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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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I think I had an orgasm! My hands and teeth were tingling!! Am I right?
Q. i think i had an orgasm on saturday night but am not 100% sure. If it was then wow! nd if not then an orgasm must be even more wow! we were having sex for a good 45 mins to an hour. Alot of it is a blur to me. After i was really out of breath. ...
A. 31 May 2007: hia chick yea id say you did babe =] even so like India said you came out of it happy which is the best thing ever! x x x... (read in full...)
Is it healthy to be that sexually active?
Q. My boyfriend and i just started having sex 4 days ago. We were both virgins. Now we have sex 2 times a day. Is that heathy? We're madly in love and we cant seem 2 find any other better way 2 express our love 2 one another. Hes 20 and im 21. He ...
A. 31 May 2007: Hia chick ov corse its healthy, there is nothign saying you cant do it that much at all! one thing to remember though is unless you want a lil babii make sure you use protection.. so enjoy sex n dont think its unhealthy cos its not =] hope i helped, ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time this weekend.
Q. Me and my gf have been together for 7 months have have decided that on saturday night when i stop over that we will have sex for the first time, we are both virgins btw. We are incredibly close as we have been best friends for many years, have have ...
A. 31 May 2007: First ov all thats great! you two seem like you are in 'love' and thats the best reason for havign first time sex. for the pain or how tight she will be, i would sugest lubricant.. for places (for first timers) bed, sofa, i dont realy think any ... (read in full...)
I just broke up completely with my boyfriend and I wanted to know if I did the right thing?
Q. ok well I just broke up completely with my boyfriend and I wanted to know if I did the right thing. we have been going on and off for about 9 months and i do love him but he does not know how to treet a girl thinking that hes all that and that he ...
A. 31 May 2007: Hia babe i think you did the right thing, it will take some time to get round things but you will. dont stress about anything and dont try and rush into anything and if you have any problems with future boyfriends, make sure they are the right kinda ... (read in full...)
My period is late, do you think I could be pregnant?
Q. I haven't had my period. I usually get it on the 5th. I've never had a normal period until i started taking the pill. I slipped 1 or 2 days but still used condoms. it is now the 30th and still haven't got them my period yet. I have spotted and I am ...
A. 31 May 2007: Hia chick there is always a chance you can be pregnant be it you used a condom or not, take a trip to your local GP and/or have a pregnancy test. If your test comes back positively stop taking the pills straight away because it could hurt the baby. ... (read in full...)
We had an argument and now my bf won't return my calls! What do I do?
Q. my boyfriend and i quarrelled just this monday and he refuses to return my calls what should i do?...
A. 31 May 2007: Hia chick u didnt say whos fault the argument was.. If you have tried to ring him back then my only thaught is for you to wait for him to ring you back.. if he doesnt get in contact for a week then id leave him a voicemail saying you arnt putting up ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and he's very well endowed. Will it hurt to have sex?
Q. I'm wondering... I am a virgin and I have a partner which is really big in size, he's well above average. Will it hurt me more than if he was smaller ? I'm kinda scared....
A. 31 May 2007: hia darlin, make sure u are very wet/ if nt use lubricant, because this can make it a lot better for you and a better sensation.. make sure that when you have sex you are relaxed, because if you arnt you wont let him inside you and it will hurt a ... (read in full...)
She's had threesomes, a lot of past sex partners, and told me I can show our home made porn clip to anyone! What's her problem?
Q. I've been dating this girl for six months now and have a few doubts about her. I am just being old fashioned and silly? She's 25 and I am 30. Here's why: 20 or so sexual partners in 9 years. Can’t give an exact figure. Didn’t always go all th...
A. 30 May 2007: For the time bein i dont rly think u shud marry her, personally cos u have only been together for 6months.. and with the past of her finishing people after a week, maybe talk to her, say you are only just gttin over wot shes sayin bout ur past n ... (read in full...)
After two years together I just don't feel the same way. What should I do?
Q. well me and my gf have been living together for 2 years no im 20 and shes 18 we live in my mums house. the problem is she loves me more than any thing but i just dont feel the same way wot should i do??...
A. 30 May 2007: Babe the hardest thing to do.. thats wot uv gotta do.. you have to break it to your gf NICELY tellin her that u just dont feel the same, you want to be friends.. she wont take it well but if you are serious on this decision thn thats the best thing ... (read in full...)
How do I know if I am in love?
Q. how do i know am in love??..i dunno how people tell there in love how would i know?? help??...
A. 30 May 2007: well.. there are many ways, you think about them when you arnt with them (not all the time).. You would be happy just cuddlin (huggin) them n not doin anythin else.. You believe you would do anything for them.. everyones diff babe but if u want any ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me - more than once. Should I get rid of him or see if he has changed?
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me when i was pregnate with his baby. I told him it was over and he began to cry and appolagize and said he wants to raise our baby together and he will always love me and he will never do it again. so i forgave him. but he ...
A. 30 May 2007: Babe this is up to you, he has cheated on you what, about 4/5 times?? but you say he hasnt whilst your babe has bin born.. how do you know he hasnt.. many people believe once a cheater always a cheater.. i dont.. cheating can be a mistake but once ... (read in full...)
I'll do anything for it to be how we once were...
Q. ok so im 8month pregnant, 15, and by boyfriend -hes the dad- keeps forcing me into sex, he sexually abuses me and accuses me of cheating on him and goes everywere with me and if he cant he gets one of his m8s to go with me instead , he beats me up ...
A. 30 May 2007: Babe he is abusing u, and even worse SEXUALY ABUSIN U leav him babe until it is too late, he has most likely already hurt ur lil babe n he has definatly hurt you to get to your babe. i understand your love for your boyfriend but the way he is ... (read in full...)
We broke up but I love him so much and I KNOW he still loves me. What shall I do?
Q. I am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 in we have ben to gether for at least 6 months and last night he told me we have been together too long and i ask him so what's that suppose to mean he said nothing. But before last night he told me we are going be ...
A. 30 May 2007: babe maybe he has bin thinkin bout u cheatin on him.. i know what pain you are goin thru after a break up, but he has made up his mind, n i think he maybe sufferin heartbreak not onlik frm losin u but also from the way u spoke to him, you are both ... (read in full...)
This is really embarrassing, I keep itching down below its driving me mad
Q. Hi, This is really embarrassing, I keep itching down below its driving me mad...I have used all the thrush creams on the market but it still persits.....To my horror I went to the GUM clinic and was tested for loads of STD's even though I am marri...
A. 30 May 2007: hey babe rule out the thaughts of an STI as your have taken all the tests.. it is most likely to be a bbacterial infection.. which if one of you has it the other one will most likely get it through sex.. visit your GP see what they suggest, maybe ... (read in full...)
How can I stop? I am TOTALLY addicted to porn!
Q. I am totally addicted to porn. I try not to think about it but when im on my own all I do is sit there and stare at my laptop until I get up and look at porn. It's getting annoying but I can't stop it. I don't think it porn is acceptable either but ...
A. 29 May 2007: hey chick, first of all darlin, porn is a normal thing so dont let anyone tell u it isnt, it does sound like you are addicted to porn from what you said but bare in mind, your only 13-15 n u will on4e day find someone who is better. if it is realy ... (read in full...)
He sexually abused me and I can't get it out of my head.
Q. im 14, a year ago my boy friend sexualy abused me, he didnt have sex with me, he stalked me. sent me texts, asking me to do things, asking me to send pictures, he even sent me porn...of him. It was a monday and i had chemistry, he cornered me i...
A. 29 May 2007: kai babe in order to calm your self down, concentrate on ur breathing.. tell your councellor, tell every person you trust and can talk to, and tell them you dont want im to be in the same room as you AT ALL, if its lads that bother you, try stay on ... (read in full...)
We're going on a party camp out..and my bf wants to have sex with me! Should I let him?
Q. Hii. Well next friday I have a party and me, my boyfriend, my best girl friend and maybe her boyfriend and my best boy mate are planning to camp out. As we are typical teenagers we will obviously want booze and we want to have a good laugh. My boyfr...
A. 28 May 2007: Beth babe im nt gna tell u not to do it, to wait until a better time and moment and PLACE to have sex, because i am a teenager to and probs wudnt listen lol.. you say you love him, but babe u two have finished each other many times.. this camp out.. ... (read in full...)
First time sex with my bf hurt real bad! Was this normal?
Q. I am a 20 year old girl and me and my boyfriend tried to have sex yesterday for the first time (I was a virgin, he wasn't) and it really hurt and I had to tell him to stop. Now I feel bad that I had to stop him and I'm scared something is wrong with ...
A. 28 May 2007: babe different people get different amounts of pain, when first having sex.. of course it is normal.. next time you try and have sex, make sure you are quite wet and be relaxed, relaxation is the best way to open up your body.. you will love it, ... (read in full...)
Neighbor is wanting to call the police as his kid looked in our window, and saw us having sex! I think you should be able to do what you want in your own home! Any views?
Q. My neighbour has threatened to call the police as his 11 year old son saw my partner and I having sex in our living room. he also says it is illegal to walk around naked. The boy must have been in our back garden looking in the window so surley h...
A. 28 May 2007: no proof, in your own home, legal.. simple as that, u have done nothing wrong, tell him to call the police, see wat happens.. hope i helped x x x... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of this hair around my belly button?
Q. I have a hairy belly and I'm a girl. it's not extremely hairy, it's like every other girl, but because I'm Asian and have black hair you can see the hair. It looks really terrible. I love wearing short tops that show my belly but I can't because ...
A. 28 May 2007: hia chick, just shave it off if it realy bothers you babe but make sure you use shaving gel/cream cos u dont wana go cuttin ur skin n all, hope i helped, mail me if u wana chat x x x... (read in full...)
I masturbate, thinking about... myself!
Q. Do you think it's weird to masterbate thinking about yourself? I can have an orgasm when I think about myself wearing sexy clothing - my boyfriend can't believe I'm not thinking about having sex when I masterbate - does anyone else think of other ...
A. 28 May 2007: ur not weird babe its up to you wot u fantasise about whilst pleasuring yourself, its up to you and if it turns you on then go for it babe, hope i helped, mail me if u wana chat x x x... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill but I have lost the rest of my pack so I have missed 2 pills. What should I do?
Q. I'm on the pill but I have lost the rest of my pack so I have missed 2 pills. What should I do?...
A. 28 May 2007: hia babe, go to either, the doctors, or family planning clinic, they will sort you out with another pack of pills. it happened to me once, when i was on the pill, but now i have the implant. avoid sex without condoms, to avoid pregnancy, hope i ... (read in full...)
I have never had sex but masturbate a lot, will this make me loose?
Q. im a young girl with a really high sex drive. i can get horny anywhere, and everywhere. suprisingly i haven't had sex!! this is because me and my boyfriend want to have a white wedding. i have been masterbating a lot (with one finger), will this ...
A. 28 May 2007: babe if ur just usin one finger, ur hole will continue to close up, once you have had your wedding, it will become clear you are deff a virgin, even if ur hole doesnt shrink as tight as it could, it would stil only be a finger sized hole. dont worry ... (read in full...)
I'm confused, am I bi?
Q. I think im bisexual. How can I tell, I really fancy fit boys but I find girls really atractive. Im quite an art person and enjoy drawing naked people men and women.So am I bi? ...
A. 28 May 2007: hey babe, i no exactly wot u mean, but maybe ur just goin thru a 'phase' it is normal, but yea u could be bisexual, if u r, theres no shame in it at all.. but at the moment, you could infact just be bicurious. mail me if u wanna chat x x x x... (read in full...)
Breaking up with my boyfriend will probably cause me to fail the exams. What shall I do?
Q. I've been really hurt. I had to split up with my first proper boyfriend 2 days ago. We were together for a year and had all our 'firsts' together. During the last month of our relationship, he had started be really rude to me, saying stuff like 'I'm ...
A. 25 May 2007: babe the way he has treatd you is appauling! saying he will tell you in a weeks time! what you need is a lad who will treat you so much better! whilst doing your exams, DON'T think about him, think about other things which cheer you up and make you ... (read in full...)
Worried that if we stay together her many past encouters with Men will hang over us!
Q. Im 20yrs old. I have been going out with this girl for 6 months now and the number of guys she's bin with really bothers me (around 14). She went to a festival and had unprotected anal sex with some random guy in some forest last year...she has had ...
A. 24 May 2007: chick most peoples stomach turns thinking about the partners ex's, but if you TRUELY TURST AND LOVE!! this girl then i realy dont see a reason you should doubt her. she has done things in the past which she regrets and is now in a 6-month ... (read in full...)
He can say "I love you" over the phone but not in person.. why?
Q. my bf says he loves me on the phone and i believe him, but to my face he can only manage i like you. He can't explain himself. Whats going on?...
A. 24 May 2007: he could be nervous chick, it is a strong feeling love (not saying he doesnt love you) just wait a bit and i am sure he will come round, youve got so far (him being able to say it on the phone) like Dv said, it is very hard to say it sface to face, ... (read in full...)
Feel uncomfortable about my grown-up boys having their girlfriends stay over...
Q. I am 52 yrs.old and have two college-aged boys (20 and 22 years old). They've come home for the summer to live with me and work and both of their gilfriends have been hanging out with them at my house. This is fine, but then the g/f's have started ...
A. 24 May 2007: well i think you should tell them you are uncomfortable, but as you say, they are grown ups practically however, it is YOUR house not theres so, you are the person who makes the rules up not THEM. explain how you are uncomfortable, and if needs be, ... (read in full...)
My ex is still really angry at me for taking her virginity, when we were both 24...
Q. Hi. My ex is still really angry at me for taking her virginity, when we were both 24. We had been together for about 5 years before having sex for the first time, she had expained she wanted to wait until she was married before having sex. I had ...
A. 24 May 2007: she is putting her shame onto you, she had this beliefe she wanted to wait until after marrige. if (as you said) you did not presureise her, then you need to talk to her. let her know your concerns. dont keep quiet about this because if you do you ... (read in full...)
What is scat??
Q. I lost my virginity to my current boyfriend a few weeks ago. That's all well and fine, but now he's telling me that he has a fetish, "scat" I feel very embarrassed to ask him what this is. What is it?...
A. 24 May 2007: babe its where you get turned on by poo, i just looked up one of the definitions for it 'An abnormal, often obsessive interest in excrement, especially the use of feces for sexual excitement.' babe do u wana get urself into that? chick its rly not ... (read in full...)
Married one year and he has give me oral, only 3 times! Is there something wrong with me?
Q. I've been with my my husband for a little over a year and he's only given me oral pleasure 3 times. He wont talk about it with me or anything. I give him oral pleasure all the time and as soon as i bring him giving me oral pleasure he ignores me. ...
A. 24 May 2007: some men, dont like the taste of, the vagina no matter how clean it is.. he may have had a bad experience with oral and an ex partner which has resulted in him being almost scared of it. when i first met my partner, he didnt like it and said it was ... (read in full...)
He has a new gf and can't see me as friends, anymore. What should I do?
Q. My best friend, who I went out with 7 years ago, for 2 years, and then have been friends with him for the last 5 years, is not talking to me. He has decided to not be friends with me since he has a girlfriend. I am in love with him, and want him ...
A. 24 May 2007: i think you and him most likely dont have a chance, i know thats not what you want but even if you two did have a chance, at the moment he is with this girl, and i know it can be hard but maybe just let go of him for a while, or maybe ask him if u ... (read in full...)
Someone told my mom I was talking about sex - now my mom calls me deragatory names! Can she stop me from seeing my bf?
Q. this might not be a relationship, sex, or love question, but i need some advice! I HATE MY MOTHER!!! Okay so i was talking to someone and an adult went and said we were talking about sex and then that person told my mom. Now my mom is all the time...
A. 24 May 2007: first ov all babe ur stil young, i no u wud hate ppl sayin tht but its tru.. babe ur mum is worried about you, she doesnt want you geting hurt, so shes trying to stop you and your boyfriend seeing each other. at the moment i dont think you have ... (read in full...)
His penis goes soft when we have intercourse, now. Is he cheating or does he not love me anymore?
Q. Dear, cupid Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months the first two months of our relationship was good,but now when we go to have sexual intercourse,his penis goes soft right away, does that mean he doesnt love me any more?Or ...
A. 24 May 2007: chick dont worry i realy and truly dont think he is cheating, and i dont think he will be going off you -loving you-, you havent been that specific on sayin wether or not you still manage to have sex? like kenny said, alcohol is something which can ... (read in full...)
He doesn't last more than 45 seconds when we have sex!
Q. My fiancee and I have been together for a while..I know that sex isn't everything..However, it is good if done right...I have a situation like this we engage in intercourse half the time there is no foreplay and he doesn't last for more than 45 ...
A. 24 May 2007: babe i have the exact same problem, with my boyfriend. he lasts 45min on average. what you need is to ask him to engage on foreplay to you, massage your genitals, everything which turns you on.. you need to be near to orgasm when you end up having ... (read in full...)
I find that this "kind" of sex really hurts... any tips?
Q. boyfriend really wants anal sex but weve tried before, i can have a finger in my ass and i enjoy it its just that having him in there really hurts and is uncomfortable i dont know how to fully relax and let him in,it is wat he really wants any tips ...
A. 24 May 2007: well chick, you have to make sure its deff what you want (anal) and if u do definatly want it then there are plenty of ways for you to ''let him in ''. The best product i can sugest for you is lubricant which is a realy big help because of how easy ... (read in full...)
I cheated although not sexually, I'm pregnant with twins, but my bf doesnt think they are his!!!
Q. Hi, A few months ago i cheated on my b/f of 2 1/2 yrs. I met a bloke off the internet and spent 3 nites with him. We didnt have any sexual contact as such although we did kiss and we both wanted to but i couldnt go through with it as i realised...
A. 22 May 2007: rite 1st things first chick, you have done well admitting what you have done to him. 2nd, if u think about it, your boyfriend has done an amazing thing, wanting to work on your relationship by going to councelling, most guys would have left you by ... (read in full...)
Worried by my girlfriends sexual past...
Q. Before my girlfriend I was a virgin, we have been dating for 5 months and its been great fantastic and wonderfull. Currently the main problem in our relationship is how I feel about her sexual past. Personally I have become gradually more i...
A. 22 May 2007: Hey chick this is the same situation as me and my boyfriend had, i was 15 when we first had sex, before him i had several sexual partners and he was a virgin, also 20. You should try not to think about the past, the past is the past, let it lie. You ... (read in full...)
I have slept with my husband's 18 yearold cousin. Should we stop or carry on?
Q. I am 24 years old and I started sleeping with my husbands 18 year old cousin, I dont love the cousin it kinda was something that just happened. It is fun and exciting havent felt like this in along time. What do we do keep on or stop? Kinda want to ...
A. 19 May 2007: stop, rly chick put urself in your husbands position...u may like this guy but like u said u dont love him, you must have/or stil do love your husband or you wouldnt have married him. realy chick dont continue this as it WILL bring bad consiquences ... (read in full...)
I'm only 15 but my BF wants to stop using condoms and make me pregnant!
Q. Hi there I have been speaking to my bf and he wants me 2 have sex with him without a condom. He wants my kids but I'm only 15! wot do i do?...
A. 17 May 2007: chick k, a lot of my firends have had children young, one of my firneds was 11 when she had her baby, but i am not going to tell you its ok,like what CD said, they are hard work, trust me they are, if you both were reday for a baby then it should be ... (read in full...)
can you get pregnant from giving a blow job?
Q. hi there i was wondering if you were to give a guy a blow-job and he cums is there a possible chance that you can get pregnant?i need answers asap!!!!!thankyou:)...
A. 16 May 2007: not at all chick, the semen doesnt go into your vagina which is the only possible way of pregnancy. however through oral sex, blow-job, you can catch a STI so you should always wear a condom when giving oral, information on STI's, you can use this ... (read in full...)
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