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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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While my boyfriend and I were temporarily split up, I slept with an ex. Does my boyfriend need to know?
Q. I recently started dating a man who I've liked for many years. But we split up for a short while beceuse of a misunderstanding and I thought we wouldn't get back together so I got drunk then slept with an ex boyfriend (bearing in mind I didn't cheat ...
A. 24 November 2007: Hi, my advice is too not tell him, you were on a break, and this isnt classed as lying unless he asks you about it.. stay safe :) I hope i helped, feel free to mail me about anything :) x... (read in full...)
While my boyfriend and I were temporarily split up, I slept with an ex. Does my boyfriend need to know?
Q. I recently started dating a man who I've liked for many years. But we split up for a short while beceuse of a misunderstanding and I thought we wouldn't get back together so I got drunk then slept with an ex boyfriend (bearing in mind I didn't cheat ...
A. 24 November 2007: Hi, my advice is too not tell him, you were on a break, and this isnt classed as lying unless he asks you about it.. stay safe :) I hope i helped, feel free to mail me about anything :) x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I tried the 69 position and I think I had an orgasm but I'm not sure, could it just have been light-headedness?
Q. Hey, I have been sleeping with my boyfriend for about 4-5 months. We were in a fantastic 69 position the other day and, I think I had my first orgasm. Though I can't really remember it, it felt special and unlike anything I've experienced before. ...
A. 24 November 2007: Hii sugar, sounds like an orgasm to me :) well done babe :) have fun !! I hope i helped, feel free to mail me about anything :) x... (read in full...)
My long-distance boyfriend has said he'd change because he doesn't treat me right and I have a male friend who fancies me, how should I handle all this?
Q. I just started at college 3 months ago and I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of over a year. Lately he has not been treating me well and I know he is constantly flirting with other girls. I was ready to break up with him but ...
A. 24 November 2007: Hi sugar, you aren't happy with it, and if he tries again tell him to back off because you are still with this guy and you aren't happy with the way he's acting (in a nice way) :) stay happy, and make sure this guy does change because long-distance ... (read in full...)
What do I do?
Q. I need help...i have nobody to talk to My ex and i broke up a month ago he kept makin love to me and kissing me and sayin he loved me...but the last time it felt werid like he wasn't there and he went to the movies with his dad and said he was goin ...
A. 24 November 2007: Hi sugar, he has moved on and it seems to me that you do to. I remember my school days, it was soo hard getting over someone, it takes ages, but it happens and you WILL get over him :) keep thinking positive and maybe start talking to another lad at ... (read in full...)
His sexy talk makes me feel cheap
Q. my boyfreind talks dirty to me whenever i give him a blow job and its making me feel cheap. i dont mind it sometimes in bed, it can be hot, but he does it nonstop when im giving him oral sex. he says stuff like do you love my big co*k, and suck me ...
A. 24 November 2007: Hi, it is a turn on to some women, and not to others. If you dislike it so much then tell him. I believe he is just having a good time :) I hope i helped, feel free to mail me about anything x... (read in full...)
Am I ready?
Q. i'm 15 and there's a guy i really love. we have talked about having sex lots of times but i don't know i'm ready or not. can you help me?...
A. 24 November 2007: Hii, r u going out with this guy, and if so then you both need to sit down, and make sure you are both happy about it, and you probs should make sure you like this guy more than like, for example, love. The fact that you are asking other people ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend this, is it a big deal??
Q. I am 14 and one of my freinds has a boyfreind they have been going out for about a month. He has already cheated on her, which she forgave him for and recently in my drama lesson another girl was sitting on his lap who my friend dislikes. Should i ...
A. 24 November 2007: Hi, it is a big deal yes, because this boy has clearly let her sit on his knee etc. Tell her because she is your friends, and a true friend would say, it is up to her to believe you. My boyfriend is also here with me and he says, if his friend was ... (read in full...)
I'm checking men out...and it is unsettleing me.
Q. Hi, Im a 32 year old guy and recently ive noticed something disturbing thats been happening to me. I'll be at the movies or something and I'll say to myself, George Clooney is a good looking bloke or whoever was in the movie at the time. And Im d...
A. 24 November 2007: Hii, all this means is you are completely happy with your sexuality, you have men who would quite happily say all other men are ugly etc.. that is because they are worried other people would think they were gay. There is nothing wrong with you :) ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that the tests are wrong and I am pregant??
Q. I have done loads of pregnancy tests and all of them say im not pregnant but i havnt had my period for 2 months and this has never happend before. I was trying for a baby with my ex and we split up a month ago. I have a doctors appointment in Decem...
A. 24 November 2007: There is always a chance, however, the more tests you do, the less likely it is that it is going to be wrong. See your doctor as they are the only ones who can determine the truth. I hope i helped, feel free to mail me :) x ... (read in full...)
She's got me hooked
Q. I met a new work colleague 14 months ago. I noticed her intelligence and quirky sense of humour straight away, although I wasn’t immediately attracted to her. During the passing months I have come to realise she’s such a beautiful person in every ...
A. 24 November 2007: Hi, the fact that she is married means you need to back away from her. If you see her sad, just ask her if she is ok and if she needs to talk, you cannot flirt with her, because the chances are her and her husband are completely happy and it will ... (read in full...)
My friend has moved on...but does he still like me?
Q. I really like this guy from school. He used to like me but i turned him down because I knew my best friend liked him. She has now moved on, but the guy is ignoring me. All his friends are coming up to me and saying someone likes you. Does this mean ...
A. 24 November 2007: Heyy, his friends could mean anyone, buuut i think if you like him, and he is ignoring you (maybe because he doesnt want you to reject him again) then you should maybe ask him out sometime, go to the park or the cinema and then see if he wants to ... (read in full...)
He wanted to buy his ex a present...!!!
Q. Last year my boyfriend ended it with a girl he was seeing to be with me. Well, when they were seeing each other she had gotten him an expensive tool that he wanted for his birthday. So, by the time Christmas rolled around (and he was with me) he ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi babe, i dont think it is ok for him to be still involved with his ex especially giving them prezzies.. look after yourself and dont let him hurt you like that again, Feel free to mail me about anything :) x... (read in full...)
Drugs and gambling!!!! How can I help them?
Q. I need to know, how can you tell if someone close to you is using recreational drugs? What are the signs? Also my husband has a gambling adiction but wont get profesional help, what can I do?...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi babe, there are different signs and symptoms to different drugs, search it in google to find out :) about the gambling, he needs to realise this himself, as he more than likely wont listen to anyone else, I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me ... (read in full...)
He is 34 and has teenagers writing to him, am I wrong to think this is sick?
Q. I broke up with my ex a little over a month ago, and I'm trying really hard not to look at his myspace because everytime I look he has new girls and new comments, etc. Well, I was doing good for about a week, but then I just looked a few minutes ago ...
A. 22 November 2007: Babe if they fancied him and he chose you over them, this is all you need to think of. You and him are finished now, so dont worry about him, delete everything to do with him, and every time you try to go on his myspace, just think to yourself what ... (read in full...)
Undressing...
Q. My questions involve getting undressed. When making out how will we know when it is time to remove our clothes? Should I ask him to undress or just undress him? Should we undress in the bedroom or can we strip in route to the bedroom? Should kissing ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi babe, whilst kissing, then you just start taking his clothes off and he will react the same way to you, if he hasnt already ;) with talking during kissing, this is hard, but can be done, just make sure you dont bite his lip :) there shouldnt be a ... (read in full...)
A boy from school said it's embarassing to be virgin. I do not agree. What do you think?
Q. a boy said at school in a pshe lesson that "if you are 14 and still a virgin its embarresing" although over half tutor are virgins.i dont think thats embarresing at all what do you think? its getting to me. ...
A. 22 November 2007: This boy, is very silly to say things like this. Ignore him, being a virgin at 14 is completely normal and legal.. to have sex under 16 is illegal :) please dont listen to people like that, he is trying to show off. Stay safe and dont do anything ... (read in full...)
First time - painful?
Q. does it really hurt the first time you have sex? im realy nervous and know im reddy tho....
A. 22 November 2007: Hey babe, for some people, it does hurt, however with weeks before if you have oral and touching, then this will widen you, ready for intercourse, if you get what im trying to say, sorry if its not that clear =/ when the time comes, be calm, ... (read in full...)
Does a man feel anything emotionally for his mistress/sex partner, especially if he knows her well, yet does not love her?
Q. When a man has sex with a women he is not in love but knows her very well, is it a different experiance to making love or having sex with his wife? What is the difference to a man emotionally in having casual sex. Sex is meaningful to wo...
A. 22 November 2007: Hey babe, sex, feels like sex, however if you are in a relationship with someone and you believe you are in love, then it is love making, if it is just casual sex, then i dont believe men feel love, because they aren't in love. I hope i helped :) ... (read in full...)
Anatomically correct? - the bit of skin of vaginal structure...
Q. ive allways had a really big bit of skin on my vagina and is bout 5 cm and hangs out of the middle its awful and its putting me off been confident around boys does anyone know of what it s and how to maybe get rid of it?...
A. 22 November 2007: hey babe 5 cm is nothing big at all. I have it too. Every persons vagina is different, there is nothing too worry about =] Stop thinking negative abbout yourself and look on the bright side :) You shouldnt not be confident with lads, if they dont ... (read in full...)
Why can't he invite me too when he goes out with his friends? Am I being unfair?
Q. hiy, i have been with my boyfriend for 1 year now and he has started going out with his friends in the evening once in a while, it annoys me because i dont ever go out with any friends of mine, and he didnt go out for the first 7-8 months .. it bot...
A. 22 November 2007: Hey babe, you are so like me :) i didnt go out with my friends for the first year :( and if he is going out, why dont you with your friends, or ask him if you can go too.. I hope i helped, mail me if you would like to talk x ... (read in full...)
My bf is married. We are always thinking about each other, should I feel guilty? Please advise.
Q. My boyfriend is married. We've known one another for years and are best of friends. We are so comfortable with one another and can talk about anything with eachother. I love him with all my heart and my love only get stronger day by day. We are ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hey, if he is separated from his wife, then i think it is ok? i dont realy see your question, im sorry, mail me if you would like to talk :) x... (read in full...)
I had never cheated before in my life and now that it's happened it must surely mean the END of my marriage? Is there any hope now that I've done this, which he does not know?
Q. Hi all, does it count as cheating say if : you are married, your husband walks out with no real reason for 2 months, you go back when he asks you, but find it hard to deal with. You leave him for 3 weeks and you are intimate with another man. You ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi, if you were broken up, or on a break, it is not classed as cheated, even if you are married. Try to see a doctor if you are still depressed, mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has sent intimate photos of us to his ex!
Q. my boyfriend took some pictures of us in an intimate pose with my consent. However he recently sent these to his ex girlfriend I have confronted him about this and he is very sorry and says he has never done anything like this before and will never ...
A. 22 November 2007: Have i seen this question before? if not, sorry, tell him it is out of order, you need to put your foot down to him :) mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't climax with me... What am I doing wrong?
Q. i have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now and i cant get him to climax. in all the time that we have been together i swear i can count it on one hand how many times it has happened. he isnt my first and with the others i had no ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hii, well your boyfriend is most likely going through a lot of stress, this can mean he isnt able to climax. There could be a handful of reasons why he cant climax, and if you both talk about it, then suggest he visits a doctor who can give him ... (read in full...)
Broke up many times, but still want him back. Help!
Q. ok, me and my ex boyfriend got 2gether 6 times and only got back 2gether 5times.its bin a week since we boke up and all i can do is think of him.i have never felt so special about a guy b4.i tried everything to get over him but its doesnt work!!he ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hey babe, break ups are soo cruel.. and also love is too, this guy called you names which is the lowest he could go.. i know that you love him, and if your heart leads you both together again then let it be, you are young, have fun :) i hope you are ... (read in full...)
Got a kind of crush on my BF's friend. He is flirty with me.
Q. I have a bf and he has a really close friend. This friend also has a gf. However, when my bf's not there, his friend, who is also my friend, flirts with me. He hugged me all the time, and finally kissed me on the lips recently where no one saw us at ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hey babe the best way to go about this is to tell him, you are not going to let him do this to his girlfriend, he needs to either break up with his girlfriend (because this is going to be very upsetting for her if she finds out) and to stop with you ... (read in full...)
My bf has taken intimate photos of me with my consent. I just found out he's emailed them to another girl!
Q. My bofriend has taken intimate photos of me with my consent but I have just found out he has emailed them to another girl what shoud i do...
A. 20 November 2007: Tell him how you feel, this is out of order, as he sent them without your consent.. I hope i helped, mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
Men, would you kiss your partner who did oral sex in the past?
Q. Guys would you kiss a girl who does oral sex with her past boyfriend ...
A. 20 November 2007: My boyfriend had this problem, when we first started going out.. he was a complete virgin, apart from once when he was very young, he attempted to do oral on a girl but was disgusted by her smell. I know i am a girl, but my boyfriend was the same, ... (read in full...)
We do not have sexual intercorse that much anymore and whenever I talk to her about sex she complains about having it every day?
Q. Hello! Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for about 3 months now, we have already engaged in sexual intercorse. Everything seems like our relationship is going well but then I've noticed lately that I feel like im second hand meaning the side...
A. 20 November 2007: Hii, me and my boyfriend have been together for 17 months last sunday. Our sex life has been like that for quite a long time, howeever now, we have sex once every 1-2 weeks, due to him working away a lot. You need to bare with this as she is ... (read in full...)
She's near climax, then the feeling fades away. Is there something I do wrong?
Q. ok hi me an my girlfriend are having a big a of problem.. when im doing wat i have to do she says she feels like shes almost going to orgasm but then it just goes away although she gets wet... so wat is the deal is this wat a womens orgasm is or is ...
A. 20 November 2007: the 'deal' is, your girlfriend is stopping herself from having an orgasm, which is why it fades away, is she stressed, (she may not know she is stressed, has she orgasmd before, it more than likely isnt something you are doing, unless you change ... (read in full...)
Normal to have hair around the nipple area? I'm very self-conscious about it.
Q. I have a lot of hair growing around my nipple areas. I am very self-conscious about it. My boyfriend has noticed them before but he says it doesnt bother him. I try to pluck as much off without letting him see them. It's so annoying though to keep ...
A. 20 November 2007: Hii, nipple hair is nothing to worry about at all.. im really concerned that you pluck them!! that must hurt!! If anything i would say leave them, and ask either a doctor or a pharmasist (not sure of the spelling) to see if there are any ways to ... (read in full...)
I found shemale videos in my husbands car! We've both tested positive for HIV.
Q. I have been married for almost 12 years. Six years ago, I found shemale videos hidden in my husband's car. He had rented a post office box in another town to order them. I confronted him then and he tossed the videos and swore never to engage in ...
A. 20 November 2007: You need to ensure that your children are checked now, just incase there is the possibility that he or you had the disease before the children were born. It doesnt make a differnce if he is attracted to transgender people, this does not mean he is ... (read in full...)
Could I get pregnant by another man and claim it was my husband's child?
Q. I have a husband,and want a child from him.He also likes a child from me. But he can't give birth.Can i get pregnant from other and tell him that it is yours? Is there a method of checking who the parents of the child are?What can i do-please help...
A. 12 November 2007: men cannot give birth.. DNA tests will prove he isnt the father, has the man gone through tests to prove he cannot have children? if you and you partner havve children and you want to give birth yourself, then there are things where they place the ... (read in full...)
Could I get pregnant by another man and claim it was my husband's child?
Q. I have a husband,and want a child from him.He also likes a child from me. But he can't give birth.Can i get pregnant from other and tell him that it is yours? Is there a method of checking who the parents of the child are?What can i do-please help...
A. 12 November 2007: men cannot give birth.. DNA tests will prove he isnt the father, has the man gone through tests to prove he cannot have children? if you and you partner havve children and you want to give birth yourself, then there are things where they place the ... (read in full...)
Is nsa sex ok with my friend??
Q. I just split up with my boyfriend and i have been in touch with a lad from school who i always had a soft spot for but we were good friends. We have just been talking and he was someone who didnt no my ex so it was nice to talk. im not ready fo...
A. 27 October 2007: Hey babe, it is dangerous in some ways, because there is always a chance one of you or both of you will fall for each other. However, if you both agree with it, and make sure it is ok, then it sounds alright :) have fun :) mail me if you would like ... (read in full...)
What are your opinions about boob jobs?
Q. Hi Dearcupid, I'm just wondering your opinions on boob jobs! I'm 15 and roughly 5"10...i know, very tall! And i feel that my tall build does not match my breast size of a 34A - To be honest, some 34A's are a bit big on me even...I've been...
A. 21 October 2007: hi it looks like its in your genes to have that kind of size breast, judging on your mothers size. I suggest you wait a good few years and achknowlege your breast size then. If you are still not happy with it, then consider all the options. I hope i ... (read in full...)
My virgin girlfriend is very tight. Is this normal?
Q. I am 19 and in love with my school sweetheart of 4months again, both virgins. we tried it last night for the first time, after she had pleasured me 4/5 times. I could not get hard enough to penetrate properly as she is quite tight. Is this normal, ...
A. 17 October 2007: it's all very well her pleasuring you, but you need to ensure that she is well lubricated to ensure it isnt as painful for her. you need to use lubrication and maybe for a couple of days leading up to having sex, finger her to open her up a bit more ... (read in full...)
Should I go for the contraceptive pill or the implant? What are pros/cons?
Q. i need help in what contraception i should take. i cant decide whether the pill or an implant. i'm going to the doctor soon to see but i would like to know what people would grade at the best with personal use from before....
A. 17 October 2007: hi personally i believe it is your choice, however the doctor will go throught the choices with you, you are better seeing a family planning clinic. That is where i went, as the doctors i used 2 see didnt tell me the full facts and i ended up with ... (read in full...)
How can we stop arguing?
Q. dear cupid my boyfriend and i are always arguing mostly over nothing just little things that annoy us about eachother every time we get on track something happens to upset that we have managed to stay together for a year now but the petty argument...
A. 14 October 2007: Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for 16months now and we have soo many arguments, i hardly see him as much as i wish, once a week sometimes even once every 2 weeks, depending on his job and we argue over the phone and when we are with each oteher we ... (read in full...)
How can we re-light our fire?
Q. Hey i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months, we have been moving quite fast though, i feel like he is losing interest in me. We do not talk for whole days and don't see eachother regularly anymore since he started a job and i started ...
A. 11 October 2007: Hey, that's great, hope it goes well for ya.. mail me if you want to =] x... (read in full...)
How can we re-light our fire?
Q. Hey i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months, we have been moving quite fast though, i feel like he is losing interest in me. We do not talk for whole days and don't see eachother regularly anymore since he started a job and i started ...
A. 9 October 2007: Hi babe, i understand how painfull this can be, i am with my boyfriend now for 17months, and the same thing has been gradually happening for the padst 3 months.. i believe that because it has happened so early, that you two are not destined to ... (read in full...)
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