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My mum caught me out trying to lose my virginity!

Q.   i've known my new bf for months and we good freinds and have been going out for 2 weeks and i decided to lose my virginity with him am almost 17 and been waitin for right person so i said i was stayin at a mates to my mum well she foned later and ...

A.   17 June 2008: but i just dont believe virginity is such a big thing now adays it now like most young people i know now a days that i lost while drunk and underage. I would rather have lost it with him that some of the guys i've been in long term relationships ... (read in full...)

My mum caught me out trying to lose my virginity!

Q.   i've known my new bf for months and we good freinds and have been going out for 2 weeks and i decided to lose my virginity with him am almost 17 and been waitin for right person so i said i was stayin at a mates to my mum well she foned later and ...

A.   17 June 2008: well we talked and it not so much the fact that a did it but the fact that i lied to her and she thinks she brought me up with better morals that a should have waited till long term relationship but i said a dont regret it and that a still stand ... (read in full...)

My mum caught me out trying to lose my virginity!

Q.   i've known my new bf for months and we good freinds and have been going out for 2 weeks and i decided to lose my virginity with him am almost 17 and been waitin for right person so i said i was stayin at a mates to my mum well she foned later and ...

A.   16 June 2008: i didnt say to her but she found out somehow and foned accusin me of it and already knew so i couldnt lie to her about it i was going to keep it quiet but i cant now.... (read in full...)

My mum caught me out trying to lose my virginity!

Q.   i've known my new bf for months and we good freinds and have been going out for 2 weeks and i decided to lose my virginity with him am almost 17 and been waitin for right person so i said i was stayin at a mates to my mum well she foned later and ...

A.   16 June 2008: i think that it prob the best to let her calm down first and take it from there but a just see it as childish to still be groundin me a would prefer we could talk like adults and come to a solution cause all groundin does is cause depression and ... (read in full...)

We are going to soon discuss our differences face to face, how can I tell him I am ready for more in spite of my young age?

Q.   my bf and i have hit a really rough patch he is talkin about breakin up as i think the age diff between us is gettin to him (am 16 and he is turnin 22) i really dont want it to be the end but he keeps talkin about how he doesnt want to rush things ...

A.   2 June 2008: thanks for all your advice but sadly it didnt work out well. He told me he not wanting a relationship the now and that he doesnt know when he will and that he just not wanting the commitment and also that the age gap was beginning to get to him he ... (read in full...)

I don't know how to tell my parents of this age difference... how much longer should I wait?

Q.   i posted a question before asking for advice on how to tell my mum about my older bf(am 16 and he 21). that i went out with him and we get on really well and i really like him that i told her and she doesnt like the age difference at all between us ...

A.   31 March 2008: thank you for ur advice and think thats what am going to do. i'll follow their rules as long as i get to see him ... (read in full...)

Finally met him in person, and he came out as very shy and reserved. How can I make him open up more?

Q.   Well i meet up with this guy a few days ago, we have talked over the computer for a while and got on well though i know when you meet someone in person they can be very different.Well he was very shy and nervous and would hardly look me in the face ...

A.   9 February 2008: thanks for your advice and am going to follow it and see how things go :)... (read in full...)

Mum is overprotective, I'm scared to enter the relationship

Q.   well i got out of a relationship 2 months ago and i've been asked out by this guy who i've been talkin to recently met him through a friend, i want to go out with him but dont know how my mum will react to this, she didnt like my ex cause he was ...

A.   3 February 2008: thanks scythe for your advice i think am going to follow it and go meet him and see how things go then when she comes back i will tell her.... (read in full...)

Mum is overprotective, I'm scared to enter the relationship

Q.   well i got out of a relationship 2 months ago and i've been asked out by this guy who i've been talkin to recently met him through a friend, i want to go out with him but dont know how my mum will react to this, she didnt like my ex cause he was ...

A.   2 February 2008: thanks for all your advice and think i will go meet him, in a popular place of course, and see how things go then talk to my mum. Should I wait till she gets back from Spain to tell her or tell her while she's there?... (read in full...)

Mum is overprotective, I'm scared to enter the relationship

Q.   well i got out of a relationship 2 months ago and i've been asked out by this guy who i've been talkin to recently met him through a friend, i want to go out with him but dont know how my mum will react to this, she didnt like my ex cause he was ...

A.   2 February 2008: Thanks for the advice and i think am going to follow it, the only thing is i know my mum likes me to be honest with her and if i then said i had been seeing someone i think it would make her angry at me for not telling her and not being honest and ... (read in full...)

Can I get him back?

Q.   i have been in a relationship for 7 months about 5 days ago he finished with me, we had plans to have babies go on holiday an live together. i dont know y he has finished with me i love him so much he means the world 2 me. how do i get him back....

A.   26 January 2008: Hey i know how your feeling, i've recently went through a similar thing where my ex just left me for no reason. I know it will really hurt right now but trust me it will eventually get better.You've got to options on what you can a) speak to him and ... (read in full...)

My mother controls me. How do I get her to stop doing this?

Q.   Me and my ex have been talkin again and we want to get back together the only thing it long distance plus an age difference of 4 years and it only ended a month ago but my mum is refusing to let us get back together and wont let us to it till i'm ...

A.   4 January 2008: thanks for the advice but when do u think will be the best time to tell her i want to go to college as if i tell her the now i will make things worse, i have been thinking about it for a few months now and i need to apply quite soon if i want a ... (read in full...)

My mother controls me. How do I get her to stop doing this?

Q.   Me and my ex have been talkin again and we want to get back together the only thing it long distance plus an age difference of 4 years and it only ended a month ago but my mum is refusing to let us get back together and wont let us to it till i'm ...

A.   4 January 2008: i would move out and i'm planning on doing that this year when i go to college the thing is though i dont think she would let me leave, she would think i'm not ready and say no so how am i going to get her to let me move out? ... (read in full...)

My mother controls me. How do I get her to stop doing this?

Q.   Me and my ex have been talkin again and we want to get back together the only thing it long distance plus an age difference of 4 years and it only ended a month ago but my mum is refusing to let us get back together and wont let us to it till i'm ...

A.   4 January 2008: thanks for all ur advice but thigns still not changed i tried talkin to her and all i got was my fone taken off of me and she still not going to let me talk to him till i'm 18, the thing is she doesnt even seem to care that i'm heartbroken over this ... (read in full...)

My mother controls me. How do I get her to stop doing this?

Q.   Me and my ex have been talkin again and we want to get back together the only thing it long distance plus an age difference of 4 years and it only ended a month ago but my mum is refusing to let us get back together and wont let us to it till i'm ...

A.   3 January 2008: its doesnt matter anymore my mum got her bf to shout down the phone at my ex to tell him to back off so he dont want anymore contact with me again:( i'm heartbroken all over again )... (read in full...)

Shall I wait or move on??

Q.   My long distance bf and i broke-up, we lived 300 miles apart. He is 20 and i'm 16 and we had been together 4 months. We were on a pause/break but now we have been fighting alot and it has been causing us to drift apart, it got so bad that he said ...

A.   29 December 2007: thanks for the advice, think i'm going to try and stay friends though if that is possible.I'm not ready for another relationship yet but how am i going to meet anyone else cause i'm not allowed into any clubs plus there is no-one at my school and ... (read in full...)

Should I try to work this out and trust him or not??

Q.   Well heres the deal, me and my long distance bf are on a break, was his idea. He says he still loves me and i still love him but on his profile on bebo he is talkin to all these girls and askin for msn addys and meetin up with an old ex and ignorin ...

A.   23 December 2007: thanks for all the advice, i'm still talkin to him the now but he still hasnt made up his mind what he wants. we had a fight anf he said it over then only last night he foned me asking what we were doing and if we should just wait and see what ... (read in full...)

We are both worried the distance will split us apart.

Q.   I'm 16 and my bf is 20, we've been going out for nearly 4 months now and are in love, the only problem is that its long distance. He lives in england and i'm in scotland,we both trust one another completely, he comes up when he can but recently...

A.   10 December 2007: thnx for the advice but we actually decided to go on a break the now as he was findin it to hard to keep comin up and not seenin me so we're still talkin and are going to give it another chance after a while ... (read in full...)

I want to give him another chance

Q.   my bf and i broke up(long distance of 300 miles he 20 been together 4 months knew each other for another 8), we both found it very hard and he said he wants to be friends but a day later he asked me back out again i told him i dont think now is that ...

A.   9 December 2007: i want to tell them but will probably wait a while for them to calm down but what if they decided that i'm not allowed to see him? i really dont want to be sneaking around their backs?... (read in full...)

How do I tell my family we're on a break?

Q.   how do i tell my family that me and my bf are on a break/pause now? cause we broke up about a week ago but now both decided we want to try again at somepoint but my family are very anrgy with him the now and my mum is totally against us going back ...

A.   8 December 2007: i was the one that wrote the question so u think i shouldn't tell them the now?? i was going to leave it till after christmas then start talkin to him again and then tell them that we decided that we both want to get back together but that we ... (read in full...)

I can't go and see my long distance boyfriend and now I am not sure he will wait.

Q.   I posted a question before about my long distance relationship. I'm 16 and he's 20 and been together 4 months problem is i'm not allowed down till i'm older and he said he was fine with this but now he says it might split us apart which both of ...

A.   6 December 2007: thnx for the advice but we broke up anyway the distance was gettin to much and gettin us both down plus he couldnt wait till i was 18 to go down and it wasnt becuase of the sex cause we had already done it he jsut wanted me to go down cause he was ... (read in full...)

He won't see me unless my parents agree. What should I do?

Q.   I'm 15 and i fell in love with a 21 year old. He loves me for me and doesn't want sex. I want so badly to be with him. I've tried talking to my mom about the situation, but she said no about it being okay to see each other. We can wait until I'm 18 ...

A.   29 November 2007: Hey has your mum meet the guy? Cause i was in the same situation, i'm 16 and going out with a 20 year old. My mum was against it but she let me see him on one condition that she met him and everything worked out and she actually glad i'm going out ... (read in full...)

Any ideas how I can talk to my mum about losing my virginity without upsetting her??

Q.   I'm 16 and wanting to lose my virginity to my 20 yo bf of 4 months. I would prefer i told my mum cause then i have someone to talk to about it but i'm not sure how she would react. I know she would prefer if i waited till i was older but i told her...

A.   29 November 2007: thanks for the advice but i would i even start the conversation as its not something that usually comes up and where and when would be the best time?... (read in full...)

Advice for kissing and dating, please... But, we're in a long distance relationship.

Q.   i'm planning a date for my boyfriend and i. i've only kissed him once and that was my first kiss. can i get tips on kissing and on the date since we are in a long distance relationship?...

A.   25 November 2007: hey i was in exactly the same situation your in a few months ago as me and my bf are long distance to.Best advice i can give you is just to relax and have fun and it will all come naturally believe me and after your first kiss you'll never be able ... (read in full...)

I'm 16 dating a guy who's 22. Do you think that's wrong?

Q.   I'm sixteen and i just started dating a 22 year ol that i met at a concert.. Our relationship is purely innocent. The idea of sex hasnt even came up. He is really respectful and we connect and a different level than age. I really and truly in my ...

A.   19 October 2007: my advice is go with it and dont care what anyone else tells u.I'm also 16 and i'm going out with a guy thats 20 and he's the best boyfriend ever and we're in love and loving every minute of it, none of those immature ragin hormones from guys our ... (read in full...)

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