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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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My husband to be says that in the past month my vagina feels much larger and he is finding it difficult to have an orgasm
Q. My husband to be says that in the past month my vagina feels much larger and he is finding it difficult to have an orgasm.... We have been making love for the past 3 months and I have one child aged 19, I am 46 my partner is 44. Why is this ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, no problem, Yea a vagina is, but the way your husband said, its too loose, i think the doctor, ( probs not a gyni ) would suggest the exercises.. They do help, and there are some for people who have had children, which are realy effective. ... (read in full...)
I can't stick a relationship past the 3 month mark
Q. hi i have a huge problem, i've always dumped a guy before the relationship reaches a three month period. I've been dating this guy who is the most wonderful guy i have ever dated but the problem is, we are reaching 3 months. yesterday i found myself ...
A. 11 July 2007: This is proving you are not ready for a long-term relationship.. explain this to him. Maybe it will make it better, for you, and you wont be so afriad inside to commit. The worst thing you can do is, stay with him IF you dont like him and are just ... (read in full...)
He's leaving for the army; should I tell him my true feelings?
Q. hey everyone...i got a problem...i fell in love with one of my guy friends. we knew each other since i was a freshman and he was a sophmore. well he has graduated and is about to leave to the army. the problem is that i don't know if i should tell ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, is the thing you need to tell him that you realy like him and want to be with him? I think you need to think what the outcome would be. Do you want to tell him, to see if he will not go away and stay with you, if you do tell him, and you ... (read in full...)
I do really want to go but dont want to break his heart. Should i go or stay???
Q. Im 19 and have been in a relationship for 5 years, i do love my boyfriend but he doesn't get on with my family or friends and im not sure about us anymore. I feel that im so young and havn't really lived! My best friend who i do everything with has ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, you have already made your mind up, you arnt so sure about this relationship so you want a break. I suggest you take this break and then see how you feel, it will then be easier for you both to just be friends. I suggest you arnt with him ... (read in full...)
To all the women who AREN'T bothered by their partner watching porn; why?
Q. Wow, this porn issue is huge and obviously we women are bothered a lot by it. But there are women out there who AREN'T, and it is to these impressive women that I go to for advice: Why aren't you bothered by it, and what can you suggest to help ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, i enjoy watching porn with my boyfriend as i know he enjoys it. I dont find it a problem as i know it just turns us on, but even without it, i turn him on more, so i guess im secure, not in my looks, but i trust my boyfriend and to be ... (read in full...)
Is it common to think about people other than your partner during sex/while masturbating?
Q. Is it okay to fantasize and masturbate thinking about people other than your partner? (my guess would be that most people would say yes) But is it morally okay to think of other people while you're having sex with your partner? Is this something ...
A. 11 July 2007: To be honest chick, when i am having sex with my boyfriend i think about him, and it would be truely hard not to. I would suggest if you are thinking of someone else then you are bored and need to move on, as you and your partner werent meant to be? ... (read in full...)
Is there anywhere on the net I can view free instructional videos about oral sex?
Q. does anyone know where there are some free instuctional videos on giving good blowjobs off of the internet. my bf loves blowjobs and he says im awesome at it but if i knew every little detail it would make it all the better!...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, maybe search it on google? There may not be a video but they would have written instructions? I hope i helped. Mail me if you would like to talk x x ... (read in full...)
Too nervous to ask out the girl I love, what do I do?
Q. i am going to ask out the girl i love and i don't know how to do it because i always gt too nervous when i try to do it what should i do...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, maybe find a time when its just her on her own then just walk up to her, and maybe ask if she wants to do somethin this weekend, as if you just wanted to be her mate and then you both get to know each other, and she may even ask you.. I ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex; he prefers masturbating before he comes to bed
Q. hi, I have a boyfriend,we just got back together after a long time apart.We broke up originally because of lack of sex and other issues,particularly abuse in his childhood.I love him very much. However the sex is still a problem.We sleep in the sam...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, tell him how you feel, if you have already told him how you feel, and he stil doesnt understand and isnt satisfying you, then you need a new partner chick. I hope i helped, & good luck. Mail me if you would like to talk x x ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? I've never missed a period before now
Q. I'm having some unusual symptoms and I was wondering if I could be pregnant. I didn't have my period this month and I've never been late or missed before. Sometimes I have pains or uncomfort in my abdomen, like when I have my period, but a little ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, first off to put all your worries aside, get a pregnancy test. If that comes back negative, see a doctor ( also see a doc if u r preg ) there could be something wrong, it could just be an occuring stomach ach. But i strongly suggest the ... (read in full...)
He's mean but is he abusive?
Q. i'm 13 years old and i wanna find out if my brother is abusive.he is always bothering my sister about her sicking her thumb.he is always bothering me about how slutish i look(but i don't).he is always bothering my other sister about how she is going ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, your brother is a bully, and needs to be told how he is feeling, and maybe to see and get a feeling of how he is making everybody else feel. I agree tell someone if he does it again.. I hope i helped & good luck. Mail me if you would like ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't like how wet I get... Are there anti-lubricants? Any advice?
Q. My boyfriend doesn't really like how wet I get down there when we're having sex. He says its very excessive and also difficult to feel himself inside of me. We are okay in other positions but the missionary position doesn't seem to work. Are ...
A. 11 July 2007: A cream is there to make you wet, when he says white foam? can he just mean lumpy discharge or cum? If not i would suggest you see a doctor about this, as he may be able to prescribe something to you.. I hope i helped, & good luck Mail me if you ... (read in full...)
Will my body piercings turn a guy off?
Q. This is directed mostly to guys. I was wondering if body piercings turn guys off? I have six piercings on one ear and five on the other, and I want to get my belly button and tongue pierced. I just don't want to lose my chance with a guy, because ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, if you want to do it then go for it, a lad should like you for you, if not then he aint worth anythin.. I hope i helped, and good luck. Mail me if you would like to talk x x ... (read in full...)
Why do I pick fights with him for no reason?
Q. I have been on and off with my ex for about 2 years we have a beautiful daughter together. i love him more than anything but we have had a bit of ruff times and i know we can make it because we have made it this far. sometimes i pick fights with him ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, i know it can be hard, but when you feel like an argument is gunna start turn to your baby gurl, and give her a cuddle and then think about good things.. I have the same problem, i am always picking arguments, the worst was last night.. You ... (read in full...)
I told her that I was a virgin. Well she laughed at me... I'm not too sure how I should feel about this.
Q. Here's the story, I am 20 soon to be 21 (in a week) A couple days ago I met this girl and we got to talking. As the conversation evolved, we ended up talking about sex. Well this is the point where I told her that I was a virgin. Well she laughed ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, there could be many reasons, but you still should not worry. she could have had a laugh as she didnt realy know what to do in this situation, maybe she was just trying to make you feel beter however she was nervous.. I hope i helped, good ... (read in full...)
My husband to be says that in the past month my vagina feels much larger and he is finding it difficult to have an orgasm
Q. My husband to be says that in the past month my vagina feels much larger and he is finding it difficult to have an orgasm.... We have been making love for the past 3 months and I have one child aged 19, I am 46 my partner is 44. Why is this ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, maybe try a few exercises such as when you urinate, squeeze the muscles so you stop, and then start again, as this strengthens your muscles ( I learnt this in child development ). I would also suggest you see a gyncologist or doctor, as ... (read in full...)
I really love him and I'm ready for sex but I'm really really shy.
Q. I'm 16 and I have been with my boyfriend who is 16 also, we have been together for 5 months. He has been away on vacation (mom wouldn't let me go) and he's coming back soon. We want to make up for lost time. I really love him and I'm ready for sex ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, well firstly chick, i think you need to let him know you are ready, but when it actualy comes to it, you need to relax, it will be very painful. If you are scared about the blood, maybe lay a sheet down therefore it wont damage it.. You ... (read in full...)
I kissed my sister's best mate but I don't want my sister to know about it.
Q. On Friday night I kissed my sisters best mate but I really like her and I can't stop thinking about her. The only thing is I don't want my sister to find but I also really want to go out with her because I love her. What should I do?...
A. 11 July 2007: Tell her best friend, you would like to keep it secret for a bit, and hope she understands, also tell her the reason as well.. I hope i helped & good luck. Mail me if you would like to talk x x ... (read in full...)
I'm not bothered by the porn. I'm freaked out that some of it was gay porn.
Q. Okay, so I found my boyfriend's collection of porn. We've been dating on and off for five years and just moved in together. I'm not bothered by the porn. I'm freaked out that some of it was gay porn. He's never shown any signs of being gay or ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, i think you should confront him about it, ask him why he has it, make sure he knows you dont have a problem with it, but also you would like to know why he is into it. I hope i helped. Mail me if you would like to talk x x ... (read in full...)
My left chest man boob seems to be a little upper than my right chest man boob, I would like to know is this normal, and how can I get them both at the same level?
Q. dear cupid, I have read a post earlier, I seem to have the same question but different problem, well my left chest man boob seems to be a little upper than my right chest man boob, I would like to know is this normal, and how can I get them both ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, like i said in the mail.. Its something that i have known quite a few people to have a problem with, but if you are realy worried about it and think it is realy noticable to others, then see your doctor and he may suggest doing a few ... (read in full...)
I think I want to break up with my boyfriend, but we have the same friendship group and I'm sure it would make things awkward.
Q. I think I want to break up with my boyfriend, but we have the same friendship group and I'm sure it would make things awkward. He ended up losing his best friend by going out with me, and has recently ditched most of his other friends and spends all ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, first off, you want to break up with him.. There is no reason you should stay with him, if you dont want to. That was his choice to drop his friends, you two are much better friends, honestly if you are concidering finishing it, then maybe ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems to have spent so much time trying to make my friends like him that he's been ignoring me!
Q. My boyfriend didn't get off to a very good start with most of my friends, but he started really making an effort and now they think he's great. Unfortunately, he's spent so long trying to make them like him that I feel like he's been ignoring me, ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, im afraid this kinda thing does happen, talk to him, make sure he knows how you are feeling, and that he shouldnt, be telling you how to treat your friends. He needs to start paying more attention to you again. Hope i helped, Mail me if ... (read in full...)
Just wondering but which part of a guy's body do you look at first?
Q. (FOR THE GIRLS) Just wondering but which part of a guy's body do you look at first? My mates say they always look at the face, is it the same for most girls? just wondered ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, i would suggest the face, the eyes, the smile, everything on the face =) Hope i helped, Mail me if you would like to talk x x ... (read in full...)
I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months now, and I do really like him, but recently he seems to like me a lot less.
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months now, and I do really like him, but recently he seems to like me a lot less. He avoids spending time alone with me, and has been flirting with my best friend right in front of me. She doesn't seem to ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, i suggest you say something, to your boyfriend and also your best friend, before it could be too late.. Maybe it could be easier you talk to your other best friend, even though you have a past with him, he still could help, and look out for ... (read in full...)
I split up with my boyfriend one week ago. I don't think I love him anymore, but may still have a tiny crush.
Q. I split up with my boyfriend one week ago. I don't think I love him anymore, but may still have a tiny crush. When people ask him if we are still friends he says yes, but then he never talks to me. When I try to talk to him he gives me an odd look ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, maybe the reason he never talks to you and gives you sarcastic answers, is he is upset you finished him, but also he is embarrased and doesnt realy know how to react around you. Give him some time and when he is ready to talk to you, he ... (read in full...)
My best friend just died and I'm feeling depressed all the time and can't shake myself out of it.
Q. My best friend just died and it's like someone has just shot me, run me over and all that. I find it hard because we were so close and now I'm depressed and can't shake out of it like I did last time. Any ideas?...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, Im sorry to hear about it, Have you got anyone else, who was mabye close to your friend, that you could confide in them? Have you also thaught about a councellor? There are councellors trained to deal with the loss of people. I hope i ... (read in full...)
How can I get my boyfriend to forgive me?
Q. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years 4 months ago. I thought I was over him but as we do the same sports we saw each other on a course, but we had a huge argument and now he won't talk to me. I feel I still love him, I know I shouldn't ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, you have already given him time to think, and he has chose to still not talk to you.. You ended the relationship, so maybe he is scared you are going to do the same again. All you can realy do is give him some time to think, and wish for ... (read in full...)
I haven't done anything before and I don't know how far I should go with him before I say stop.
Q. I'm really really into this guy and I love him loads and he loves me too but I think that he wants it to go faster than I do. I haven't done anything before and I don't know how far I should go with him before I say stop. I love him so much and I ...
A. 11 July 2007: Babe, you only do what you want, if there is anything you dont like thats when you say NO, make sure you wait until you are ready otherwise it will hurt you. Maybe if you are sure, have foreplay, which could maybe substitute for sex.. Hope i helped, ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my friend's cousin. Should I make it obvious I like him?
Q. I have a crush on my friend's cousin. Everytime I see him I get excited or get butterflies in my stomach. I'm not afaid to be around him or anything. It's just that if I tell my friend I have a crush on her cousin she might get mad. If I tell no ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, i wouldnt say there is anythin wrong with you havin a cruh on your friends cousin, Go for it chick, Good luck, Mail me if you would like to talk x x ... (read in full...)
How can I stop my boyfriend continually asking me questions about my past boyfriends?
Q. Okau I have a couple of questions so please try to answer them!!! THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION - I told my boyfriend that I've had sex with a lot of guys when I was younger (and I have) but he really don't like it and I don't want him thinking...
A. 11 July 2007: Why is he with you if he has a problem with white and black people going out, as he is black and you are white? Your past has nothing to do with him, however there is nothing stopping him thinking you are a slut. The simple and most easy solution is ... (read in full...)
Hi, recently i had sores in my mouth. i have alot of coldsores but usually on my lip and never thought you could get them in the mouth.
Q. Hi, recently i had sores in my mouth. i have alot of coldsores but usually on my lip and never thought you could get them in the mouth. I gave my partner oral sex and am quite confused about what happens. oral herpes is called HSv1 right? and ...
A. 11 July 2007: I would think this would be extremily rare, You can get some infections spread via oral, however you giving someone else oral, suggests it would be hard to swop the infection. If there are any thaughts that either you or your partner has an ... (read in full...)
I discreetly got DNA and the result shows I am not her biological father. I am stunned and do not know what to do.
Q. Just found out my 12 year old daughter is not mine, I was divorced recently and an old friend of my ex wife told me when she had a few drinks . I confronted my ex she said it was rubbish but it has been playing on my mind for months. I discreetly ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, first off, you have raised this child as your own, for the past 12 years, even though you have now found out you arnt the biological father, you should still be able to love this child. What your wife has done, is unforgivable, however you ... (read in full...)
We're young and we want to have sex badly.
Q. I want to have sex badley but I not sure if I should do it my boy friend is 16 and im 12 he calls every night tells me come over i am ready. (Moderator Note: purposefully left without corrections)...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi babe, i wouldnt advise you to have sex. If the police found out. He would get done for sexual assault, even if you both say yes, a girl of the age of 12 or under, it is called sexual assault. Trust me, ive had friends in your situation. Hope i ... (read in full...)
My breasts were very veiny I mean I could see the blue viens going through my areolas and the rest of my breasts.
Q. Okay, this is probably going to sound really wierd and gross but I need some help from all you girls out there. Last night when I was getting ready to get in the shower I looked at myself in the mirror while I was topless, I realized that my breasts ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi i get the same, nothin to worry about, but if you are getting too worried, go to your doctor to put your mind at rest, I hope i helped, Mail me if you would like to talk x x... (read in full...)
He had a spot that is black and a little red.
Q. Hey there i need help. Well yesterday i spent some time with my boyfriend and we had a really good time. And when he went home he took a shower. And we agreed that he wouldn't call me anymore until today. But it was different, he did call me and ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hey babe, it could be a normal spot chick, maybe even a mole. I would suggest you get him to the doctor and have it checked out, just to be on the safe side. I hope i helped, mail me if you would like to talk x x... (read in full...)
Could I be contacted with herpes, STDS, and etc?
Q. my sister and i got into a fight. She spat at me, and her saliva went on my arms, face, lips, and inside my mouth. Could I be contacted with herpes, STDS, and etc?...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi just seen your other question as well. There is no reason for you to be expected. Hope i helped x x... (read in full...)
I think my teacher fancies me but I'm not sure.
Q. I'm so confused! I think my teacher fancies me but I'm not sure. When I first started in his class, he was really nice and I figured that it must be because I knew about the subject before I started college (I was 21 at the time, I'm 23 now). The ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi babe it kinda does sound like hes gettin into you, but he can still get fired, because it is illegal to date a student. Even though you are both of age etc.. Hope i helped, Mail me if you would like to talk x x... (read in full...)
She says she wants space, should I break it off?
Q. Hey all, A quick question for ya, my gf and I have been having a bunch of problems lately and we broke up, we both love eachother lots but now she says she needs time think if she wants to be with me, should i take that as a very rude thing to do...
A. 10 July 2007: Hey babe, dont take it that personally, but make sure she knows you're not gonna wait forever and make sure she knows you're not gonna be messed about, Hope I helped, Mail me if you would like to talk x x... (read in full...)
Should I try the doc again?
Q. 2 weeks ago i made an appointment to see an eye doctor. The doctor has not called me back yet to verify the appointment. Seems my eye is getting worse. Should I call the doctor, or wait till he calls me? what should i do?...
A. 10 July 2007: hi babe, ring them again, they may have lost your number, or maybe just even forgot? Hope you feel better soon, x x... (read in full...)
What should I do if I am afraid to tell my girlfriend I love her?
Q. What should I do if I am afraid to tell my girlfriend I love her?...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi babe, maybe you dont feel you love her completely yet? Maybe you are scared she wont say it back? Maybe you think she will laugh at you? Maybe you are scared she will want comittment? Maybe you are just embarrased of saying, 'i love you'? Think ... (read in full...)
Worried that when we have sex, it will hurt her given our experiences so far!
Q. My girlfriend and I are getting to the stage where we are ready for intercourse but I am worried as when I tried to finger her before, as soon as I entered her even slightly she was lots of pain. If my finger hurts her when its not even going in, ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi babe, maybe she isnt lubricated enough, or maybe she isnt relaxed enough. If you fingering her, is hurting her, then you having sex with her, probly will hurt also, maybe talk to her, make sure you are both OK, with it, and then try again, maybe ... (read in full...)
The skin on my lips were peeled there may be some blood because there were chapped. Is there a high rate that I could get diseases?
Q. My sister talked/laughed and I felt some of her saliva landed on my chapped lips. The skin on my lips were peeled there may be some blood because there were chapped. Is there a high rate that I could get diseases? My sister never had sex and she is ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi babe, i wouldnt say there is any reason for you to worry. Maybe buy some lip balm, or chapstick, to make your lips better, and not chapped. I hoped i helped you, mail me if you would like to talk x x... (read in full...)
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