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Hi, I'm Jem.

Not your typical guy, I guess.

I appreciate the little aspects in life for they are the only things that truely matter.

People tell me I give good advice, and I'd like to think they're right.

I'm pretty liberal when it comes to life, and I like to subscribe to the idea that you should live however you see fit as long as it's not detrimental to others.

Anything else you want to know, just ask.

And remember:

Don't underestimate the power of words and as someone, who's name I can't quite remember, once said;

All you need is love...

Would it be wrong to have a f*** buddy while my girlfriend is out of state?

Q.   Is casual sex OK when you love someone else who is not around? My girlfriend took a job that forces her to travel out of state for weeks at a time 90 percent of the time. I love her but dont want to sleep alone. Is it wrong to find a casual sexual ...

A.   3 August 2007: As with all these other answers, if you love her, then why would you even THINK about being with someone else!? As is my understanding of love, she'd be amazingly hurt to think you feel this way. However crude this sounds, go out and buy a magazine... (read in full...)

19 and 14 is that ok?

Q.   Is it ok for me to date a guy that is 19 and I am 14?. I really like him and don't want to let him go....

A.   22 July 2007: Short answer is "no" ...however, being in this situation myself, albeit on the other side so to speak, sticking to just "being freinds" is the only option you two have. I know a lot of people will have their concerns, but if this guy is respectf... (read in full...)

I want to wait until she is old enough to date

Q.   Following up from my previous question whereby I asked for advice concerning the 4 and a half year gap (14/19)between myself and the girl I met I just want to thank everyone for reassuring me about how I am no 'monster' as I put it. Going on the a...

A.   21 July 2007: Wow. 2 answers in 2 minutes to a question I posted nearly a month ago. That's strange... But yeah, way to rub salt into the wound guys. Found out she's moving away. Kind of devastated about it... Thanks anyway = )... (read in full...)

I'm 12 and my 17 year old boyfriend's penis is too big for me, what do I do?

Q.   im 12 and my boyfriend is 17 we have had sex but his penis is too large and wont go up can you please help me ? (give me some advice)...

A.   16 July 2007: Wow. Where to begin? Sweetie, I know you probably don't want to here this, but he really shouldn't be doing this. It's not only illeagal, but highly irresponcible. I found myself in a situation similar to this a few years ago, and backed off a... (read in full...)

Is is ok for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 20 year old female?

Q.   Is ok if a 20yr(My Girl) and a 17yr old(Me) date and there is sex involved???...

A.   15 July 2007: From a biological point, I guess it's perfectly fine. I mean, it wouldn't be inapropriate if you did have sex... But then there's the whole legal aspect to it, which could potentialy get her into trouble as you live in America But at the end ... (read in full...)

I turn 20 soon and im still a virgin. Is that okay?

Q.   I turn 20 soon and im still a virgin. Is that okay? I wanted to wait until i was in a serious relationship before i had sex but now i dont know if i should just go out and sleep with someone because of the whole age-pressure thing?...

A.   9 July 2007: I turn 20 soon and am in the same posistion as you, so don't worry. Had the odd chance to lose it, but thought, like you, I'd wait for a serious relationship- make it something to remember. People would be amazed to know this about me, so you'r... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is taller than me and I feel very uncomfortable about it.

Q.   Hi. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 4 months now and I love her. However, I have just noticed that she is taller than me. I'm 17 and only about 5'7"ish and I'm really insecure about my height. My girlfriend looks like she is about half an...

A.   7 July 2007: You want my honest opinion? The one I feel most people will give? Mate, you say you love her!! How does hight come into it? Seriously...get over it. It's 1 inch. Don't let such a trivial thing get you down. Lots of guys are shorter th... (read in full...)

How do I ask my girlfriend for sex?

Q.   hi i am a 15 yr old boy and i really want to have sex or at least get a bj from my gf but im to scared to ask her to what do i do...

A.   3 July 2007: Well of course you want sex- you're a 15 yrs old and MALE!! The importent thing to remember is that you've got a load of hormones racing through your bloodstream which are going to be heightening this urge. My suggestion would be to have an op... (read in full...)

I want to wait until she is old enough to date

Q.   Following up from my previous question whereby I asked for advice concerning the 4 and a half year gap (14/19)between myself and the girl I met I just want to thank everyone for reassuring me about how I am no 'monster' as I put it. Going on the a...

A.   26 June 2007: No! I havn't done a thing wrong!! Hah, no no no...I wouldn't EVER. I am, and will, remain just a freind until the whole legal complication is no longer an issue (just over a year) If you were to ask people who knew me, they'd tell you I am on... (read in full...)

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