with her.I sometimes feel ...
A. 6 June 2007: well.. sorri but i gota say the word 'poonani' makes me laugh.. babe i dont realy think you can tell from her vagina.. i think its mainly you thats gotta ask her.. if there are no obvious reasons for you to think she is cheating then maybe its just ... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and a little confused about sex!!
Q. hiya, im 18 nearly 19 and im feelin a bit lost lol! ive never had a serious realtionship, a proper snog, done stuf with a guy or had sex! im seeing sum1 at the moment and so i kno tht stuf is on its way if u get me and im fed up of 'pleasing myse...
A. 6 June 2007: Hey babe, theres absolutly no problem wit tht wot so ever.. goin down on a girl is where the partner uses oral aka (licking out) like what McBirdie said, 'if you have someone's head between your legs, someone is going down on you' thats it =]. When ... (read in full...)
I like to wait until I'm desperate for a pee until I have sex because I have better orgasms... are there any health risks?
Q. Hi just a quick qu. When i am with my bf i wait until i need 2 pee before having sex as when we have sex and I have a full bladder i find the orgasm more intense just wondering if there are any health risks?? thanks!!...
A. 6 June 2007: Hey darlin. Trust me, you don't want to be doing this!! Have you ever heard of the honeymoon disease (honeymoonitis)? This is also known as cistitis. It is an infection of the bladder. When you have sex, and have a full bladder, you may let out ... (read in full...)
I told her that I love her and she says she's no good for me and to forget her! Why?
Q. i'm male 21 and i love a girl of 25. The tragedy is that she enjoys a lot talking with me, sharing his everything with me. Both of us don't give importance and priority to sex. I really love her and I will not be able to live without her. ...
A. 5 June 2007: hey, maybe shes got a guilty concience.. or maybe she doesnt wish to be in such a commited relationship.. or maybe she has decided you both arnt meant to be.. there could be many reasons.. its up to you to find them out.. if she is telling you she ... (read in full...)
This older guy left his girlfriend for me! I don't want to get in too deep - what should I do??
Q. This older guy said he was falling in love with me, after having sex more than once. He split up with his girlfriend and went all weird, even though we were doing this stuff when he was with her. But two days ago i ended up staying round his. What ...
A. 5 June 2007: um from what DV1 said no it is not rape.. you said older right? this lad could be any age.. maybe even just a year older! and he would NOT go to prison as you are OVER 16 (UK)and as long as you both agree to sex, he isnt raping you. anyway babe.. ... (read in full...)
Now we now have to put our lives on hold while he is tested for every STI there is. How could he be so reckless?
Q. Last Friday my boyfriend (of nearly four years) flew out to hong kong (on business) and went out with a few friends on saturday night. He called me on monday to say that somehow he had got completely drunk and somehow a girl had gone back to his...
A. 1 June 2007: im amazed how wel uve kept calm, hes cheated on you and you are waiting for an sti test.. but the most important question is.. are you goin to stay or go.. i dont actualy see the question.. i only see a rhetorical question? um all i can say is if he ... (read in full...)
Do you think I over reacted when he didn't call me for a whole day?
Q. Dear cupid me and my boyfriend of 5 years just broke up because about 2 weeks ago he disappeared and i waited for him to call all day and he never did until the next day and he could not give me a reason so i got mad at him and he hung up on me so...
A. 1 June 2007: hia babe, the most important words that you have written are 'he has moved on' that to me means that he maybe has found someone else, and/or just wants a break from the relationship.. i suspect he maybe playing a guilt trip on you, by ignoring you, ... (read in full...)
Why is it that most (well nearly all) paedophiles are men?
Q. Why is it that most (well nearly all) paedophiles are men?...
A. 1 June 2007: i dont know and im not sure yoo will ever have the right answer.. but i found it was something to do with the male testosterone level.. i have strong feelings against paedophiles so i think that is all i can say. mail me if yoo ever want to talk x x ... (read in full...)
I am 18 and have never kissed a girl. Why am I such a loser?
Q. hi, i am almost 18 years old and i have NEVER kissed a girl. i know it is very rare and trust me you would not want to be me. i just want to know some possible reasons why i am such a loser....
A. 1 June 2007: hia babe ur not a loser! dnt fink like that!! the girls around yoo maybe shy orr yoo mite just be shy.. orrr yoo may never have met the right person yoo wonna share that 'special' kiss wiv? there is nothin rare about it.. trust me babe! mail me if ... (read in full...)
Someone has posted a picture of my boyfriend in his boxer shorts to a dating website and are continuing to do so, it's stressing us both out.
Q. I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 25. We've been together since we were 18. Today I heard that he'd posted a photograph of himself in his briefs/boxer shorts on a dating website from a friend in work. I've seen the profile on the site - but my boy...
A. 1 June 2007: hia chick, first of all.. how did the person posting theses pics get the pics of ur boyfriend?? i dont understand that bit (mail me 2 explain if yoo wont 2 talk) .. like the other answers have said.. contact the website, if they do not delete it ... (read in full...)
He asked me to marry him 3 yrs ago! Were not even officially engaged, am I wasting my time ?
Q. my bf asked me to marry him 3 years ago after a fight and a mini break up. he did it in his car when he picked me up and he didnt have a ring. i then went looking round jewellers to get an idea of what i liked- alone, he didnt come with me. ...
A. 1 June 2007: Hia babe im amazed that yoo were so calm that he said no way! i would be mortified.. a simple no darling not that much would have been sufice! id talk to him, say yoo wont to know if yoo are engaged, if so, you want a ring, if not then its up to ... (read in full...)
He told me he had a 3some before us, trouble is I now want to know alllllll the details despite it hurting!!
Q. when we first met my boyfriend told me he had had a threesome in the past i didnt want to know this. we have been together for ages and it is eating me alive to know the details. i feel like i need to know but i dont really want to know because...
A. 1 June 2007: hia babe i know completely wot ur on about its so hard to forget things like that.. yoo wont to know but deep inside yoo know its hurtin yoo cos yoo wish he wos with yoo. but yoo gotta remember.. the relationship didnt work out with her.. he didnt ... (read in full...)
We've had sex twice but now he's not calling me...
Q. I have been dating a guy for 3 weeks. we had sex on our second date. he says he is ready for a serious relationship. we work very close so i see him everyday but thats all he does not call. we had sex again but since then he has not called what ...
A. 1 June 2007: personally i think wot DV1 said, hes just there and wanting to be your sex buddy, ask for a valid reason to why he isnt callin yoo, yoo deserve better. mail me if yoo wona talk x x x... (read in full...)
Me and my girlfriend had a huge argument and she hit me!
Q. Me and my girlfriend had a huge argument and she hit me. I dont mean like a slap a full on attack. I dont know what to do i really love her, im walking round with bruises all over my body. This isnt the first time she has lashed out at me wha...
A. 1 June 2007: hia babe, leav her .. shes got an anger problem.. say she either goes 2 get it sorted or u cant deal with it. hope i helped, mail me if u wona talk x x x... (read in full...)
I want to get a mohawk (im a girl) but im afraid of what people will say.
Q. hi. I want to get a mohawk (im a girl) but im afraid of what people will say. i dont want to be bald all the way on the sides just short kind of. can someone help me find pictures or somthing so i can get an idea of what i want. ...
A. 1 June 2007: Hia darlin, its ur body do wot u like bout it, yea u wil hav ppl hu like it, n ppl hu dnt, its got nufin 2 do wif them.. its ur decision.. go for it if ur realy sure x x x mail me if u wona talk x x x... (read in full...)
I got on my boyfriend's PC, he was talking with this girl and they were saying that they liked each other and that I was a complication!!!
Q. Hello. Recently i managed to hack into my boyfriends internet account and found him talking to this girl at work. They were saying that they liked each other and that I was a complication! Although you can see nothing actually happened. In Januar...
A. 1 June 2007: hia darlin that is sumfin i rly dnt fink u shud stand for! he has clearly cheated on you (the STI) and i think you shud get out babe, yea the hardest thing to do.. but hes a cheater.. darlin im sorry 2 say it but my advice is tell him its over, you ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and want a relationship, but I fret about the size of my penis..any advice?
Q. Hi iam 17 and still a virgin i would love to have a relationship with a girl but iam very insecure about the size of my penis as it is only 6 and a half inches when erect should i be woried or am i fretin about nothing ...
A. 31 May 2007: hia darlin take a look at this http://www.coolnurse.com/penis_size.htm your penis size is completely normal there is nor reason to fret and also its not how big it is, its wot u do with it that counts.. mail me if yoo wona talk x x x... (read in full...)
He taking a female friend to the cinema and I'm jealous. How do I deal with this 'jealousy bug'?
Q. My boyfriend recently bumped into an old friend and agreed to go to the cinema with her, just the two of them. I felt a bit uncomfortable with this so asked if he could take a friend with him just to put my mind at rest. I know he loves me, and i ...
A. 31 May 2007: Hia babe gawd i understand wot yoo r feelin at the moment, i have been in the same situation once in my life but like wot kenny said yoo cant realy get up to that much in a cinema chick but the worst thing yoo can do is follow them.. cos i thaught ... (read in full...)
What should I do if I'm talking to a boy but he won't really tell me his feelings because he thinks he will get hurt if he falls in love again?
Q. What should I do if I'm talking to a boy but he won't really tell me his feelings because he thinks he will get hurt if he falls in love again?...
A. 31 May 2007: hia chick, giv the guy a bit ov space, if yoo n him r ment to be then i would say givin him time n space (time to get to know yoo will make him betta and maybe then yoo to could be a couple? hope i helped chick x x x mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
We broke up and now I find it very difficult to trust men.
Q. My ex boyfriend was really popular with girls and when I was with him people were always telling me that he was cheating on me. I used to get really upset about it, cry about it and was really disbelieving of them. But then when I broke up with him ...
A. 31 May 2007: hia babe wot hes done is cruel but darlin be thankful your rid of him.. dont let him ruin wot youve got for the future.. you will meet someone who is right for you and spend your future with them.. there is always going to be something gone wrong in ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gave her ex blow jobs, why am I finding it hard to deal with this?
Q. My girlfriend gave her ex blow jobs, why am I finding it hard to deal with this? Sometimes when i kiss her i think yuck, Thats only happened twice in the 2years we've been together. Just knowing that she gave an ex partner a blow job is disgustin...
A. 31 May 2007: hia chick dont worry, my boyfriend was exactly like you, the past is the past, yea she has given someone oral before but she obviously didnt like them or she would still be with them.. as to you saying he was good looking.. same.. she would still be ... (read in full...)
Every time he puts on a condom he goes limp. How can we fix this?
Q. I have been with my bf fot 14 months. We started having sex back last august. We have only had sex like 15 times since as i still get a bit anxious and after a while feel pain when having sex. He finds that when we have finished foreplay and are...
A. 31 May 2007: hia chick, the pill doesnt always make you put on weight.. it didnt to me, every person if different.. if that is the only way you and your boyfriend manage to have sex then i agree with candy, kiss him whilst he or you put it on, because you ... (read in full...)
I lost his number and asked him for it again but he said no.
Q. i don't no what to do? help ok i really like a guy at work and i heard he likes me so i gave him my number and he text me so i could have his number i was so happy. He's 22 and im turnin 17 next month and don't worry he knows. but i deleted his nu...
A. 31 May 2007: there is a secret rule amongst workers where it is frowned upon to date another work colleage, and you mentiooned about things going round about you to, id say either arrange to meet up with him, and then get to know each other a bit more and then ... (read in full...)
Why do I have to do all the work when we're having sex?
Q. hi ive been getting kind of annoyed lately because in bed it seems as if im always doing all the work. I mean its fine to do it sometimes but I would like to get some pleasure back. Really hard to explain. but i dont know what to do. can someone ...
A. 31 May 2007: hia babe talk to him, its all very well u satisfyin u in the bed but you need satisfyin ur self, not ina cheeky way just drop it carefully into the convo sayin u dont wanan be the one doin all the work.. if he doesnt understand refuse until he does, ... (read in full...)
Mom found a condom wrapper in my bedroom. She now says my bf and I are not allowed to be alone together, here! Is she being unreasonable? or is she right?
Q. Right this is a long one so i need to find a place to start. Well im 15. Have been with my 17 year old boyfriend for 5 months. i was moving my room around with my mum nd she found a condom wrapper. She at first was pretty ok about it, but then she ...
A. 31 May 2007: hia chick even though i hate saying it, she is right.. i know this might not mean anything but atm i am 16, when i was 15 my mum walked in on me and my boyf (19 at the time) she flipped and grounded me for 2 weeks but now we have been together for ... (read in full...)
I think I had an orgasm! My hands and teeth were tingling!! Am I right?
Q. i think i had an orgasm on saturday night but am not 100% sure. If it was then wow! nd if not then an orgasm must be even more wow! we were having sex for a good 45 mins to an hour. Alot of it is a blur to me. After i was really out of breath. ...
A. 31 May 2007: hia chick yea id say you did babe =] even so like India said you came out of it happy which is the best thing ever! x x x... (read in full...)
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