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We've had sex twice but now he's not calling me...

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Question - (31 May 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2007)
A female Trinidad and Tobago age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have been dating a guy for 3 weeks. we had sex on our second date. he says he is ready for a serious relationship. we work very close so i see him everyday but thats all he does not call. we had sex again but since then he has not called what should i do?

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A female reader, weebee United Kingdom +, writes (19 June 2007):

Hi,

Looks to me he was only using you for sexual fulfilment. I dont think you need to ask this guy any questions about why he hasnt called because at the end of the day we both know why he hasnt and thats because he baked his cake and ate it. Why would the guy want to date you when he can sleep with you without having to.

I would suggest keeping ypur cool, let him come to you and when he does as im sure he will all you gotta say is the 1st 2 times where a mistake lets not make it a 3rd.

Everybody wants what they cant have always remember that with the next guy you meet and let him wait awhile before sleeping with them. You will see the difference.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007):

He seems the sort of guy who says he wants a relationship just to lull you into a false sense of security. A false sense of security so he can have sex with you. He picks you up when he wants sex and then doesn't bother with you after. Remember actions speak louder than words, if he really wanted a relationship he would be phoning/texting/seeing you as much as he could. I bet he'll phone you again when he's looking for sex. If you really are looking for a relationship then this guy is not the one for you. But if you just want no strings attached sex then carry on. Remember just because you sleep with a guy doesn't mean he's going to fall in love with you. Men can have sex without any emotional involvement, they are very different to us girls.

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2007):

love-him agony auntpersonally i think wot DV1 said, hes just there and wanting to be your sex buddy, ask for a valid reason to why he isnt callin yoo, yoo deserve better. mail me if yoo wona talk x x x

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (1 June 2007):

DV1 agony auntI think that he's just looking for sexual fulfillment. If he was looking for more, he would be doing everything possible to see you. Tell him that you're not going to be his sex buddy.

DV1

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