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When is it right to change your "relationship status" on myspace / facebook?

Q.   when is the right time to change your status? I met my current man on myspace we have only been dating a few weeks, but I am willing to change my status as "in relationship" and I want him to aswell, would it be best to have a talk over this o...

A.   26 September 2007: yes talk to him before you do and then see what hes point of view is on it and everything good luck... (read in full...)

I like my drivers ed teacher!

Q.   So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...

A.   25 September 2007: no hes being a teacher so start dreaming some where eles, any normal man hes age and as a teacher would know better than like a student your age you have a long way to growing up and hes life as already toke off so find some one eles your ow... (read in full...)

He climaxed during the bj...but was it urine?!

Q.   I want some advice on whether the following is normal. I was performing oral sex on my boyfriend the other day and when he came there was masses of the stuff! His orgasm seemed to last a real long time (which obviously we both enjoyed!), but the ...

A.   25 September 2007: my husban has done this when i was giving him a hand job and it isnt urine at all its cum just you pretty much blew hes mind feel proud ... (read in full...)

He climaxed during the bj...but was it urine?!

Q.   I want some advice on whether the following is normal. I was performing oral sex on my boyfriend the other day and when he came there was masses of the stuff! His orgasm seemed to last a real long time (which obviously we both enjoyed!), but the ...

A.   25 September 2007: my husban has done this when i was giving him a hand job and it isnt urine at all its cum just you pretty much blew he`... (read in full...)

He climaxed during the bj...but was it urine?!

Q.   I want some advice on whether the following is normal. I was performing oral sex on my boyfriend the other day and when he came there was masses of the stuff! His orgasm seemed to last a real long time (which obviously we both enjoyed!), but the ...

A.   25 September 2007: my husban has done this when i was giving him a hand job and it isnt urine at all its cum just you pretty much blew he`... (read in full...)

Helppp!!! How can I control my jealousy?

Q.   I am going out with a boy I have been chasing up for a year now and finally he says he loves me a lot and I really do believe him as we wouldn't be together otherwise as he has never had a girlfriend before and he used to blow girls off a lot, which ...

A.   22 September 2007: frist i think you need to take a deep breath and calm down you were chasing him for a year now you get with him and you want him all to your thats normal but i think you need about losing him to a simple foolish thing like being jealious over a no... (read in full...)

Tonight my ex (who I care about more than anyone) told me how she slept with a guy we were talking to today for a one night stand...

Q.   Well as I post this I just suffered a terrible night. Tonight my ex (who I care about more than anyone) told me how she slept with a guy we were talking to today for a one night stand, and she told me that I mean everything to her and am her best ...

A.   22 September 2007: that has to be terrible but i say this plain she has no feelings for you and she just wants to be friends theres nothing you can do about that but go out and find some one that will love you back you deserve to be happy and if you feel as you ... (read in full...)

Is it ok he's an online gaming addict?

Q.   is it okei if my bf is an addict on online games and dont have time for me?...

A.   19 September 2007: no talk to him... (read in full...)

I'm 16, he's 19, and he says he's wanted to propose to me!

Q.   Right! i been wiv my bf for nearly 3months hes 19 n am 16 n we get on really really well as friends and as much much more i'm his longest relationship since he was 13 hes brilliant but last night we were chattin online n he was sayin how m...

A.   18 September 2007: i really think you two are moving a little quick and hes feelings for love maybe mistaken as the way he acts, hes probly hurt and feels as a fool for bring it up as it may seem to him like you shut him down but give him and the relationship... (read in full...)

I want the man I can't have and don't want the man I married!

Q.   My husband and I have pretty much had problems since day one. In fact, probably since before we were even married. Right now he's off in Iraq (don't worry, his job isn't anything remotely dangerous), and I feel like I like my life better without him ...

A.   18 September 2007: honey, your not selfish you haved tried and you just want to be happy. i think you should put space between you and your friend for the time being. as for the divorce you should do what makes you happy! like possible getting your ow... (read in full...)

Was my wife the victim of sexual assualt?

Q.   Was my wife a likely victim of sexual assault or rape? Before we got together when she was 18 years old she attended a 4th of July party at which she played a drinking game with somef other college students and got so drunk she blacked out. She ...

A.   18 September 2007: i agree with you if he knew she was to drunk to say yes than it was rape in my book anyways... (read in full...)

I had a gay encounter while my new girlfriend was away. Now she is back I don't know how I move on with her?

Q.   Hi everyone. I hope you can help me. I'm so depressed at the moment. I've been really confused about my sexuality. For a long time I've been turned on by gay porn and I fantasise about it a lot. One day fives months ago, I made the stupid m...

A.   18 September 2007: i think you need to get your sexuality stright because it seems as you couldnt enjoy it with the guy because your not proud of maybe being gay well this girl you feel as your fallen for you should keep her a distance as you figaur it out take... (read in full...)

She laughed of my body as we were getting intimate. What should I do?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend were "getting in the mood", but when I dropped my pants she laughed and said I was small. What should I do?...

A.   17 September 2007: Talk with her and tell her how she made you feel, ask her if she would like it if you said things about her body and have a good relationship talk with her to see where this is going. I think she has a lot of growing up to do and really you deserve ... (read in full...)

My ex allowed his female cousin to pick a fight with me...now he wants back with me.

Q.   I hav been having so much bad luck laterly ..:( my ex boyfriend's cousin wanted a fight so i gave her a fight but it was when i was goin out with my ex.And he dint stop it from happenin and he says hes wants to get back with me but i duno what sha...

A.   17 September 2007: dont go back with him it seems hes has no respect for you and if you get back then he'll think he can do what ever and you wont care he should have done something or said something but he didnt so why be with him?????? just find you som... (read in full...)

I really like my friends brother but I don't know how to be around him?

Q.   I really like my best friend's brother. my best friend knows and encourages it, and i've made it pretty clear that i like him to him. the problem is, whenever i see him, i just turn into a coward! and he doesnt help either, because he's one of ...

A.   15 September 2007: suck up what you got and ask him if you and him can talk and take him some where that you two can talk things over and let him know by words that you like him see what he says ... (read in full...)

I've just started seeing a girl but I prefer her mate. What can I do?

Q.   im going out with this girl for about three weeks but for some reson i like her best frend.but i know if i leave her her frend wont like me.so can someone help me?...

A.   15 September 2007: get what you take here hun they're friends and if you hurt her in leaving her for her friend than they wont be friends even if her friend goes for you that is but trust yourself, no use being with some one you dont or hardly like ... (read in full...)

I don't wanna come out to strong but I want him to know he is on my mind. How should I go about that?

Q.   so i got this guy. my guys' amazing! were not boyfriend and girlfriend---yet! but we both really like eachother. we had "the conversation". ya know. what page are we in, stuff like that. turns out, were sooooo on the same page!! it's amazin...

A.   15 September 2007: well hun you can just be you and him liking you more will come natural if he feels for you but for the time beig he said take things slow so keep somethings covered not everything like youre interessed but dont go telling him hes on your mind so ... (read in full...)

I feel like I don't love him anymore..

Q.   I cant wait till its my birthday! but theres one thing. i feel that i dont love him anymore. i mean, i dont have that feelinf like i use to. everytime i see him think him as a friend but i dont know how to tell him.somw times i try to tell im but, ...

A.   15 September 2007: be firm and dont take back what you say let him know you wish to be hes friend if he can handle that and you need time in your life to be single and breath a little and cut it short with him saying you got to go ... (read in full...)

Does this mean she wants to break up?

Q.   my girlfriend and I had a serious fight about me not showing enough love to her, I already admit to it and told her that I was gonna change, but she doesn't believe me, and all she says is that she doesn't know what to do anymore wit us, does that ...

A.   14 September 2007: i think shes hurting and feel as there is no care and for you to say you will change is a light on the bright side for her but she doesnt want to be let down and she is letting you know that she isnt going to carrie on like this any longer if you ... (read in full...)

Is it ok to mess with other girls when she's in college?

Q.   It's very hard to see my girlfriend in college while I'm still in high school and I'm feeling extremely lonely. If you love someone, is it ok to mess with other girls when she's in college?...

A.   14 September 2007: I think you should have a relationship talk and everything maybe your not mature enough to relize you have a relationship and need to understand cheating isnt just wrong but very hurtful i dont see this working out for you. look at it this way ... (read in full...)

Can a 17 year old be jailed for impregnating a 14 year old?

Q.   can a 17 year old male get put in jail for getting a 14 year old female pregnant...

A.   14 September 2007: i dont think so i know california doesnt but you should do good by the baby and watch where you put your thing before you end up too deep in things you dont need to ... (read in full...)

He doesn't like to spend time with me as much I would like to with him...

Q.   I've been in this relationship for over a year and I know that I may be quite needy for quality time and love. I've given everything but haven't recieved the amount needed in return. I love him but these days all I do is cry over things he's doing. ...

A.   11 September 2007: i feel for you i do what i think and this is my opion you need to givr him s little space and maybe talk to him abit how you are feeling just try not to push him away thats the last thing you want to do i think running out and not even giving ... (read in full...)

Am I still a virgin?

Q.   Hi, on my birthday my friends bought me a vibrator. Now am i still a virgin since i use it?...

A.   11 September 2007: yes you are a virgin as you have not had the real thing even thow you may have broke thru that piece of skin ... (read in full...)

Why do I keep having these fantasies about having sex with a DOG?

Q.   Hello everyone. I am 19 a 19 year old college girl. I have a pretty good sex life, but lately I have found myself masturbating more and fantasizing about k9. I swear to you I have never done it and have not even touched a dog down there, I don't ...

A.   9 September 2007: stay away from the dog and get help ... (read in full...)

Tests were negative but I've been having symptoms of pregnancy and am very confused! What are your opinins?

Q.   My name is Arianna. I'm 16. I don't know if i'm pregnant. We had sex aug 1 and the condom broke, i was supposed to start aug 11 and didnt. On aug 10, 11 and 12 i had light brown spotting. I have a few of the symptoms: headaches, sensitive to ...

A.   8 September 2007: sorry to tell you the ladies wrong there is no way if they did an exam that you could be your not pregnant and be happy ... (read in full...)

I have a crush on a shy guy. How should I tell him?

Q.   Dear Cupid, Recently, I've developed a crush on my good friend Kat's older brother, Jay. For those of you who may ask, yes, I have already talked to Kat about my feelings for Jay. That was the first thing I did. I've heard about people getting a...

A.   4 September 2007: just go for it got nothing to lose all he can say is he doesnt like you and that isnt that bad but also tell him where there isnt so many people around or just you two so he isnt as shy... (read in full...)

Many talk about writing a letter to their ex but what about sending it?

Q.   Everyone (my friends, advice columnists on the internet, etc.) seem to think that WRITING a letter to your ex can be an extremely useful exercise to get some of your emotions out and help you to move on. That said, no one seems to think that SE...

A.   4 September 2007: thats your choice but may hurt you in the long run and not help you so much as of getting over her but it seems you want her back in a way but that is my opion am i right ? any who i think the best thing to do is ask your self why you would want... (read in full...)

He says he will never forgive me if I dont give him rent money

Q.   I just broke up with my boyfriend and am in process of moving out. Movers come Wednesday. I gave up my apartment the first week in May. We never put any kind of lease in writing and he has me pay him for everything in cash so he does not have to ...

A.   4 September 2007: i agree with hlskitten she said it all but i can add that you shouldnt try to work out anything with this man he is no good and it seems as all you are is a pay check he could careless long as the bills are payed and he gets to keep hes money so l... (read in full...)

A good friend broke up with another good friend because he says he loves me. I am torn! I love him, too, but my friend is mad!

Q.   hey i need help!!! i am 22,my pal [D] whos 25 said he is in love with me, he just broke up with his girl[M]who happens to be my friend also, D says he did it for me...he even told M that hes for me and he cant go on with her...M came to my house ...

A.   4 September 2007: your playing with fire and i say its better to have friends than to lose everything if this relationship doesnt work out, if anything dont jump into anything right away give there break up some time and rebuild what you all have together she ma... (read in full...)

I am 23 and have fallen for a 14 year old!

Q.   i am a 23 year old male, and i have a 14 year old friend i have meet and known for a while, we get on really well, and her parents seem to trust me and her. but i think i maybe fallin in love with her, and i think she feels the same way, im not...

A.   4 September 2007: give your friendship time and when shes 16 then see how it goes and take it from there you both are in too differnt age groups when she is 18 youll be 27 and itsnt as bad with the 9 year gap as it is now so dont try anything im sure you both want... (read in full...)

I still want him back, after he cheated on me! What should I do?

Q.   O.K My ex-boyfriend and I split like 7 months ago, and he has a new girlfriend. Which is the reason why we split!! I ended up hurt really bad as he chose to be with her. However, recently I have met up with him and we ended up messing around. He was ...

A.   3 September 2007: remove your self from the picture its clear your just hurting your self and causing your self pain plus he cheated and he thinks its okay because your letting him think that by talking staying in contact and fucking him get real her this man ... (read in full...)

I am monitoring all interaction between my wife and her friend. Did I do the right thing?

Q.   For the past couple of weeks my wife has been exchanging sexual emails with an old friend she found online. They had phone sex and even met up one day when she took the kids out to the cinema. I confronted her about it and she insists that although ...

A.   3 September 2007: if you cant trust her with him as she broke that trust than why let her think you are okay with it ? put your foot down and let her know how you feel if this keeps up than whats next real sex ??????? good luck ... (read in full...)

Do I move away and get away from her, or stay and help her out?

Q.   Iv been with my girlfriend for 2 years nearly, her mums an alcoholic and its interfeared with our relationship a lot, but iv stood by my girlfriend to help her. But when we first got together my gf was also alcoholic at 16, but I helped sort her ...

A.   3 September 2007: i say follow your heart but use your head in the sence that you do want you need to in your life do you see anything for you both other than bf/gf with her??? if not i say end it and do what you need to but if you do want children can you se... (read in full...)

Are ultra thin condoms more likely to break?

Q.   how effective are ultra thin condoms with spermicide. Because they are ultra thin are they more likely to break??...

A.   31 August 2007: me and my man have used them alot and they have never broke but it depends on the condom and the brand and also how the condom fits but sorry couldnt help much ... (read in full...)

I think I am too tight

Q.   hi. im 16 and recently lost my virginity, the thing is, i did not bleed and stopped him before it hurt me too much.i don't think that i let him penetrat all the way in me and it also tore my skin at the bootem of my vagina. did he break me through? ...

A.   31 August 2007: hun, be happy your tight !!!!!!!!! you just have to be careful i bet it feels better for im you being real tight than being lose i have that same problem i can take only one finger in me and also my bf is 6 inch but i got use to it and he ... (read in full...)

How can I convince my sister in law to have sex with me?

Q.   Q. I am married for the last thirteen years but I am in love with my younger sister-in-law for the last eleven years. I always fantisize about her during sex with my wife. I have an obssessive compulsive disorder about her. I told her that I wanted ...

A.   31 August 2007: i dont believe this poster as i feel he is asking these questions for thrills and also i think as he maybe intressed in hes sister inlaw but wanting to hear views its wrong and really really aweful for your wife to go thru this you deserve nothing ... (read in full...)

When in a relationship is it right to become sexually active?

Q.   When in a relationship is the right time to start becoming sexually active? And does an age difference from say 17-23 would make any difference?...

A.   29 August 2007: well my sister inlaw is 17 with a 21 year old and i dont see a problem with it but 17 and 23 is a bit much for me but thats just my opion its not too bad it would be better if you were 18 and he was 24 but age is just a number becareful though you ... (read in full...)

I lose my erection when trying to penetrate!

Q.   i have a problem which has been troubling me for a long time, about 3 years. i have no problem having sex, but there are many, and i mean many, occasions where i lost my erection while trying to penetrate, the moment i went in i would slowly los...

A.   29 August 2007: you need to relax it may be all in your head try going it using your head not your brain next time and take it slow and see what happends if that doesnt work than come back for more advise i think you may be having anxiety which means your not real ... (read in full...)

Tests were negative but I've been having symptoms of pregnancy and am very confused! What are your opinins?

Q.   My name is Arianna. I'm 16. I don't know if i'm pregnant. We had sex aug 1 and the condom broke, i was supposed to start aug 11 and didnt. On aug 10, 11 and 12 i had light brown spotting. I have a few of the symptoms: headaches, sensitive to ...

A.   26 August 2007: no your not its all in your head !!!!... (read in full...)

I wake up with bruises, why is this happening?

Q.   welll, my problem is more medicalll. i wake up and i have bruises of my hips. my mom jokingly said that i do that to myself cuz i hate my big waist. im curvy, :] but then she said not to worry. but i think she might be right? help!...

A.   25 August 2007: go to the doctors asap and explain to them what is going on that cant be good and i dont think your mom should joke about that kinda thing... (read in full...)

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