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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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I know he's been cheating because I saw proof, but he doesn't know. Help!
Q. Can anyone give me some advice? I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, we do not live together. Over the past year he has become very cagey about his mobile phone - takes it everywhere with him including the bathroom. Last autumn, ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!
I think he is being incredibly unfair towards you and i dont think you should put up with it. He is lying about his wearabouts etc. However.. you were on a 'break' which means he hasnt cheated at that point. He has admitted that he kissed anot... (read in full...)
The test came up negative but I still think I might be! Help please
Q. I took a test about 4 days ago but it said you have to take it like a day before to see if you pregnant. Well it came up neg. But i feel very sick in the morning or anytime i eat something. I have sharp pain in my uterus. I'm wondering if I should ...
A. 28 February 2008: hey babe take another test in about 2-3 weeks or until a week latr than your period is due .. feel free to mail me x x :)... (read in full...)
I let him talk me into an abortion!
Q. I've never been so scared in my life! last summer me and my boyfriend/fiancee started having sex. We'd known eachother for 3 years and been best friends for 2. We started going out on February 21st 2007. We didnt want to push things so we waited for ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hey babe i actualy agree with kay.kay.. i dont realy like the idea of an aboriton.. Your boyfriend told you what his opinions were on the situation and you chose to accept it. I know how hard it must be for you.. dealing with this.. you need to talk ... (read in full...)
Is there anything else I can get to stop the pregnancy risk?
Q. Basically i had sex with my boyfriend a week ago, unprotected. And totally forgot to get the morning after pill. Is there anything else i can get to stop the pregnancy risk? ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi babe, it does depend quite a lot of what stage of your period you were at. Take a test in about a week, and take it from there :) GOOD LUCK!!! feel free to mail me x X... (read in full...)
Will the morning after pill stop me getting pregant?
Q. hello, a friend of mine said morning after pills really works: like when you take it within 73 hours, it really works like it clean everything in you out. Last night me and my boyfriend had sex and he cummed in me. After that i put spermcid...
A. 28 February 2008: The pill, commonly known as the morning after pill, isnt as effective as other forms of contraception. You should ensure that you get the pill as soon as possible. You need to change this form of contraception aswell because the longer you do this, ... (read in full...)
She's pregnant but has been bleeding for two weeks now. What advice can I give?
Q. A friend of mine doesn't have periods for two months. A pregnancy test showed she's pregnant (I think some 4-5 weeks). And now she had some bleeding, it began two days ago, she's really worried and frustrated. Can it mean smth's wrong with the baby? ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi babe, go straight to the doctors, or preferably the hospital, there could be quite a few reasons for this but to be on the safe side, get her checked out. GOOD LUCK!!! feel free to mail me x... (read in full...)
I really want a baby (I'm 16) and to leave my parents' house where I'm not attended properly. Help?
Q. I'm 15 almost 16 in November, my boyfriend has just turned 16. I live in Syracute and he lives in Albany, we really love each other and we've been going out for 9months, I really want to have a baby with him and live with him, but my parents want ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hey babe, i know EXACTLY what you are thinking.. i have just turned 17 and my boyfriend of two years is 21. There are all the factors of money, a house, care etc that you need to consider. For the past 5 years i have been planning my future, and ... (read in full...)
If I am pregnant by this guy, would my baby be okay?
Q. I'm turning 16 this year and the guy is turning 20. I met this guy 3 years ago through a friend, I didn't know who the guy was at all then later found out he had the same last name as I did. I didn't think anything of it at the time, but started to ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hey hon, find out if he is your cousin first, ask around your family and ask him for details of his family etc. Where you say "and of course he was really experienced" i am guessing you mean this towards his age.. That's not exactly how all men are, ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my cousin that I saw his girlfriend cheating?
Q. oh my god i walked in on my best friend having sex with her boyfriends best friend! i dont know what to do. her boyfriend is my cousin and even though we're not that close hes still blood!should i snitch on my best friend and help my cousin or ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hey hon.. u gotta think about this carefully.. who would your cousin belive, also if they did split then you could be blamed, even though you clearly aren't to blame.. mail me if you want to talk x... (read in full...)
Is my teacher's behaviour really unprofessional?
Q. Is my teacher's behaviour really unprofessional? I like him he is a really sweet guy but my mate has recently said that he fancies me? which i dont believe to be true, but is what he doing suspicous and prehaps the reason why my mate thinks this? H...
A. 8 February 2008: Hey hon, he certainly sounds like he is trying to impress you.. ur friends could be right, alsthough he is trying to be kind to you.. it could go too far.. let him know your boundaries if he pushes you too far.. let me no how u get on hon, mail me ... (read in full...)
Do girls like porn?
Q. do girls and women also watch porn and if they do, which types?...
A. 8 February 2008: Hey babe, yea some do, and some dont.. all porn is great.. but some people think it isnt.. feel free to mail me at any time xx... (read in full...)
A casual encounter with my ex awakened my partner's jealousy! I love my partner and this coldness scares me!
Q. Hi, I have a dilema that's really troubling me. I really need some advice. I have been with my partner for 3 and a half years. He means the world to me, and I love him so much, maybe too much. He has to have a lot of contact with his ex wife...
A. 8 February 2008: Hey babe, give him some time.. he is just thinkin the worst.. he will come round and if he doesnt, keep proving to him, you love him and would do anything for him etc =]feel free to mail me at any time xx... (read in full...)
How do I go out with this guy I like and not hurt my friend who likes him, too?
Q. Im 13 and really like this boy at school, but one of my best mates does as well. Apparently he likes me as well but i dont know if this is true and i dont want to hurt my friend. Help me plz...
A. 8 February 2008: Hey hon, first of all think how you would feel if it was your friend.. then think what your mate may say if you ask her, then ask her what she thinks (if your sure theres a chance she may be ok with it) then see where it goes from there on. feel ... (read in full...)
Should I take what she said in a bad way??
Q. i have a some pictures on my myspace and my friend said you look really nice and pretty on them she also said "you look so different", should i take that in a good way or a bad way?...
A. 8 February 2008: Take it as a compliment hon!! feel free to mail me at any time xx... (read in full...)
Could my cousin be bi and have feelings for me??
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl and I need people's advice. I think my 17-year old cousin is bi or someting or maybe she has feelings for me. Whenever I sign on msn she always clicks me and says hey or hi. What do you think?...
A. 8 February 2008: Hey babe, there is a very more than likely chance she is just being friendly, after all she is your cousin! feel free to mail me at any time xx... (read in full...)
Does he fancy me because I look like his sister?
Q. Hey, so.. i found out this guy called (A) fancies me a while back and i was a bit suprised but it never really bothered me and i still get people coming up to me today saying i think (A) has a thing for you. I don't really find him attractive so ...
A. 8 February 2008: Hey hon, just put it to the side, there is a high chance he is just saying you and his sis are pretty, dont worry at all xxx... (read in full...)
My mother-in-law hinted she wanted to sleep with me, I always had this phantasy so what should I do?
Q. Me and my wife have been married for two months. Well her mom and dad just got a divorce. My wife has always told her mom her sex stories. I brought my baby over to her moms house and she was hinting around that she wanted to sleep with me. She said ...
A. 8 February 2008: Don't betray your wife like this, especially with her mother.. dont go there at all!!... (read in full...)
My children's grandmother wants to take custody of them from me!
Q. Hello, My name is Faith and im 21 years old. I have triplet 5 year old girls Their father died 11 months after their birth. 3 days ago his mother demanded that the children went to live with her as im struggling. Im not. I work a part ti...
A. 8 February 2008: Hi hon, talk to his mum and ask her to explain her reasons.. and think to yourself if she puts this throught the courts.. is this going to allow her the children or not..wel done on raising your girls, good luck for the future and keep in touch ... (read in full...)
Shave vs. not shaving
Q. I wanted my wife to shave her private area, but she says it is because I want her to look like the porn stars. I would do the same. Anybody have an opinion on this?...
A. 8 February 2008: Hey hon, you should make sure she knows and believes and trusts you that you want her to do this not because of porn stars.. let her feel comfortable at all times!! feel free to mail me at any time xx... (read in full...)
Does one's body change after losing their virginity?
Q. I was just wondering...Does your body change after you lose your virginity? If so what changes??? My mom told me that when girls lose their virginity that their butts start to get wider..is this true???...
A. 8 February 2008: the vagina is the most changed part of your body.. it stretches slightly.. your mum was trying to protect you and put you off sex.. there has not been any medical proof of that happening.. feel free to mail me at any time xx... (read in full...)
Is my virginity a problem?
Q. Hello,there!i have a question,I have a problem coz im not virgin anymore then he doesn't appreciate it that im still a virgin at my age now...He knows all my past that i have many boyfriends before but i never give up to them of my virginity,i ...
A. 8 February 2008: To a respectful man, wether or not you are a virgin shouldn't really matter, under most cercumstances xx... (read in full...)
Why won't my partner be open about his fantasies?
Q. Recently I found out my partner has been looking at porn and signing up for online dating sites. I had confronted him about this and he said the only reason he is on the dating sites is to look at sexy photos of average women. I asked him why it is ...
A. 8 February 2008: Hey hon, give him some time to see if he opens up to you, like the others have said, he could just be embarrased about this certain bit of the topic.. let him feel comfortable about opening up to you about it.. I agree about the dating sites, i ... (read in full...)
I can't even think of being with another man, please tell me how I can forget my ex!
Q. he had been my boyfriend for 7 years ,he had been always the one for me,during this 7 years we broke up 2 or 3times and i went for other guys but he was always diffrent so i came back to him,finally we broke up last year ,now i want to forget him ...
A. 8 February 2008: Hey hon, have you tried doing a hobby which you never did with this partner.. anything which you cant relate back to him.. you need something which takes your mind off him.. Good Luck babe, feel free to mail me at any time xx... (read in full...)
How do I confront him? He's looking for other girls on net!
Q. Hi there, I am 23 years old and in a loving relationship...or so i thought. I have just come back from a week away at work and logged onto my computer at home to check my emails. I have found out that my boyfriend has been looking at escorts on the ...
A. 8 February 2008: Hey babe, just slightly say, i was checking my emails and saw (your friends name) was being searched in google.. and wondered why, and also ask does he think the idea of escorts is good.. let him have a chance of explanation.. and let him have his ... (read in full...)
How do you move on from someone you truely loved and still be friends?
Q. I was with my ex for nearly 2years,and before that we we were best friends..he was my 1st love, who i loved with all my heart and soul. We've been split up for 9 months now, and as hard as i try to move on i seem to be stuck with a broken heart!! ...
A. 8 February 2008: Hey sugar =] I know how you are feeling, and exactly like Laura 1318 said, you need to be able to forgive him.. It is hard to stay friends with a person you loved so much as you will go on to watch him with other girls, however you have coped ... (read in full...)
Getting an ex back - any tips?
Q. How do i get my ex boy friend back, we split early December and he's since changed his number and i don't see him much anymore, i'm not sure if it was because he was my first guy to go out with and it didnt last for very long where he called it off. ...
A. 8 February 2008: Hey babe, if this lad is purposely trying to avoid you and not wanting to get in touch, dont waste your time on him!! If he has changed his number and gone out of his way to hide it from you.. put your effort into someon else and someon who will ... (read in full...)
13 and in want of sexual toys - how to buy one/ask my parents?
Q. im 13 and i want some condoms and sexual stuff like that how should i ask my mum to get me some orhow do i get some??? [Added] im 13 and want to get a butt plug becasue im sexually active i dont no how to ask my parents im to embarassed i rea...
A. 8 February 2008: Hey hon, im not sure about the law where you are but it is illegal to walk into shops any buy them here, under the age of 18. Not sure how your mum will react to asking her =/ wait a bit babe or think of other things to subsitute for it.. good luck ... (read in full...)
My younger sister makes me horny, please help.
Q. hi. I am 15 and i get really horny when i am around my younger sister who is 13. I really want to see her naked but never have. What should i do?...
A. 20 January 2008: Babe, u r at the age where you want to experiment and you want to see bodies, which will turn u on. I know you may see no harm in this situation, but it is potentially dangerous. Dont let yourself fall for your sister in that way, you need to think ... (read in full...)
Contraceptive questions - any Doctors out there to answer?
Q. Hii well i just wanted 2 ask everyone, especially the doctors on this site.. im on the contraceptive implant and i will be coming off it in september.. I dont have regular periods and when i do have a period it could last a month etc.. I will go ...
A. 10 January 2008: Because he we would like to start a family, have a house, get on with our lives. Neither of us are people who like to party or go out.. we arent like that at all.. I am having a big thaught about it, and i still have another 2-3 years until i make ... (read in full...)
Could these be signs my girlfriend is pregnant?
Q. Hi, I was wondering if you could help me? My girlfriend is going to the doctors on Monday as she has had heavy bleeding when she wasn't due on her period plus when she has come on her period, it's been heavy. She's also been feeling abit sick. Can ...
A. 10 January 2008: Hi hon, if you are pregnant, there is a chance of slight bleeding (and i meant SLIGHT.. spotting).. if she is bleeding that heavy then if she was pregnant then she may have misscarried..I doubt she was pregnant but the doctors is the best way.. mail ... (read in full...)
30 and pregnant, my bf does not agree to keep the baby, but my mother says it is my last chance to have a child, so what should I do?
Q. im 30. im pregnant but my bf says he doesn't want a baby. i told my mum and she said that it's my last chance to have 1. Is my mum right and what should I do?...
A. 10 January 2008: Hi hon, its YOUR decision as well!! He may not want another child, but you are the one carrying the child. You need to tell him if you want the child deep down, if you or he wants a child in the future, then i do suggest you keep the child. There is ... (read in full...)
Should I be pregnant at this age?
Q. Me and my boyfriend has had sex without a condom loads off times in the past month to hav a baby because last year we found out i was pregnant but got an abortion because we was not ready but now i dont no if i am pregnant now because i hav just ...
A. 10 January 2008: Hey hon, i was EXACTLY like you at your age.. i wanted a child.. i am now 16, in three months i will be 17.. i honestly think if you and your boyfriend are in love, you need to talk about it, if you both decide then you need to talk to your ... (read in full...)
She cannot feel pleasure if she gets very lubricated? How to give her an orgasm?
Q. i cant give my girlfriend an orgasm whats going on? During sex my girlfriend gets to wet and shes stop feeling me? help me please...
A. 10 January 2008: Hey hon, the lubrication wont actualy be the problem if you use a lot of foreplay before then this can make it better.. the G-SPOT is the main place for orgasm.. I hope i helped, mail me if you would like to talk x
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He didn't ejaculate, but could I be pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend pulled out before he was going to ejaculate and he had a condom on. He cleaned himself up and everything but a little while later we did it without a condom but only for at most 30 seconds and he wasn't near to ejaculating. Is it ...
A. 10 January 2008: Hey hon, its definatly possible, go to see your GP for a test, and if you are too scared, get one from your nearest store, but you will only be able to use the test at least a week after conception unless you go to your GP. I hope i helped, mail me ... (read in full...)
Is my being a bit overweight affecting our sex life?
Q. I need tips for girl on top sex! My boyfriend and I have been having sex for almost a year and I really want to try to shake things up in the bedroom. I know he would enjoy some sex with me on top, as would I, but every time we try we can't seem ...
A. 10 January 2008: Hey hon, its got absolutly nothing to do with your weight so dont worry!! you just need to relax and like klouise said you should try it in a chair.. i hope i helped :) mail me if you would like to talk xx... (read in full...)
I denied he was my bf and he looked really hurt. Any ideas why??
Q. There's this boy I like in yr 8 and today when we were on the train he was talking to me (we always talk on the train) and this girl came up and asked if I was his girl friend (unfortunately-I'm not) and he said "yeah- she is" but I wasn't really ...
A. 3 December 2007: Hey hon, well he may have been thinking if he said that then you may know he fancies you, or maybe he just didnt want that girl to ask him out.. I hope i helped, feel free to mail me about anything x... (read in full...)
I'm 7 weeks pregant and really scared.
Q. This is a bit long, sorry but i need some help!! Okay, im 16 years old and in 2 months will be 17. My boyfriend is also 16 and in 1 and a half months will be 17. We've been together since we were 12 but only became sexually active a few mo...
A. 26 November 2007: Hey babe glad to hear it, keep an eye on your boyfriend in the future :) xxx... (read in full...)
How long after conception would it take to affect your period?
Q. Hey, I was just wondering...... On thursday i had unprotected sex..we thought it would be fine as my period was due on sunday and we didnt think there would be much risk so close to my period.... Anyway Now I'm late...only by one day mine. But I ...
A. 26 November 2007: Hon, go to see your doctor, your period could be affectd at any time. The reason you have a period is when the egg is discarded but it wont be if it is fertilized. Take a test and its better to use condoms at all times in the future unless you want ... (read in full...)
My bf thought I was joking when I refused intimate contact as we had been talking about it, and he raped me. Please help me.
Q. hi im 13 and i was raped by my 13 year okld boyfriend and think i might be pregnant i know he was only joking around and he thought i was joking when i said no because i had been talking about it please help me....
A. 26 November 2007: Hey sugar. Your boyfriend has madde a very bad and serious mistake. You need to tell an adult that you trust and if possible report him to the police. He needs to know what he has done wrong. You should see a doctor about maybe being pregnant. Dont ... (read in full...)
Diets to help lose weight?
Q. Hi whats the best type of diet to loose weight? How much exercise do you reccomend. and How many calories. Thanks. Im starting the gym soon also....
A. 26 November 2007: Hey hon, the healthy eating diet is the best and will last, you may have heard of the quick diets, but they dont work if you want to keep the weight off. You should cut your normal calory intake down by 500 which will be a great start. Cut out ... (read in full...)
How should I ask her out?
Q. i really like my friend. We're both 17. I've liked her for a year. Any advice on how i could ask her out? How could i confess to her my feelings?...
A. 26 November 2007: you could get her a side for a min and pour your heart out to her :) that usually does the trick :) Feel free to mail me about anything x... (read in full...)
I'm 7 weeks pregant and really scared.
Q. This is a bit long, sorry but i need some help!! Okay, im 16 years old and in 2 months will be 17. My boyfriend is also 16 and in 1 and a half months will be 17. We've been together since we were 12 but only became sexually active a few mo...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi sugar, what a terrible thing to happen! It is excellent that you reported her, and still keep any eye out on your boyfriend.. I think, if you want this child and love and trust your boyfriend, have the baby with your boyfriend, however, only do ... (read in full...)
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