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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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I had brief intercourse with a stripper during a lap dance... should I tell my wife?
Q. I’m felling real guilty about what happened to me at a strip bar. I’m a happily married man, ten years married with two kids. I go to strip bars, my wife lets me and its never been an issue. She goes out with her friends too, and admittedly been ...
A. 29 February 2008: I CANT UNDERSTAND WHY YOU WOULD EVEN BE COMPARED TO BEING RAPED.. I WAS RAPED WHEN I WAS 12.. RAPE IS WHERE YOU SAY NO! YOU SAY NO TO THEM DOING IT AND YOU DO PROTEST TO IT! WHERE YOU SAID ''What was I to do? Throw her off me and protest? '' YES YOU ... (read in full...)
How to drive away my nightmares?
Q. I am having nightmares every night for most of the night and not getting the sleep I need. I can't seem to control them and I'm really tired all the time. I don't know why this happens, but I really need to know what I can do about it. ...
A. 29 February 2008: HEY!!
Sorry i meant to add on.. the healthy diet is also healthy
I hope i helped you, feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)
How to drive away my nightmares?
Q. I am having nightmares every night for most of the night and not getting the sleep I need. I can't seem to control them and I'm really tired all the time. I don't know why this happens, but I really need to know what I can do about it. ...
A. 29 February 2008: HEY!!
What used to sort out my nightmares when i was younger, was drinking water a lot.. and before bed (not too much that you will need the toilet) but sip water not caffiene etc..... (read in full...)
Does first time oral hurt?
Q. Does it hurt getting a blow job for the 1st time ever? because i'm a virgin but i'm scared to have sex with this girl that i like a lot.. what should i do???...
A. 29 February 2008: HEY!!
No babe, oral isnt there to be painful, it is meant for a joyfull experience.. Like LJ001 said, biting is probley the only reason why it would hurt, which i dont think she would bite.. oh and if she has braces, this could slightly hurt... (read in full...)
If I don't have anything interesting to say I remain silent; he says our stretches of silence make him uncomfortable!
Q. I'm in a realationship of nine months with a wonderful man who I love but we dont seem to have anything to talk about. All he talks about are cars and I'm just not that interested in them. He's brought up the lack of talking and says that our long ...
A. 29 February 2008: HEY!!
In a relationship you realy do need to learn to live like that.. you need to be able to listen to him talk about cars.. let him know you are interested and he will be the same with you. You can talk about many things, things you like to do, ... (read in full...)
My friend's bf is a liar and a cheater, he flirts with me and other girls when she is not around! What can I do?
Q. My friend's boyfriend is a liar and a cheater! She cares about him and is always helping him, even if he says he doesn't need help. Her bf claims to love her, even though he flirts with me and other girls when she's not around. Also, my friend has ...
A. 29 February 2008: HEY!!
You need to think about what to do and say carefully, if you did tell your friend who would she believe? I think you should let her find out for herself.. he is bound to split up somewhere.. I know you are caring for your friend but by tell... (read in full...)
How to let my older friend know how I feel for him without looking foolish?
Q. I am madly in love with a guy who is 12 years older than me. He is Christian and so am I. We wouldn't have sex or even kiss before marriage but I just love being near him how do I let him know how I feel for him without making me look like a fool or ...
A. 29 February 2008: HEY!!
You can start by just being open with him more, showing you care for him more, by asking him out for a drink.. and talk to him more.. See how it goes from there on..
I hope i helped you, feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)
Doesn't he want to be with me any more?
Q. I have been seeing my Bf for about 3-4 weeks now, but for the last 2days he hasn't texted me or answerd my calls, i know he doesn't get paid till the end of the month, so he might not have credit to text me back, but he could still answer the phone! ...
A. 29 February 2008: HEY!!
Your boyfriend may have a reason for this, and up until you find out, keep trying to be positive. If you stil haven't made contact with him after about a week then i'd say there is a very bad problem.. Even still, he has a lot of expl... (read in full...)
I'm single again, but a little out of practice with dating... Help!
Q. Hi 2 all, I finished with my ex in december and i'm ready to look for someone new, but i'm not sure how brutal the dating world is nowadays, as i've been off the market for a while. Any tips or advice from anyone? Please it would help me and i ...
A. 29 February 2008: HEY!!
Just be yourself.. And have fun!!
GOOD LUCK!! I hope i helped you, feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)
What's this brown discharge?
Q. hey peeps bn readin ur mails n am amazed.could i be pregnant??????????please advise am i paranoid??had periods in jan 24-27th(26day-cycle)so the next should be on 20th feb,but am missing!!!!though that week had sore breasts,headache,and on the expe...
A. 29 February 2008: HEY!!
There is a very strong chance that it is your periods!! Dont worry about being pregnant, and take a test to be sure. At both the begining and end of my period, the blood is brown.. Take a test and if you are still worried, go to your GP and ... (read in full...)
More on the 'two sides to every story' story
Q. in response to replies posted about my previous posts entitled two sides to every story thankyou for your comments.Yes i have admitted i have a a problem emotionally and im glad i am seeking help for it as for my ex partner i think she needs to do ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
I think it is great that you have given your side of the story and everyone who comments on this site do need to understand there is always two sides to a story no matter what..
Talk soon!! xxx... (read in full...)
I am considering cheating
Q. I have been married for 10 yrs have 2 children but have had an all but non existent sex life during the marriage. I have tried seducing her buying presents doing all the household chores and even explaining that i will have to walk away from the ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
You know that cheating is wrong.. and if you plan to go with another women, have a divorce or leave your wife, because cheating whilst with your wife is worse than not being with her and getting with someone else, therefore you arent chea... (read in full...)
Can I expect regular orgasms now?
Q. I experienced my 1st orgasm during intercourse last night-both me and my boyfriend were absolutely delighted.I had to cry out with the pleasure.Can I now expect to orgasm regularly?...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
I would expect you to have them slightly more regularly but dont be upset if you dont!!
Feel free to mail me at any time :) x x x... (read in full...)
Her parents won't let her have a boyfriend...
Q. What can I do, my girlfriend's parents don't let her have a boyfriend, they found out she is talking to someone on the phone every night the saw the phone bill, should I go introduce myself or what could we do? Her parents won't let her have a ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
It is soo good that you are wanting to introduce yourself to her parents as a lot of men i know would have just given up!! I think that would be a great idea, unless there is a specific reason why they wouldn't like you. Inside, i think they... (read in full...)
My teacher made me feel really uncomfortable...
Q. I'm using my mum's account and remaining annonymous. Anyway, I'm having my half-term holidays now and in last week of last term in a history lesson something kind of creeped me out. In the lesson near the end we were all listening to the assistant...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
This could be different things, with different outcomes.. Don't take too much of this to be bad until you have more proof. Observe the way he reacts to you and write this down so that you have a log of the information..
Feel free to mail me ... (read in full...)
There are two sides to every story...
Q. it appears i have been written about on this site by my previous partner.first of all the facts she has written are to an extent untrue.Yes i lived with her for 2 years without a job and no i did'nt sit my fat ass on the sofa all day long or on the ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
Wow that was long!! :) .. I know it must be a shock to have found what your ex had written about you.. I actualy dont know what was written apart from what you have just explained then..
WISH YOU LUCK, Feel free to mail me at any time x x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he will dump me if I ever cut myself. Now I don't know if I want to be with him anymore. Help.
Q. My bf was recently telling me how a friend of his broke up with his gf because she was cutting herself. I was shocked that someone could break up with someone they are supposed to love when they need them so much. I was even more shock to hear my bf ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
Men get uncomfortable around things like this because they don't know how to react. I am so glad that you dont do this because it becomes an addiction to many, including me (i got myself out of it). I'd say forget about it and just dont do i... (read in full...)
My teacher blushes when seeing me, and MINE is not infatuation!...
Q. Hello everyone!! Well my question is that I am in love with one of my male teachers.It is certainly not infatuation. I am positive he knows because my friends have said it to him just as a joke.His answer to this was 'that's great'. Whenever he ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
Dont keep trying to get his attention especialy dont blow him kisses. I can tell by what you have said, that he does realise that this can cause problems for his career and you should back off. Tell your mates to as well..
GOOD LUCK!! ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy tests came up negative but I missed my period for several months now. Could I still be pregnant?
Q. hi all just wanted some advice please, i have not had a period since December. done 5 tests all negative, feel bloated, got heartburn. could i still be pregnant, i am going to a doc at the end of month if nothing happens....
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
Go to the doctor and let he or she take a test, as they are the most reliable..
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x... (read in full...)
What are the chances of pregnancy if she took the pill behindhand?
Q. Me and my girlfriend had sex on valentines day. She takes the pill but the day after valentines day she took the pill very late and took it about 6pm She's still on the pill but now she is starting to feel sick and ill. Could she be pregnan...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
Chances are she is fine and you wont be expecting a baby :).. Ask her to take a pregnancy test around 2 weeks after conception to make sure :)
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x... (read in full...)
We used a condom, so chances are I'm not pregnant. Am I worrying too much?
Q. I am really afraid that I am pregnant. But then again, I think I might be worrying too much. I had sex for the first time, with my boyfriend who is extremely experienced. We had sex at the end of December, and a couple times at the end of January. I ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
High chances you aren't pregnant so you need to stop being so worried!! :) Take a test to put your mind at rest.
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x... (read in full...)
I'm terrified in case I'm pregnant!
Q. I had sex for the first time but it was unprotcted it was like a mistake.. I told my mum.. took the morning after pill between 30 - 40 hours after but how do I know if the pills worked? What are the signs to know it has? I'm really scared im ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
You have done great by getting the emergency pill. Now you have to wait until around 1-2-3 weeks after conception to talk a prgnancy test, just to be on the safe side. I think a doctors test will be reliable from the 1st week.
GOOD LUCK!! ... (read in full...)
If my parents disapprove of my pregnancy but his parents don't, could I move in with my also teenage boyfriend?
Q. If I am 15 years old and I live two hours away from my 16 year old boyfriend, and I am pregnant can I move in with him? And if my parents don't approve of this baby, and his parents do? ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
Talk to your parents babe, you need to let them know. If anything, your parents can stop you from moving out until you are 16, and in some places until you are 18.. Also would our boyfriends parents allow you to live with them (assuming, your... (read in full...)
When would my conceive date have been?
Q. My due date is February 25, 2008. When would that make my conceived date?...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
The same as what the others have said, around the 20th, 21st MAY last year :)
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x... (read in full...)
Would we both need to have a job??
Q. Well I have a couple more questions. People are giving me many different answers and I was wondering. If I get a job to support my baby and my babys dad isnt old enough to get a job. Would I still be able to live with him or would he need to have a ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
Can you not write all the info in one question please, as i have read your other questions.. Jobs are important and your parents can stop you from going, and his parents can go to court for the custody of your child. Nevertheless, you get a jo... (read in full...)
I don't trust my boyfriend, its hard financially, but I want another baby, advice please?
Q. Ok so I have a question. Hopefully someone can help. I'm a 24 yr old with a beautiful 3 yr old daughter. Lately I've been eager to have another child eventhough I know I'm definitely not ready. I'm living with my parents due to financial reasons. ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
The children will need love and care not only the financial area. Talk to your boyfriend and if he doesn't want another baby, respect his decisions..
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x... (read in full...)
I have just found out that my boyfriend of 3 years kissed a guy before we met and I don't know how to take this...
Q. I have just found out that my boyfriend of 3 years kissed a guy before we met but I have just discovered that he is on a swingers site and his profile is very detailed about him wanting a threesome and he wants to be in the middle. It also said he's ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
If he is still ACTIVELY on the swingers website then talk to him, there is a chance he made this account and forgot about it.. (check for the last active bit on his profile if there is one)
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x... (read in full...)
What are the signs of early pregnancy?
Q. Please, I'm really worried here. What are the signs in early pregnancy? And I mean early as in maybe a month, or just under a month. And also, when you are pregnant, do your periods stop suddenly? Or could you still have your next period? Thanks...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
I would say tenderness and maybe a little sickness. The easiest way to aswer your question is to take a pregnancy test around 2 weeks after the chance of conception.
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant without intercourse?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had a bit of sexual fun the other day. Well not the other day, bout 2 weeks ago now. He came, but his penis was not in side me as i am not ready to have full on sex yet. He fingered me about 10 minutes after he came but his penis ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
The stringly stuff, is a sign of ovulation. The easiest way to detect pregnancy is to take a pregnancy test around 2 weeks after the chance of conception..
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x... (read in full...)
How can I get motivated and get my life back?
Q. I'm sixteen years old and for the past six months been smoking cigarettes and weed regularly.I haven't been getting much exercise and have gained a lot of weight, lost motivation to finish getting my high school diploma and been depressed. I also ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
I too get the tightness in my chest, and the doctor told me it was just 'growing pains'. I am now overweight and that is a problem for me.. Driving would mean you more than likely put on weight! when you are at home maybe doing a few sit ups ... (read in full...)
How can I regain my sexdrive?
Q. I am going through a depression, which i am fighting it every day. I love my bloke but i just dont want to have sex, my sex drive has gone completely and we have only been married months. I need to go to the doctors about the depression but how do i ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
I agree with TISHA1, exercise is the !! BEST !! way to recover from depression! :)
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x... (read in full...)
Is this considered rape?
Q. I just had sex with my boyfriend and I know I love him a lot but I just wasn't ready. I told him no but he kept bugging me about it until I agreed. I wanted him to stop after we started but I didn't tell him that. Since I did tell him no to begin ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
This isn't rape. You consented, and didn't during sex say no. However, at a push, he did try and pursuade you to which is wrong!!
ALL THE BEST!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x... (read in full...)
How do I approach him after not speaking to him for months?
Q. So how do I approach him after not speaking to him for months? This is a sequel to my other question. ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
Sorry i can't find your other question, mail me with a link to it and i will reply via mail.. x... (read in full...)
Do younger women really ever go for older guys say 15 to 20 years older?
Q. Do younger women really ever go for older guys say 15 to 20 years older? I am interested in some real life occurances that worked out. Thanks for inputs....
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
My grandad (62) met his (now wife) (22!!) they secretly (without teling anyone including my dad) got MARRIED and are expecting a child in just under 2 weeks. Age difference doesnt realy matter, some women do, some dont :) Watch out for the ... (read in full...)
Should I turn my teacher in after the suggestions he made?????
Q. Hello all School ended for me for the end of the year in December (we have our summer holidays in Dec-Jan) and I gave a letter to a teacher I had a little bit of a crush on, because he was leaving. The thing was, I wasn't actually in his class and...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
Your teacher has been very silly with the way he has dealt with his feelings. I think you should hand all evidence in and take it futher!!
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x... (read in full...)
She is self conscious about her oversized genitalia...
Q. How can I convince my girl that it doesn't bother me that she has a large vagina. Out of all the lovers I have had I have to admit I have never seen anything quite like it. But it doesn't bother me in the slightest, she is beautiful she has the ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
You need to tell her that they are ALL DIFFERENT!! She shouldnt get an operation, especially not because of how people have reacted in the past. Shopw her you love everything about her, and continuously tell her!!
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to ... (read in full...)
How can I control my jealousy???
Q. I have been dating this girl and I really want this to be a long lasting relationship. I have an issue with jealousy and I want to know how I can resolve this and get through it. My girlfriend had a boyfriend in the past and used to be obbsessed ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
I can understand where you are coming from.. I myself get jealous, but after 2 years, in this relationship, i have calmed down a lot because of trust. You need to be able to trust your girlfriend and also trust who she speaks to. I know you ... (read in full...)
Why does it have to be so damm hard to figure out what women want in order to have a lot of sex?
Q. Why does it have to be so damm hard to figure out what women want in order to have a lot of sex? Do most women want a lot of sex or is it only men? Why do you have to spend 10 times more time figuring out the issues rather than having wild sex? No ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
You have to treat them right, you need to show your love to them, not just want sex!! All women are different, high an low sex drives!!
GOOD LUCK and dont treat women like rubbish!! if you want sex, show them tender love and care!! :)... (read in full...)
My friend keeps on flirting with my ex. I want him back. What should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been dating this boy, (A), since November fifth, and on the seventh of February I left him. Very soon I found out this was a mistake and got ready to tell him and "win" him back, however, my best friend has been flirting with hi...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
I think you friend is being realy nasty to you, and you need to jump in there and tell your ex how you feel. Once you have done this you need to be prepared for the outcome.. He will either say he likes you or not etc (You know what i mean... (read in full...)
I've had many moments with this guy. Should I just ask him out?
Q. There's this boy I really like and his friends keep hinting he likes me too. We used to sit next to each other in class and we got really close, he kept touching my leg and poking me and he'd look at me and once I'd noticed he was, he'd look away. ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!!
it made me smile when you wrote about saying what you looking at etc, and the bit where you put 'im not a lesbien' (girls dance with each other without fancying eachother :) )
I think you should ho for it, ask him out and see what he says.... (read in full...)
I know he's been cheating because I saw proof, but he doesn't know. Help!
Q. Can anyone give me some advice? I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, we do not live together. Over the past year he has become very cagey about his mobile phone - takes it everywhere with him including the bathroom. Last autumn, ...
A. 28 February 2008: HEY!
I think he is being incredibly unfair towards you and i dont think you should put up with it. He is lying about his wearabouts etc. However.. you were on a 'break' which means he hasnt cheated at that point. He has admitted that he kissed anot... (read in full...)
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