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Someone has posted a picture of my boyfriend in his boxer shorts to a dating website and are continuing to do so, it's stressing us both out.

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Question - (1 June 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2007)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 25. We've been together since we were 18.

Today I heard that he'd posted a photograph of himself in his briefs/boxer shorts on a dating website from a friend in work.

I've seen the profile on the site - but my boyfriend said he didn't create the page, and he has no interest in dating or social networking websites anyway, he told me (and I believe him too!)

He said he would never do anything like this - and is worried he is being bullied.

He's also told his boss, who promised to look into it, but it's been 4 weeks since he reported the incident, and the site is still up, with yet more photos being posted.

what can we do about this?? it's causing him stress and he's worried about getting up in the morning but still goes into work anyway.

please help, luv tara xxxx

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (1 June 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntThe biggest question I have is: where in the world are these people getting the pictures? Are they pictures your boyfriend had already taken of himself? That's my biggest question.

I'd say that your boyfriend needs to be a little more aggressive here. His boss clearly isn't getting things done and needs a reminder. Perhaps call higher authorities on this issue? Some people need to be hounded to get things done.

Flowergirl and Candy gave you great advice.

Good luck, sweetness.

xxIndia

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2007):

love-him agony aunthia chick, first of all.. how did the person posting theses pics get the pics of ur boyfriend?? i dont understand that bit (mail me 2 explain if yoo wont 2 talk) .. like the other answers have said.. contact the website, if they do not delete it threaten them with the police and then if they still dont take the person off the website then i sugest contactin the police. hope i helped, mail me if yoo wont 2 talk x x x

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A female reader, candy00s United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2007):

candy00s agony auntTara,

I think you should try to contact the website, inform them that this user has been posing as your boyfriend and has got hold of his photos as well.

I also think your partner should talk to his boss about it again, explain the upset this is causing him.

Maybe consider going to the police?

Hope this helps you

xxx

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2007):

flower girl agony auntWho would have access to these photo's that are being posted?

Some times waiting for everyone else to sort it is not easy so take it into your own hands, contact the dating site and get your partner to again go and see his boss and he needs to make it very clear how much distress it is causing him, he can give the boss a certain amount of time to deal with it successfully or tell him you will take it to a union if there is one or the police if it is not sorted.

Good luck and keep us updated..

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