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Name - Tom Wilkinson
Age - 20 DOB - 11/08/1987
Location - County Durham - UK (near Newcastle)
Occupation - Office Administration (Durham University) [Full-Time]
Interests - Football (SAFC fan), playing guitar, listening to all sorts of music, watching DVDs, mainly comedy (especially stand up) and horror and action, going out with mates |
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Does one's body change after losing their virginity?
Q. I was just wondering...Does your body change after you lose your virginity? If so what changes??? My mom told me that when girls lose their virginity that their butts start to get wider..is this true???...
A. 8 February 2008: Your mum said that to stop you having sex :D :D :D... (read in full...)
Am I right to worry that this co-worker maybe to close for comfort??
Q. About two months ago, a single female began working at my husband's employment in the office right next to his (literally only a few feet away). A few weeks ago I began hearing about constantly..how great she is, how much I would like her and how ...
A. 8 February 2008: I suppose the meal thing could be seen as unusual, and I do honestly think if you're going to do anything about this, asking him is the best route, I would seriously avoid shandygirls suggestions, she is one scary woman (no doubt scorn) a PI? Bug ... (read in full...)
I am 17 year old boy and currently I am considering having surgery to get my flabs taken out, and am wondering will it leave a big scar on my stomach?
Q. dear cupid I am 17 year old boy and currently I am considering having surgery to get my flabs taken out, and am wondering will it leave a big scar on my stomach? I do not see any other way of getting rid of it as i lost all my fat and thought t...
A. 6 February 2008: From what I gahter, you have already lost the weight and so now all that is there is loose skin? There may well be scarring if you go ahead with surgery, you just have to decide whether you would be happier with "flabs" or scarring, that'll make ... (read in full...)
Am I right to worry that this co-worker maybe to close for comfort??
Q. About two months ago, a single female began working at my husband's employment in the office right next to his (literally only a few feet away). A few weeks ago I began hearing about constantly..how great she is, how much I would like her and how ...
A. 6 February 2008: Oh god be prepared for the housewife brigade to agree with this and go "oh my lord, what a bastard!". You will find, he has made a friend, I mean come on, the fact he talks about her to you straight away suggests it's purely friendship... (read in full...)
Could my cousin be bi and have feelings for me??
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl and I need people's advice. I think my 17-year old cousin is bi or someting or maybe she has feelings for me. Whenever I sign on msn she always clicks me and says hey or hi. What do you think?...
A. 6 February 2008: I say hello to 50 people a day, it doesn't mean I'm attracted to them!... (read in full...)
How can a tall person have intimacy with a short one, without major... inconveniences?
Q. dear cupid i will try and rephrase this as much as possible, basically my question is how can a tall person have intimate sex with a short person, and lets say the Mr X height is 5"10 and Mrs X is 5"1 wont that suffocate the girls face when on t...
A. 5 February 2008: I'm 6 foot 2 and my girl is 5 foot 3, you'll be fine mate =)... (read in full...)
I'm 17 & he's 43, is that legal?
Q. im nearly 17 and he is 43 weve been together nearly a year at first i lied about my age but now he knows the truth he still loves me , but is what were doing legal?...
A. 5 February 2008: Yes it's legal, as long as you were 16 when you first started, however, it doesn't make it right. Youy have to think, when you're 25 do you really wanna be with a 51 year old? What if you have kids? The odds are their dad will be dead by the time ... (read in full...)
She will not stop being friends with a male friend I dislike... is her love not as much as mine is for her?
Q. why is my gf acting this way. we've been dating for a year now...silly things wants her to stop the relationship. i love her to death and she's the only girl i want cannot imagine my life without her. it happened like 5 times she want to put an ...
A. 5 February 2008: She has this behaviour because as much as you dislike it, it isn't your place to tell her who she can and can't be friends with. I've been through this myself, but the other way round. She didn't like my friend and I kept refusing to end the ... (read in full...)
Concerned about my penis size and the effects of masturbation!
Q. I am from Hyderabad , India aged 27 years unmarried guy. I have a problem. I am masturbating since 7 years ago on an average 4 times a week from the age of 21. now i feel my penis became narrow in the base and the penis size is drastically reduc...
A. 5 February 2008: Masturbation does not affect the size of your penis... (read in full...)
He's going on Holiday, but says we can have "Phone Sex". What IS Phone Sex?
Q. My bf is going on holiday with his family soon and im gonna miss him like crazy. He said he doesnt really want to go but all his family are going and he doesnt want to course trouble (they get along really well). The other day he said that he wil...
A. 4 February 2008: he just means talk dirty to each other over the phone... (read in full...)
How do you give a hand job to an uncircumsized penis?
Q. this is quite a personal question but i am really desperate to have it answered so i hope someone will be able to. when you give a guy who is uncircumsized a hand job, do you just do it over their foreskin or do you roll the foreskin back or...
A. 4 February 2008: its not painful at all, just do what you would do with a circumcised penis =)... (read in full...)
She has a vibrator, and didnt tell me! Why?
Q. Ladies, In your experience, why might a woman purchase a vibrator without telling her spouse?. And why wouldn't she want him to know she has one? ...
A. 4 February 2008: she could just be embarassed to tell you ... (read in full...)
I'm 21 and she's 17... Is this okay?
Q. hi ppl i think im in love with a 17 yr old and im 21. do you reckon that its an ok thing or is it too much of a gap for anything to work. its been built on friendship and we've just got closer and closer. please help thanks...
A. 4 February 2008: It's exactly the same ages me and my girlfriend are =)... (read in full...)
Is it normal to want sex when he comes near me?
Q. I am 46 and just met this man 64. We gets on well and have been together for 6 months now. We have sex 3 or 4 times a week. I really enjoy it. We dont live together and just see each other 3 times a week. And recently he starts to complain I am ...
A. 31 January 2008: It's perfectly normal, maybe it's just that his libido isn't quite what it used to be!... (read in full...)
On facebook I said another girl is more attractive than my girlfriend, now she's dumped me, how can I get her to forgive me?
Q. Hi, i need a lot of help... About 9 months ago something happened on facebook between me and one of my friends. He told me this one girl was hotter than my girlfriend and i replied yes. It had not occured to me that it would lead me to this ...
A. 31 January 2008: A lot of you are being a little too harsh here... from what I gather, he said the other girl was more attractive, BEFORE they started seeing each other. She's being overly sensitive over something that happened in the past, if she actually wanted to ... (read in full...)
He bores me, I want to break up. How can I do it gently?
Q. I want to break up with my boyfriend of two years. He is a very sweet, but dull person. Sounds harsh, but there's no spark there. I can't chat with him like with my friends. I don't love him or fancy him anymore. I really want to be single because I ...
A. 30 January 2008: Ignore the last poster, no-one deserves to be "dumped" by a letter, we aren't 11 years old here.
The only thing I personally can think of is the one that you probably don't want to hear and know yourself is the right thing to do. You just have to ... (read in full...)
Looking for men who have been cheated on but worked it out????
Q. Is there any male out there who was cheated on, but managed to work out your relationship? I'd love to talk to you about what happened....
A. 30 January 2008: So your question is essentially... "I cheated and want things to work out still" personally I'd chuck you without a second thought. I've been cheated on and thought that we could work things out but instead it just bred bitterness and hatred ... (read in full...)
Are guys immediately turned off by a slightly overweight girl??
Q. I am in college and have always struggled with my weight somewhat but I've never been overweight to the point of being unhealthy. I have always been a very active person and I love to play sports. I am 19, 5'5.5" and I weigh 175 pounds but i have ...
A. 29 January 2008: The only people who think like that aren't even worth the trouble. True attraction comes from how you see that person for who they are, and you can be any size as well as very attractive (Dawn French for example is really attractive I think but ... (read in full...)
I'm 16, I'm LATE, told my boyfriend, he's being mean,help me!
Q. Hey I'm 16. Me and my b/f have been together for almost 2 yrs. Well we've had sex quite a few times... we're each others 1st and only. We use a condom everytime... but I haven't had my period yet, and since I told him I was late, hes been mean to ...
A. 29 January 2008: He's being mean, I imagine, because he's scared, which is only to be expected! Try talking to him and make sure he understands that this doesn't mean for a fact you're pregnant... (read in full...)
How do you know if you're gay?
Q. Okay, so I don't know if I'm gay, straight, or bi. My first pornographic experience was near 5th grade, and I sorta got hooked since. I've been looking at boys from time to time, and I even thought some of the boys in my school were cute as I grew ...
A. 29 January 2008: Anyone can look at members of the same sex and think they're attractive, it's perfectly normal. You're only gay if you actually want to have sex with other men as opposed to women. If you want to have sex with both, you're A bisexual and B double ... (read in full...)
How can I get sex?
Q. I'm a 15 year old boy who needs sex, and I don't know how to get it. Any Suggestions?...
A. 29 January 2008: Well for a start the "I need sex right now" attitude isn't gonna get you anywhere... unless you're okay with spending another night with PALMela HANDerson......
Try, oh I don't know, talking to a girl, getting to know her, actually liking her and ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin. How can I get a boyfriend?
Q. I really need help. I've never had sex, I'm at the age of 23, and never really had a bf. Well, I kind of did, but it lasted only 2 weeks and he split with me. He was 34 and had loads of relationships. I never told him that I was a virgin.(I wish i ...
A. 28 January 2008: the key, is confidence. It's sexier than any supermodel.... (read in full...)
Should I do it for him or stick to my principles?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now and suddenly he wants a threesome. Its been talked about before but never this seriously. Ive been involved in one (MMF) in my single days and he says that it bothers him that ive ...
A. 23 January 2008: hahaha peoriaman that is genius
If you don't want to do it, don't do it! Simple as that! If you told him you wanted to place a large vegetable about his anatomy do you think he'd let you just cos that's what you want? ... (read in full...)
My b/f took an ex home for the night. Am I being unreasonable?
Q. My boyfriend took an ex girlfriend home to his place last Saturday night after the pub she claimed to be hassled by some other bloke and asked could she go back to his for a while they chatted apparently then she asked if she could crash, he told h...
A. 23 January 2008: I think you are being a little unreasonable. For a start, he told you, that straight away suggests he has nothing to hide.
Also, I have let an ex stay over when she was locked out of her house, and although my girlfriend at the time initial ... (read in full...)
Please help! Could I be pregnant?? - from pre-ejaculation.
Q. Is it possible that i could be pregnant? My boyfrriend had pre ejacualtion on his fingers and i believe that it got into contact with my 'down below'* could this mean that i'm pregnant? I got my period 2 weeks after if happened, but it only la...
A. 23 January 2008: 2 of these posters are wrong, it is still possible to have your period while pregnant, however, there is very little chance that you are. As they said, try and relax and not worry too much, you'll see next month =)... (read in full...)
Any polite way to tell a friend she should not post semi-nude photos in the Internet?
Q. Is there any polite way to tell a friend that she shouldn't be posting pictures of herself, 53, in Lingerie on her facebook page?...
A. 22 January 2008: surely it's her choice? IF that's the kind of attention she's after then you can't tell her what to do. ... (read in full...)
He ogles younger women. What can be done about it?
Q. I have written before about this and cant believe I still have the problem. I am 53 and my fiance the same, we are totally in love and I have never been so happy. I could not ask for more in a man, he is wonderful. But occasionally he says things in ...
A. 21 January 2008: he's just being a bloke he's hardly touching them up... (read in full...)
He won't take his shirt off during sex!
Q. I've been living with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and he has never taken his shirt off during sex. I've known him for 10 years, and we have been off and on since then. These past 2 years have been solid, and we're even talking about marriage. ...
A. 21 January 2008: or... he has "barbara" tattooed somewhere....... (read in full...)
Is it weired to call your Baby, the same name as your EX.
Q. Hi! I was just wondering-- my boyfriend and I are having a baby boy due this March, and my absolute favorite name that i have picked out just happens to be the name of this guy i used to hook up with... i want that name so bad but it's kind of ...
A. 18 January 2008: It's not wrong in the slightest bit, if you like a name you like a name! I've always said I'd call my daughter Georgina, it just so happened that it's my girlfriend at the minutes name! xx... (read in full...)
Wetness, is it normal?
Q. ok quick question! is it normal to get wet when a guy touches me? and its not even in a sexual way. i think this is the reason i am still a virgin cause i am embarrassed about this!! please someone answer this "silly" question! thanks too!!...
A. 17 January 2008: It's perfectly normal, even if the touching isn't "sexual" it's just you getting turned on and preparing for sex.... (read in full...)
How can I make him orgasm?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have recently started having sex, but how do you know if he orgasms? I know this sounds stupid, but is he orgasming when he comes? I feel like I don't know enough about it, and haven't had enough experience, to give him what he...
A. 9 January 2008: yeah, when he comes this is him having an orgasm. Some people claim men can orgasm without coming through tantra and other nonsense, but that's all baloney if you ask me.
Anyway, don't worry, he is having an orgasm, it's all good!... (read in full...)
If I have my name on any documents regarding sharing/living in another property, then I won't be able to take over my dads home! Suggestions?
Q. hi aunts, i wonder if you could help me with something. is it possible for me to move into my mates flat with her and pay half of everything (bills, food, e.t.c) without putting my name on the lease or on any of the bills? you see im supposed to...
A. 5 December 2007: I'm unaware of any such law, you can take over property regardless of whether or not you're renting elsewhere ... (read in full...)
What can I get my boyfriend for Christmas, that can be engraved?
Q. This might sound like a trivial cry for help but,- What on earth should I get my boyfriend of 5 months for Christmas? I want to get something I could get engraved. He's into music,- plays guitar, but not into sports, doesn't drink alcoh...
A. 5 December 2007: buy a thin chain (silver or anything you like, doesn't need to be expensive) and a guitar plectrum, bring it to a key cutter / engraver and they should engrave anything you want into it, as well as drill a little hole so you can turn it into a ... (read in full...)
I love my 18 year old cousin who I just can't stop thinking about! Is it wrong?
Q. I'm 13 and I love/have feelings for my 18 year old cousin. Is that wrong? About my cousin: (in my point of view) my Cousin just turned 18 and is now going to Columbia university. She has a very nice personality, funny, innocent, adorable, beauti...
A. 4 December 2007: First off, there's no way she's go for her own cousin, and secondly, no 18 year old WOMAN would even dream of youching a 13 year old BOY. And the things you're doing like TOUCHING HER IN HER SLEEP is just sick. I don't mean to use strong, almost ... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as destiny? For everyone?
Q. hi guys..............is there such thing as destiny??? Is there someone for everyone out there???...
A. 30 November 2007: Personally I think there is. However, you have to be careful because sometimes (as I found out the hard way) you can believe that somebody is "the one" when they're not. I haven't found my "soulmate" but I have believed I had. Keep the faith but ... (read in full...)
Received a "friend add request" on facebook from my EX's potential bf. Why?
Q. Hello everyone. Last time I messaged, I sounded like I was really making progress in healing my heart. The last thing I needed was a step in the wrong direction, and I think it may have just happened at the end of a night that was going very nicel...
A. 30 November 2007: I think you're loooking into this way more than you should. Some people just add as many people as they know, even if they've barely spoke and only know them through other people. Remember you don't have to accept!... (read in full...)
My gf periodically posts degrading pictures of herself in the net, semi-naked. Do I over react?
Q. I have been seeing a girl for a year and a half. She is amazing, but here is my problem. She will periodically post degrading pictures of herself on her Facebook as her profile picture. The first one was of her knealing (or standing, I couldnt...
A. 30 November 2007: It's not weird for you to be bothered but you need to put things in context, she obviously doesn't think they are trashy and also, just be glad she's putting them on facebook where you can see them, better than her going on some website you don't ... (read in full...)
If a guys says that you're annoying, does this mean he likes you... ? Or not?
Q. Hey guys. What does a guy mean when he says that you're annoying or irritating?? Does he like you is he being mean??? Help!!!...
A. 30 November 2007: We need a bit more information than that! He could be doing the age old teasing the person you like, or he might genuinely find you annoying!
How else does he act around you, body language, gestures etc? Then we might be able to help =)... (read in full...)
Why did he let me stay the night? Does he like me?
Q. hi,need some advice really,i really like this guy ill name '?' and i hope he likes me, well yesterday i was talking to one of his mates '?' was not there and i offered to take him somewhere to get something then back to his house,then his mate rang ...
A. 28 November 2007: One word... sex... (read in full...)
I'm dumping him, but I'm scared of being single... what should I do?
Q. I am dumping someone soon as he is controlling and tells me what to do. I am scared about being single again as i have had a tough life i though yes finally i have something good but it being snatched away. he has a daughter wit someone else ...
A. 28 November 2007: You're better off being single and lonely than with someone controlling. There'll always be someone out there, I wa single for a year before my current girlfriend and it started to get me down and I did some pretty bad things. Then I stopped ... (read in full...)
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