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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 15 July 2007: hey bbe,
Just wonderin, what happend with it, did you go and meet him?
Mail me or write back chick x x x... (read in full...)
The skin on my lips were peeled there may be some blood because there were chapped. Is there a high rate that I could get diseases?
Q. My sister talked/laughed and I felt some of her saliva landed on my chapped lips. The skin on my lips were peeled there may be some blood because there were chapped. Is there a high rate that I could get diseases? My sister never had sex and she is ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi babe, i wouldnt say there is any reason for you to worry. Maybe buy some lip balm, or chapstick, to make your lips better, and not chapped. I hoped i helped you, mail me if you would like to talk x x... (read in full...)
We're using the "pull out method" and I have some worries...
Q. ok me and my bf have sex alot and we havent been using condoms lately. he pulls out instead. well when i go to wipe his semen off of me i noticed i acidently used the toilet paper i wiped it off with and wiped my "area" soon after. can you get ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi babe, yea you can get pregnant.
I suggest you get a pregnancy test, or see your doctor, and also maybe consider using condoms, or other forms of contraception, which doesnt include the rythem method ( calender ) and the pull-out method. Hope... (read in full...)
My boyfriends stepson is making my life hell
Q. my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I love him very much. from his last relationship he had taken on her son who is now sixteen.(last relationship ended ten years ago)this son is always giveing me grief. he has stolen and has no ...
A. 10 July 2007: You need to talk to your boyfriend. He needs to know your feelings, and most of all something needs to be done about the stealing. Your boyfriends step-son doesnt live there therefore he shouldnt have that much to do with your relationship, but if ... (read in full...)
We have a great relationship, but he isnt in love with me.
Q. I am currently dating my best friend, we have been on anf off for about a year now. We are together every weekend and we talk on the phone constantly. The problem is he changes his mind about me a lot. I asked him if he was in love with me and he ...
A. 10 July 2007: maybe he's trying to tell you he loves you as a friend, and not as a lover? Talk to him and ask him this.. Mail me if you want to talk x x... (read in full...)
I am so lonely and alone and want to move home
Q. hi i love my boyfriend, i have been with him for over 2 years now and we have a lovely little baby Joshua. i have depressions. ive had it since josh was born i have had i week happiness, and that was with my mum. i live 250 miles away. we was goi...
A. 10 July 2007: He needs to understand your feelings. You need to be happy, maybe see a doctor, but as youve said, maybe the best place for you, is at your mums? Mail me if you want to talk x x... (read in full...)
He says I am too unstable, but he has got a negative side too
Q. Hi...I fell in love with a man...our first dates were all drinking....he was so real...into me...the most positive guy I had ever met....then he showed a very negative side...and he said I guess now you know the real me...he is always making ...
A. 10 July 2007: I think maybe he could be very protective over his and his daughters life, and want to make sure hes bringing the right kind of woman into the house, with his daughter being there. If you made love and after he said he still thinks it should be ... (read in full...)
I always wear a smile, but in reality my head is a mess! I think I'm depressed. How can I get a more positive outlook on things?
Q. hey guys just wanted your help plz. I have been with my gf for nearly 7months we have a good relationship. i dnt know whether im in love with her, bt i do feel close ot her. she says she has never felt like this for anyone before which is q...
A. 10 July 2007: Hey babe, maybe think about seeing a doctor, they could help.. Just because your girlfriend has a past of experience, doesnt mean there is anything wrong with you and it certainly doesnt mean you are to feel anything differnet for her. Believe her ... (read in full...)
If I meet one of her ex lovers, I get sick. She won't consider my feelings, so how do I deal with this?
Q. I`ve been goin out wit my girl for the last 6 months and she is 19, but before me she slept aith atleast 20 men, and now some of them contact her but everytime i meet someone she been with i get sick, as i imagine them together but she wont ...
A. 10 July 2007: Tell her that, she needs to realise, the way she is treating you, going ballistic if a girl contacts you but thinks it is acceptable for her to be around her ex's. Trust is a big part of the relationship, You need to be able to trust her. Mail me if ... (read in full...)
My ex and my friend are in a wonderful relationship together... I know because she brags about it! It's so painful, so what do I do?
Q. A close freind of mine is going out with my ex and we are in the same friendship group. Recently me and some girls friends went out, including her and she talked about him the whole time! Their relationship is going so well atm and because she was ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hey babe, im amazed youve been able to even think about being friends with them again, she is supposed to be your friend yet is dating your ex, and your ex, is dating your friend.. that isnt a good thing, maybe talk to this girl, explain your ... (read in full...)
I thought I was gay, but now I like a guy
Q. Basically, Back 7 years ago I came out as a lesbian, as i really fell for this girl. In my head i was sure i was gay because I never felt attracted to men (Which i think was because of some incidentsi had at a much younger age) ...It was only 2 ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hey babe, you need to ask him, is he has a partner, then maybe go out with him for a drink ( if hes single ) and then slowly drop it into the conversation you may not be gay and then see how he feels.. Hope i could help, mail me if you want to talk ... (read in full...)
My social worked told me to stay away from my 13 year old girlfriend
Q. iam 17 years old and i will be 18 in nov. I met this girl that is 13 years old and we were going out until my social worker found out and told me if i didnt quit seeing her that they would move me to a different home long ways away and register me ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hey babe, they are looking out for this girl, my advise is that you listen to your social worker and dont get interested in this girl. The chances are if they take you to court for being with a 13 year old, they will think its wrong.. Mail me if you ... (read in full...)
A woman has made it known she wants sex with my boyfriend!
Q. my boyfriend and i have been dating six years. recently he became attracted to a woman in his apartment building. she is attracted to him and all he does is talk about her. He told me in a round about way that she was interested in him sexually. ...
A. 10 July 2007: Havent you had your STI checked out? I think you should watch them closely, because it seems to me they could be thinking about it.. Mail me if you want to talk x x x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a lump in he testical
Q. Does anybody believe in fate? I never until last week. I had a dream that my boyfriend died of testicular cancer, so the next time i saw him i decided to have a feel of his testicles to check that nothing was there and to my horror i found a hard ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hey chick, it could be absolutly anything, but just to be on the safe side, get him to go to see the doctor and get it checked out. Dont be worried and most of all dont worry your boyfriend, thats the last thing he needs because stress can make ... (read in full...)
Is there an unobtrusive way to get my girl to give me a BJ?
Q. During foreplay, my girlfriend will often very briefly put the head of my penis into her mouth, but never for long. she's told me before that she doesn't like giving head but that she thinks its because of the way she feels about the guy she did it ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hi, i used to feel the same. I was forced into doing sexual things with a man when i was just 12. You should listen to her, and if she says she doesnt want to give you a bj she means it. Do not try and change her mind, as she has most likely already ... (read in full...)
Is this a normal penis size?
Q. I am a 13 yro black kid and my penis is 6 1/2 inches long and im afraid that i have 2 be huge cuz everybody says im supposed 2 be huge and i dont wanna be made fun of in the locker room. AM i to small?...
A. 10 July 2007: There is nothin wrong with it, and for your age, that is a big size! Dont listen to your mates, everyone is different. Mail me if you want to talk x x x... (read in full...)
My friend got naked at a party to show my husband what a great body she has
Q. I used to think my husband and i were quite strong and that he loved me but now i am not so sure we had a party and my friend came, she has lost a lot of weight and looks real good now i on the other hand am over weight i am trying to lose it ...
A. 10 July 2007: She isnt a friend. I would suggest you forget about this friend completely! As for your husband, you need to talk to him, explain your feelings, and how hurt you are about his reaction to the sneezing and that whole night. He needs to know and if ... (read in full...)
How can I get more out of sex with my boyfriend?
Q. I'm a 17 yr old girl from New Zealand, and i need some advice, if anyone has any 2 give. My bf and i hav been 2gether 4 around 8 months now, and we started having sex a little more than a month ago. Our relationship is very strong, and it's the real ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hey babe, it is always a good way to spice up your sex life, by changing positions.. ask him how he would feel by trying with you on top, he needs to know if he isnt satisfying you.. if you plan to be with him a long time, then he may continue ... (read in full...)
Am I bisexual, or just a cross dresser?
Q. hi im 24yr straight male who likes to dress in girls clothes. not very often. Recently i met this guy and have became good freinds. he is bi and we started having sex a few months ago and meeting each other once a week with me dressing as a girl ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hey im not sure what you mean, if you have sex with this man and regularly, and like it, and you also like to dress up, you are both, arnt you? mail me if u want to talk x x x... (read in full...)
Can you give a guy a handjob through his pants?
Q. Is it possible to give a handjob without the guy removing his pants, and if so how would you go about doing it?...
A. 10 July 2007: Um well, you could feel his penis through the clothes, and like LauraE said, i would expect the pants to have to be baggy, as it may hurt.. its worth a try tho =D mail me if u want to tslk x x x... (read in full...)
I think he cheated with his 'cousin'
Q. Hi there, I need some advice. I am 38 weeks pregnant and my husband and I have been married now for 5 months. On saturday night he went out to the local pub and got stupidly drunk. By 1am in the morning I was very angry and rang him. Gave ...
A. 10 July 2007: He needs to rise up to his responsibilieties of lookin after you, his pregnant wife!! You need to talk to him, and ask him to not stay out that much over night etc.. you need to talk to him, and ask him straight out, are you cheating, it is up to ... (read in full...)
My gf and I are going to have sex for the first time. She's afraid of the pain, so what can we do to make it more pleasurable for her?
Q. hi me and my gf are planning on having sex tomorrow night for the first time. We are both virgins and old enough. We have been great friends most of our school lives so we know each other well. The thing is shes terrified of the pain and is afraid ...
A. 10 July 2007: Hey babe u just need to keep tellin her u love her.. maybe ring her up unexpectadly, and tell her shes gorgeous.. and when you see her etc.. girls like that.. well most of them :) about the sex bit, you need to make sure the moment is right, you ... (read in full...)
I want to last longer sexually
Q. I was in a long distance relationship until very recently. We used to only have Sex a few times every 7 weeks or so and I found that I was ejaculating way too quick when having Sex. While she loved the "warmth" of me finishing inside her, I still ...
A. 10 July 2007: Me and my boyfriend have sex everyday and unless we have had sex the same day then he lasts around 40 seconds, we flimed it once, and that was it. ( Just to let u no your not the only 1 out there ). I think it is probly just because you havnt had ... (read in full...)
I think I caught her cheating, but she wont admit it
Q. Hi, For the last few weeks I have had a suspicion that my girlfriend is cheating on me. It started about 3-4 weeks ago when she started chatting to men she had met on hotornot. she became really secretive about what she was talkng about online...
A. 10 July 2007: Hey babe, it does seem that she could be cheating.. if she is still denying it, and you do still feel very strongly that she has cheated, you need to decide wether to forgive her or end the relationship, because relationships are based on trust and ... (read in full...)
I left him once and now he doesnt trust me
Q. I met someone online and after a few months we moved in together. We had alot of disagreements and problems the first year and I told him I was not happy and he was very angry at me and so I left without telling him. When he realized that I had ...
A. 10 July 2007: Did you betray him by leaving? All i would suggest doing, is make sure you show him love and affection.. make sure he knows you do love him. Trust is a big part of a relationship, and once the trust has gone, the relationship is at a dead end. If he ... (read in full...)
Whtt happens if you say "I love you" but they dont say it back?
Q. Hi. This question might apply to several situation, but theres one in particular i want to think about. what happens if at somepoint in the future i really feel i love my gf (ive only been with her for 2 and a bit weeks so far) and i tell her...
A. 10 July 2007: It takes some people quite a long time, to love someone.. it isnt somethin that many people can say after just 2 weeks.. it may get better, it may stay the same.. only the future will be how you know.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x... (read in full...)
He is so paranoid about getting pregnant!
Q. I'll be 15 very soon and my bf will be 18 in a few months. We want to have sex before it's illegal but he's WAY too paranoid about getting pregnant, he wants to wear TWO condoms AND get on the pill! I know it's a good thing to be careful, but I just ...
A. 10 July 2007: Um well its good, he is tryin 2 take precatuions properly.. one condom should be suffice and make sure you are also on the pill, as condoms fight against STIs etc.. you should just listen to your partners feelings, and be happy with what ever he ... (read in full...)
Could you get AIDS, HIV, STDS, and etc if you had never had sex?
Q. Could you get AIDS, HIV, STDS, and etc if you had never had sex? While I was washing down there I felt couple bumps. Then they went away. I had never had sex and I am still a virgin....
A. 9 July 2007: Hey babe you can get alsorts of infections.. such as bacterial infection, thrush, there are loads, which are not sti's.. but you can get aids/HIV from used injections, normaly for drugs etc.. and also if you shave, that could be the result of those ... (read in full...)
Do you think this is a sign that I could possibly be pregnant?
Q. Me and my fiance have been together for about a year and a month now, were getting married in two months. I've known him for over two years now and all is well but we want a child even thow we're young, were not as young as some couples with ...
A. 9 July 2007: You could be pregnant, seeing as though you had unprotected sex.. but you also may not be. 22 isn't young. my mum had me at 15. and i am now 16. Take a pregnancy test etc and get yourself to the docs.. mail me if you wanna talk x x x ... (read in full...)
How can I make my mum and dad approve of my boyfriend and allow us to marry?
Q. Ok here goes I am 16 years old and my fiance is 20 years old we are now 9 weeks pregnant and we have been together for a while, I was 15 when we got together and I'm about to be 17 in September. I want to marry him but my parents hate him and don't ...
A. 9 July 2007: Hi im 16, my boyfriend is 20, 21 in 3 weeks. we got together when i was 15, and he was 19 ( 20 in a week ). my mum was ok, kinda about us going out, as she knew we had a sex life, soon into the relationship.. she kept her eye on us etc.. but the ... (read in full...)
When we have sex, I think he's thinking about someone else.
Q. im scared that when my bf and i have sex that he is thinkin of some one else because i just caught him looking at porn yesterday and now it bothers me to be around him andi feel as if he is going to cheat on me what should i do?...
A. 9 July 2007: babe first off, porn is something, many women question, however it is normal, for anyone to want to watch/see a bit of porn.. babe honestly.. just because he is watchin porn doesnt mean he is gunna cheat on yoo, most men and women like and enjoy to ... (read in full...)
Why won't he kiss me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months but he has never kissed me. When I bring the subject up, he says he is planning a perfect first kiss. Should I believe him or is he cheating?...
A. 9 July 2007: Hi sweetie yea go ahead, meeting the parents is something that could be hard but, you dont need to worry, just be yourself. Go for it.. It is good he is taking the relationship slow, that way you both get to know each other.. x x x x... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: Hey trust me tht isnt a game u should play honestly.. your stuck now, all u can do is let this mysterious girl stand him up and he wil have to tell u wher he is , and what he is doing instead of ur date?? mail me if u wanna talk x x x x... (read in full...)
We want to give up condoms and try to guess when it is safe--how do we do that?
Q. Hey all. I have a question. Let me just tel. you a bit about my question. K me and my bf have been having sex 3 time and we now want to do it without a condom and we both got some information. That if you do it within a average of 14 days after your ...
A. 8 July 2007: Well where you heard that it is safe, that is complete lies. YOU CAN GET PREGNANT ANY TIME WETHER YOU ARE ON YOUR PERIOD OR NOT. You are 16-17 and if you want a child then ok, but if not, go on the pill, implant or condoms or other type of ... (read in full...)
Why do men still mastubrate when they have a very healthy sex life?
Q. I was wondering (my bf cant answer this) why do men still wa*k when they have a very healthy sex life? my bf still mastuerbates up to 3 times a week and we have an incredible sex life. i dont know whether to be insulted or flattered! please help! ...
A. 8 July 2007: Hi babe its normal chick.. you dont have to 'be' anythin.. honestly just let it happen.. its what most men ( my bf isnt quite like that ) do.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems to be having some form of relationship with his ex.
Q. So I've been dating this guy now for about 6 months. He has a child with his ex-girlfriend. He's told me that they've been broken up for over a year, but he's was living with her up until a few months before we met. He swears that he won't go back ...
A. 8 July 2007: did that mean d!ck?? i couldnt quite get it?? talk to him.. u need to let him know it is too late before somethin bad happens.. but chick he does have a child with her and also you both need to have trust within your relationship.. mail me if u ... (read in full...)
I'm 27, he's 22. Is there a problem?
Q. hello, i met a nice young man who is 22 years old he is mentally mature and understands me he tells me that he likes me and wants a future with me.I like him too and we both like the same things .But iam 27 do you think the age difference is a ...
A. 8 July 2007: There isnt that much of an age difference at all.. the question is.. do you think there is a problem x x x... (read in full...)
Is it possible for all women to be sympathetic towards me and if not, do they need to be hated for not fulfilling my expectations?
Q. I am obsessed with hatred for women because i have always craved for sympathy from them where as what i end up getting is being manipulated, controlled, dominated and abused which further increases the feeling of hatred towards them and i feel a an ...
A. 8 July 2007: all women are different. if you are with someone and theydont make u happy or they done fulfill your expectations then i dont think ur in the right relationship..... (read in full...)
Why won't he kiss me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months but he has never kissed me. When I bring the subject up, he says he is planning a perfect first kiss. Should I believe him or is he cheating?...
A. 6 July 2007: Hi bbe i dnt think hes a cheater, maybe shy and doesnt know when to make the move, he probs is very scared incase he does it wrong.. let it happen naturaly and mayb u make the first move and go in slowly etc .. hope i helped x x x x xx mail me if u ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my girlfriend to bring us closer but she wants to wait
Q. Hi there. Im a 17year old virgin. Well... ive been with my girlfriend for 5 months now. I love her so much but i wanna feel so much more. And we were discussing sex. And she says shes going to wait til she gets married. I heard sex takes your ...
A. 6 July 2007: If u wanna lose it to this girl.. u wait.. she isnt ready at the moment and you RESPECT that decision.. bbe honestly if she isnt ready do not force her.. and you shouldnt try and change her mind because if u do then she may regret it.. hope i ... (read in full...)
My gf and I can't go a day without arguing! She says being around me makes her angry. What should we do?
Q. My girlfriend of 2 years and I have been fighting alot lately. We can't seem to get along and not argue for more than a day. She says lately being around me makes her angry and in a bad mood. I really want this to work but I am not sure on what to ...
A. 6 July 2007: Hi babe, trust me u need space apart. me and my bf have been together a year and its the exact same, and argument at least every day if not more.. and i cry every day for many reasons.. you need to have time apart, wether this means u see each other ... (read in full...)
What's the best excercise plan for losing weight?
Q. is it better to eat before you exercise or after you exercise? in the morning i prefer working out. should i eat my breakfast first, then wait 45min then workout? or should i eat after? what's the best? OR should i just eat when i'm hungry and also...
A. 6 July 2007: I was reading on the NHS website ( i am also tryin 2 lose weight and get fit etc ) and it says u should eat ur breakfast first for the energy ( you are more likely to get tired quickr with no energy ) and then exercise about 2 hours later, as your ... (read in full...)
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