A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Help, Please!! I am trying to gain the trust back in a relationship. I was with a guy for a year. We were engaged and found out we are expecting a baby. But we are not together right now. This is where the problem comes in. I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him, but does not trust me. Ok, here's what happened. He cheated on me in December. I was understand and was will to work things out. I told him that once when we had broken up, I had been with another guy. It was a one night thing, I have not seen that guy since. I understand why he is hurt, I should have told him right when we got back together. We still love each other and would like to work things out, but he is not sure that he can ever trust me again. So, what can I do to start gaining his trust back?
View related questions:
cheated on me, engaged, got back together Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, superfly +, writes (11 June 2007):
he can trust you, if you allow him to cheat on you once, with your help...then under those circumstances, maybe he can trust you again...
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2007): I was going to say the same thing, you're 10-12 yrs. old?? Please say that was a mistake!! Anyways he cheated on you, so try turning the tables, and make him feel bad. But if he doesn't want you back he may be using the trust issue as an excuse to not get back with you.
...............................
A
female
reader, love-him  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 Hey chick one word of advice dont let anyone find out u r pregnant or having sex with this lad.. anyone who is under 12 and if they have sex they can be taken to court. id sugest u do take things slowly and if he cant forgive you then leave him hes not worth the hassel if he cheated while u were together! mail me if u wna talk x x x
...............................
A
female
reader, stazy +, writes (7 June 2007):
he shouldnt be angry with you when he done exactly the same thing as you,take things slow at a time cos rushin will only make things worse
...............................
A
female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 June 2007):
 Please tell me that you click the wrong age bracket.
...............................
|
