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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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What's the best excercise plan for losing weight?
Q. is it better to eat before you exercise or after you exercise? in the morning i prefer working out. should i eat my breakfast first, then wait 45min then workout? or should i eat after? what's the best? OR should i just eat when i'm hungry and also...
A. 6 July 2007: I was reading on the NHS website ( i am also tryin 2 lose weight and get fit etc ) and it says u should eat ur breakfast first for the energy ( you are more likely to get tired quickr with no energy ) and then exercise about 2 hours later, as your ... (read in full...)
When my husband is upset he wakes me up; I get angry and he calls me mean
Q. I don't know how to handle this situation. My husband keeps me awake when he is upset. If I get angry after he wakes me up he turns the situation around and says I am mean to him. I don't understand why he does this....
A. 6 July 2007: Im sorry but if ur husband is upset.. you need to find out why, you need to comfort him, imagin if it was u who was upset.. honestly.. gettin mad will only make the matter WORSE.. think about him for a change.. dont keep thinkin about ur beauty ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with someone who is very overweight and won't try to lose it!
Q. What do I do if the person I'm in a serious relationship with, desiring marriage mostly on their part, is 135+ lbs overweight and despite my encouraging request to my significant other to lose weight and eat healthier has done almost nothing, if ...
A. 6 July 2007: Well first off.. the person may think that u dont love them anymore as you are bothered by their weight.. explain to them.. you are caring for them.. you care for their health.. and dont at all threaten ur relationship on them. hope i helped..... (read in full...)
I suffer extreme jealousy
Q. I have a serious jealousy problem. I cannot control it. There's this guy that my girlfriend is friends with; I don't even know the kid, I've never met him, and I hate his guts. I don't know why but whenever even his name comes up in a conversa...
A. 6 July 2007: U need 2 stop talkin like u wud kill him n makin threats on here.. seriously.. rite well shes said that to you.. what the hell are u doing still with her.. if she actualy said to you if i wasnt with u i wud go out wiv him.. wot the hell r u stil wiv ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps naked ex pictures and is online dating--help!
Q. Please can someone offer me some reassurance or advice. My boyfriend of 5 months has a naked picture of his ex in a sexual pose. I saw it and he said he threw it away, but it is still sat in his drawer. Now I have discovered he has joined an ...
A. 5 July 2007: Woo so ur pregnant (sorry if i got it wrong lol) gud luck chick, but ur man isnt bein a good person the way he is acting towards you.. x x x... (read in full...)
He has behaved badly and now my parents dont want me to see him!
Q. im so lost i need help!!! i am 18 and my boyfriend has just turned 22. We have been going out for 2 years and i love him very much. it was all very well with my family and both them and him were close. however they logged into my e mail and found ...
A. 5 July 2007: Hi babe, that is the only other option then, it is mean but he was a complete arse with u by spittin in ur face.. you need to get over him -by finishing him- you have to get over him you are worth so much better!! mail me if u wanna talk x x x x x... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant after contact through clothes?
Q. I'm on my period and I dry-humped a guy. I was wearing pajama pants, and a thong. Is there any chance I could be pregnant?...
A. 5 July 2007: No i wouldnt say there is, unles your skin touched him then i wouldnt say so. but to make ur stress and worry go away.. take a pregnancy test just to be on the safe side.. x x x x... (read in full...)
Does a guy say what he means when he's drunk?
Q. Hey, are what a guy says and does when he's drunk really what he thinks and feels? How do i know if he actually likes me or if he's just drunk and wants to get some skin?...
A. 5 July 2007: If this helps, im a girl and when i got drunk with my boyfriend and his mates, i told my true feelings (they were good) and i can always remember what happened, which means i do remember exactly what i said).. mail me if u wanna talk x x xxx... (read in full...)
Having promiscuous sex didn't help me get over him, what will?
Q. Right, I've still got a problem with the lad I've previously left a question about, but this isn't about him now.. I went on holiday last week and slept with three people whilst there. I used protection with all except for one, who, unknown to ...
A. 5 July 2007: Babe sex isnt the way chick!! You need to go to either a GUM clinic, or some doctors provide all the test for STIs or a Brook (tests for chlamydia and ghonorhia) and Family Planning Clinics.. You just need to make sure you dont have an STI and worst ... (read in full...)
I suffer extreme jealousy
Q. I have a serious jealousy problem. I cannot control it. There's this guy that my girlfriend is friends with; I don't even know the kid, I've never met him, and I hate his guts. I don't know why but whenever even his name comes up in a conversa...
A. 5 July 2007: Hi babe, i know exacrtly what u mean. i have anger problems, however i minimised it when i went to anger management, when i was around 13..You just need to try forget the name, and when it comes into conversation make ur mind believe you dont know ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend had sex with my mother!
Q. I came home from work the other day early and found my boyfriend who is 39, having sex with my mother, aged 69, on my bed. My parents live with me, as does my boyfriend who moved in last year. He does drink a lot as he is having problems with post ...
A. 5 July 2007: 1 sec, you will talk to your boyfriend and NOT your mother.. They both did it.. they are both in the wrong, its happened MORE THAN ONCE... Why are you still with this guy. It will happen again, and do you realy want to have to file for a divorce. I ... (read in full...)
I have varicose veins, what can I do?
Q. Hi, im 16, and have had blue - purple veins on the back of my left leg. I have always thaught they were stretch marks and my mum and gran have never seen them because i never wear shorts, and when i wear a skirt, i wear tights. And only today h...
A. 4 July 2007: Thanks x x... (read in full...)
How will oral sex feel?
Q. My friend and I are thinking about oral sex. This is my first time. I was wondering when he goes down on me, how does it feel?...
A. 4 July 2007: Amazin, when done right x x x... (read in full...)
How am I supposed to smell?
Q. Recently, I touched myself down there while I was feeling myself. When I smelled my fingers it smelled like fish--is it supposed to smell like that?...
A. 4 July 2007: Not particularly, it isnt supposed to be a bad smell.. have daily showers and wash down there with plain water, if it still smells after a week, get something which is specialised for making down there.. fresher..... (read in full...)
My boyfriend demanded all my passwords and that I stop talking to a friend--is he controlling?
Q. Hello, My name is Natalie. I am 19 years old and having some ridiculous boyfriend troubles. My boyfriend, Joe, of 8 months, knew my email password and I assume has been checking it often. Last night, he texted me freaking out about how he rea...
A. 4 July 2007: Hi, u went wrong sending the Ecard going on about the past.. you should always forget the 'memories' with ex's especialy not leave the proof for you boyfriend to read.. honestly.. i see where he is coming from, i would react maybe a tiny bit ... (read in full...)
I always cheat--how can I stop?
Q. I was wondering if from everyone's experience that the saying "once a cheater always a cheater" is true. I am asking because I have cheated on every boyfriend I have ever had except my current boyfriend and am terrified I will do it again. I alwa...
A. 4 July 2007: Its up to you, we cant do anything to stop you doing this.. truthfully you need to learn to say no and walk away.. thats all i can say.. mail me if u wanna talk x x xx... (read in full...)
The condom had a hole--what do I do now?
Q. I am 14 and yesterday I had sex with my boyfriend. It was with a condom, but on the end when he pulled it out there was a little hole. What should I do now? Please help me--I don’t want to get pregnant. ...
A. 4 July 2007: Hey babe, go docs now, kai theres two options, the mornin after pill and the emerigency coil ( i got told from my family planning adviser ) they dont normaly offer the coil to you (which is affective up to 4-5 days after conception) under the age of ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and she is 12; is this age difference a problem?
Q. Dear All I'm 14 and I have feelings for this 12 (nearly 13) year old young lady and vice versa, she is very mature. Do you feel it's appropriate to have such an age difference, I don't mean this in an inappropriate way I mean to be loving one ...
A. 3 July 2007: wow u do seem mature..go for it babe.. x x x ... (read in full...)
Is it in his kiss?
Q. If your boyfriend says he loves you but doesn't show it... is he saying it cause he means it or just cause he thinks you want to hear it?...
A. 3 July 2007: Hey babe, men are so hard to understand at times.. if he loves you, id expect him to say it then id expect him to at least show a little of it towards you.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x ... (read in full...)
We were friends growing up and now we're in a relationship. We've been keeping it a secret so far, so how do we tell her mum?
Q. Hi me and my gf have been going out secretly for a few months now and we really want to tell her mum and dad except she would rather we tell her mum when shes on her own as shes mainly concerned about what she thinks and then let her tell her dad. ...
A. 3 July 2007: Hey i aint gona tell u to sort it out with her, because you have already made up your mind. sorry to hear about ur dad x x x when ur g/f tells her mum are u going to be around? I dont realy see there should be a problem with telling her mum, how old ... (read in full...)
I always need to be in a relationship... why?
Q. I'm the kind of girl who always needs to be in a long-term relationship (meaning I'm scared to be alone!). I realize this about myself but don't understand it... why am I like this? Why do I neglect maintaining friendships with others and spend ...
A. 3 July 2007: Hey babe, like you said, your scared to be alone.. the feeling of no one telling you ur beautiful or loving you.. thats what you need and desire but when ur single u dont get that.. hope i helped.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a female star from Wimbledon, so I friended her on Myspace. Is this considered stalking?
Q. i have been watching wimbledon and i have developed a crush on a particular female star. i went onto myspace to see if she was on it (it was set to private) and i asked to be her friend (those who have myspace will understand the procedure). the pr...
A. 3 July 2007: It isnt now, but as 'eyeswideopen' said, as long as u dont go any futher like unwanted emails etc.. then i dont see the harm.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x ... (read in full...)
My text-on-the-side has stopped texting--what gives?
Q. Let me start by saying - I'm married - but I love attention from attractive men. Recently, I have been text messaging with a man - he sent naughty pictures of himself and he wanted me to send pictures of myself (which I wouldn't). We'd been tex...
A. 3 July 2007: Your married.. Shouldnt that be enough.. Dont be selfish to your husband.... (read in full...)
Should I tell the guy I just slept with I have genital warts?
Q. i was treated for genital warts a few months ago and i recently slept with my ex should i tell him as i think they are comin back...
A. 3 July 2007: Hey babe, tell him, he deserves and needs to know. x x x .... (read in full...)
I used to like to have sex with fat girls, but now I want to move on
Q. I'm a cute guy but I hung out with FAT chicks and I invested so much on them to have sex with them and my question is: how do I get rid of them and find new friends?...
A. 3 July 2007: Dont b so rude! You wont be able to 'get rid' of them.. just move on... (read in full...)
How do I ask my girlfriend for sex?
Q. hi i am a 15 yr old boy and i really want to have sex or at least get a bj from my gf but im to scared to ask her to what do i do...
A. 3 July 2007: Hey babe, talk to her, ask her if she is ready for things like that.. if not.. leave her be babe u dont wanna make her do anythin.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x ... (read in full...)
Update: I've caught out my boyfriend who was carrying condoms in his case
Q. I posted a question already about my boyfriend who was carrying condoms in his travel case and I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt, play the waiting game and keep an eye on him. Well he was away at a corporate games weekend with his work ...
A. 3 July 2007: Hey babii!! Wow well i think you should certainly tell him youve caught him.. the cheating bastard!! honestly babe make sure u tell him and also if i was you i would ring her and say (calmly) do u know this man ( your boyfriends name ) and see where ... (read in full...)
Could sperm survive from our first sexual encounter to our second 1/2 hour later?
Q. ok, here it is. yesturday me and my boyfriend had sex. we used a condom but then we did it adain no more than half an hour later. he didn't come out but could there still be sperm from the first time and would it still survive? is there a chance ...
A. 3 July 2007: I dont understand.. You said you used a condom... Then no you wont be?!!!... (read in full...)
Does he need to be dominated?
Q. Do british men like sex and bondage? i have dated a spanker but other than that he is a limp bisquit in bed. Could it be he wants to be dominated? What suggestions do you have? ...
A. 3 July 2007: Lol is it you who made the other question regarding splitting up with this guy? No not at all true about the british men. My boyfriend is british and he doesnt.... (read in full...)
Gonna dress up in heels and fishnets and show up at his door
Q. Just had a relationship breakup. Thinking of showing up at his place in heels and fishnet tights and showing him a side he never saw. Sex between us was almost nonexistent and now I just want to dominate him in a sexual way. He has never seen this ...
A. 3 July 2007: Dont bother doing tht babe, You will probably end up sleeping with him and he will stil say its over.. Find someone x x x... (read in full...)
I am worried about what my friends would say if they knew my BF was a virgin
Q. my boyfriend is 18 but he has never has sex. i am a bit worred about mine coz all my other m8 have 18 year old bf and their bf have all had sex before. but i dont wont to tell them that my bf has never had sex becouse i am worred on what they would ...
A. 3 July 2007: Hey babe, i was 15 when i met my boyfriend. He was 19. He was a virgin.. It shouldnt come into the conversation wether or not ur boyfriend is a virgin (im 16 now by the way and been with my boyfriend a year).. Like Jamer70.. Dont compare ur ... (read in full...)
I am horrified at his previous relationship, she was only 15!
Q. i am 18 and in a happy, sexually active relationship with my boyfriend who's 19. my b/f has been in two previous sexually active relationships (the most recent with a girl nearly 3 years his junior). it occured to me that during his last ...
A. 3 July 2007: My boyfriend and i met when he was 19, and i was 15. he soon turned 20, a few months into our relationship. He was a virgin. I wasnt. We had sex 3 months into the relationship. he was 20 and i was 15. We are still together after a year. What he has ... (read in full...)
Husband knows my one-night stand from 10 years ago!
Q. just told husband about one night stand i had 10 years before i met him. he seems upset because he also knows this person. what should i do?...
A. 3 July 2007: Why did you tell him, if its in the past. the reason he cant get round it so easily, because, he knows the person, and can picture it in his head. Give him some time.. i cant understand what braught it into the conversation...... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his ex are going away together without me
Q. My boyfriend of 6 months still talks to his ex. He doesn't try to hide anything but says they are still friends. They are both going to an out of town wedding of a mutual friend. I am very concerned about this and wonder if I should tell him how I ...
A. 3 July 2007: Hi, so you chose not to go.. but that was before you knew the ex was goin.. is there completely no chance of another ticket for you to go? if not, then as long as you trust your boyfriend, and maybe keep daily contact with him, u should be ok, mail ... (read in full...)
16 next week and worried my girlfriend wants to have sex... how can I say no gently!?
Q. Hi Me and my girlfreind have been going out for 5 months now and its my 16th birthday next week. I am really worrid that she wants to have sex however I dont. She has been hinting at this for a while and I have been joking it off. how can i turn h...
A. 3 July 2007: Hi babe, when she says she still wants to do something, what does she mean? sexually.. have you done anything at all.. like fingered a girl etc.. write back x x x x x... (read in full...)
I want to hide the fact that I'm not a virgin.
Q. hy i had sex with my boy friend for 8 to 12 time, now i am going to marry a man of my parents choice, i want to start a good life, i want to hide that am not virgin. how can i do this pleas help me. pleas...
A. 2 July 2007: Hi babe, are you planning on hiding it from your husband to be?? cos that will be incredibly hard, you have already had your hymen broken, and it is very clear who is a virgin or not, by how tight you are.. hope i help, mail me if u wanna talk x x x... (read in full...)
He never wants sex anymore.
Q. Well me and my boyfriend have been seeing eacth other for 3 years and when we first were together we had sex all the time. Now he dosent want to and when we do it's not diffrent its hte same no forplay nothing it's just take off ur clothes and thats ...
A. 2 July 2007: It shouldnt be and if it is, he isnt worth your time. Talk to him, he needs to know your worry.. maybe when he does this he is just too horny, and if he pleasures u or him then he may cum then there wont be sex at that very moment, if u get me.. ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to get random erections... or not?
Q. Is it ok to get an erection at random times? I've always had a prblem gettting erections at random times. is this normal...
A. 2 July 2007: Hey babe, yea it is completely normal.. trust me like very normal.. mail me if u wanna talk xx x x xx... (read in full...)
I wake up in the night and he's pleasing himself... !
Q. hi i have been with partner for 3 years we have a good sex life but over the past few months he has become distant towards sex we still have it but not as often and i often wake through the night and he will be masterbating he does not know i am ...
A. 2 July 2007: Hey babe, maybe he wakes up horny with a hard on.. which some men do, and then because ur asleeep, doesnt want to bother u.. by doin it 2 himself.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x... (read in full...)
I have this itchy burning feeling on my vagina and it hurts when I have sex!
Q. ok..this is a crazy question... i have this itchy burning feeling on my vagina and its soo annoying and it hurts when i have sex! i dont think its thrush because u get discharge from that..i have used a cream calld vagisil but it still here what ...
A. 2 July 2007: Hey babe, im the same, but with discharge.. keep using the vagisil and also wash daily, using water, and also avoid anything such as sprays or anythin that would irritate and unbalance the vagina..see a doctor after about a week and a half, because ... (read in full...)
I have recently found out that my best friends boyfriend has been cheating on her!
Q. hi i have recently found out that my best friends boyfriend has been cheating on her! My boyfriend was the one who told me (as my friends boyfriend is his mate) but he said if i tell my best friend he will finish with me. i don't think he would ...
A. 2 July 2007: Um first off your mates boyfriend is being a dick to her and she deserves to know..but the thing is, you boyfriend isnt playing fair, telling you he will finish you if u say anything.. that is blackmail.. would you rather save ur mate from hurt by ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his ex are going away together without me
Q. My boyfriend of 6 months still talks to his ex. He doesn't try to hide anything but says they are still friends. They are both going to an out of town wedding of a mutual friend. I am very concerned about this and wonder if I should tell him how I ...
A. 2 July 2007: Hi babe, talk to him, i understand how this worries you, as it would certainly worry me.. let him know how you feel, why arnt you invited? mail me if u wanna talk x x x xx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps naked ex pictures and is online dating--help!
Q. Please can someone offer me some reassurance or advice. My boyfriend of 5 months has a naked picture of his ex in a sexual pose. I saw it and he said he threw it away, but it is still sat in his drawer. Now I have discovered he has joined an ...
A. 1 July 2007: Hey babe, happytochat is right.. babe he aint someone you wanna spend time with.. keepin ex's naked pik with him, and also now joining on a chat site, for sex.. leave him, or if not, let him know you know, and demand a resonable explanation.. mail ... (read in full...)
He has behaved badly and now my parents dont want me to see him!
Q. im so lost i need help!!! i am 18 and my boyfriend has just turned 22. We have been going out for 2 years and i love him very much. it was all very well with my family and both them and him were close. however they logged into my e mail and found ...
A. 30 June 2007: Erm darlin.. he grabbed u by the hair and spat in ur face. i can only say one thing to that. leave him.. he is complete and utter rubbish.. (i chose my words carefully) honestly babe he isnt worth ur time..it is ur choice.. to do WHATEVER you want!! ... (read in full...)
16 next week and worried my girlfriend wants to have sex... how can I say no gently!?
Q. Hi Me and my girlfreind have been going out for 5 months now and its my 16th birthday next week. I am really worrid that she wants to have sex however I dont. She has been hinting at this for a while and I have been joking it off. how can i turn h...
A. 21 June 2007: Hia babii, explain to her u just arnt ready, if she isnt 'ok' abpout it, she isnt worth it babii, i hope she understands tho its bad when things like this happen, when opne person wants sex and the other just isnt ready.. mail me if u wana talk x x ... (read in full...)
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