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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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Am I the only one or does anyone else feel that dearcupid makes you paranoid?
Q. Am I the only one that finds that dearcupid makes me paranoid reading about all the different questions people ask(cheating with bosses, having sex with brothers and sisters etc) Am I the only one or does anyone else feel that dearcupid makes you ...
A. 20 August 2007: hi bbe, it would be the same with any question site, because all you base your reason on is, all the questions. im sure you arnt the only one, but dearcupid has helped a lot of people. i found this site ( i cant remember how ) but it was when i was ... (read in full...)
My 12 year old daughter is viewing graphic porn!
Q. My 12 year old daughter looks at porn on the internet. I already talked to her about it. But I'm worried. She's been going on some really nasty sites. Sites that use the F word, P word, and c word. She's been going on quite alot of them to. She does ...
A. 20 August 2007: there are al sorts of ways, to stop this. Dont let her onto the computer and block the websites, track what she is doing ( which is what my mum did, so that she can see everything i did ). she is just learning, whats what. most sites use the f c and ... (read in full...)
Could he go to jail for getting me pregnant?
Q. I am 15 almost 16 and I'm pregnant but will be 16 before the babies born and my boyfriend is 21 will he go to jail even though I'll be 16 before the babies born? And say I didnt put his name on the birth certificate and later on I do, can they still ...
A. 19 August 2007: hi bbe, it all depends on if you and/ or ur boyfriends family decide to report it to the police, he definatly can go to jail because of the age difernce, and the legal age is 18 in america i tink? hope i helped, mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
I think he is a child porn addict.
Q. My boyfriend was out of town last night. I got drunk by myself (mistake) and had a thought that I would go to his apartment and look through some photos that he seemed to be hiding from me (mistake). So after much delay and trying to talk myself ...
A. 19 August 2007: hiya sorry but ur bf isnt a nice person, he is sick, and u no he is and it looks like he knows it 2.. the right thing to do is report him, and get in2 that suitcase, stay awy from him.. mail me if u want to talk, take care of urself! x x x... (read in full...)
Do you think i might be pregnant?
Q. hi Im 17 years old and i think im pregnant I have sore breasts, my period is a month late, my stomache hurts all the time,, i cant eat certain things, it sounds good then it hurts my stomache, im always tired... please help me if its possib...
A. 19 August 2007: i take it uv had sex? get a pregnancy test ok bbe, we cant tell u if u r or not, mail me if u want to talk x x x... (read in full...)
I slept with a guy who's engaged at a party... should I tell his girlfriend?
Q. There is a boy i really like, i was at a aparty last night and i ran into him, he took me upstairs and into his friends bedroom, we started kissing and making out, and i gave him head and he tity f***ed me, we then ended up having sex, and then ...
A. 19 August 2007: hey bbe, 2 b honest, i wudnt tell her, it is up 2 him, as he is the one hu is engaged, he wil hav 2 liv with the guilt for the rest of his life if he duznt tel her.. i hope i helped, mail me if u wana talk x xx x... (read in full...)
Can you feel your G spot?
Q. I am in a relationship. Have been in a strong one for 3 years and we have regular sex but i dont feel any pleasure i havent even had a orgasm i want to feel that experience, and can you feel your g-spot because i have a lump its not painful or gets ...
A. 19 August 2007: is it about 2-3 inch inside your vagina, if so, then that is ur g-spot.. a lot of women dont orgasm from penetration sex, some bein fingered or licked? mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
I know i should not because i'm only 11, but i want sex.
Q. I am 11 and i have a boyfriend and once he asked me what it would be like to have sex and he said how come adults get to do it and we can't so i went to see porn because i wanted to understand it more and when i sore it it made me have a tingly ...
A. 19 August 2007: hey bbe, sein as tho uv already started wiv it.. all u need is the protection bbe. I hope i helped mail me if u wana talk x x x x... (read in full...)
Was he staring at my chest?
Q. I really fancy my teacher and I want to know if he fancies me back.One day in my school corridor when I was going into a lesson,I flicked my hair(more obviously than I actually had intended to) and he looked at me really suprised...I though at first ...
A. 18 August 2007: hey bbe, doesnt mean tht at all, wen i went 2 skl (just left) the teachers wud ask u then automaticaly do it for you so u did it rite n thy wudnt hav 2 ask again.. do u want him 2 fancy u? mail me if u would like 2 talk bbe, hope i helped x x... (read in full...)
I am 17 my partners 21. Is the age difference too much?
Q. if your 17 and hes 21 is that a bad gap? we have been together for 2 years now ill be 18 in sept. and he'll be 22 in oct. is this such an age gap? ...
A. 18 August 2007: no, im 16 and my bf is 21, ... in 17 in feb and he has only just been 21, last week.. I dont think its a big deal. mail me if u would like to talk x ... (read in full...)
My friend gave me oral sex and I returned the favour; does this make me a lesbian?
Q. i'm not too sure whether i'm a lesbian or not because i slept around my friends house the other night. we had to sleep in the same bed as there wasn't anywhere else to sleep and we both slept naked. about an hour after we'd gone to bed, i got woken...
A. 8 August 2007: Hey bbe, it doesnt necessarily mean you are bi or a lesbien.. you could be.. just it means you have experimented and you like it. Good luck n have fun, there is no harm in goin out with her.. have fun bbe n mail me if u wanna talk x x... (read in full...)
I'm married and have been seeing a married woman; we know it's wrong but we're not happy in our marriages
Q. I am a 32 year old male and i have been married for seven years and have a son. Like all marriages we have had our ups and downs but i feel that my feelings for my wife are not as strong as they should be. Over the past two years i have developed ...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi, i suggest you be together. You are cheating on your wife and she is on her husband. This isnt fair, and it isnt fair on the child. Get divorced.
Hope i helped... (read in full...)
raped pregnant and scared. Help!
Q. im 14 8 months pregnant and i was raped yesterday someone came into my home and hit me and raped me while my family wasnt home could it have harmed my baby?? im afraid to be left alone now.. could it have been planned? does this man know me? h...
A. 7 August 2007: Hey bbe, i wish u all the luck in the world, keep me updated x x x... (read in full...)
Is he still a virgin if he has only ever had sex with a man?
Q. Well this is not a question about me but it is about a lot of others OK if a gay man has been gay his whole life and never had sex with a woman but a man , technically wouldn't he still be a virgin?...
A. 6 August 2007: Hi bbe, sex is sex, he has had sex with men, therefore he has had sex, meaning if you have sex at all.. you are therefore not a virgin .. I hope i helped bbe, mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
Could I be a lesbian?
Q. me and my bestfriend were having a sleep over at her house the other night. she is bisexual, and i have been confused on if im straight, or if im lesbian. ok so we were sleeping on her bed. and we ended up talking about experimenting. s...
A. 6 August 2007: Hey bbe, I know your feeling.. bi sexual is what i think, from what you said..
Have fun bbe, and mail me if you would like to talk x x x x x... (read in full...)
We have sex 3 times a week... how many times is it therefore normal for him to please himself?
Q. Can someone please tell me what would be "reasonable" and "normal" number, for a guy in a relationship (have sex about 3 times weekly or even more when schedules are not so busy) to mastrubate? Lets say we have great sex three times a week. What ...
A. 6 August 2007: Hey bbe,
All men are different. It is MAINLY to do with the sex drive. If they have a high sex drive they will want to masterbate a high amount. If they have a low sex drive, they wont be so horny. If this is concerning you, the amount he mast... (read in full...)
My fiancee: cheated with a prostitute, can't get hard except through oral, has a short temper and leaves for days on end after an argument!
Q. I love him but am i being controlled. my fiancee and I have been together for over 2 years. he cheated on me with a prostitute after 8 months, a month before we were to be married. we went to counselling, but he could not tell me why he did it. He ...
A. 6 August 2007: Hi,
The first thing that popped out at me, was the fact you are still with him after he cheated, with a prostitute. Now i take it that problem has been resolved?.. This man is certanly not treating you with the respect you deserve. Are you sure this... (read in full...)
I just can't make her orgasm from penetrative sex... tell me how I can through oral?
Q. I'm in a very loving relationship with this girl, and have to ask for 2 pieces of advice here. 1. She does not orgasm during intercourse. She says she has never been able to. Being a man, I look at this as a challenge, and am continually diss...
A. 6 August 2007: Hey bbe,
When my boyfriend goes down on me, he fingers me at the same time, and when he is licking me, he rolls his tongue over my clit and sometimes even puts it into my hole.. sometimes he nibbles on it, not biting it, and you need to know if y... (read in full...)
raped pregnant and scared. Help!
Q. im 14 8 months pregnant and i was raped yesterday someone came into my home and hit me and raped me while my family wasnt home could it have harmed my baby?? im afraid to be left alone now.. could it have been planned? does this man know me? h...
A. 6 August 2007: rite babe, first off, tell someone! i was raped at 12, and didnt tell anyone until i was 15 which was the worst thing because i waited to long and my rapist has never been caught. You need tests done on you so it can help the police. You cannot be ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't understand how upset his porn viewing makes me!
Q. My boyfriend doesnt understand how I get hurt if he watches porn, pictures of naked females and mastrubates to it... Hello, my bf of 2 years and i broke up 9 days ago. We want to get back together but only after we both read the book on a relati...
A. 6 August 2007: Hey chick, just read what you said.. if at any time you decide you dont want to have sex, dont! if he is using this type of attitude towards somethin like this which is hurtin u.. explain that you cant deal with the differences. I hope i helped, ... (read in full...)
He is living a double life, as a gay.
Q. Please direct me, i just found out my ex-husband is living a double life. He's living as a gay man in Las Vegas,but acting straight when he comes home to visit. We have a really good relationship,our families are very close,in fact I know his ...
A. 5 August 2007: Hey bbe, the thing which has become apparant to me is that you wont let your daughter see him even if she wanted to. Is it because of him being gay/bi? or is it that he is lying? Your daughter maybe is getting upset because she is seeing the ... (read in full...)
He's a mate and I like him. How can I get him to like me back?
Q. Hey, there is this guy i really like, and sometimes i think he likes me back. Eg. he always tickels me in science class and i like feel like he is staring at me. But i asked one of his friends who he likes and they said someother girl!! Can you plea...
A. 5 August 2007: i agree with the eye contact thing.. honeslty it is the best subtle way of sayin i like u..
hope i helped =) x x x... (read in full...)
We dry humed and I was wearing a tampon... not sure if he came (woud I know??) but could I still be pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and I were dry humping and we were both naked. It was the second day of my period and I had a tampon in. I dont think he came (would i know??) but his penis was near my anus but never my vagina. What are the chances that I'm pregnant? ...
A. 5 August 2007: Hey bbe, glad 2 c tht everythin was ok wiv ur period.. just to make sure, i would still take a test, just to keep your nerves at rest..
Mail me if u would like to talk x ... (read in full...)
I have a blister on my vagina, what is it?
Q. i am 14 years old and i am a virgin i have a little blister on my vagina but i have no idea what has caused it i recentley wet shaved my pubic hair and i think that might of caused it do i have herps !or a sti it causes me no problems and does not ...
A. 5 August 2007: Hey bbe, it could be an ingrowing hair, from shaving, or a blister from cutin urself, or you have just got a rough patch which will go away soon. dont be so worried if you are a virgin, and havent had any physical contact with an infected person ... (read in full...)
He put money in my card, when i had already told him what i wanted.
Q. should i be upset when my fiance ,who was told 3 months ago what i would like, doesn't get me a birthday gift and pops the money inside my card to buy something myself? i'm feeling justified in being incredibly disappointed and upset am i wrong?...
A. 5 August 2007: Hey bbe, you are feeling upset yes, but maybe he thaught it would be nice for you to get yourself something, instead of havin 2 get wot ur given, but i do think you should be happy you got anything at all.. cos ther are some people who dont think ... (read in full...)
What's the chances of me being pregnant?
Q. I haven't had my period for 3 months and i only just lost my virginity a couple of days ago. We had unprotected sex whats the chance of me being pregnant?...
A. 5 August 2007: Hey bbe, you mention that the only reason you are worried, is cos of your period. You had unprotected sex, which means there are the chances yes. But.. you not havin the period for 3 months does not add up to you gettin pregnant if you only had sex ... (read in full...)
I was asked out the other day by a 15 year old girl but I'm 23. Should I go?
Q. Hi all I'm a 23 year old male and was wondering if you could give me some help and or your opinion on what I should do. I was asked out the other day by a 15 year old girl. I have known her quite a while and get on really well with her. She is v...
A. 5 August 2007: Hey bbe, it is legal, just not to have sex. I got with my bf wen i was 15, and he was 20. if you like her a lot, and respect that you wouldnt do anything you were both not comfortable about thn i dnt c there is that much of a problem.
I hope i help... (read in full...)
I recently went on holiday and he said he couldn't text me because its 50p per text!!
Q. I'm in my 2nd year of uni and have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months. He's always really lovely etc however I recently went on holiday and he said he couldn't text me because its 50p per text!! He gives me hardly any attention either. Plus ...
A. 5 August 2007: Hey bbe, truthfully i dont think it is weird he waited 2 years 2 tell his ex that, because it does take time, my boyfriend had never told anyone he loved them before. He shouldnt have been payin 50p per txt, it isnt allowed for a phone company to ... (read in full...)
I've started having a really smelly vaginal discharge.
Q. Sorry this is really embarrassing and gross. I've started having a really smelly vaginal discharge. I'm not menstruating at the moment. It's quite embarrassing, sometimes I think other peopel might be able to smell it. What could it be??? I am ...
A. 5 August 2007: Hey bbe, if you are clear from STIs then it is most likely gonna be a yeast infection. Just see your GP and he will give you some medicine, probly cream, and it should clear up soon.
I hope i helped,
Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
Am I immature or is he being dumb?
Q. Help me here guys. OF course I'm 13 and so is my boyfrined. He thinks I'm inmature just beacseI don't want to have sex and becasue I watch cartoon network and disney channel everyday.Am I really inmature or is he just being dumb?...
A. 5 August 2007: Hey bbe, your bf is being mean and trying to push you into sex. Dont let him do this, tell him, you dont want to, and you believve you are too young, or whatever your reason is. Dont let him push you into anything..
I hope i helped & good luck... (read in full...)
We dry humed and I was wearing a tampon... not sure if he came (woud I know??) but could I still be pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and I were dry humping and we were both naked. It was the second day of my period and I had a tampon in. I dont think he came (would i know??) but his penis was near my anus but never my vagina. What are the chances that I'm pregnant? ...
A. 5 August 2007: Hey, well first off, you say your stomach is bigger. that is not a baby inside you, your stomach would certainly not go bigger in less than 2-3months (i think it is).. if you are scared the simple and easy way is to get tested. there is always a ... (read in full...)
I'm concerned that my 2 year old niece has been abused and therefore masturbates when she goes to bed.
Q. My niece is 2 years old girl and whenever she goes to bed she puts her hand under her and humps the bed... kind of like mastubation. people always wonder why she does this and im not sure if she is being treated right. she is locked in the room ...
A. 5 August 2007: Hey bbe, this is actualy quite common amonghst children.. hjonestly and truly they find ways to do this, there was a comment about something like this, a while bacck, where her daughter was doing it, and it is normal, however, if there are any ... (read in full...)
He's a mate and I like him. How can I get him to like me back?
Q. Hey, there is this guy i really like, and sometimes i think he likes me back. Eg. he always tickels me in science class and i like feel like he is staring at me. But i asked one of his friends who he likes and they said someother girl!! Can you plea...
A. 5 August 2007: hey bbe, well to be honest i agree with kenny. I think you should continue being his friend and see what the future holds, because the only way you are gonna know now is by askin him, n that could end your friendship. I think you should stay close ... (read in full...)
How can I sleep with my boyfriend who has HIV, but not get it myself?
Q. How do you catch HIV/AIDS? I kissed my boyfriend (who's just been dignosed with HIV) a couple of days back. Have i got the STD? Please reply, i'm really worried. Also i'm thinking of having sex with him. What would be the best contraception to use ...
A. 18 July 2007: Hey bbe,
Well first off, just to make sure and get rid of your worries, see your doctor and then maybe a gynacologist.. For contracception, use condoms... always..
I hope i helped =)
Mail me if u would like to talk x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got a rash after going down on me
Q. Hi, myself and my boyfriend recently had oral sex which he performed on me. It turns out that he got a rash for one day and the next day it had cleared up and gone away. What is this? I am totally freaked out since I had been to the doctor the ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hey bbe,
You mean on his face?
That will have been irritation, from your small hairrs, which you may not even feel just normally but thats wot it will hav bin or friction.. If you dont shave the hair, if you do, it could help the situation.. ... (read in full...)
I'm 10, he's 19. He found out I've got a crush on him and now he's avoiding me!
Q. i like a guy 9 years older and i thought he liked me ( me 10, and him 19). it was good when no one knew i liked him, but then some one found out. she told him and now he wont talk to me. what do i do???...
A. 16 July 2007: Hey bbe sorry 2 say this but honestly he is doin the best thing by stayin away.. you r 10.. and he is 19.. you will understand this later on in life.. He is staying out of trouble, as i am sure your parents etc will not be impressed with this..
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I didn't bleed, does this mean I'm still a virgin?
Q. I had sex with my ex fiance for many times but I didn't bleed! Does this mean I still have the hymen? I don't want to tell anybody that I had sex. How can I hide this thing from my future fiance? other than surgery. plz help me ...
A. 15 July 2007: Hey bbe,
It doesnt mean that at all.. you had sex, you are no longer a virgin. Your hymen could have and will have broken during a sport activity or something like that..
I hope i helped =)
Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
The man I'm dating lives 320 miles away from me, can this work?
Q. hi, it's me again. Long distance relationships can they work? The man I like lives about 320 miles away from me. He said it's not a problem but this concerns me ....
A. 15 July 2007: Hey bbe,
If it worries you, then yes it is a problem bbe, If you arnt sure it will work then dont continue because the longer you are together the harder it is to break up..
I hope i helped =)
Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
He's leaving because my daughter and her baby need to move in with us for a while.
Q. I live with my boyfriend of 2 and half years. My daughter has recently had trouble and needs my help, she wants to come and stay with me and my other three kids and my boyfriend said no way, it's bad enough having three in the house never mind ...
A. 15 July 2007: Hey bbe,
You are completely in the right, he should not expect anything different than that!! If he leaves, then that is his fault not yours! You stick by ur kids bbe!!
I hope i helped & good luck =)
Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
Shes 14, I am 16. Is it ok to date her?
Q. a girl i like said she would go out with me if i ever asked her out but she knows i wouldn't because she's 14 and i'm 16. So is she too young for me? She flirts and talks alot to me and tells me she loves me. ...
A. 15 July 2007: Hey bbe,
To date her its ok.. but nefin else, would b against the law, but yea its perfectly ok to date her =)
Hope i helped =)
Mail me if you would like 2 talk x... (read in full...)
Is is ok for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 20 year old female?
Q. Is ok if a 20yr(My Girl) and a 17yr old(Me) date and there is sex involved???...
A. 15 July 2007: Hey bbe,
Not sure on your laws, in the UK its ok, im 16 and with my 20 year old bf and we have sex, but its legal.. It all depends on the law..
I hope i helped =)
Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't understand how upset his porn viewing makes me!
Q. My boyfriend doesnt understand how I get hurt if he watches porn, pictures of naked females and mastrubates to it... Hello, my bf of 2 years and i broke up 9 days ago. We want to get back together but only after we both read the book on a relati...
A. 27 June 2007: Hia babii, i understand completely where you are coming from, but babii, i aint too sure ur gona get him to give it up, so to speak, its somethin that most men do and enjoy.. they are just pictures and videos, your man will be faithful and is only ... (read in full...)
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