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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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Is is ok for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 20 year old female?
Q. Is ok if a 20yr(My Girl) and a 17yr old(Me) date and there is sex involved???...
A. 15 July 2007: Hey bbe,
Not sure on your laws, in the UK its ok, im 16 and with my 20 year old bf and we have sex, but its legal.. It all depends on the law..
I hope i helped =)
Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
Does porn bother you?
Q. Hi everyone I would just like to ask for several minutes of your time to ask for your opinion on the folllowing. It MAY affect women more than men (as already confirmed. How do you all feel about your partner (male/or female, again it may...
A. 15 July 2007: Hi bbe,
Well to be truthful with myself, im alrite wiv me & my partner watching porn (his work mates are always sendin vids etc) but it recently came apparant that he had videos on his phone and had tried to hide um n wen i saw a file called '... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 15 July 2007: hey bbe,
Just wonderin, what happend with it, did you go and meet him?
Mail me or write back chick x x x... (read in full...)
Shaved my eyebrows! How long does it take for them to grow back in?
Q. i shaved my eyebrows now they are really thin and short, how long will it take for them to grow back. thankyu xxx...
A. 14 July 2007: Hey bbe,
I remember once ma m8 shaved um off when she was 13 but she shaved them all off lol.. about 1 - 2 weeks i think hers took 3 weeks to completely look natural..
I hope i helped,
Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
She told me she was a virgin but when we had sex she didn't bleed; is it true your hymen can break in other ways?
Q. Hi i have a question my gf told me that she was a virgin when we first did it she didnt bleed she said that it can break at anytime not only when sex she had done Karate and other sports could this be true?she also said that you can even break it ...
A. 14 July 2007: Hey bbe,
Shes telling you the truth, it can break a lot of ways, especially if she does the sports a lot..
I hope i helped,
Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
I fancy my teacher, what should I do?
Q. Well.. i am 14 and i really like this teacher .. hes gorgeous and i like him so much . and i no its wrong but i cant help it . i don't no what to do? any advice?...
A. 14 July 2007: Hey bbe,
Just keep it like a crush.. its fine that you fancy him as long as it dont go any futher..
I hope i helped,
Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
My vagina hurts, what's wrong?
Q. well my question is...... I been having this feeling on my vagina for about two weeks....... it feels like something is hurting me inside.... it hurts when I sit down and when I laid down also when I'm walking.... is a feeling like I have crap...
A. 14 July 2007: Hey babe,
Some of the answers on here were a bit harsh, but yea, i agree with that you need to see a doctor, it could be a variety of things..
I hope i helped =) & good luck!
Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
How can I give a great blow job? And what about phone sex?
Q. Hey. I have 2 questions how can i give a great blow job? And how can i make fone sex be more real? I...
A. 14 July 2007: Hey babe,
To giv a great blow job.. you have to know what your guy likes.. cos most men like different things.. and for the phone sex.. it isnt real.. so i dont realy think you can make it any more realer..
I hope i helped,
Mail me if you wo... (read in full...)
Is it ok to pay for sex as long as you're very careful?
Q. I am male, who is mssing sex. is it okay to pay for a shag, as long s you are very careful.....
A. 14 July 2007: Hey, Truthful, in my point of view, i think its wrong.. i wouldnt say it's ok..... (read in full...)
I love him and we have done things together in the past. Now he won't even hug me!
Q. A boy who i really love ive done things with him in the past and now he has said he doesn't fancy me anymore and he doesnt like me hugging him or anything. Whats this all about ??...
A. 14 July 2007: Hey babe,
Id expect him to havve either fallen out of love, or he has decided he doesnt like you like that anymore..
I hope i helped,
Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
I'm 12. Is kissing and feelings that I've fallen in love with a boy a bad thing?
Q. dear cubid! please help me iv bin going out wiv this boy weve only bin going out for a day now and already weve kissed 3 times on the lips! im only 12...is that rong? i actually once in my life feel like i love this boy but im scared if he wil...
A. 14 July 2007: Hey bbe,
Love is a strong thing, and after just one day, im not so convinced that it is love.. Keep just sayin u love each other, and the kissing is fine, just make sure it dont go ne futher.. but am sure it wont =)
I hope i helped yoo chick... (read in full...)
What's wrong with us fat girls?
Q. Whats wrong with fat gals? Im a fat gal. I take good care of myself. Better than a lot of skinny gals. Why dont i get noticed? My best friend is skinny and she smells ,always have dog hair all over her cloths ,her handr are dirty ,whx do guys like ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi babe, ive learnt to understand many men prefere the bigger, women to the skinny ones.. its becoming more and more common now-a-days.. like midge said, if a man isnt noticing you then dont bother worrying about them.. u will find the right ... (read in full...)
Am I ill or pregnant?
Q. okay i have been really tired the past 4 days and havnt wanted to eat anything. i have felt like i wanted to throw up and my stomach hurts. these are some signs of being pregnant. im kindof scared im pregnant but i have never had sex. i fool around ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi babe,
You havent had sex, your not pregnant!! Dont worry!! There is a cold and flu virus going around (where i live) maybe it could be there too.. DONT stress because that could be the cause of your problems..
I hope i helped =)
Mail ... (read in full...)
Can you get STDs without intercourse?
Q. A quick question can you get any diseases from REAL passionate wet kissing with tongue and mutual masturbation, or dry humping? I had my undies on the whole time, while he wanked and I tried not to come into contact with it....
A. 13 July 2007: Hi babe,
No i dont think so without actual contact.. then no..
I hope i helped =)
Mail me if you would like to talk x ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so down?
Q. I don't know what is the matter is with me, I'm a 19 year old lad with loads going for me in life and yesterday I was so happy and today life feels hopeless. Why do I feel like this?...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi babe,
I dont think it is depression.. You only show one of the signs.. unless there is more?? Do you have a route cause of the problem.. has aything happened to you in the past? The fact you have a lot goin on in your life, could make you... (read in full...)
Did he do the right thing or what?
Q. Ok so me and Thisby are going out but he cheated on me and i find it hard to deal with and today we made up and my mates dared us to snog. The furthest i ever got was a quick peck so it was a big deal so i said ok but he opened his mouth. Did he do ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi babe,
When you said he cheated on you, what do you mean by it.. i mean how did he cheat, what did he do..? When he opened his mouth what did you do? What you both need to do is start from kissing with your mouths closed and then gradualy... (read in full...)
I don't want to be with her when I am but when we're apart, I want her back
Q. When i'm with my girlfriend, i'm always looking for ways to break up with her. When we've split up I can't help stop thinking about her and wanting her back. Why is this?...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi babe,
All i suggest is you honestly make your mind up, about what you want to do.. If the relationship doesnt appear to have a future ahead of it, then it isnt right, and you need to stop playin both yourself and your girlfriend..
I hope ... (read in full...)
When I start to have sex, I feel like I really have to pee, really badly.
Q. Hi everyone. In the past few weeks, my girlfriend and I started having sex. She is my first, and I'm a little confused about something. When I start to have sex, I feel like I really have to pee, really badly. The sex is good, but I feel like I have ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi babe,
There is nothin rong with u at all! Thats just the feeling of near climaxing.. Honestly, i think you will always do this, but you will get used to it..
I hope i helped =)
Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
What am I supposed to do when I sometimes get depressed without any reason and like to sit alone without even talking to any one?
Q. What am I supposed to do when I sometimes get depressed without any reason and like to sit alone without even talking to any one? Well it's not like I can find someone who would actually listen to me but the thing is I've been so moody the previous ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi babe,
Im exactly like you. I get like this every day, sometimes its about 3 times a day.. Honestly i know how terrible it is..I just sit and cry, i resort to things which i shouldnt. I only have my bf i could confide in but most of the time he ... (read in full...)
I didn't used to like him but since my friend started to like him then I like him too.
Q. help help help!!! my boyfriend doesn't like me talking to his mates especially this one paticular mate. I tell my boyfriend over and over again I do not find him actractive which was true, then an old mate of mine started seeing him. The thing is I ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi babe,
I suggest you dont do anythin.. They are together now, and most of all you have a boyfriend.. If things arent as good as you want with your current boyfriend, dont stay with him as he will be under the wrong impression..
I hope i help... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to have asked for the expensive ring back?
Q. I just bought a $3K ring for my girlfriend and then she announces she is moving out after 10 months. I asked for the ring back and that offended her? Am I wrong to have asked?...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi babe,
She should definatly give you the ring back, why would she want to keep it, as you gave it her for marrige and she is walking out..
Make sure you get it back chick
Hope i helped & good luck =)
Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
I want my girlfriend to suck me off but she won't.
Q. I want my girlfriend to suck me off but she won't. How can I persuade her otherwise? I go down on her but she won't repay the offer....
A. 13 July 2007: Hi babe,
The thing is, she may not be ready, she may have a bad past, something is making her not like the idea. You cant pressure her into doing it and if she doesnt like it, she wont do it. Stop asking her about it, so often, and when the time... (read in full...)
My mates told me I should masturbate an hour before I have sex.
Q. My mates told me I should masturbate an hour before I have sex. Is this true anyone out there done that? I'm a virgin and they also told me that I could get sexually transmitted disease from my girlfreind even though she's a virgin 2. Can anyone ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hia babe,
If you masterbate before sex, ( an hour or 2 ), it means to most men they will last longer during sex.
About the STI thing. If the girl has thrush ( which isnt an STI ) then you could get that, and also if she has crabs ( sharing clot... (read in full...)
He's spending up to an hour, sometimes 3 times a day, looking at porn... !
Q. ok, porn and sex question folks. my husband of 9 months and i generally have a decent sex life. we're pretty experimental and i'm the vocal, very enthusiastic type who actually REALLY likes having "porn" type sex. i'm fairly kinky, and he DOES ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi babe,
When i first met my boyfriend he had been single for about 4 months, and he has 156 pics on his phone and 67 videos. I got used to him being like that. After about 2 weeks of me knowing he had this much pron, i decided to get some on ... (read in full...)
I keep having sexual thoughts about a picture I saw on the internet
Q. I don't know why I think like this. I keep on thinking about this guy I saw on the internet(picture). I think about him sexually. Is this normal?...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi babe,
Your mind is doing it, there is nothing wrong with this.. that's just the way you feel about the person in the picture..
I hope i helped =)
Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
Is it possible to reach my target weight with my diet plan?
Q. I plan to go on a peach and orange fruit diet for 7 days. And just going for brisk walks in the morning (no other excercise). Right now I am a size 7-8. I want to get down to a size at least 5. Is it possible for me to reach my goal?...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi babe,
I would realy re consider your decision, to go down to a size 5. That isnt just unhealthy, now a days men normaly tend to go for, the more rounded women. It isnt possible, like Dr Pete said, to lose 3 dress sizes in a week. You will sho... (read in full...)
I'm on my period and a guy dry humped me, he didnt have any clothes on but I had a thong, and pyjama pants... Is there any way I could be pregnant?
Q. Okay, I'm on my period and a guy dry humped me, he didnt have any clothes on but I had a thong, and pyjama pants... Is there any way I could be pregnant?...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi babe,
I honestly have gota say it is highly unlikely, as he didnt actualy enter you or touch your skin..
I hope i helped =)
Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
Why do some people have to be so rude on DearCupid?
Q. i have a question. why do some people have to be so rude on here. whats the point in asking for help when your just going to get ridiculed half the time and not taken seriously. i believe if they need help, help the person if your just going to ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi bbe,
i agree to an extent.. but some peoples questions, want a nice answer, but the truth isnt always nice.. But i do understand where you are comin from..
Mail me if you would like to talk x x x... (read in full...)
Why did she break up with me out of the blue?
Q. My girlfriend of 1yr 1/2 broke up with me after 1 big dance that we both had fun at not directly after but the dance was friday she broke up with me with a note that she didn't even had me herself on monday anyone got any suggestions how i could ask ...
A. 12 July 2007: Hi babe,
People who finish relationships, by note or anything else horible like that arnt worth your time. Forget about her, she didnt deserve someone like you ! I remember when i was 14, my b/f finished me by a note, monday, 1st lesson ( chemistr... (read in full...)
He always accuses me cheating with anyone and everywhere I go he doesn`t tust me but he says he loves me yet all we do is fight.
Q. I have this guy friend who is also my baby father who always accuses me cheating with anyone and everywhere I go he doesn`t tust me but he says he loves me yet all we do is fight. Should I just let him go?...
A. 12 July 2007: Hi babe,
If you feel it is getting so out of hand, the arguments wont stop etc, then yes i suggest you both find someone new..
I hope i helped & good luck.. =)
Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
Recently he has found out that I cheated on him twice, and feels he can not forgive me.
Q. hi, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 years. Recently he has found out that I cheated on him twice, and feels he can not forgive me, he now thinks that I never loved him at all and that it was all a lie but it was not. I love this boy ...
A. 12 July 2007: Hi babe,
Why did you cheat. Ok, you cheated once, that could be let off, but twice? Im sorry but i honestly think you need to get over this lad. I dont think he will come back to you..
Im sorry..... (read in full...)
I have seen my 7 year old daughter masturbating, can she even have an orgasm at that age?
Q. I have seen my 7 year old daughter masturbating, I have not approached her about it, thinking that it is normal for her to explore herself. My question is, not trying to sound totally stupid, is she even able to orgasm at that age, and does she get ...
A. 12 July 2007: Hi babe,
I remember at that age and below i used to do things, around the similar type and yes i have reached an orgasm. I didnt realy get wet, i dont remember properly but i didnt think i did.
I hope i helped .. =)
Mail me if you would like... (read in full...)
My husband was raped and instead of seeing a counsellor, he's turning to drink; how do I deal with this?
Q. My husband told me he had been male-raped. I offered to support him, but it seems like he's had a major personality change since the incident. He's started smoking heavily, yet he never used to smoke at all, and used to be anti-smoking - a...
A. 12 July 2007: Hi babe.
When i was 12, i was raped. I am now 16. What your husband is experiencing, is something which you wont be able to understand unless you have been through it or something similar. The reason he is lashing out, is because he feels there is... (read in full...)
Is a year too long to wait before I go visit my long-distance girlfriend?
Q. I now have a girlfriend in Ghana and we have been corresponding for about nine months. We have become very close. She is not very wealthy, so I have helped her out a bit. We have tried for her to come over to the UK but was turned down. I think I ...
A. 12 July 2007: Hi babe,
If this relationship, has a lot of effort put into it then i dont see why it wont work. There are the obvious complications of the fact you live far away, there would be certain times you had to leave each other.. The year is a bit long... (read in full...)
How can i get my ex boyfriend to tell me why he broke up with me?
Q. How can i get my ex boyfriend to tell me why he broke up with me?...
A. 12 July 2007: Hi babe,
Well first of all, if he hasnt already told you then i wouldnt say he's worth the time for asking.. All you can do is ask him, it could be that he isnt exactly happy with the relationship anymore and doesnt want to tell you, he may not ... (read in full...)
What turns females on?
Q. This is a question that would probobly be best answered by females but if u men have something to add please go right ahead. Now i know all you woman are all different but surely u must have things in common when it comes to having a boyfriend. What ...
A. 12 July 2007: Hi babe,
Well, for me, ( as we all are different ) i love it when my boyfriend slides his hand up the inside of my thigh over and over again ( it sort of teases me ) and i love the way he kisses and nibbles on my ear =) also i love the way he k... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says I have a strange discharge; do I need to see a doctor?
Q. My boyfriend says that besides being overly wet, I sometimes have a "foamy discharge" during sex, which he has never seen before. Does this ever happen or do I need to see a doctor? Thanks....
A. 12 July 2007: Hi babe,
Did you write a question about something similar to this the other day? This could be the discharge of this could infact be your cum. If you wish to get rid of it, and the wetness, maybe see a doctor and he / she will help you and mayb... (read in full...)
How much weight can I lose in 4-5 weeks?
Q. how much weight do you think i could lose in around 4-5 weeks? i am 5 foot 3 and am 45 pounds overweight. i do not look very fat, i'm just a big girl. could i be able to lose around 25 pounds if i try very hard such as vigorously exercising a...
A. 12 July 2007: Hi babe,
It all depends on what type of exercise you do, and also on the healthy eating plan you choose. It also depends on the amount of calories you consume and burn per day. I read on a NHS website, that you should exercise around 2 hours af... (read in full...)
Can you feel sperm going inside you during sex?
Q. Im a female teen i was just wondering if you can feel the cum go inside of you and if you cant what does it feel like? i would really like to know so answer as soon as possible ...
A. 12 July 2007: Hia babe,
Well when me and my boyfriend have sex, all i can feel is his penis twitching ( exactly like baby doll said ) and some people can in fact feel it and i have heard it feels like a warm sensation.
I hope i helped ..
Mail me if you wo... (read in full...)
He had his penis indide me with no condom; is it possible to get pregnant?
Q. ok.......me and my boyfriend hav not had sex but he has put his penis in me. we didn't move but then his parents came and got him. we did not use a condom and i'm not sure if i can get pregnant or not.....can anyone help me??? ...
A. 12 July 2007: Hey babe.
Yea it is possible you could be pregnant, as he put his penis inside you.. If you do not wish for a baby, take the emergency contraception. If you would like to wait, then wait around 2 weeks and then take a pregnancy test, alternat... (read in full...)
Does your body recognise your normal routine?
Q. does your body know that you are exercising? also does your body recognizes and knows you have already exercised already when you go throughout your normal day routine? just wondering since i've been exercising recently and trying to get back in ...
A. 12 July 2007: Your body will eventually get used to the idea of exercise.. the whole routine.. That's what ive always understood, i hope i helped =) Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: Hey trust me tht isnt a game u should play honestly.. your stuck now, all u can do is let this mysterious girl stand him up and he wil have to tell u wher he is , and what he is doing instead of ur date?? mail me if u wanna talk x x x x... (read in full...)
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