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| | LethalInjection-x's profile:My name's Laura, &I'm from Birmingham, in the UK.
Admittedly I'm young, but I like listening to people, &I think I'm able to give level-headed, unbiased advice.
People fascinate me, &I'd rather sit back and watch a crowd of people than actually be involved. There's nothing more interesting than how people react to the things around them.
There's been so many times that I've wanted an answer to something, or someone to give me their opinion about a situation, &there's been no one. Which is why I love this site, and also why I make time to listen to others.
If anyone wants to know more about me, feel free to visit my myspace, you can talk to me via that aswell.
www.myspace.com/noonehearsmyscreams
I'll always have time for anyone, &I always reply to anyone who messages me.
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I made fun of my Indian friend's lack of fashion sense and he's very offended, will he forgive me?
Q. My good friend (male) and I were teasing each other and I made fun of his lack of fashion sense (brown belt and black pants), and I called him a "dork". He took great offense and hasn't spoken to me for a week. I apologized every day, and then he ...
A. 20 September 2008: Perhaps he took that particular comment more serious than the other things you both may have said, maybe his sense of fashion is something he knows he struggles with so he could see truth in the tease. If he still won't speak to you he's probably ... (read in full...)
What can I do, if anything, to make my periods lighter?
Q. hi, my periods a re really heavy, is there anything i can do to make them lighter? ...
A. 1 September 2008: There's actually a drug available on prescription to help with it. I think there may even be more than one. Go to see your doctor, they'll discuss it with you and find something suitable for you.... (read in full...)
How can I get him to genuinely like me and not wind me up?
Q. i really like this lad but he is 3-4 years older than me and he likes someoneelse. i talk to him on msn every nite and we flirt with each other but in his case he is just winding me up because he knows i like him. how can i get him to like me back ...
A. 17 April 2008: You can't force someone to return feelings, it just doesn't work. Plus, everything else is acting against you, the age gap, the fact he likes someone else. It seems like there's no chance of anything coming from the situation. My advice would be to ... (read in full...)
He is two years younger than me..but mature for his age, could it work out?
Q. I have a little problem... My cuzins and I gather together 3 times a week and this guy teaches us dance... Since the first day I realized that he keeps looking at me and flirting with me. Wen he teaches us the dance he keeps coming by me and holding ...
A. 17 April 2008: 2 years is such a small gap. &If he's mature for his age then the gap won't even be noticeable. I'd say if you like each other, go for it. &Have fun :)
x... (read in full...)
I've never went out with girls before, only boys. She plans to kiss me in public, I dislike the idea and don't know what to do!
Q. hey everyone I just got a girlfriend yesterday . It's kinda weird for me because she is the only girl I have ever liked and gone out with. I would be nervous even if I was going out with a guy but since she's a girl it makes it that much more n...
A. 14 April 2008: Firstly, if you're not entirely comfortable with it.. DON'T.
You could end up embaressed and regretting it completely, making kissing someone a bad experience for you.
Secondly, if this is your first girlfriend, and the first girl you've been ... (read in full...)
I hurts my girlfriend to sit down after anal sex, what should we do?
Q. Me and my g/f had anal sex for the first time a couple days ago, but now she says her butt hurts, and it hurts to sit down what do we do?...
A. 11 April 2008: Firstly, I'm annoyed at the people who have responded and branded anal sex wrong and "dirty". It's personal choice.
If it was her first time, you probably did too much too soon. She should be fine within a couple of days, if not, see a doctor. You ... (read in full...)
Dry skin and dandruff - how can I make these less noticeable at least?
Q. Uh... Hi. This is embarrassing. Well, I suffer from really dry skin and kinda bad dandruff. I use moisturiser and special shampoos and conditioners but nothing helps! I've used sensitive stuff as well but everything I've tried fails. I'm wor...
A. 11 April 2008: If special shampoos & moisturisers aren't working for you, you could try speaking to your doctor, they can provide subscription moisturisers and shampoos which are specially made for that skin type, and they're generally so much better than "off the ... (read in full...)
I have this big phobia of pain...the idea of feeling that long hard penis.........frightens me!!!!!
Q. Hey guys,I'm too scared of making love with my boyfriend. I enjoy massaging my pussy but when it comes to poke my fingers in that hole, it gives me shivers. I have heard that it is very painful and as thus never even tried that, so taking that long ...
A. 11 April 2008: By allowing the fear to take over you worsen the situation.
Before you can even think of inserting anything you need to be relaxed, completely. Your body's response to it will depend on whether you feel comfortable, and if you're not, you simp... (read in full...)
Is liking a 13 year old girl wrong, since I am 16?
Q. hi, i recently been hanging around with a girl, i really like her but im 16 and she is 13 is this wrong if i was to ask her out cos of the age difference? bearing the fact that i dont want sex i just want her ...
A. 30 January 2008: Perfectly fine, and to the person who implied it would only be slightly ok if you were very immature, boys mature slower so a 15/16 year old boy could and would have similar interests/thoughts to a 13/14 year old girl.
You said you don't want sex ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be TOO nice to women?
Q. How do I avoid being nice towards women? I've had relationships but they always end in me getting dumped. My best friend says its because im too nice. what does he mean?...
A. 30 January 2008: Your mate was probably basing that on the old "treat 'em mean keep 'em keen" notion, which is generally not true for most females.. but it has been known to be true.
I think maybe listening to your mate on this could be a bad thing, he could have... (read in full...)
I like him but I don't know what to do
Q. Okay, theres this guy i REALLY like, he knows I like him, but I dunno what to do =/...
A. 30 January 2008: Okay, so, you like him.. do you talk to him? Does he seem to get on with you? Try spending time with him, get to know him and see how it works out.
OR you could go for the blunt approach and just tell him.. but sometimes that creates sticky situ... (read in full...)
Should I grow my hair long?
Q. I am thinking of growing my hair long. i am a ginger 13 YR old boy and have been told by my classmates that i would not suit long hair. i still want to grow it though. they say that gingers cant have long hair. i am also wondering what style i ...
A. 30 January 2008: Firstly, if you want to do something, and providing it isn't against the law, go for it! No one should influence your decision.
I know lots of red-headed people with long hair, one of my male friends has bright orange, waist length hair, and it REAL... (read in full...)
She won't have vaginal sex with me, only the back door kind!
Q. Hi, I have been dating this girl from past 3 years now. We tried having vaginal sex many times but every time i have been unable to penetrate her for some or other reason. Either she is too scared of the pain either she is too tense etc.We tried ...
A. 30 January 2008: I think a lot of the responses here are far from anything you needed to hear.
I sympathise with you, and I admire you for sticking this out.
Firstly, I was exactly the same with my ex, we did exactly the same as you, although, I encouraged the use ... (read in full...)
I pulled away from a threesome. Should I go back and go with the flow?
Q. Hello, this is kind of a last resort because I know my friends would not understand. I am 15 and I am not eager to lose my virginity. Last night, I was with two friends (girls 14 and 16) in a bed and they both tried to touch me in a sexual way, I ...
A. 29 January 2008: I have a lot of respect for you, most of the girls and guys I know would go for it purely to be able to say they did it.
Clearly you didn't want to do it, whether it was a clear thing to you or a subconscious thing telling you that maybe it's not ... (read in full...)
I have a horrible feeling if he could trade me for his dead ex gf, I'd be dead and he'd be with her. I've always been the type to think the worst. Help before I ruin my relationship!
Q. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend at aged 20, I'm 21 now, he is two years younger than me, I was sensible about it as I've had over 15 boyfriends and he was the only really genuine guy. This is becoming an obsession with me though now, he lost his ...
A. 29 January 2008: I think the previous answer to this covered most of my views too.
If you waited until you were 20 and decided he was the most genuine out of 15 relationships, then clearly that shows how good a guy he is, indicating to me that he must clearly care... (read in full...)
My Abusive Ex- Boyfriend
Q. My Abusive Ex Boyfriend... The abuse started on my 21st birthday just last July. He beat me bad and I was really scared. I was new to the City and staying with him till I found a place so I did not know anyone yet. I stayed in the relation...
A. 29 January 2008: Keep telling yourself that you have the right to remove yourself from an uncomfortable situation, and that you deserve someone who can treat you right in all aspects of a relationship.
I've found that lots of girls and women I know of still feel... (read in full...)
I had fantasies about my wife being slutty with other men, but now we're acting them out I'm not so sure!
Q. well where do i start,im 35 and been married for 16yrs,i have 3 children with my wife,i have worked away from home for the past 14yrs and i am away for long periods at a time,for yrs we have had fantasies about my wife being a slut,as of recently ...
A. 29 January 2008: You really need to try to have a sit down, calm talk with your wife, explaining to her that yes, it was a huge fantasy previously, but looking back you can see that it should have stayed a fantasy.
I think maybe before speaking to her though, you ... (read in full...)
Been ignoring him after the sexual encounter as he is too silent in bed for my taste. Should I give him a chance?
Q. Hello Everyone, I am recently a single girl again and very passionate in bed. I started seeing this guy, we had sex, but I am totally turned off by him because he does not make noise in bed. Sorry if I sound like a man but say something already, I ...
A. 29 January 2008: I've found that quite a lot of guys I've met are like that, and a lot of women I know have mentioned it too.
My current boyfriend was the same actually.
You need to talk to him, ask him why he's quiet, find out whether he's trying not to make noi... (read in full...)
I'm terrified I could be anaemic!
Q. My mother has terrified me... She told me I could be anaemic! Reason being that I often start my period every 3 weeks and according to her, it's not normal and is caused by lack of iron! Could she be right? If so, are there any consequences from it? ...
A. 30 October 2007: Don't worry about it.
I'm not much older than you, &I've been anaemic.
As the other aunt said, you just need to eat more foods that contain iron, it doesn't take much.
Also, your period arriving every 3 weeks isn't abnormal.
Sometimes gir... (read in full...)
What does he mean when he says he has fallen for me but doesn't want a relationship?
Q. hiyyya, i'm really baffled a little help can go a lonnnnng way in makin me feel more LESS confused haha welllll... i've liked this lad for a while and only recently found out that he likes me back! :D massive complication though :( he's been t...
A. 29 October 2007: There could be several reasons why he said that, and there's no way of knowing which one it is without him telling you really. He may not want to be tied to someone else at the moment, maybe he has lots of other things "on his plate" already,... (read in full...)
My girl is acting weird. Does she want me or not?
Q. My girl is acting funny. Last night on the phone I tried to fix our relationship problem, but she said she was "too tired" to keep talking. I called her back shortly after words, because my mom unplugged the phone because we went over the hour time ...
A. 29 October 2007: "Too tired" could mean a variety of things. I know I've said it on several occasions with my boyfriend. She could have generally been too tired. Or maybe she didn't want to talk about it at the time or even she wanted more time to think about it ... (read in full...)
How do I make her feel more included??
Q. Hi i've just come across this website so i don't know if this is a type of question you can help me with but i'll give it ago. I'm 16 currently at college/6th form. About 5 weeks ago there was a new girl came into our college, she is in nearly a...
A. 29 October 2007: Firstly, you've been really considerate and I admire you for trying to make things better for the girl, she would obviously appreciate it.
Right, well, as she's shy, by all means try to include her, but avoid making her centre of attention too ofte... (read in full...)
Hi, I'm 13 and I want to have sex.
Q. Hi, I'm 13 and I want to have sex. My girlfriend said no. I don't want to pressure her but i want it sooo bad. I really love her but i don't know if i should break up with her. please help me i don't know what to do....
A. 4 September 2007: I'm not going to comment on whether you really do "love" her or not, bu I think it would be a very stupid thing to do to have sex now.
You don't appear to have taken in all the possible consequences of what you "soooo badly" want.
To be honest, ... (read in full...)
I'm a lebian and i'm 13. I'm fine with it but how do I tell my mum and dad?
Q. Heya every1, please can you help me with something. I am 13 and am a lesbian. I am fine with it and don't mind what the outside world thinks of me but I am worrid about how my mum and dad will react if i tell them i'm a lesbian.I would hate to upset...
A. 4 September 2007: I'm not much older than you, &I was in a similar situation a while back. Although, I'm not a lesbian as such, just bisexual who strongly prefers girls.. but anyway.
Don't feel you HAVE to come out yet, there's no rush, as if you ARE lesbian, it will... (read in full...)
I lost a bet and now have to dress as a girl for a week! What should I wear?
Q. I lost a bet to some girls and have to dress as a girl for 1 week. skirts make up dress and dat. help what will i wear?...
A. 4 September 2007: There's SO many ways you could get round this without going the whole way.
Most of the girls&women I know wear trousers or jeans now, with "girly" tops, I'd definitely suggest the jeans/trousers, as it would be easier for you to find something in y... (read in full...)
I just started a long distance relationship. How can I make this work?
Q. I've just started a long distance relationship and i'm already finding it really hard. He lives about 4 hours away on the train, and seeing as im still at school, I'm finding it dificult to find the money to go and see him. I really want it to work ...
A. 4 September 2007: I'm in the same situation as you, my boyfriend lives about 3/4 hours away from me too. However, we've been going out for nearly 6 months now, so it can work.
Have you tried buying train tickets online? They're a lot cheaper than buying at the stat... (read in full...)
How can I tell if my friend is lying to me? And what should I do?
Q. i think a boy named josh is lying to me. i like his friend and i asked him out and he said no, and josh has been saying he likes me and that the only reason he said no was because i never spend any time with him. and josh said he talks about me ...
A. 4 September 2007: It's difficult to really "find out" whether someone is lying without speaking to the guy you asked out about it.
If the boy you asked out said no, he most likely means it, afterall, if he really wanted to go out with you he would have said yes, unle... (read in full...)
He keeps pressuring me to give him a blowjob and I don't want to!
Q. My boyfriend is two years older than me and has had a lot of sexual experience, whereas I have had none. He keeps pressuring me into giving him a blowjob but I don't want to. I don't know how to tell him to stop pressuring me and will he think less ...
A. 21 August 2007: If he is pressuring you into something you don't want to do you can do so much better than him.
If you're under 16 then it's also illegal aswell so he could get into a lot of trouble.
Just calmly tell him you don't want to.
If he's worth your t... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend, but I really want to have sex with a girl just once
Q. Okay...I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years, we live together and I've known him for most of my life, we've always been great friends. He's the greatest boyfriend I could ever wish for-he's kind, affectionate and supportive and I ...
A. 17 August 2007: You need to talk to him about it.
But, if you do go ahead with fulfilling your desire, you need to be prepared for possible repercussions. What I mean is, once you've had sex with a woman, you may feel you prefer it to men, your boyfriend ever and ... (read in full...)
I worry I will never find someone to love me
Q. hey everyone. im 15 and im worried that i wont get a boyfriend that actualy likes me for me. im not the prettyest kind of girl and not many people give me a chance in life. im worried that when im older i wont be able to start a family with some...
A. 17 August 2007: There's plenty of people in your position love, &it's not as bad as you think.
Hmm, why don't you think about joining clubs for things that you really enjoy? You'll meet people who share your interests then, and you're more likely to meet peop... (read in full...)
Can I do anything to stop my periods from being so heavy?
Q. Sometimes my period is really heavy it hurts like normal but i keep having to change all the time and i just cant be botherd causre ther toilets at school are wrank. Please help because its annoying me having to keep changing all the time....
A. 17 August 2007: Ah, I know the feeling there!
Talk to your mom/dad/guardian about visiting the doctors.
Explain to them that you're unhappy about the heaviness of your flow and they may prescribe you with something to lessen them. There's a few drugs designed... (read in full...)
All of a sudden she started to talk about the future and how things are going to change once she starts school.
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for a year and a half and am almost back from a one year long distance relationship. What is bothering me is that all of a sudden she started to talk about the future and how things are going to change once she starts ...
A. 17 August 2007: Seen as all the people to respond to this are males, I thought I should give my opinion.
I've been in a very similar situation, but I never intended to dump my boyfriend, and I'm still with him.
I think sometimes guys can read too deeply into wha... (read in full...)
What are the best styles to go for?
Q. it is my first time with my new boyfriend and i didn't no what type of down below hair style he likes and i feel silly asking hime what shall i do and which one is betterr` hllp plz xxx...
A. 16 August 2007: The people telling you to completely shave it are biased.
There's lots of people who'd prefer you if you didn't shave at all, some who like a little bit, and some that don't like any hair at all.
You should do what YOU feel comfortable with doi... (read in full...)
I had sex with my brother and I'm worried about being pregnant.
Q. I had sex with my brother I only started my period a month ago and I know your not even supposed to have produced eggs by this point but I'm worried and I don't want tests or to tell anyone. Please help....
A. 16 August 2007: It's sad to see so many people degrading you simply because it was with your brother that you had sex with.
Also, you can become pregnant whether you've had your first period or not, girls are BORN with eggs, and they produce them from then, so tech... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have a baby with me but I'm only 15!
Q. Hi, I am 15 and my boyfriend is 19 and he wants to have a baby with me, I also want one but I feel that I am too young. please help me. ...
A. 16 August 2007: Firstly, it's against the law, if you actually became pregnant while you're 15 and it was common knowledge this guy was your boyfriend, he could be arrested/imprisoned, very likely infact seen as he's an adult.
Secondly, you have a future to thin... (read in full...)
How can I let my mum see we're meant to be together?
Q. I'm 13 and I met this boy who lives in my street, when I first met him we just clicked. We went out a few times and when I kissed him it felt so right but he is 15 but he is so nice to me. My mum has told me to keep away from him as she thinks he ...
A. 16 August 2007: If I were you, I'd ask my mom to meet him properly, and give him a chance to show her what he's really like, to see if she can see him in the nice light that you do.
If your mom doesn't agree to that then there's not much you can do, apart from stic... (read in full...)
If you have appendicitis and you have an operation will it scar badly?
Q. If you have appendicitis and you have an operation will it scar badly?...
A. 16 August 2007: Depends on your skin type and how good you heal, obviously, there'll be a scar afterwards, there's no way around that. But, you're young, so scarring fades a lot by the time you're an adult. Talk to your mum or dad or someone about getting vitamin ... (read in full...)
I've just had the biggest outbreak of zits and I need them gone for my date on Sunday!
Q. Normally I have good skin, but all of a sudden I've just had the BIGGEST OUTBREAK of spots! I have a date on Sunday and really really want them to be gone by then..... does anyone know anything that may help??? Thankyou x...
A. 16 August 2007: Don't mess around with your face, it DOES spread them, and that's obviously the last thing you want. Definitely get cleansing products designed for teenage skin. I recommend "Witch", they sell it in most chemists and shops. Don't over wash though... (read in full...)
I'm dating 2 girls just now, one very good looking and one NOT good looking. Who should I choose?
Q. I'm 13 and I'm stuck between two girls. I am dating one and she is beautiful and nice but her dad hates me and the other one is sweet and one of the nicest girls I've met but she isn't good looking at all I like both of them but I don't know wha...
A. 16 August 2007: It's unfair on both girls that you're dating another girl at the same time as them, I personally would find it insulting. If they find out about the other girl they would probably take it personally, and wonder what they haven't got that the other ... (read in full...)
He said my counselling is bad for me...
Q. Months ago, I hit rock bottom. I was depressed and was dumped over MSN by my ex of 2 years. I always take things to heart what people say about me or think about me. I recently celebrated my 6 months anniversery with my boyfriend of 6 months and he ...
A. 16 August 2007: People have counselling for a reason. Therefore stopping it could have adverse affects. I don't think the problem is forgetting the past, I think it's more getting your boyfriend to think on your level about it, to get him to understand that you ... (read in full...)
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