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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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I love this girl with all my heart and I couldn't stand it if I found out she cheated on me, especially with a girl.
Q. I've been going out with this girl for about 4 months now, and I've fallen in love with her; she says she feels the same way. We get on well all the time; we rarely have arguments because apparently I have a short temper and get angry over small ...
A. 26 June 2007: Hia babii just read what you put.. tell her this is how you are feeling, you understand that she is good friends with her friend but explain how upset you are about this weekend.. and why dont you do what her friend has done.. make plans... so that ... (read in full...)
She's an online gf..is it possible to be in love with her as we have never even met??
Q. Heya guys, I love this gal but have neva met her. i chat to her on the fone and stuff but i have no idea of what she is like in real life so i guess my question is can i be in love with some1 i have never met ? Is it possible ? I'll be very grat...
A. 21 June 2007: Hia babii, if your not ready to tell them about your sexuality just say shes a friend of a friend.. make sure you do trust her as well.. but yea theres no reasn to say your sexuality or anythin.. mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
Think my school-teacher was hitting on he... he took time off but is back this week!
Q. I am in need of serious help. Me and my English teacher, Mr?, get along really, really well. I feel comfortable talking to him about almost anything. He keeps me behind sometimes from class so we can chat and I often see him at my after school ...
A. 19 June 2007: Hia babii just read what you wrote and i think its a good thing you went to see him and this Mr? seems genuine enough to go as far as quitting his job but i honestly adivse you to wait until you are 16 to do anything.. maybe in both your hearts in ... (read in full...)
Is my fiancee pregnant?
Q. Ok, the other day, my fiance and i made love with each other. It was first time for both and she had some blood coming out of her vagina during the intercourse, which we both know is normal the first time. However, i didn't come and stopped for the ...
A. 15 June 2007: it takes around 3 weeks for a pregnancy test to work and.. if it has only been a few days i wouldnt expect her to feel any different to be honest.. but the fact is.. you had unprotected sex and it doesnt matter if you came in her or not.. get her to ... (read in full...)
He's depressed! How do I apologise and get him back?
Q. hi what am i to do??? he is so depressed and is pretty much staying indoors or working only not seeing his mates or anybody.... yet i want him back... i apologise.... how do i convince him i mean it??...
A. 14 June 2007: You havent given enough details, why is he despressed, did you leave him, which is why you want him back? mail me if u want .. x x x... (read in full...)
Would it hurt to lose my virginity when I'm drunk?
Q. I'm almost 17 and am ready to have sex. I'm going to be honest, I'm gorgeous and a party girl - so boys date me under the impression we'll have sex. Of course once they find out I'm a virgin they run. If I have never done anything beyond making out ...
A. 14 June 2007: If ur drunk you probly wont even remember what you did and how it happened .. u will probly jusst be left with pain in the morning.. hope i helped.... (read in full...)
Why did he arrange a date and then bail on me? Can anyone explain?
Q. I recently am divorced and have been asked out by a guy that has been friends and worked with me for about 10 years. We had a date planned, but he never called to confirmed pick-up time, etc. He was acting really into me before this and called me ...
A. 13 June 2007: i sugest you get your age changed on your stauts then from 13-15.. i wud say he bailed out on you but didnt want to go thru the hearach of telling you too ur face, or ther cud be the reason it was a simple accident and thaught u were goin 2 shout ... (read in full...)
What are the dating rules for belching and farting?
Q. I need your help. I have started the process of dating after being widowed. I am now in my mid 40's and dating has changed significantly... I recently met a man online and we have been seeing each other for 2 months now. Things are going...
A. 13 June 2007: Hia babii, i totaly agree, thats the way ive been braught up (like you.. that its polite to not do it) but if this is the way he has been braught up it will be hard to stop it, even tho it seems hard to believe.. if you have talked to him and he ... (read in full...)
Why do my friends all have boyfriends when they say I am so pretty but I don't have one?
Q. Why do my friends all have boyfriends when they say I am so pretty but I don't have one? i am 14 and have only had one boyfriend and that was in primary school so i have never had a proper one my friends say i am pretty and look like barbie but i am...
A. 12 June 2007: Hia babii there is nothin wrong wiv u at all, the lads r just at an age wer they dont think straight. wait for the rite kinda lad to come along, uv got the rest ov ur life ahead ov u.. mail me if u wud like to chat x x x... (read in full...)
Cheating on my boyfriend, now I'm pregnant by the other guy!
Q. I will try to make this quick ,I been with my Man for 8 and half years , We are suppose to get married this year, I love him to death and a part of me is so ready. Problem is for the first 5 years he was unfaithful, loving him so much I settle for ...
A. 12 June 2007: well first u need to sort out hoo u wont to have sex wiv n hu u dnt wana hav sex wiv cos continuin wiv 2 men at 1 time int tht gud for ur kids sake. the father of the babii deserves to see his biological father ther fore u shud tel the father to ur ... (read in full...)
She won't have sex with me and I'm getting very bored.
Q. i have a girl friend but she won't do anything with me and i love her lots and i want to have sex fun with her but she just walks away and i am getting very bored with her what shall i do????...
A. 12 June 2007: Babe u gota learn not every girl wil jump into bed, even if you have been with her for ages.. giv er time n if ur not willin to ggiv er time then leav her cos u cant pressure her into out.. hope i helped mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
I love sex... is this a problem?!
Q. Okay, this is going to sound very stupid to some people but, urm... I think I might be a bit mad about sex, you know? I always think about doing it, and I mean ALWAYS. I'm not really worried about, but is it normal? Also, I was sat down on the sofa ...
A. 12 June 2007: Hia babii yea u are soo normal.. im exxactly like u, having a high sex drive.. theres nothin abnormal about it.. mail me if u wana talkx x x... (read in full...)
I'm 30 years old and still a virgin, is this normal?
Q. I'm 30 years old but still a virgin. Is this normal? Ive never had a girlfriend. I'm not ugly just very shy. Its more out of circumstance than not been "lucky" ie i work weekdays and look after my gran on the weekend. Will i ever get...
A. 12 June 2007: Hia babe wel u do have the right attitude towards getin laid lol as u put it.. i dont think there is anything un normal about you! n i think everyone will agree wiv me.. everyone is different.. you just havent managed to find the right person yet.. ... (read in full...)
First off let me say that I am 15 years old and I got in such a serious relationship at such a young age.
Q. First off let me say that I am 15 years old and I got in such a serious relationship at such a young age. I fell in love with this guy and we both thought we were soulmates, we were together for a good 5 months until he broke up with me. I trusted ...
A. 12 June 2007: Hia babe sure id like to know why you broke up.. yea i think the reason he doesnt want to talk to you is because he has maybe gotten over you and moved on.. it can be quite hard to continue a friendship wiv an ex.. mail me chick, hope i helped x x x... (read in full...)
How do I bring up the subject of my fiery girlfriend's smelly punani with her?
Q. My girlfriend really smells-It really especially puts me off if I have to go down on her and she really smells awful. Sometimes the smell is so bad that I can smell it when she simply takes off her thong before even going down there. I think maybe ...
A. 11 June 2007: Hia babii, if i was you i wud rly talk 2 her about it.. if it is such a problem that she isnt noticin u must tell her cos she cud have an infection..maybe aviod putin ur face down there and she may ask u why and get the point.. hope i helped, mail ... (read in full...)
Am I too desperate?
Q. my name is max and i love sex but i can'nt find any who is fit and how want to have sex with me i would love to have sex with some one and you could be in my beb tonight or you could give me someones name for me to have sex with so pllease help me ...
A. 11 June 2007: I soo dont c a question in this .. lol u r such a lier!... (read in full...)
Could these be genital warts (or something else)?
Q. Hi there, I need someones help! Last night i had sex with my boyfriend and we had to stop becuase it was hurting me. I had blood in my knickers the next time i checked too. Anyway, i checked it out myself infont of a mirror and around the en...
A. 11 June 2007: Hia babii, if its wot im thinking of, then there is nothing to be worried about.. it could be just a simple shaving rash (if you dont shave then sorry i dont know =\ ) but it could be something to do with that or maybe you have used soaps or ... (read in full...)
She's an online gf..is it possible to be in love with her as we have never even met??
Q. Heya guys, I love this gal but have neva met her. i chat to her on the fone and stuff but i have no idea of what she is like in real life so i guess my question is can i be in love with some1 i have never met ? Is it possible ? I'll be very grat...
A. 11 June 2007: Hia babii its possible yea !! but babe like wat bubbloo said.. maybe its the person you know online that u love, she could be different in person.. have you seen her on webcam or picture? but yea babii in answer to ur question it is possible to be ... (read in full...)
I was wondering does sex hurt the first time and if so, how can the pain be stopped?
Q. i was wondering does it hurt the first time a girl has sex and if so how can the pain be stoped?can someone please tell me: does it hurt a lot do you bleed does it only hurt the first time is there anthing that can prepare me the first time ?...
A. 11 June 2007: Hia babii, well to start off, everyone is different =].. there are ways you can loosen yourself up.. you can maybe finger yourself, or get ur man to? or maybe work a little bit or oral (from him) to act as a lubricant and also wetness.. there may be ... (read in full...)
I have huge trust issues with my bf! All because of a flirty email from Hawaii..what can I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 years now, we've always been a little shaky because I have serious trust issues, possibly from what has happened to me in the past. I don't trust any men whatsoever. This morning I logged onto his AIM and ...
A. 11 June 2007: I know many people who see this as being wrong (wat im bout 2 say) but my boyfriend had a similar email..and i emailed her back asking who she was (on my account) and it turned out she was a russian person who had found my boyfriends email on an old ... (read in full...)
I'm engaged but a relationship with my step brother, trouble mes..any views?
Q. OK this is what happened to me. When I was 15 years old, my first time was with my brother from my dad's side (my parents never got married and we are from different moms). He took my virginity by playing a game with me ( he didnt take advantage ...
A. 11 June 2007: ummm ok, rite uve got a fiance and u are having sex with your half brother?? you say it was soooo good.. think about how many people on here and worldwide will be thinking what you are doing is soooo wrong.. he is in one way actualy blood related to ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make my boyfriend trust me more so I can have friends again?
Q. i've been going out with my boyfriend for just over ten months, i am sixteen and he is twenty. throughout the relationship he has always been jealous of me and people at school, and the same with me and people who are a similar age to him and his ex ...
A. 11 June 2007: Hey thankyoo so much for ur help, means a lot x x x... (read in full...)
I am thinking about asking my boyfriend to marry me.
Q. I am thinking about asking my boyfriend to marry me. i know many people will think this is weird. we have only been together for ten months but i do believe i love him and i know he loves me. i am 16 and he is 20. the mythical day for the woman to ...
A. 11 June 2007: Oh and if any1 reads this agen lol ive decided against the idea.. extremily not ready for it, the arguments we encounter are terrible and im not ready for that.. thankyoo x x x... (read in full...)
I threw my vibrator in the bin and now I can't pleasure myself properly, any suggestions?
Q. hia just a quickish question, im in a great 1 year relationship and we are a very sexual couple. but when i am not with him, i still become kinky and i cant pleasure myself no matter what. i did have a vibe but i threw that in the bin when i moved ...
A. 11 June 2007: Hey Hey thanks for all ya replies, ive taken them all into consideration thankyoo =] this site is great =] x x x... (read in full...)
13 and feeling broody... how can I get over these feelings?
Q. im 13 years old and i know it sound stupid but im really broody. i really want a baby and its getting me down. im not going to have one till im older though, because thats the right thing to do. please help me?? is there anything i can do to make me ...
A. 11 June 2007: Hia babii, i am ther exact same to you!! apart from i started wanting a babe at 11 and i am now 16, still not a mother. you wont just grow out of it but u need to learn to put it to the back of ur head, concentrate on work and (im doin ma GCSEs atm) ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is pregnant but the little slip of paper I found makes me worry she's cheating!
Q. My girlfriend and I have recently found out that we are expecting a baby. She is excited as well am I. While she was at her parents house, which is 45 mins away from where we live, I was going to read her baby books to learn some things. While ...
A. 11 June 2007: Hia babii, u say she has done this before? well.. talk 2 her explain what uve found and if there is no trust in the relationship (trust is wot relationships shud be based on) then there shouldnt be a relationship at all. her and this lyin guy ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant??
Q. Hi everyone. My boyfriend and i had sex just over a month ago. We used a condom and he did not cum. I got my period a week later but now my period is very late. Like 2 weeks. Is there a chance i'm pregnant? Please write back ...
A. 10 June 2007: take a pregnancy test, thats the only way, i wouldnt expect you to be as your bf used a condom and you have had your period but its always best to put your mind straight. hope i helped, mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
I love this girl with all my heart and I couldn't stand it if I found out she cheated on me, especially with a girl.
Q. I've been going out with this girl for about 4 months now, and I've fallen in love with her; she says she feels the same way. We get on well all the time; we rarely have arguments because apparently I have a short temper and get angry over small ...
A. 10 June 2007: You r exactly like my bf who is (20) if ur girlfriend says she is not bi anymore, you can only believe her, girls at a young age are extremily obsessed with friends, like having sleepovers every night and being together 24/7, this is normal i was at ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend only wants me for the sex
Q. I think my boyfriend only wants me for the sex..after an argument i asked him would he be mad if i went with him for the sex and he said no and he wouldn't have problem, i asked him was that the only reason he went out with me, he said no, but ...
A. 10 June 2007: u confused me a lil bit.. u asked him if he wud be angry if u went wiv him for sex.. did u ask this because u want to just have sex? maybe he said no he wouldnt be angry so that u didnt think he wanted to rush into things? sometimes men can seem not ... (read in full...)
Does anal sex hurt?
Q. me and my boyfriend want to have anal sex does it hurt?...
A. 10 June 2007: yes id say it hurts, but less if u use lube, but if u plan to do it over and over again, u do become slightly used to it so the pain hurts less. but also remember always to use a condom.. kai cos u can get nasty infetions up there expecialy if he ... (read in full...)
With my boyfriend for 3 years but never orgasmed from intercourse.
Q. okay so i have been with the boyfriend for like 3 years and i have never orgasmed from intercourse.but ive been faking it all this time - he makes me orgasm from other things of course. i do love having sex with him and it feels great but i never ...
A. 10 June 2007: Hia darlin, thats the worse thing to do, fake.. trust me u wont go anywer, he is thinkin hes givin u the best pleasure ever when he realy isnt. u need to talk to him, maybe introduce new things into ur life like different positions, or maybe he can ... (read in full...)
Is he teaching me a lesson and restoring his macho dignity?
Q. I am reposting my old story and its developments. I am SO confused... ----------------------------- I have been in a romantic affair with a lovely married man for 9 months. He was the one doing all the running, and gave me a lot. I never gave him...
A. 10 June 2007: I dont understand! when you were togethewr you loved the fights but now u dont want a fight but u dont want him back! leave the poor man alone! he has been through all ur abuse too long, move onto someone else maybe someone who will give as good as ... (read in full...)
What do women 'really' think about blowjobs and swallowing semen?
Q. I'm wandering what women think of performing oral sex on men? Do women actually spend time thinking about or desiring to do it or is it merely something they do for the pleasure of their man? I know it varies from person to person but I kno...
A. 10 June 2007: Hia i love giving head and the first time i swallowed, my ex was extremely bad as his semen burned my lips which was horrible but my current boyfriend we enjoy things like that. hope i helped x x x ... (read in full...)
Ear wax blockage...any tips to get rid of it!
Q. PLEASE HELP! i no this isnt really a love question but my left ear is blocked with wax! its so uncomfortable and i have clostraphobia.. its not helping! Errm i was wondering if any new how i could unblock my ear?? thanks!...
A. 10 June 2007: Hey darlin i had the exact same problem a week ago!! came back off holiday after being at a water park which the water had pushed all the wax down. after not bein able to hear out of my right ear for 4 days i went the docs. she gave me two options. ... (read in full...)
He told me it would be ok but I didnt want to do it and now I feel dirty!!!
Q. I have gotten my self into a real pickle and dont know what to do next!! I have been with my boyfriend now for a year and although i havnt slept with him, i love him. I was 15 in may and he was 16 in january and we have like i said been together for ...
A. 10 June 2007: Hia babe, what he has done is extremily wrong. first off hes lied to you, when he said u didnt have to do it, because as you know he made you anyway. you say you were crying, and if you were underneath him he would have seen you crying, this brings ... (read in full...)
I think my gf is cheating on me. she takes her cell phone everywhere she goes, to the bathroom, even in the shower.
Q. I think my gf is cheating on me. she takes her cell phone everywhere she goes, to the bathroom, even in the shower. when i got the chance t look through her phone i saw text messages to another guy. now she claims that her and this guy are just ...
A. 10 June 2007: Hey darlin calm dwn a bit kai =) sit down with her, talk to her, say babe i have seen a message on your fone which I'm really not happy bout *the pet names* and explain how much you love her and if she loves you she will back off from this guy and ... (read in full...)
My husband has been watching shemale porn.
Q. My husband has been watching shemale porn....
A. 10 June 2007: Hia i dont see the question like chrissy said, if it bothers you then talk to him about it. hope i helped x x... (read in full...)
We don't want the baby now! How can we stop this?
Q. my girlfrend is about 35 days pregnant? but we dont want baby now? is thr any way to stop her from not becoming pregnant? will it affect her in later age,if she stop now? wat medicine should she take...
A. 10 June 2007: Hia get her off to the doctors. i strongly suggest you find a method of contraception also to avoid any unwanted pregnancies again. the only option i would say is adoption, although there is abortion but that has been known to affect the woman at a ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is on my case because i always look at other females. Isn't this a normal thing for guys?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years now. Things have had their ups and downs and we have had more than our fair share of major rows and the like. The problem is my girlfriend is extremely insecure and always thinks I am looking at ...
A. 10 June 2007: Hey dont go over the top and try and shout it into her that you are gona do sumfin cos wots goin thru her head is *you imagining having sex with this other prettier woman* and that is a horrible thaught that is why she feel so much like this. just ... (read in full...)
Think my school-teacher was hitting on he... he took time off but is back this week!
Q. I am in need of serious help. Me and my English teacher, Mr?, get along really, really well. I feel comfortable talking to him about almost anything. He keeps me behind sometimes from class so we can chat and I often see him at my after school ...
A. 10 June 2007: Hey chick i would advise you to go talk to someone, a teacher, friend, adult.. anyone who you trust, even if this happens to be nothin, he needs to know you are feeling this way and needs 2 learn to back off. hope i helped, mail me if u wanna talk x ... (read in full...)
Found some condoms in his case... !
Q. My boyfriend travels abroad on business a lot and recently when looking for his washing I found a bundle of condoms in his case. He assures me these were for when we started going out together (two years ago) but I am not sure that I can trust him ...
A. 7 June 2007: Hia chick the only thing you can realy do is take his word for it, because that is the only proof and what he says does sound like a valid reason. but if you have any more doubts then you should sit down with him and explain you want you both to be ... (read in full...)
I'm 16, he's 23 - he wants to sleep w/ me, but he lives with a girl! I feel guilty! Can I really go through with this?
Q. Im 16 years old and i've been in numerous relationships in the past year buti've never had sex. now this guy's come into my life, i've known him about nine months and thought he was a jerk up until about three months ago when we got to know each ...
A. 7 June 2007: Hey chick if the other girl is his girlfriend i realy dont think u should get involved, yea she might be realy nice but imagine hurting her if she found out u had slept with him.. im sorry 2 sound harsh =\ hope i helped x x x mail me if u wana talk ... (read in full...)
I fancy my brother-in-law's son! Would it be wrong if we got together?
Q. please can somebody help, i fancy my brother in laws son, is it wrong? to me we are not related but others say that we are, i just really want to know would it be wrong for anything to happen between us? ...
A. 7 June 2007: Lol its honestly takin me ages 2 figure out what brother in laws son means to you lol.. umm some would frown on it n some would say go ahead. take into thaught what your family would say, friends, your sister. Your not immediatly related so its not ... (read in full...)
He takes his phone everywhere...how do I get access to it to prove he is cheating?
Q. Hi can anyone help i have been happily married for nine years or so i thought when two weeks ago i dropped my husbands phone and he freeked out so when i thought about his reaction i thought he must be cheating on me oh and boy what a shock i had to ...
A. 7 June 2007: Hey babe, uve seen these pictures tell him.. i think that is all the evidence u need. he may not have cheated but the fact he has another womans half naked pics on his phone would worry and disturb me! mail me if u want to talk, by the way my answer ... (read in full...)
I am thinking about asking my boyfriend to marry me.
Q. I am thinking about asking my boyfriend to marry me. i know many people will think this is weird. we have only been together for ten months but i do believe i love him and i know he loves me. i am 16 and he is 20. the mythical day for the woman to ...
A. 13 May 2007: hey thanks for givin me the advise, its realy helped me x x x... (read in full...)
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