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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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I have a bf, but I have very strong feelings for my female friend. I don't want to detroy relationships or hurt anyone! What do I do?
Q. Ok, im 18 and at uni. Ive had a boyfriend for 6 months who is really great but im not sure if I wanna be with him cos I think ive developed feelings for a friend. I met a girl at uni in September and we got along so well. When we had to move she ...
A. 27 August 2007: hey babe, that's great.. i wish u all the luck i cud !! and it's great you still have a great friendship with your ex.. mail me if you would like to talk x x x x... (read in full...)
Does your body recognise your normal routine?
Q. does your body know that you are exercising? also does your body recognizes and knows you have already exercised already when you go throughout your normal day routine? just wondering since i've been exercising recently and trying to get back in ...
A. 12 July 2007: Your body will eventually get used to the idea of exercise.. the whole routine.. That's what ive always understood, i hope i helped =) Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)
Was forgiving her a mistake?
Q. Dear cupid, my girlfriend slept with another man behind my back but i slept behind her back when we had only just started seeing each other. I have forgiven her, have i made a big mistake? ...
A. 12 July 2007: Good Luck x x... (read in full...)
I can't control my anger when it comes to my boyfriend! He's cheated on me six times, but I still want to be with him!
Q. My boyfriend and I had a quarrel. I don't know if i love him still, because i sometimes realize that i've been harsh on him, and i always regret what i've done everytime we're not together. Sometimes I think it's because of the pain he gave me ...
A. 11 July 2007: You may just have anger problems, only you know if you still love him, but if you continue treating him like this without getting help, ( now you know you do ) then i would suggest you arnt feeling the same as you did at the start of the ... (read in full...)
He proposed and I said yes! But now our relationship is going downhill and I don't know about us anymore. Help!
Q. I have been with my partner for nearly a year now...several months ago he asked me to marry him and i said yes... however these last few months we havent been very good together so i told him that i didnt think we are ready for commitment... to be ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe i think you need to take some time to re concider your answer, i think you are having second thaughts and this isnt good. Tell him you need to re think and you need some space and time.. I hope i helped, Mail me if you would like to talk x ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend, but we have feelings for each other. He kissed me, too. Is this considered cheating? Is he using me?
Q. Thers's this guy i know who works in at my local gym. He's 25 and I'm 16 but i really have feelings for him and he has for me. He has a girlfriend but the other day we kissed. Is this regarded as cheating? Or should i be worried that he is using me ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe yes kissing is classified as cheating.. I hope i helped x x x x Mail me if you would like to talk x x... (read in full...)
I find myself unattracted to my partner after 5 years
Q. I am 19 and been with my boyfriend for over 5 years we have 2 children together. Lately I have been imagining being with other men and have felt unattracted to my partner. How can I let him down gently or maybe even save my relationship?
Why do I...
A. 11 July 2007: I think maybe you and your partner shouldnt be together.. sorry to be harsh.. I hope i helped & good luck. Mail me if you would like to talk x x ... (read in full...)
I kissed a boy now he no longer talks to me
Q.
Last night i went out with some mates. At the end off the night the lad i
fancy just kissed me for no reason and i felt really happy. Now he wont talk
to me have i done somethings wrong?...
A. 11 July 2007: He isnt worth worrying about babev forget him I hope i helped & good luck. Mail me if you would like to talk x x ... (read in full...)
Paranoid over STD's after mistake
Q. I have been in a steady relationship with a girl I love very much for around 11 months. It is in essence long-distance as we live around 50 miles away from each other and only get to see each other at weekends. The other weekend I went out where I ...
A. 11 July 2007: Get tested straight away I hope i helped & good luck. Mail me if you would like to talk x x ... (read in full...)
My straight friend who has a girlfriend made out with me; I like him but I don't want to hurt anyone
Q. I am a comfortably gay 24 year old male. Recently I met a 23 year old straight male that I have hung out with a couple times and really have come to like (both as a friend but also am strongly attracted to him). We were out late last weekend and he ...
A. 11 July 2007: Babe i agree with Daniel. I think you should stop seein this guy, if you want no one to get hurt.. I hope i helped . Mail me if you would like to talk x x ... (read in full...)
I posted a question but I can't find it!
Q. hi i sent a question and dont know where to look to see if it has been annswered.pls help...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe click on your questions on the top of this page ( if you are logged in ) and then you should find it. If it isnt there then the moderators havent moderated it yet. I hope i helped & good luck. Mail me if you would like to talk x x ... (read in full...)
Should I ask my friend out?
Q. I really like my friend. Ive known her now for four years and I am not sure how she feels about me. We dont chat much but we always texting each other now and again. she sent me various texts saying that she remembers me every day and she will ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, i would say tell her, how much you feel for her, as a close friend, and maybe more.. and see her reaction .. I hope i helped & good luck. Mail me if you would like to talk x x ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my partner that I no longer am in love with her?
Q. Recently I have stopped being in love with my partner and we are just getting more and more distant how do I tell her that I'm no longer in love?...
A. 11 July 2007: You need to tell her soon, beecause the longer you ar together the harder it will be to let go.. Explain you still love her as a friend but not enough to be in a relationship.. I hope i helped & good luck. Mail me if you would like to talk x x ... (read in full...)
My job sucks and I'm just unhappy in general. What can I do?
Q. I'm not satisfied with my life. I never am happy- well not for long. I only want little things in my life to be right but they never do and other people always have it easier- they get things handed to them on a plate or get things easier for ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, maybe go round a few shops, or to a job centre to maybe find another job.. Maybe for your social life.. you could go out with some mates, more often.. I hope i helped & good luck. Mail me if you would like to talk x x ... (read in full...)
I think marriage is too much if we want different things! What should I do?
Q. im engaged to be married in 2 yrs just before i go to uni. but recently my fiance and i have been discussing our future and we want different things. i want to complete my degree and then travel for awhile. he doesnt ever want to leave our ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe. He needs to understand your thaughts and how serious you are on this matter.. If he cant understand then, when the time comes, you will still do it, ( i advise not getting married until you have been traveling ) because you have to live ... (read in full...)
We dated, she left. We dated, she left. Now she's started speaking to me, but she's backing off again!! I'm so confused!!
Q. Hey! Sorry for such a long post. But I really need some advice. The problem I’m having is to do with my ex girlfriend. We were together for around 4 months, and split up 6 months ago. It wasn’t my choice and was the last thing I wanted, as I had ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, i honestly dont think there is much luck and hope for the both of you.. maybe you should sit down and talk about the future? I hope i helped & good luck. Mail me if you would like to talk x x ... (read in full...)
I had a sexual relationship w/ him before he started dating my relative. He comes onto me and when I tell him to stop, she laughs! What do I do?
Q. A close relative of mine has a boyfriend that I had a sex relationship with before they got involved. He still comes on to me in front of her. Why does he do this? How do I know if it is bothering her and does this mean he is still interested in ...
A. 11 July 2007: Does this other person know that you had a relationship with him? If it is getting to you the way he flirts, you need to talk to him, and tell him to back off, because he isnt being fair.. I hope i helped & good luck. Mail me if you would like to ... (read in full...)
I have a bf, but I have very strong feelings for my female friend. I don't want to detroy relationships or hurt anyone! What do I do?
Q. Ok, im 18 and at uni. Ive had a boyfriend for 6 months who is really great but im not sure if I wanna be with him cos I think ive developed feelings for a friend. I met a girl at uni in September and we got along so well. When we had to move she ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, talk to her, i realy think you should ask her, many people will say you should keep quiet, but i think, you need to know inside wether she has the same feelings, i would certainly say you are bi, but im not sure about lesbien, but i suppose ... (read in full...)
What is the key to have great sex? The one time we did, she told me what to do. But she said she doesn't like giving orders!
Q. I have been in a relationship for a few months with someone that I am very serious about and I am very much attracted to. I have not had a lot of experience with sex but even less experience in serious relationships. My partner complains that I ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe.. first off, if this is such a big deal for her, she needs to be able to tell you. You may not think this is a good idea, but if she keeps pressuring you, then just say fine, no sex, act as though you can deal without it.. I hope i helped & ... (read in full...)
Can my mum put him in jail when we have had no sexual or really physical contact what so ever???
Q. ok I am 16 years old, I hate guys my age they're too immature... I recently started dating this 20 year old guy and me and him have done nothing but talk but my mom called him up threatening to put him in jail for just talking to me...the funny ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, im 16 and my boyfriend is 20 soon to be 21. I dont know the legal age in US but if you wer havin sex then yes, she could. But if she did that, rang them, and you wernt havin sex, (and you may b asked to give proof by having a test to see ... (read in full...)
I picked at my ear and now it's hurting
Q. I need some advice. I think there was a bug or germ that went into my left ear. I think it was caused by when I was picking my ear with my finger. Now I feel something inside and it sort of hurts. Should I be worried? I am afraid that this bug or ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, i think you should go to see a doctor, and see what he says.. I hope i helped. Mail me if you would like to talk x x... (read in full...)
How will I know when he's climaxed if I go on top?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to go on top during sex. But if I'm on top when we're having sex, how do I know when he's climaxed?...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, there are great ways to make your sex life better, and changing positions is great. I think he will make the physical signs like Daniel said.. and he will probly tell you etc.. I hope i helped. Mail me if you would like to talk x x... (read in full...)
I'm having my first crush and I don't know what to do
Q. I am a 14 yrold boy with a first ever crush. Its so bad that i cant sleep! My crush is on my best friend's 15yr old sister. Im fat and shy. I dont have the courage to ask her out or ask for my best friends permission. I dont know what to do.I know ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, i think you should try and make a go of it.. i think be friends first, and then see what could happen :) , I hope i helped. Mail me if you would like to talk x x... (read in full...)
Was forgiving her a mistake?
Q. Dear cupid, my girlfriend slept with another man behind my back but i slept behind her back when we had only just started seeing each other. I have forgiven her, have i made a big mistake? ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, you have both cheated, and you are the one who hasnt admitted it. I think you should either tell her or if not i dont think you two are a good enough couple, i am sorry if this doesnt make sense, but i think thats wot shud happen.. I hope i ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her that I like her or will it makes things awkward?
Q. I have been good friends with a girl for a quite a while now. When we met, I wanted to take our relationship farther, but just then she started dating my good friend. I don't think she got a lot out the relationship, and they recently broke up. Now, ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe i think you should tell her, just to let her know your feelings, then see how it goes. I hope i helped. Mail me if you would like to talk x x... (read in full...)
My wife wants me to sleep with her sister...is that wrong?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a good relationship with my wife even though there was some infidelity on my wife's part a few years ago. Her sister has also been a victim of infidelity, and hasn't had sex in years with her husband who is just not interested in ...
A. 11 July 2007: Um well either your wife is doing this, to actauly see if you would, or your wife has serious problems.. I honestly dont agree with this kind of thing, im sorry but i think there is no future for this relationship.. I hope i helped even if i was ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend hits me--what can I do?
Q. I'm 16 and my girlfriend is 15. I'm starting to worry about my relationship with her. I really love her but sometimes when I don't do what she asks she hits me. It's more of a punch to the arm or a slap. I'm worried in future years she may get ...
A. 11 July 2007: Babe you deserve so much better honestly you dont wanna be in a relationship like this. I hope i helped. Mail me if you would like to talk x x... (read in full...)
He tells little lies...how do I trust him and should I?
Q. Hi, In the past nine or ten months, my partner of over four years has been very snappy and distant. He blames me for everything, even when it can't possibly have been my fault. About nine months ago, my partner made a new friend, a pretty woma...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe i think this man has cheated on you.. or he may want to, as he has already told you he would sleep with her.. I think you should keep a close eye on him, and make sure you have a talk with him, because he needs to know how you are feeling.. ... (read in full...)
She asked for a break...but is she stringing me along?
Q. So I'm really confused. About 2 months ago my girlfriend of about a year and a half told me that we needed to take a break. At that time, I was working a lot and going through some roommate issues and I was not really there for her. When we first...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, i think you should believe that she is just friends with him, i dont see why she should have to lie, as you arnt together.. You need to know you wont stay around for ever waiting for her. Ask her if at the moment she sees a future with you ... (read in full...)
My married colleague and I got close but cooled it so as not to hurt anyone; now I want to move on
Q. Thank you in advance to all who respond to this. I became quite close to a guy who I worked with this year. He was married and so both he and I decided to cool everything...I did not want to hurt anyone and neither did he. We have kept up a casual ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, if that is the case then yea you need to move on. Stay friends with this guy, and then afterwards, you need to look for someone else. The main thing is that you are happy, and talking about these subjects have proved to be hard for you, ... (read in full...)
Our relationship died (mind games, emotional abuse, no sex)... but since then she's been obsessively chasing me!
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend of fourteen months about six weeks ago, and since then it's been a mess. I had to leave her because she was emotionally abusive and kept on playing mind games - also our sex life had died and we had no communication. A ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe i dont realy sugest you get back together as i dont realy think it will work out.. i think she is good for gettin help, but you dont need the stress in your life. I hope i helped & good luck =) Mail me if you would like to talk x x... (read in full...)
Someone told my best friend I fancy him; he said he already knew! What do I do now?
Q. Hey! I have a problem. I finally let one of my friends tell my best guy friend I like him! The problem is when she told him,he didn't say anything other than he already knew! He flirts all the time, like eye contact and smiling at me constantly. ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, dont worry chick, go out with him, like outside school etc.. maybe to the cinema, bring both your mates along, and maybe have some time to yourself. Then if you still like him that much, go for it chick. Hope i helped & good luck. Mail me ... (read in full...)
Which one does he want? Her or me?
Q. Me and this this guy been together for two years. I love him and he tells me he loves me but we had a big fall out because he drinks and when he drinks he doesn't know how to handle himself. So I put him out. Then two weeks later we got back ...
A. 11 July 2007: You need to realy sit down with him and ask him whats goin on. If he stil lets her do it, then your better off with out him babe. I hope i helped, Mail me if you would like to talk x x... (read in full...)
How can I get her back into my life?
Q. I love her with my whole life. At the initial stage she agree to be my friend and had been loving too. But of recent, she just changed and had never being same again. All my effort to bring back the first love had been futile. Trying to forget her ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, i agree with Daniel, i believe that you can only hope she changes her mind. She appears to have made her mind up, and you probly cant do that much to change it. Maybe just give her time.. I hope i helped & good luck. Mail me if you would ... (read in full...)
Things arn't as exciting with him as they were with my ex.
Q. I've been with my current boyfriend for over a year and everyone thinks we are the perfect happy couple. I am lucky as he spoils me and takes me away for romantic weekends etc and you wonder why I'm complaining? My ex was an alcoholic and i ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, Yea i think the break is a good idea, you both need time to asses the situation, and to figure out wether you both having a relationship, is a good idea. If you think an argument is going to get so uncontrolled, that there could be a ... (read in full...)
I saw my best friend's husband cheating on her!
Q. Ok, so here's my problem. My bestfriend started dating this guy about three years ago. Pretty much that whole time there were rumors he was cheating on her. I told her many times that this was going on (not that it was necessarly true just that I ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, i suggest you tell her, you would want to know wouldnt you. If she decides to not believe you then that's there choice, at least you tried. She would tell you if it was the other way round.. I hope i helped, good luck. Mail me if you would ... (read in full...)
My husband to be says that in the past month my vagina feels much larger and he is finding it difficult to have an orgasm
Q. My husband to be says that in the past month my vagina feels much larger and he is finding it difficult to have an orgasm.... We have been making love for the past 3 months and I have one child aged 19, I am 46 my partner is 44. Why is this ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, no problem, Yea a vagina is, but the way your husband said, its too loose, i think the doctor, ( probs not a gyni ) would suggest the exercises.. They do help, and there are some for people who have had children, which are realy effective. ... (read in full...)
I'm not in to S and M but when having sex, I have really sick thoughts.
Q. This is really sick and I have never ever told anyone of this as I feel too ashamed. I hope no one would judge me here. I am totally in love with my husband and we have been together for a long time-100% happy! However when I am having sex at ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, there is no way of stopping things like that coming into your head, but maybe the way you are trying to fight it off, saying it is sick, maybe that is affecting you, which could be the reason why it always comes into your head when you ... (read in full...)
I just found out my ex gf has been secretly going to see her ex when she was telling me she was visitng family and friends!
Q. Found out my ex gf had been secretly going to her ex bf house when she was telling me she was visiting her mum, sick nan, friends etc.When I confronted her she got mad and denied cheating. Personally I think she was sleeping with him – if it was all ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, now first off, is this the only reason you think she may have cheated? There could be another reason she didnt tell you, If she had told you in the first place she was going to visit her ex, would you have been ok with it? She may have ... (read in full...)
His daughter is ruining our lives
Q. My husband has not had contact with his daughter for 16years, she came into our lives 2years ago and has completly distroyed our relationship, it's like he's having an affair he's obsessed!! and whatever she say's goes and he can't see what it's ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, he has been overtaken by himself, he has found his daughter who he had not seen for 16 years and has now found his old lover. The fact that he has left you, and stay at his ex's house, seems to me, that you are a lot better off without him, ... (read in full...)
His daughter is ruining our lives
Q. My husband has not had contact with his daughter for 16years, she came into our lives 2years ago and has completly distroyed our relationship, it's like he's having an affair he's obsessed!! and whatever she say's goes and he can't see what it's ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hi babe, he has been overtaken by himself, he has found his daughter who he had not seen for 16 years and has now found his old lover. The fact that he has left you, and stay at his ex's house, seems to me, that you are a lot better off without him, ... (read in full...)
I can't stick a relationship past the 3 month mark
Q. hi i have a huge problem, i've always dumped a guy before the relationship reaches a three month period. I've been dating this guy who is the most wonderful guy i have ever dated but the problem is, we are reaching 3 months. yesterday i found myself ...
A. 11 July 2007: This is proving you are not ready for a long-term relationship.. explain this to him. Maybe it will make it better, for you, and you wont be so afriad inside to commit. The worst thing you can do is, stay with him IF you dont like him and are just ... (read in full...)
My husband to be says that in the past month my vagina feels much larger and he is finding it difficult to have an orgasm
Q. My husband to be says that in the past month my vagina feels much larger and he is finding it difficult to have an orgasm.... We have been making love for the past 3 months and I have one child aged 19, I am 46 my partner is 44. Why is this ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey babe, maybe try a few exercises such as when you urinate, squeeze the muscles so you stop, and then start again, as this strengthens your muscles ( I learnt this in child development ). I would also suggest you see a gyncologist or doctor, as ... (read in full...)
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