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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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How can we re-light our fire?
Q. Hey i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months, we have been moving quite fast though, i feel like he is losing interest in me. We do not talk for whole days and don't see eachother regularly anymore since he started a job and i started ...
A. 11 October 2007: Hey, that's great, hope it goes well for ya.. mail me if you want to =] x... (read in full...)
Are stretch marks a turn off?
Q. Are stretch marks a turn off? I will be giving birth to my first child soon, and plan to start working out and getting back into shape, but I have horrible stretch marks on my thighs and my backside. I used all sorts of creams and lotions thorough...
A. 10 October 2007: Aw yea, smile n dont let them get you down :) x... (read in full...)
I am gay, should I come out of the closet?
Q. im gay, should i come out the closet? my parents are VERY homophobic. just yesterday they saying how being gay is such a waste....
A. 9 October 2007: Hi babe, before you come out.. i suggest you really think about how you are going to do this.. Your parents seem almost homophobic.. and im not sure how they will react. You need to find a was of reasurance to them. Im thinking you have been ... (read in full...)
How can we re-light our fire?
Q. Hey i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months, we have been moving quite fast though, i feel like he is losing interest in me. We do not talk for whole days and don't see eachother regularly anymore since he started a job and i started ...
A. 9 October 2007: Hi babe, i understand how painfull this can be, i am with my boyfriend now for 17months, and the same thing has been gradually happening for the padst 3 months.. i believe that because it has happened so early, that you two are not destined to ... (read in full...)
How do I spice things up?
Q. i wanna spice it up in the bedroom and so i wanna ask whats something mind blowing i can try ?? ...
A. 9 October 2007: Hey, there are SOOO many things you can do.. romantic - candles, soft quite music, the use of aromas.. Sexy - Lingere, pettles on bed etc, candles (very effective), a body taster, strawberry like powder (la senza - very effective ;) ).. All things ... (read in full...)
All we seem to do when we're together is argue! Should I stick with or move on?
Q. My boyfrind has very demanding job which means he has to travel alot. when we r together all we seem to do is argue. I want to know if its work that is our problem or if its something deeper. we had an arguemnt the other day that culminated in the ...
A. 9 October 2007: Oh and also, about the arguments, we are like that too, argue most times we eventually see each other.. but you learn to get past them.. x... (read in full...)
All we seem to do when we're together is argue! Should I stick with or move on?
Q. My boyfrind has very demanding job which means he has to travel alot. when we r together all we seem to do is argue. I want to know if its work that is our problem or if its something deeper. we had an arguemnt the other day that culminated in the ...
A. 9 October 2007: Hi babe, i COMPLETLY understand what you mean. Honestly i do, i have been with my boyfriend for 17months, and i see him (if im lucky) once a week and sometimes it has got as bad as once a month. He lives just 10 mins away however his job is ... (read in full...)
What are risks with oral sex?
Q. so recently i performed oral sex on my girlfriend and im just curious as to what risks there are? we are both virgins and we have only been with each other. is there anything i can do too make things safer without losing pleasure...
A. 9 October 2007: Hi babe, you are both a virgin, and havent had any other sexual contact with anyone else. I believe you are fine, and there isnt really a possibility that you could catch a disease. I hope i helped,
Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
What is this discharge?
Q. i am 16 and this might be too long but plz answer my questions i will be veery thankful it will make my life alot better. I have this liquid stuff coming out of my vagina it has been there for as long as i can remember probably before when i starte...
A. 9 October 2007: Hi babe. You need to really stop stressing out, this isn't good for you or your body. i will answer the numbered questions first,
1. No if you have not had contact with a penis, vagina, cum or blood then you wont have an STI.
2. Cervical cancer i... (read in full...)
Losing my virginity (next Saturday) what should I expect?
Q. Im losing my virginity next saturday with my long term partner. We have everything ready. My mates hosue will be free so we're using hers. She said she'd leave the master bedroom done up perfect for us like silk sheets, dimmer lights, oils, slow son...
A. 9 October 2007: Hi babe, well sex does feel really good, however the first time, will more than likely hurt a little bit. I suggest using a lot of lubrication as it will reduce the pain. That sounds great with the sheets and the music, have the music on low also. ... (read in full...)
Are stretch marks a turn off?
Q. Are stretch marks a turn off? I will be giving birth to my first child soon, and plan to start working out and getting back into shape, but I have horrible stretch marks on my thighs and my backside. I used all sorts of creams and lotions thorough...
A. 9 October 2007: Hi babe, stretch marks are part of life. If your boyfriend gets turned off by then let him. You have tried very hard to get rid of them. I agree with mandy7.. Keep adding cream onto them and they may ease up. I hope i helped,
Mail me if you woul... (read in full...)
How can I get over my holiday romance?
Q. i met this guy on holiday and i like him soo much !! but he lives in another country and he said he cant come bak for a few years..im really sad and i cant get over him it really upsets me ='[ what should i do ??...
A. 9 October 2007: Hi babe, did you get a number or address to write to? It will take a bit of time, however you will get over him, over time. Try and think about someone else or maybe think about things to try and take your mind off him. I know it will be hard.. but ... (read in full...)
My friend was sexually abused by her uncle and I don't know what advice to give her, please help me?
Q. A friend of mine has been sexually molested and she doesn't know what to do... She is afraid that it might wreck her family since it was her uncle that did it... please help me... I dont know what I should tell her...?...
A. 9 October 2007: Hey babe, she needs to tell someone other than you. This is a serious aligation and the police need to be informed. Imagine if he does this to someone else she may believe it is her fault. I had a friend who her brother did this to her for 9 years ... (read in full...)
Is my fiance cheap? He makes 2800 a month and spend 2000 on my ring.
Q. Is my fiance cheap? He makes 2800 a month and spend 2000 on my ring....
A. 3 October 2007: Just be happy with what you have got. It doesnt matter about anything, at least your man has baught you a ring costing over a grand!... (read in full...)
Why do some women not enjoy giving head?
Q. i dont understand why some women love giving head and others wouldnt dare even if you gave them thousands of opportunities to do it. whats so wrong with it? you ladies out there what do you think?...
A. 30 September 2007: Sorry 'Dr T' i was explaining what some women feel, and to be honest.. some men, arnt aware that their smell is that bad, so i would like it if you didnt speak like that, when my point was clearly understood by many others who have mailed me.... (read in full...)
If I do the bad guy thing
Q. I am 21 soon id like to think I know a bit since I had a crap life my girlfriend cheated on me and I gave her a 2nd chance and she cheated on me with 2 guys at the same time why do things like this happen to nice guys. Well I don’t think I am a ...
A. 29 September 2007: Never change for anyone.. this girl cheated once and you gave her another chance she cheated again, she isnt worth ur time or thaughts.. If someone treats you bad then thats their problem, it isnt your fault. There are women who dont cheat, who are ... (read in full...)
Why do some women not enjoy giving head?
Q. i dont understand why some women love giving head and others wouldnt dare even if you gave them thousands of opportunities to do it. whats so wrong with it? you ladies out there what do you think?...
A. 29 September 2007: well some people, dont like the smell, it isnt ok in their religion, some people just dont think the idea is nice, there are many reasons and if someone doesnt want to.. be nice about it, and respect their decision. Hope i helped, mail me if you ... (read in full...)
Is my fiance cheap? He makes 2800 a month and spend 2000 on my ring.
Q. Is my fiance cheap? He makes 2800 a month and spend 2000 on my ring....
A. 15 September 2007: im just reading wot u wrote on an answer to someone else, and you say he spends so much on himself (and not you) lets just read over what your question was.. 'Is my fiance cheap? He makes 2800 a month and spend 2000 on my ring.' that clearly shows ... (read in full...)
Had sex with my twin sister's husband. Not sure if I should tell my sister or wait to see if I'm preganant...
Q. Hi my name is Stacy. I need some advice. I have had sex with my twin sister's husband. I do not know if I should tell her or not. I know it is wrong for me to have done that. The first time it was only anal sex just because I was curious and my ...
A. 4 September 2007: eddie i totaly agree wiv yoo! i wuz about 2 say tat .. it escalates from sex to anal .. not the other way around. and like he said.. if he came in your vagina you are most likely pregnant. And tell your sister she deserves to know what you and her ... (read in full...)
Hi, I'm 13 and I want to have sex.
Q. Hi, I'm 13 and I want to have sex. My girlfriend said no. I don't want to pressure her but i want it sooo bad. I really love her but i don't know if i should break up with her. please help me i don't know what to do....
A. 4 September 2007: Hey bbe, if u love her, u will respect her decision of sayin no. If all you mainly want most out of the relationship is sex, then bbe, u shouldnt be with her. If you want to break up with her do it, sooner than later, cos it is nasty to do it in the ... (read in full...)
Had intimate relation with a boy who has chlamydia, could I have been transmitted the disease? (we used a condom)
Q. I have had sexual intercourse with a boy who has clamidia although we used a condom could i catch it ?...
A. 2 September 2007: Hi bbe, you used a condom, you are fine, but if you are realy worried, then dont hesitate to see a gynecologist by visiting a G.U.M clinic or some doctors, or family planning centre or other places like that (also brook) hope i helped, mail me if u ... (read in full...)
I'm due to start college and feel nervous I won't find anyone like me, I'm the tranquil type and rather get on well with adults!
Q. I'm due to start college in 8 days and i'm really nervous. Not really because i'll be in a new place or anything but there only 2 people who i hang round wiv that are going and they are in a different course even thought we are all in the same part ...
A. 2 September 2007: Hi bbe, for the past 15months ive had no friends, no one to hang about with wen i was at school, as they all fell out wiv me when i got my bf (current) and im due to start college on tuesday. This is your chance to find new ppl, i know you will have ... (read in full...)
Anal sex is painful for my wife but I like it. Advice please!
Q. Anal sex is painful for my wife but I like it. Is there any way to have anal sex without hurting my wife?...
A. 2 September 2007: hi, use plenty of lube, but if she realy dislikes it, then you realy shouldnt be doin it.. hope i helped, mail me if u wanna talk x x... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to have a gay relationship with my ex-teacher?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm a 16-year-old bisexual female, turning 17 in November. Anyway, I've become very attracted to a 28-year-old female friend of mine. She's actually one of my ex-teachers, but we get along great and have loads in common. I geniun...
A. 29 August 2007: hey chick, does she have the same feelings for you? it would be kinda wrong cos of the age, but u are of consent etc.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x... (read in full...)
Is it normal not to come from sex?
Q. I've been sleeping with my boyfriend for about six months, he was my first and so far I haven't been able to come through sex. I don't really mind as it still feels really good but I was wondering if you had any tips, is it normal not to come from ...
A. 29 August 2007: Hey bbe, it is so normal not to come.. im the same, as many women are, i cant come.. you dont let yourself.. you want to but you just cant get to it.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x... (read in full...)
Is it normal to smell a little "down there"?
Q. Hey i know this maybe too much but... I am 15 and am a virgin. I am worried about "down there" as i smell a little. Is this usual in anyway???? Pleasse help, i am worried and feel so dirty!! x...
A. 29 August 2007: hey bbe, your body will smell anyway as you are growin etc.. and you are a virgin, if this smell is fishy or anything like that.. have daily showers and avoid using gels etc on the vagina as that will wash away the natural scent.. i hope i helped, ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if let's say I touched my vagina right after wiping my hands off my boyfriend's cum with tissue and wash my hands with water only??
Q. Can I get pregnant if let's say I touched my vagina right after wiping my hands off my boyfriend's cum with tissue and wash my hands with water only?? I'm getting paranoid lol help me thanks! =)...
A. 29 August 2007: if you washed your hands after and then touched your vagina then it is very unlikely you will get pregnant but if you are still unsure just simply take a pregnancy test and avoid doing this in the future.. i hope i helped, mail me if u wanna talk x ... (read in full...)
I've taken the morning after pill twice, can i take it again? Is this safe?
Q. I had sex just as i was coming off my period, but the condom split, am i stil able to take th morning after pill. also iv taken th pill twice before. is this safe? would it affect my babies later in life?...
A. 29 August 2007: Hi bbe, go to a doctor just to make sure, but i wouldnt think it would have any long lastsing affects, as they wouldnt sell it etc.. i hope i helped, mail me if you wanna talk x x x... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with looking up skirts! Yes i know, sounds strange, whats going on???
Q. not sure if you could help me.I supose its an addiction.I am obsessed with womens knickers and constantly try to look up womens skirts,even schoolgirls.I know its wrong but i love to see the secrets.one day i will be caught and arrested,am i a ...
A. 29 August 2007: Hi, schoolgirl skirts, yes, you will be branded as a perve and a poedo.. schoolgirls, as in what.. primary school, high school..? if you continue to do it then yea u will get caught and it will be bad.. i think it is an addiction as many people are ... (read in full...)
How long should an orgasm last????
Q. I recently only started having sex for the first time. I was wondering why it seems that i only orgasm for like 5 seconds and thats it? is it suppose to last longer? How can i make it last longer? ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hey bbe, most people are differnt so it just depends on how you let it take hold of you.. if you orgasm more than once then the second time will be a lot better and maybe slightly longer.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x... (read in full...)
Is a £95 necklace enough or too much for my girlfriends birthday?
Q. Hey .. i was just wondreing.. its my gf birthday a few days after our 6 month...and i got her a £95 white gold heart necklace..do you think thats too much or too little (or just right lol).. thank you :):)...
A. 27 August 2007: Hey babe, that is just right! Dont ever feel like what you get her is wrong or right, she will love it no matter what.. it was recently my boyfriends 21st birthday (and he realy loves motorbikes) so i baught him a model of a motorbike for £100 lol ... (read in full...)
What is the difference between a girlfriend and a fiancée?
Q. today my partner introduced me as his girlfriend,yet we are engaged and have a 4 year history behind us,what would you say was the diffrence between a girlfriend and a fiance?...
A. 27 August 2007: hey babe, fiance, you are engaged, girlfriend, you are together, like a partner.. i hope i helped, mail me if u wanna talk x x x... (read in full...)
I want to have sex, but I'm worried about my breasts. Any advice?
Q. im sixteen and i have some concerns about having sex. This is going to sound very stupid but im really worried about my breasts. I was making out with a guy and he went under my bra and i kept pushing him out because one of my breasts has a sort of ...
A. 27 August 2007: hi babe, its just an ingrown hair.. nothin 2 b seriously worried about.. just allow time for it to go away on its own.. moost peoples nipples dont stay hard.. like me.. it takes a bit longer than normal to get my nipples hard but they dont stay hard ... (read in full...)
Why was I so wet??
Q. Sorry if this is graphic but im really worried! I had sex with my boyfriend last night and we used a condom but afterwards i was really really wet, alot wetter than usual and when i went to the toilet, it looked like semen was in the toilet ...
A. 27 August 2007: hi babe, the cum look could have been your cum.. and the wetness.. you get more wetter the more turned on you get.. also like yummymummy said, the condom could also increase your wetness.. x x x mail me if u wanna talk... (read in full...)
Why do people call me ugly????
Q. People always call me ugly every single day,either that or they ignore me or are really nasty to me.I personally don't think I am ugly(I don't think I'm beautiful but I would definatly say I am attractive at the least) but no one else seems to think ...
A. 27 August 2007: babe.. ur best friend, should not be your friend.. she/he is treating you like rubbish.. ignore what people say.. you dont need to listen to them at all.. just ignore them and keep your head down..they will get bored.. you will find someone who ... (read in full...)
I'm nearly 16, He's nearly 14. I like him. Is this wrong?
Q. Hey i just want to know if this is wrong!! i am 15 years old and my birthday is in feb when i turn 16. but i really like a lad who i hang out with and he is only 13 and he is 14 in june! plz tell me if it is ok or if it is wrong to like hi...
A. 27 August 2007: hi babe..can u stay friends with him until hers around 15? its not that bad as u both are under 16, but when u are 16 it may start 2 look bad.. dont do anythin illegal babe, mail me if u wanna talk x x... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is pregnant but pushes me away. Should i just move on?
Q. I will try and be as direct as possible. I dated a girl for 7 months. She had her own place but stayed at mine. I then sold my house and moved in with her on temporary basis. You could tell there was some tension after a month of the new ...
A. 27 August 2007: hi babe, it is most likely her hormones.. but you need to do everythin in your power to stay in contact with her, close contact, and help her through the pregnancy.. even if she is pushin you away, she still realy needs you for the birth of YOUR ... (read in full...)
How easy is it to make a girl ejaculate?
Q. On average how hard is it to make a girl ejaculate? Can it b done by oral sex?...
A. 27 August 2007: hi bbe, it isnt that easy to make a girl come.. but it is more likely she will come with oral because of the stimulation of the clit etc.. but all women are different.. mail me if u would like to talk x x... (read in full...)
Will the size of my manhood affect having children?
Q. My manhood size is 3 cm , when i be hot becomes 10 cm , i am 26 old , i want to know if i can get kids or not....
A. 27 August 2007: hi bbe, no the size of your penis will certainly not affect your ability to have children, it is more about the testicles.. wich contain the sperm.. mail me if you would like to talk x x... (read in full...)
Is this normal?
Q. One of my outer lips is bigger than the other. By that, I mean, it sort of hangs loose, and I can stretch it (sorry if it's too graphic.) Is that normal or should I be worried?...
A. 27 August 2007: hey babe, yea its normal, they are all kind of differnt shapes etc.. everyone is different!! mail me if you would like to talk x x x... (read in full...)
I have a bf, but I have very strong feelings for my female friend. I don't want to detroy relationships or hurt anyone! What do I do?
Q. Ok, im 18 and at uni. Ive had a boyfriend for 6 months who is really great but im not sure if I wanna be with him cos I think ive developed feelings for a friend. I met a girl at uni in September and we got along so well. When we had to move she ...
A. 27 August 2007: hey babe, that's great.. i wish u all the luck i cud !! and it's great you still have a great friendship with your ex.. mail me if you would like to talk x x x x... (read in full...)
I have a bf, but I have very strong feelings for my female friend. I don't want to detroy relationships or hurt anyone! What do I do?
Q. Ok, im 18 and at uni. Ive had a boyfriend for 6 months who is really great but im not sure if I wanna be with him cos I think ive developed feelings for a friend. I met a girl at uni in September and we got along so well. When we had to move she ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, talk to her, i realy think you should ask her, many people will say you should keep quiet, but i think, you need to know inside wether she has the same feelings, i would certainly say you are bi, but im not sure about lesbien, but i suppose ... (read in full...)
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