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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
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I'm 7 weeks pregant and really scared.
Q. This is a bit long, sorry but i need some help!! Okay, im 16 years old and in 2 months will be 17. My boyfriend is also 16 and in 1 and a half months will be 17. We've been together since we were 12 but only became sexually active a few mo...
A. 26 November 2007: Hey babe glad to hear it, keep an eye on your boyfriend in the future :) xxx... (read in full...)
My friend jokingly told me he was going to crush and snort pep pills but I'm not sure if he really was kidding
Q. My friend is saying he is going to crush and snort 'pro plus' which is caffine tablets to help you stay awake.. he says they have the same effect as cocain. But then he said he was joking im worried help?...
A. 26 November 2007: What you have read isn't true and this is from someone who knows someone who did it for a long time.. I hope i could help, feel free to mail me about anything x... (read in full...)
My friend jokingly told me he was going to crush and snort pep pills but I'm not sure if he really was kidding
Q. My friend is saying he is going to crush and snort 'pro plus' which is caffine tablets to help you stay awake.. he says they have the same effect as cocain. But then he said he was joking im worried help?...
A. 26 November 2007: What you have read isn't true and this is from someone who knows someone who did it for a long time.. I hope i could help, feel free to mail me about anything x... (read in full...)
Huge crush on someone I'm playing the girlfriend of in a pantomime. Please help.
Q. Ok, I'm 14 and attracted to girls (no labels yet). I'm currently part of a group pantomime of Dick whittington, where I play Alice (the girl Dick marries in the end) in true panto style, dick is played by a woman, who is married, with a son only two ...
A. 25 November 2007: Aww that's great, i wish you luck :) x x x mail me about anyhting :)... (read in full...)
If I were to have sex with my boyfriend just before my period and not use a condom would I still get pregnant?
Q. Okay I have a somewhat weird question that many of you might think stupid. I can feel that my period's going to start in the next few days. If I were to have sex with my boyfriend just before my period and not use a condom would I still get ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi sugar, you can get pregnant at any time of your menstrual cycle.. use a condom and stay safe :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x... (read in full...)
What has happened to my boyfriend????
Q. I'm really worried about my boyfriend. I haven't heard from him since Friday and this is really unusual. I'm a born worrier and am worrying something bad has happened to him. His mobile is ringing with no answer and so is his landline. I'm ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi honey, you need to calm down. Maybe the house phone is unplugged, which means it rings for you and not him, or if it is a cordless phone then maybe it has lost its charge? Maybe go round to his house? and if he hasn't contacted you by wednesday ... (read in full...)
I'm so confused and I love her and want her to be happy!
Q. Hi for the longest time I have always been into boys but there was a part of me that seemed to like girls. well I met this one girl at work and she is amazing! and well she asked me out! I love her like I have never loved before and we want to have ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi, well lesbien sex can range from a lot of things, it can involve toys, foreplay and oral. You both need to talk about it and see what you both want :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything :) x... (read in full...)
I can't stand the lies!
Q. I'm a 45 year old male and have 3 kids with a 35 year old female, we been together for 15 years off and on she has been abused as a kid by a grandfather, so she has sex, one night stands or 2-3 times a partner but has lied throughtout our entire ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi hon, i think before anything can be sorted out, she needs to see a councelor about her past, being abused. Then there can be hope for trust in the future. I hope you are ok, stay strong. I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x... (read in full...)
How can I put an end to her rumours?
Q. I am a 21-year-old man, I am currently in training having graduated in business systems at university, and I enjoy what I do. Recently, an 19-year-old girl, who I thought was a friend of mine told me she was pregnant and that I was the father o...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi, this is a strange thing to have said to you. If you are a virgin, then you can not be the father. She maybe just wants their to be a father to her unborn child. You need to tell her that this child is not yours, as you are a virgin, and she ... (read in full...)
During sex..He went limp. Ideas?
Q. I've just recently started dating a guy, and the first time we had sex, it was great, it was a little short lived, but great none-the-less. But yesterday.. the house was empty.. we were having plenty of foreplay.. i.e kissing necks, chests, s...
A. 25 November 2007: It wasnt you fault in the slightest!! Maybe he is a bit stressed, people dont always know when they are stressed, maybe at work? Give him time and keep trying :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me about anything :) x... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he really means what he says? How do I know if his "love" is fading or not?
Q. There is a guy at school, he is a really big player, and I don't know why, but I think I love him. He says he loves me, he gives me love notes, cd's, and on Monday he gave me a teddy bear! He asked me out and I turned him down for personal ...
A. 25 November 2007: If he is going out with your friend and he is giving you all these things and even aske you out, you need to tell your friends and also.. if he is a well known player then, dont let yourself become a victim of him, and dont let him push you about :) ... (read in full...)
What can I do, I really want her back...
Q. Hello, I dated a girl for a year and eight months, I really loved her, though we are in the same university. She complains that I don't want her to meet my family and that I regard her as a school girlfriend. We broke up this year (Febuary) and I ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi, tell her how you feel, explain, how you want her back.. you didn't mention why you broke up, so im not sure how to go about it.. i hope you are ok. Feel free to mail me about anything :) x... (read in full...)
He keeps looking at younger women. Should I be worried here?
Q. I'm 52, slender, and youthful looking for my age. (So I'm told) My boyfriend is 12 years younger than me, but he looks the same age. He is wonderful in a lot of ways, but he is always looking at younger women. Once I noticed that he had an ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi, he sounds like he doesn't know what he wants. A wide variety of men do find themselves looking at other women, but to do it so obviously where you can see is vey disrespectful. He needs to know once and for all how you feel and he should tell ... (read in full...)
Is going out to dinner with her acceptable?
Q. my husband became sexually obsessed by a younger work colleague. they still work together - there is no chance of that changing and I am finding it hard to deal with. We seem to be on different planets when the subject is discussed. He says that he ...
A. 25 November 2007: You need to tell him how you feel. He needs to know you are not happy with the way he is behaving, either he stops taking her out for dinner or you need to have a talk.. Does he pay for the dinner or does work? That's a question you should ask :), i ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't seem to orgasm when I use my fingers, please help
Q. Dear Cupid, I don't know whats wrong every time I finger my girlfriend she becomes stimulated but never actually cums and I'm pretty sure she never actually orgasms she starts moving her hips faster and then stops but I don't think that lasts lo...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi hon, everyone is different when it comes to orgasms, she may be having one, then again, she may not be. You need to ask her what feels good. I very rarely orgasm with my partner, as this is because i feel i can't let go to the feeling. If she ... (read in full...)
I'm 7 weeks pregant and really scared.
Q. This is a bit long, sorry but i need some help!! Okay, im 16 years old and in 2 months will be 17. My boyfriend is also 16 and in 1 and a half months will be 17. We've been together since we were 12 but only became sexually active a few mo...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi sugar, what a terrible thing to happen! It is excellent that you reported her, and still keep any eye out on your boyfriend.. I think, if you want this child and love and trust your boyfriend, have the baby with your boyfriend, however, only do ... (read in full...)
How did she get over me so quickly??
Q. My ex and I broke up three weeks ago. She started university in Sept and became more and more distant. I got insecure which pushed her away. She said when we split that she didn't want to lose me completely and that she still loved me. We still ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi hon, maybe the reason she is trying to look happy, is because she wants you to think she isnt as upset as she really is? If you still love her then maybe you should tell her, as you both may feel the same, and just too worried to tell each other ... (read in full...)
Does anybody use Seasonique??
Q. Hi, I was wondering if anyone here uses Seasonique. I've been on it for 3 pill packs (9 months) and I still haven't really regulated. I'm supposed to get my period for 1 week every 3 months, but I always get it early. This time, it's earlier than ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey hon, i dont have that, i have the implanon, however i know that if you are worried and have been told you will do one thing and you havent then just check with your family planning or doctor :) I hope you are ok, Feel free to mail me about ... (read in full...)
He doesn't care about my sexual needs, does this mean he doesn't care about me?
Q. I feel that my BF is selfish as he doesn't try to make me orgasm when we make love. I have bought toys, showed him numerous times, tried to talk about it...He is aware and says he will try, but everytime we make love, and he's had his share of ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi sugar, i feel your frustration. My boyfriend of 17 months is the same. You have tried to talk to him, and he has achknowledged it, however he is too tired after sex. Maybe before the full on sex, then get him to pleasure you a lot to make you ... (read in full...)
She takes my love for granted and gets mad if I broach the subject, what should I do?
Q. Hi, I've been seeing this girl for roughly 5 to 6 months and loved her so much but now it seems like she just makes me miserable and she just takes advantage of my love. She sort of takes it for granted. The worst part is if i try to talk about it...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi sugar, if the relationship, is only getting worse and you dont see how it will get better, then the only thing you can do, is to tell her she is taking you for advantage and you can't cope for much longer. I hope i helped :) Feel free to mail me ... (read in full...)
My ex has just died and I don't know if I should go to the funeral, as it might upset his family
Q. My Ex boyfriend has died, I loved him very much but he never gave anything back. should I go to the funeral? his parents have only just found out he was gay, his did not take it very well. do you thunk me going to his funeral will cause more upset....
A. 25 November 2007: Hi. If his parents wont take it very well, you must give them the honor of laying their son to rest in peice, if he is being buried, then go to see him at another time. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me about ... (read in full...)
Where is a woman's G-spot?
Q. where is a womans g-spot?...
A. 25 November 2007: hii hon, it is about 4 inches inside a womans vagina on the upper wall (towards the front of her) inside her. It is a great sensation for women :) I hope i helped :) Feel free to mail me about anything :) x... (read in full...)
I like this guy who flirts with me but he likes another girl too, how can I let him know I fancy him?
Q. I really like this guy , but ive only met him twice and i know he really likes another girl, he always flirts with me should i ask him out? or ask him waht he'd say , any suggestions on what to say to him so he knows that i like him...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi sugar. If he is flirting with you, then ask him if he wants to go out with you, but if you know he is really for this other girl, then dont because he may take offence if he has made it clear he likes someone else.. on the other hand he may just ... (read in full...)
Is she trying to get back at me or her ex??
Q. What is the deal with this chick? Alright so back in August I had a thing with a girl, then she suddenly stopped talking to me, wouldn't answer if I called or msg'd her, so I gave up. She had a boyfriend for a couple months, well today he dumped ...
A. 25 November 2007: I think with the msn name she is doing this to hurt her boyfriend, however if she has commented your pictures of just your friends and not you, then she is doing it to hurt you. BUUT if she comments pics with you in it, she could be calling just you ... (read in full...)
I met a girl I liked a month ago but I'm only just able to get her number, has it been too long to call her?
Q. I met this girl through a friend's girlfriend nearly a month ago, and I wanted to take her number from them later, but they were both out of town and have only just returned. But now it's been a month, so should I ask for her number or not? I mean w...
A. 25 November 2007: Hii hon, if you really want the numbers, then go ahead :) have fun :) I hope i helped :) Feel free to mail me about anything :) x... (read in full...)
Would it sound childish to tell a college interviewer that I presided over a fan club?
Q. Can I say I presided a Fan Club when in College at a job interview? Or Is it too lame or childish? It's leadership experience... ...
A. 25 November 2007: If it is any experience then you should just say it, and if they dont like it then they will look for the other good factors from you :) I hope i helped :) Feel free to mail me about anything :) x... (read in full...)
My period is irregular but I'm not on the pill or having sex, what's happening?
Q. I missed my period for 3 months then i came on 4 2 days!! im not on the pill or haing sex WTF is going on...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey menstrual cycles can be everywhere. I have the implant and my last period waas 8 months ago for 2 months. I have recently come on again. See your doctor because this could infact mean you could be pregnant, but just to check everything is ok. I ... (read in full...)
During a break in our relationship, my boyfriend got a girl pregnant. How do I deal with this?
Q. i just learnt that the man i am in love with, who has separated from me for 3 months during which we were still fostering a relationship, has made another girl pregnant during which time he would have been going out with me. i know this is not a ne...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi, are you getting back with this man or is he staying with the mother of his child? You should just ignore him as much as possible when you work togetrher as this cannot be helped. Dont let the situation ruin your work life. I hope i helped :) ... (read in full...)
My friend jokingly told me he was going to crush and snort pep pills but I'm not sure if he really was kidding
Q. My friend is saying he is going to crush and snort 'pro plus' which is caffine tablets to help you stay awake.. he says they have the same effect as cocain. But then he said he was joking im worried help?...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi, that wont work at all.. i know a person who went to my high school and snorted everything, even paracetamol. The only thing it did was give him nose bleeds! He is joking and if he does it then tell him he is really stupid to do it.. stay safe ... (read in full...)
My husband cheated on me for five years but says he'll never do it again, opinions please?
Q. my husband cheated all five years but now he's saying he'll never do it again.what do you think?...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi, it is your decision wether or not to forgive this man, i know that if my boyfriend of 17 months cheated on me, then i wouldnt forgive him because i would know he had been with someone else.. Think hard about it, and if he's done it once, what's ... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and he's 17, would dating him make me a pervert?
Q. ive recently started liking my cousins friend, we chat alot over msn and text.. we totally understand each other, the only problem being hes two years my junior, im 19 and hes just turned 17.. is this wrong, and will people think im perverted? my ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey suger :) two years isnt anything, have fun and enjoy yourself, if anyone says anything then ignore then :) I hope i helped :) Feel free to mail me about anything :) x... (read in full...)
There are two sides to my personality but I don't think either one is really me. I don't know what to do, I'm so confused
Q. i got two sides to me. one is fun, free loves hanging out with mates and having a laugh. cheeky and sharp. adventurous and ambitious. i like guys who are like this as well. I'm this side more in public, around ppl etc. the other side is quiet, s...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi this is very common for everyone.. you just need to relax and if you feel the need to, see a doctor just so you can talk to someone face to face directly about your problem. I dont think you are fully depressed, however you are confused as to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend met another woman who began texting him constantly and telling everyone they are dating, I don't know who to believe
Q. I am having major trust issues right now. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now. He met another woman this past september and she instantly began to text message him 10-20 times a day. He told her to stop and that he had a girlfriend. She ...
A. 25 November 2007: This woman is trying to split you both up, as she is jealous. Advise him to change his number, then all this can be sorted out :) I hope i helped :) Feel free to mail me about anything :) x... (read in full...)
I'm concerned that I'm going to lose my first real relationship because I'm so shy
Q. My relationship of about 4 months is probably about to end, but the thing is that i believe its all down to my massive shyness problem. Due to this problem, this has been my first real relationship, however recently she said that it "doesnt feel ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi sugar, dont listen to conrad, i think that is really imature to say just go and have sex. This isnt what to do !! Im 16, what i think you should do, is be more relaxed around her, try to tell her you think she is pretty and gorgeous, because ... (read in full...)
Out of nowhere, my internet boyfriend started picking fights with me and acting like I did something wrong when I didn't. Please help, I'm confused!
Q. I fell in love with keith 2 yrs. ago. we never met since it was on the internet. we talked everyday from 8 a.m. to 3 p.m. daily then he'd go to bed for work....on his days off we'd talk then and at 11p.m. til 3 or 4 a.m. then 1 day he was angry. didn...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi, im so sorry to say this, but i think he is trying to say, he has found someone else. He is wanting you to delete him or just not be as good friends as you were. I hope you two sort it out, and ask him, is that what he wants.. He will give you ... (read in full...)
At the end of my second date with a boy, he kissed my cheek. Could he have been upset that I didn't do it back?
Q. hey guys!! today i had my second date with this guy. it all went good until we walked home. basically hes quite shy and weve done dares where we kiss each other etc but it wasnt serious. so i was like i need to go now and he was like same so i ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey, im 16, and remember being your age.. it was sooo hard knowing wether or not to do something back :) When you see him next, then you kiss him on the cheek either before or afterwards :) stay safe and have fun :) I hope i helped :) Feel free to ... (read in full...)
My best friend has been flirting with me lately and putting his arms around me, what should I do next time he does it?
Q. my best friend has been flirting with me alot. hes been sitting next to me at lunch, always wants to be by me and stuff like that. then when i was walking in the hall he came up to me and we started talking. then when it got all quite he put his arm ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey, if your comfortable with it then go with it :) yrh, put your arm round him or put your head on his shoulder, what ever feels most comfortable :) I hope i helped :) Feel free to mail me about anything :) x... (read in full...)
How can I make the day after we make love a romantic one?
Q. I want to plan a romantic day for my boyfriend to follow after the night we first make love. I could use your advice. After waking up next to him in the morning how can I suggest taking a shower together and making breakfast together in the nude? Sh...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi, im not sure how to go about making breakfast, naked. Buut see if he likes the idea, you can only ask :) have sex in the shower, and if you dont want to, then wash each other, this can be very sensual. Ive heard off a sex website, that some ... (read in full...)
For the first time I realise what a poor and selfish spouse I have been. How do I show her my love, how to do it without sacrificing family time?
Q. I have been with my wife for 15 years. We have been married for 10. About 4 years ago I got caught cheating with multiple women. Additionally, about two years ago she found a letter that looks like I may have been doing it again though i actually ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi, this will only take time. If she wants to be together just for the kids then this is because she doesnt fully trust you because you cheated on her. You need to give her time and space to think what she really wants. All you can do is stay ... (read in full...)
Can masturbating cause a yeast infection?
Q. can masturbating cause a yeast infection? ...
A. 25 November 2007: yeast infections can be caused by so many different things, if your fingers are clean and you wash frequently, then this means you should be fine :) have fun && stay safe :) I hope i helped :) feel free to mail me about anything x... (read in full...)
He already said he quit calling his EX, but checking his cell I discovered he was lying. How do I go about this without coming off as a nag?
Q. My Ex and I have gotten back together after a 2+ year break, when he moved back from Indy. After a couple weeks I found out he was in a 'relationship' with a married woman, who he was still talking to. I told him how un-easy that made me feel, and ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi sugar, explain to him how you are feeling and you want to know the truth. Ask him to put himself into youre shoes, like you said, if roles were to be reversed he would be the same way. If he tells you he didnt then all you can do is believe him ... (read in full...)
Huge crush on someone I'm playing the girlfriend of in a pantomime. Please help.
Q. Ok, I'm 14 and attracted to girls (no labels yet). I'm currently part of a group pantomime of Dick whittington, where I play Alice (the girl Dick marries in the end) in true panto style, dick is played by a woman, who is married, with a son only two ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi honey, well it's good you aren't labeled yet, it's also good that you know a relationship with this woman wont work :).. work your way around it, take your mind off her, talk back with your ex :) I hope i helped and that you are alright :) feel ... (read in full...)
Huge crush on someone I'm playing the girlfriend of in a pantomime. Please help.
Q. Ok, I'm 14 and attracted to girls (no labels yet). I'm currently part of a group pantomime of Dick whittington, where I play Alice (the girl Dick marries in the end) in true panto style, dick is played by a woman, who is married, with a son only two ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi honey, well it's good you aren't labeled yet, it's also good that you know a relationship with this woman wont work :).. work your way around it, take your mind off her, talk back with your ex :) I hope i helped and that you are alright :) feel ... (read in full...)
She suspects she's pregnant but missed an appointment to find out. Can I get a test for her elsewhere?
Q. Ok, well i slept with a friend a few weeks ago, and she told me she was late for her period. She told me she was going to go to the doctors today to have a pregnancy test but failed to get an appointment, only one being in another weeks time. Im not ...
A. 24 November 2007: Hi depending upon the time of when she suspects she may have concieved a baby, then you can get one from mainly anyway, supermarkets, pharmacy, doctors, so just get her one from a supermarket, or suggests she does that herself. Because if she gets ... (read in full...)
While my boyfriend and I were temporarily split up, I slept with an ex. Does my boyfriend need to know?
Q. I recently started dating a man who I've liked for many years. But we split up for a short while beceuse of a misunderstanding and I thought we wouldn't get back together so I got drunk then slept with an ex boyfriend (bearing in mind I didn't cheat ...
A. 24 November 2007: Hi, my advice is too not tell him, you were on a break, and this isnt classed as lying unless he asks you about it.. stay safe :) I hope i helped, feel free to mail me about anything :) x... (read in full...)
While my boyfriend and I were temporarily split up, I slept with an ex. Does my boyfriend need to know?
Q. I recently started dating a man who I've liked for many years. But we split up for a short while beceuse of a misunderstanding and I thought we wouldn't get back together so I got drunk then slept with an ex boyfriend (bearing in mind I didn't cheat ...
A. 24 November 2007: Hi, my advice is too not tell him, you were on a break, and this isnt classed as lying unless he asks you about it.. stay safe :) I hope i helped, feel free to mail me about anything :) x... (read in full...)
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