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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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I have a bf, but I have very strong feelings for my female friend. I don't want to detroy relationships or hurt anyone! What do I do?
Q. Ok, im 18 and at uni. Ive had a boyfriend for 6 months who is really great but im not sure if I wanna be with him cos I think ive developed feelings for a friend. I met a girl at uni in September and we got along so well. When we had to move she ...
A. 27 August 2007: hey babe, that's great.. i wish u all the luck i cud !! and it's great you still have a great friendship with your ex.. mail me if you would like to talk x x x x... (read in full...)
I wake up with bruises, why is this happening?
Q. welll, my problem is more medicalll. i wake up and i have bruises of my hips. my mom jokingly said that i do that to myself cuz i hate my big waist. im curvy, :] but then she said not to worry. but i think she might be right? help!...
A. 25 August 2007: Hi babe, i would see ur doctor, and explain what is happenin.. and then if they think it is serious enough they will probly run some tests and maybe watch you sleep to see if you are indeed doing it to yourself and then so on.. i hope ihelped, mail ... (read in full...)
Living with clamidia a year, does it affect fertility and is there surgery to remedy it in this case?
Q. Oh i had clamidia for about a year. I finally got it treated and taken care of. See the problem is the std causes infertility. Do you think since i had it for so long it probably took effect on me already? Is there surgery out there to fix it or is ...
A. 25 August 2007: Hi bbe, yes you could now be infertile.. and to my knowledge it isnt 100% treatable.. go to the doctor or a gyne wiv your querie.. i hope i helped, mail me if you woild like to talk x x... (read in full...)
My friend has problems with girls because of his large penis!
Q. I'm asking this for a guy friend here, his penis is overwhelmingly large and he cannot find a girl to have sex with him because they are scared of the pain...what kind of girls should he approach in the future?...
A. 25 August 2007: Hey bbe, i know of someone who has this problem.. and all he can do is get to know a girl and then when it comes to it (havin sex) then just act as though it isnt a problem.. thats all he can hope for.. i hope i helped , mail me if you would like to ... (read in full...)
I think my step-mom tried to poison me!
Q. I think my stepmom tried to poison me. About ten years ago my dad remarried this woman who was a real bitch. I had just moved with my mother when they had started dating so I didn't really have much contact with them except for a couple of weeks ...
A. 24 August 2007: Hi bbe, my bf has been ill for four days, with nothin more than a cold but he has been throwing up etc like that.. it doesnt mean she poisened you.. but if your still have these doubts then just dont go 2 see her etc..... (read in full...)
I like a girl and she wants to have sex, but there is a problem...
Q. hey everyone i met this new gurl and i rlly like her and she wants to have sex but evereytime i have sex i have this problem. i come to fast and then its ruined i was wondering if anyone could help me out or have any advice plz help...
A. 24 August 2007: Hey bbe, most men have this problem, try slowing down when u think your gonna cum.. and when you think your gettin close, maybe stop for a lil bit and kiss.. thts wot my bf does.. i hope i helped, mail me if u wana talk x x... (read in full...)
I was raped when I was 7, I'm now 12 and it's ruining my life.
Q. Okay this is how it is: I was raped when I was 7, I'm now 12 and you see it's ruining my life because the thing is I have nightmares about that time all the time so I stay up all night... then I'm late for school and don't concentrate properly...
A. 23 August 2007: Hi babe, i was raped at 12 and didnt tell anyone until 15 which wasnt good because they still havent caught him which is the main cause of my distress, nightmares, i see him (but im not) even when i was at school.. u need to talk to someone.. ... (read in full...)
Why is it such a turn on to watch my wife having sex with another man?
Q. why is it such a turn on to watch my wife haveing sex with another man...
A. 22 August 2007: hi, um some people are into this sort of sex stuff.. but in the long term i think u may get hurt by it.. it could be many reasons it turns u on.. watchin ur wife get a great orgasm she maybe didnt get from u.. n watching her body.. im not sure..... (read in full...)
Do guys prefer innocent or not so innocent girls?
Q. I'm wondering do guys prefer innocent looking girls or girls who dont look so innocent? It seems to me that guys only like girls who dont look innocent. I myself look really innocent and this annoys me because guys seem to not go for me, they go ...
A. 22 August 2007: maybe ur tryin 2 hard? be ur old self.. dont try at all.. if they dont like you then thats tough for them.. u will find someone.. i hope i helped, mail me if u wanna talk x x... (read in full...)
I have a problem with the "lower area". Do you think she'll be freaked out?
Q. Alright I'm wondering if this is enough to weird a girl out.. and it willsound a bit gross, but w/e. so here goes... I had a whitehead on the base of my penis, in other words, its basically a white bump, its not massive, but is definatley noticabl...
A. 22 August 2007: hey bbe, if she rly likes u so much thn she shudnt b worried.. if its just a normal spot leave it alone cos if u pop it thn it will spread.. if u r too worried about it then go to the doctor who will sort u out.. i hope i helped, mail me if u wanna ... (read in full...)
What is the average age to lose your virginity?
Q. what is the average age to lose your virginity? it's just that i'm a 20 year old male and i haven't had sex ever. yet when someone asked when i lost my virginity and i said i hadn't they called me a weirdo. am i quite old not to have had sex?...
A. 22 August 2007: hey babe dont worry AT ALL!! my bf was a virgin before he met me ( the he fell in love with me which is why he gave it away 2 me ) and i was 16 and he was 20.. honestly dont listen to them.. there isnt an average age.. its when you feel right and ... (read in full...)
He asked me if I 'came'. How do girl's 'come'??
Q. Me and my boyfriend were having cybersex and after we had finished he asked me whether i had comed. But i didn't know girls could come. Please help!...
A. 22 August 2007: hey bbe, the white stuff which is a mix of discharge and other stuff.. i rly think u shud learn more things about it.. if you came you would see it in your knickers.. hope i helped bbe, mail me if u would like to talk x xx x... (read in full...)
How do girl's masturbate without using toys?
Q. How do girls masturbate? I mean without using "toys"?...
A. 22 August 2007: rubbing the clit ..mail me if u wanna talk bbe x x x... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to a 13 yr old girl! How do I stop this urge?
Q. Ok this is going to sound wierd and make me sound creepy and like a pedophile. I'M NOT!! I am attracted to a 13 year old girl. I am 17. How do I stop my urges toward a girl this age? I mean I have always dated younger girls but never one 4 years ...
A. 22 August 2007: Hey babe, my bf is 21 and im 16 - thats 5 yrs different. The only thing that ppl wil pik up on is that she is 13 and 5 yrs under the consent.. if u rly wanna forget it with her, stay away frm her for a bit.. use hobbies to take ur mind off things.. ... (read in full...)
if he does not put his penis inside your vagina but still busts because we are just fooling around can you still become pregnant?
Q. Hi, I am a 16 year old who is not to sure about having sex and have questions about it - if he does not put his penis inside your vagina but still busts because we are just fooling around can you still become pregnant? ...
A. 21 August 2007: hey babe, there is a posiblilty if the penis wads next to the vagina when he came.. get tested babe, the easiest way to find out.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is now friends with my ex f*** buddy!
Q. hmm sticky situation. My boyfriend has started talking to my ex fuk buddy and there getting along quite well. the thing is they both know stuff aobut me that if the other found out i could end up in a bit of a mess :/ i dont know what to do, h...
A. 21 August 2007: hey babe we aint spoke in a while :s nehoo tell them both not 2 talk because of the reasons.. mail me babe x x x x... (read in full...)
When you get older and your hair turns grey, does the same happen to your pubic hair?
Q. This is just something i wondered out of curiousity, when you get older your hair turns grey, does the same happen to your pubic hair?...
A. 21 August 2007: hey yea it duz lol hope i helped :) mail me if u want to talk x x... (read in full...)
I cheat on my fiancee all the time, but its his fault cause he got me into computers
Q. I am engaged to a wonderful man who i love,but i am addicted to cheating.It seems so easy,they are all available on the internet. He has almost caught me twice,but luckily i turned it around on him and now he has to prove to me that he`s not a ...
A. 21 August 2007: Hi. what i have just read is completly wrong! Your partner has MOST LIKELY stayed FAITHFUL where you have been cheating and PROUDLY sayin u managed to turn it around on him. That to me is disgusting. It is most certainly not his fault you got into ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has all these online gay/bi friends and it bothers me
Q. Hi, i just found out my boyfriend has some gay/bisexual "friends" back home in a popular website. I didnt even know he had a page until i saw him in my friend's list!! he didn't add me at first i would send requests and never accpet me! and gave me ...
A. 21 August 2007: hey hun.. in actual fact, a lot of people have friends which are happy with there sexuality like being gay or bi.. and your bf obviously finds them friendly, and nothin more!.. i personaly think u shud just forget about it.. can i ask u something ... (read in full...)
Help me! I want to have sex with my own sister
Q. hello i need advise i am 16 years old and i want to have sex with my sister she is realy attractive i dont know wat to do plz help...
A. 21 August 2007: hey babe, i looked it up, its incest but not in actual fact illegal. i would seriously think about how to get around this without hurtin ur sister.. dont tell her!! mail me bbe if u wana talk.. n let me help u? it will take ages for me 2 write it ... (read in full...)
Are they really addicted or just being guys?
Q. When guys say that they are addicted to porn, is that REALLY that bad or are they just normal people being guys?...
A. 21 August 2007: hey bbe, if they say they are addicted, all u can do is believe um.. i hope i helped :)
Mail me if u wanna talk x x x... (read in full...)
I want to dump my friend and she is not taking the hint
Q. Hey, I have this friend that I have known for a yearish. And I see her quite a bit but I don't want to keep seeing her because I have other friends that I prefer to hang around with. She keeps calling me up and asking me if I want to hang out, and I ...
A. 21 August 2007: hi bbe, tell her straight, i had a friend like this, and i told her straight and my reasons why i didnt want to talk again and she took it straight.. giving hints isnt enough. i hope i helped :)
Mail me if u wanna talk x x x... (read in full...)
I slept with my ex (who has a girlfriend and a baby)... now I've found out I have genital warts - how can I tell him??
Q. i recently slept with my ex who has a girlfriend and a baby and i just found out i have genital warts. how can i tell him without people gettin hurt...
A. 21 August 2007: hey babe, the genital warts wernt off him then? well u are gonna have to tell him, soon, because if he has now slept with his gf then he will have to explain.. tell him babe say u have just found out urself.. i hope i helped, mail me if u wanna talk ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and want a baby!
Q. Hi everyone. My name is Robyn and I'm 17. I've been going through a lot lately and I don't know what to do. All last year I was very ill and I thought at one point I was pregnant. When I found out I wasn't, I was devastated. I want a baby so ...
A. 21 August 2007: hey babe as much as u dnt wanna hear it, in order to get a house and raise a family u need ur grades n u need to continue into futher education to get a good job. i was completely like you, still am, just you have 2 realise u do infact need to have ... (read in full...)
Do dildo's hurt?
Q. Hiya I really need your help I get orgasmic when i rub my pussy but i am too scared to use a dildo up me does it hurt and and how can i masterbate so i can orgasm good Thanks Lou...
A. 21 August 2007: hey bbe, av u already had sex? iif u have and are well lubed when you use the dildo then u will be fine, n if you arnt then just stop.. u are in control. I hope i helped, mail me if u wanna talk x x x... (read in full...)
I'm a girl of 18 and the boy i like is 14.
Q. I am an 18 year old girl who likes a 14 year old boy. Is that allright and what should I do? I really like him.......
A. 21 August 2007: hey babe, u must know there is somethin not right bout it.. n my opinion is tht he is 14 and if u dont do nefin.. ''out of the ordinary' wiv him u wil b ok babe, i hope i helped, mail me if u wanna talk x x x... (read in full...)
I want to go on the pill to help with me periods but i'm only 12.
Q. Hi ya how do you ask your mum to go on the pill as im only 12 i have no intencion in having sex its just when im on im on heavy plz halp...
A. 21 August 2007: hey babe.. that int a problem, if you want to tell your mum about it, explain you promise there is nothin more about it apart from your periods being realy heavy.. and if she doesnt believe you, you may have 2 go n get it urself.. i hope i helped ... (read in full...)
He keeps pressuring me to give him a blowjob and I don't want to!
Q. My boyfriend is two years older than me and has had a lot of sexual experience, whereas I have had none. He keeps pressuring me into giving him a blowjob but I don't want to. I don't know how to tell him to stop pressuring me and will he think less ...
A. 21 August 2007: hey babe, this isnt a relationship you want to keep in. this lad is pressurin u n he obviously knows u dont wanna but keeps askin u.. tell him straight, no u dnt want to giv him a blowjob n then if he continues u have to say it int workin cos he ... (read in full...)
Do I have sex with him and take things slow or put it off until my past has faded?
Q. Hi, I'm almost 15 and my boyfriend is 16 next month. I have been in a loving relationship with him for 15 months now. I love and trust him with every fibre of my being! We have had a 'sexual' relationship for about 10 months - by 'sexual' I mean ...
A. 21 August 2007: hey babe, u say u had the pregnancy scare with foreplay.. dont worry, any type of foreplay which doesnt include both ur genital areas touchin then u cant get pregnant. i no wot u mean about the scaredness, as somethin has happened to u ion the past, ... (read in full...)
Recently the boy I fancy accidently saw my pubes. He described them as being ''bristly''...
Q. I know this is really stupid but it is really getting to me. I am 15. Recently the boy I fancy accidently saw my pubes. He described them as being ''bristly'' and said that was ''not a good look for a girl''. I got really embarrassed as I did not ...
A. 21 August 2007: hey bbe, wot he probly meant is having hair, most lads that age dnt like a girl to hav hair down thur so it kinda probly meant tht, bt dnt u go changin anythin for a lad! so keep urself as u r! hope i helped, mail me if u wanna talk x x x... (read in full...)
Why does he come so fast during sex?
Q. Well..... this question is a bit upsetting to me and I really want to know why my man has this problem and how can help him over come this Here goes, my man and I enjoy having sex and all but he comes 2 fast like in under 2 minutes. Now orally we're ...
A. 20 August 2007: hey bbe, i cant understand y u r wiv sum1 over 16? and u are 10-12, i mean i can cos my bf is 5 yrs older n im 16 bt u hav a sex life wiv him.. this isnt gona b good if the police find out.. um anyway bbe, all im gonna say is make sure u use ... (read in full...)
We want to lose our virginity, but couldnt get it in
Q. were both virgins and we love each other very deeply weve been together a long time we want to have sex but he couldnt get in i tried relaxing i thought i was calm he soothed me the whole time he was right on top of it but he doesnt want to hurt me ...
A. 20 August 2007: hey bbe, has he performed oral on you? or maybe wet his fingers and finger you, which can open you up, keep doin that for a while.. dont forget to use contraception babe.. i hope i helped, mail me if u want to talk x x... (read in full...)
Is being pregnant a possibility here?
Q. Okay my boyfriend came and he out his hand down his pants, and than he fingered me.. Is being pregnant a possibility?...
A. 20 August 2007: hey bbe, if there was sperm on the finger then yes. just to be safe take a pregnancy test. I hope i helped, mail me if u want to talk x x... (read in full...)
How do women have sex?
Q. I'm not a lesbian or anything but i just wondered, how do two women have sex with one another?...
A. 20 August 2007: hey bbe, through oral sex, fingering, using toys such as vibrators and dildos, by rubbing both there genital areas together, things like that.. hope i helped, mail me if u want to talk x x... (read in full...)
I have morning sickness and i'm scared.
Q. i am 12 years old. and i lost my virginity about a week ago. i have morning sickness i have strange cravings for pickles before i go to bed. but it may just be bkuz of my diet but i am scared.. wait no REALLY REALLY REALLY SUPER DUPER SCARED!!! ...
A. 20 August 2007: hey bbe, u only lost ur virginity a week ago, these symptoms dont start already. take a pregnancy test to make ur worries go away. use protection, ur only young.. hope i helped, let me no how u get on x x ... (read in full...)
What are the side effects of going on the pill?
Q. can anyone tell me the side effects [if any] of going on the pill please??? Just out of curiosity Thanks xxxx...
A. 20 August 2007: hey bbe, the side effects are on this website http://www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk/articles/article.aspx?articleId=415§ionId=15
I hope i helped babe, mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
Will the weight i have gained make him leave me?
Q. I have put on weight recently and dont let my boyfriend see me completly naked and he is getting upset about it, will he get bored and move on?...
A. 20 August 2007: hey bbe, if your boyfriend is gettin upset, it is probly because he feels u dont trust him to not laught or leave you because u gained weight.. If your boyfriend moves on and gets bored then he isnt worth the hassel.. u shouldnt worry bbe.. mail me ... (read in full...)
Scared she'll tell people about my circumcised penis!
Q. I am a 15 year old male and circumcised, me and my friend want to have sex for fun but im scared she will tell everyone about my penis please help?...
A. 20 August 2007: umm rite bbe, its no big deal.. honestly there isnt a problem with it.. if she is your friend, why will she go and tell someone? if u are unsure then dont have sex with her.. trust her!! i hope i helped, mail me if u would like to talk x... (read in full...)
My little sister is saying my boyfriend has touched her boobs and pubic area...
Q. All my life my family have been ruining my life and making things hard for me. I was with my boyfriend for 6 years and I have one baby and my family hate my boyfriend and they are always spliting us up. Now after 6 years my little sister is saying ...
A. 20 August 2007: Anything like this is serious. either your sister has something realy wrong with her for lying about such matter, or she is telling the truth and you should go to the police. If they do infact go to the police then id assume she was infact telling ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant to him again an he's said he wants me to get rid of it, if I don't then he does not want anything to do with me.
Q. I've been with my Asian boyfriend for 3 years, in that 3 years he was made to get married by his dad. I've got 1 child to him and another to another man but he has brought her up as his own, now I am pregnant to him again an he's said he wants me to ...
A. 20 August 2007: that is what my dad said to my mum, when she had me at 15 and became pregnant with my brother 10 yrs later.. It is your choice, if you wish to stay with this man and lose a baby, then do it. If you wont be pushed around and wish to keep the baby ... (read in full...)
Am I the only one or does anyone else feel that dearcupid makes you paranoid?
Q. Am I the only one that finds that dearcupid makes me paranoid reading about all the different questions people ask(cheating with bosses, having sex with brothers and sisters etc) Am I the only one or does anyone else feel that dearcupid makes you ...
A. 20 August 2007: hi bbe, it would be the same with any question site, because all you base your reason on is, all the questions. im sure you arnt the only one, but dearcupid has helped a lot of people. i found this site ( i cant remember how ) but it was when i was ... (read in full...)
I have a bf, but I have very strong feelings for my female friend. I don't want to detroy relationships or hurt anyone! What do I do?
Q. Ok, im 18 and at uni. Ive had a boyfriend for 6 months who is really great but im not sure if I wanna be with him cos I think ive developed feelings for a friend. I met a girl at uni in September and we got along so well. When we had to move she ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, talk to her, i realy think you should ask her, many people will say you should keep quiet, but i think, you need to know inside wether she has the same feelings, i would certainly say you are bi, but im not sure about lesbien, but i suppose ... (read in full...)
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