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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
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16 next week and worried my girlfriend wants to have sex... how can I say no gently!?
Q. Hi Me and my girlfreind have been going out for 5 months now and its my 16th birthday next week. I am really worrid that she wants to have sex however I dont. She has been hinting at this for a while and I have been joking it off. how can i turn h...
A. 3 July 2007: Hi babe, when she says she still wants to do something, what does she mean? sexually.. have you done anything at all.. like fingered a girl etc.. write back x x x x x... (read in full...)
Can I get in trouble for kissing her....?
Q. I posted a similar thread previously... I am seeing a girl a year and a half younger than me. She isnt 18 yet. Can her parents press charges on me for kissing her?...
A. 26 June 2007: nooo corse not.. its kissing.. if you have sex with her or anything like that.. then aye.. they could but youve got nothing to worry about.. the kissing will be fine.. have fun babii.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x ... (read in full...)
I love this girl with all my heart and I couldn't stand it if I found out she cheated on me, especially with a girl.
Q. I've been going out with this girl for about 4 months now, and I've fallen in love with her; she says she feels the same way. We get on well all the time; we rarely have arguments because apparently I have a short temper and get angry over small ...
A. 26 June 2007: Hia babii just read what you put.. tell her this is how you are feeling, you understand that she is good friends with her friend but explain how upset you are about this weekend.. and why dont you do what her friend has done.. make plans... so that ... (read in full...)
Are you still a virgin if your hymen is broken without sex?
Q. If your hymen is broken some way other than sex, does it mean you're no longer a virgin? Does the term virgin mean only someone who's not had intercourse?...
A. 22 June 2007: The only way you are not a virgin is if you have sex, your hymen can be broken many other ways.. hope i helped, mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
How should I tell my parents I'm bisexual and have a girlfriend?
Q. How do I tell my parents that I am Bisexual? In the past two years, I have been experiencing feels towards, not only guys, but girls too. Now I may only be 14, but I know my feelings. but I don't know how to tell my mom and dad. they have always s...
A. 22 June 2007: Hia darlin sit them down and explain your feelings, they seem to have told you they are ok with that so dont be scared, even if u say ur confused, bicurious you could still change your mind.. hope i helped, mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
16 next week and worried my girlfriend wants to have sex... how can I say no gently!?
Q. Hi Me and my girlfreind have been going out for 5 months now and its my 16th birthday next week. I am really worrid that she wants to have sex however I dont. She has been hinting at this for a while and I have been joking it off. how can i turn h...
A. 21 June 2007: Hia babii, explain to her u just arnt ready, if she isnt 'ok' abpout it, she isnt worth it babii, i hope she understands tho its bad when things like this happen, when opne person wants sex and the other just isnt ready.. mail me if u wana talk x x ... (read in full...)
She's an online gf..is it possible to be in love with her as we have never even met??
Q. Heya guys, I love this gal but have neva met her. i chat to her on the fone and stuff but i have no idea of what she is like in real life so i guess my question is can i be in love with some1 i have never met ? Is it possible ? I'll be very grat...
A. 21 June 2007: Hia babii, if your not ready to tell them about your sexuality just say shes a friend of a friend.. make sure you do trust her as well.. but yea theres no reasn to say your sexuality or anythin.. mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
How do I lose weight?
Q. how do i lose weight? well you see i am 15 years old and i am over weight i am a size 14/16 clothes and weigh 12 stone. it is really embarrasing but i cant seem to get rid of the weight! i eat at least 4 pieces of fruit a day. i get up have ...
A. 21 June 2007: Hia babii, there is nothing that obvious wrong with your weight.. maybe eat abit healthier.. i weight around that and im 16.. but if you honestly get worried.. go to your docs babii x x x mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
I know he doesn't fancy me so why is he meeting up with me all the time?
Q. hi im 14 and im really in love with this boy we've been meeting up for a thew months now and hes the first boy that ive really fallen for. most weekend nights i sneak out of my house at 11 and go down his till about 3 in the morning. but it seems ...
A. 21 June 2007: Hia babii, im so sorry this is gona sound so cruel but honestly i think he could be using you, if he realy liked you he would ask you out, not just let you sneak out at night, why doesnt he want to go out with you during the day? babii, he isnt ... (read in full...)
Can anyone give me tips on how to make our sex more exciting and fun again?
Q. Hi. Me and my boyfriend have been sleeping together for over 8 months and I can tell he's getting bored with my routine, mostly because he's been saying its not exciting anymore. But anyway, can anyone give me tips on how to make our sex more ...
A. 21 June 2007: Hia babii there are lots of ways.. theres toys, dress up in sexi clothes ;), sex talk, kissing whilst doing it, different positions.. mail me if u wana talk, hope i helped x x x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to sleep with another girl. He said that we both can have one person on the side to sleep with.
Q. Okay... My boyfriend just popped this thing on me. He wants to sleep with another girl. He said that we both can have one person on the side to sleep with. We will use protection and we will both know that we are more important than the side people. ...
A. 21 June 2007: Hia babii, its good you are considering saying no!! honestly think of it how 'oh my god, girlfriend say no' put it.. about how he will have his hands on another bird and pleasuring her.. etc.. honestly you need to think about it.. the jealousy? ... (read in full...)
She says she isn't having sex until she's 16, and I'm fine with that, but she also said that until then we could just like, fool around. But the thing is we don't EVER.
Q. I'm 15. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 4 months now, and everything is great, except there's no sexual side to our relationship. I know most of you will probably say we're too young, but seriously, it's been 4 months and we haven't done ...
A. 21 June 2007: Right first off.. you need to think hard bout wot ur sayin.. ur sayin u arnt bothered about having sex but you want to fool around... your getting annoyed because she says she will fool around but never does.. think of it this way.. you are asking ... (read in full...)
I really need help! I have a real mental problem coping with the fact my boyfriend used to masturbate.
Q. I really need help! I have a real mental problem coping with the fact my boyfriend used to masturbate. I have no idea why but once I asked him if he would do this in front of me and I got so upset that I started crying and I felt so physically sick. ...
A. 21 June 2007: To be honestly truthfull, this is a mental problem, as there is no other explanation. you feel disgusted by this? and that you dont think you can give the max pleasure that he needs to masterbate? but the vast majority of male and female.. ... (read in full...)
A guy who pressurised me into sex never used a condom with his other partners... Now I feel a burning sensation... What should I do?
Q. Im 14 and Ive lost my virginity to a lad who made me feel pressured into having sex with him..He wasnt a virgin and has never used a condom with any of his sexual partners.. He hit me alot and had sex with my friends when i wudnt have sex with ...
A. 21 June 2007: Hia babii sounds like you have got an sti.. or infection.. see your GP at once babii.. and for what your ex did was sooo wrong!! tell someone babii, an adult, someone you can trust, make sure someone else knows... mail me if u wna talk x x x... (read in full...)
She tell her Mum everything that we get up to!! What can I do?
Q. Hi me and my girlfreind have been going out for 4 months now and I really do love her. However when we sleep together or talk on the phone she tells her mum eveything. She even tells her what we do and i cant look at her mum the same way now. Can ...
A. 21 June 2007: Hia babii, shes in a very close relationship wiv her mum wich is good.. im the same with my gran (which is stil gud) i can completely understand what you mean and why you are thinking, but imagin if she didnt talk to her mum, she would be upset ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my teacher! Help!
Q. i'm fifteen and i'm in love with my teacher and it so hard to see him at school knowing that i cant have him. i feel that he treats me differently as when we went on a school trip to germany he was so incredibly nice to me when i was ill and he ...
A. 21 June 2007: rite babe first off mail me about the hurting youself kai.. you need to get over him like your friends are saying.. this teacher id expect is being nice, doing nice things and your adding them up in your head and its making you think more.. and you ... (read in full...)
I had oral sex with a guy I'm not going out with. Now I'm getting called a slag! What should I do?
Q. hello, recently iv been doing oral sex with a boy im not going out with. we havnt had sex but people think im easy and a slag. i dont no wht to do i realy like him. please help. do you think what i am doing is wrong?...
A. 21 June 2007: Hia babii, if you both like each other get together, because the reason people are calling you is a. cos of ur age b. cos you arnt together and c. cos they arnt mature enough yet.. dont continue givin each other pleasure unless you are gonna go out ... (read in full...)
My girl has bad breath! How should I tell her?
Q. Is it likely that someone who is physically imperfect is more likely to hurt you than someone who is quite good looking and pretty? I got hurt by a girl once in past and i thought she looked pretty ok, to my opinion, she had ugly teeth and nose ...
A. 21 June 2007: Babe her physical features shouldnt bother you... 'her nose' honestly forget that.. but the breath you should take up chewing gum (lol) and when you see your misses give her one as well... hope i helped, mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and I think I've got the first sings of pregnant. Do you think I am?
Q. Im 15, Ive had alot of the first signs of pregnancy like morning sickness, thrown up twice, sick stomach feeling, tiredness, backaches and headaches, Could I be Pregnant?? Please reply soon, I need all the advice I can get!! ...
A. 21 June 2007: Babe we cant answer the problem for you.. you need to go to the docs to get tested for free or get a home pregnancy test.. we dont know and you wont unless you have the test.. mail me if u wna talk x x x... (read in full...)
Green discharge?
Q. i have a greenish discharge which is quite thick wot is it?...
A. 21 June 2007: Hia babii it sounds like yoo may have an infection.. go to see your local GP and get checked out.. better sooner than later x x x x mail me if u wanna talk x x x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend ejaculated on the outside of my vagina, could I be pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend ejaculated on the outside of my vagina, could I be pregnant? ...
A. 20 June 2007: Hia babii theres always a chance..have a pregnancy test to make sure.. free one at your docs.. but remember you can onlt find the most reliable answer after 2-3 weeks of unprotected sex, or .. what you have done.. mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
She cheated on me and now..I want experience dating other girls. Should I stay faithful?
Q. I love my girlfriend but as some of you know she has cheated on me. She tells me that it wasn't because I made her mad but because she wanted to know that she has experienced this that only her and i have ever experienced together meaning we took ...
A. 20 June 2007: Babe yoo wanna feel the experience of other birds.. and she is the same.. yoo arnt right for each other.. if anythin.. take a break then get back together.. hope i helped.. mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
Two times unprotected sex--is my girlfriend pregnant?
Q. If I came in my girlfriend two different days is she likely to be pregnant?...
A. 20 June 2007: Babii do you want to be a daddy? honestly lol! get her tested soon kai theres a high chance seeing as though the sex was unprotected.. Wish yoo luck x x x mail me if u wana talk x x x x... (read in full...)
I am only 11, but I am two months pregant!
Q. (ok my original profile thing iz batman but i did something and made a new profile) alright well i am 11 and now 2 monthes pregnant! im really scared cuz me and my boyfriend r both ganna need to take care of this child 2gether and im still liv...
A. 19 June 2007: Hia babii that is a great idea, and i wish you all the luck in the world.. make sure you provide a loving and caring home for your baby and make sure you have a loving relationship so that it is healthy for the baby to be brought up into it.. I wish ... (read in full...)
Think my school-teacher was hitting on he... he took time off but is back this week!
Q. I am in need of serious help. Me and my English teacher, Mr?, get along really, really well. I feel comfortable talking to him about almost anything. He keeps me behind sometimes from class so we can chat and I often see him at my after school ...
A. 19 June 2007: Hia babii just read what you wrote and i think its a good thing you went to see him and this Mr? seems genuine enough to go as far as quitting his job but i honestly adivse you to wait until you are 16 to do anything.. maybe in both your hearts in ... (read in full...)
She has 3 nipples and it is freaking me out!
Q. me and my girlfriend have just started going out and we recently slept together, but when she took her top off i could clearly see that she has three nipples, two on one breast. i have tried to ignor it, but it is really freaking me out and i dont ...
A. 19 June 2007: Hia babii.. well as u have figured some women do have this problem.. now if you realy like this girl then it shouldnt matter to you but you cant exactly say to her she has to wear a top when u ar having sex because that wont go down well.. i think ... (read in full...)
I am only 11, but I am two months pregant!
Q. (ok my original profile thing iz batman but i did something and made a new profile) alright well i am 11 and now 2 monthes pregnant! im really scared cuz me and my boyfriend r both ganna need to take care of this child 2gether and im still liv...
A. 18 June 2007: Hia babii just read wat u put and honestly you were having sex at age 7-8, my brother is 6 and i know full well he doesnt know about it.. but seriously i find that really bad.. i honestly do.. its not something to be proud of.. nah honestly i think ... (read in full...)
He loves me but I don't love him back. I broke it off with him and he's devastated
Q. Hi there. I really hope someone can give me some advice as the advice i am getting from friends seems biast. Basically I was seeing a guy for 4 months. I had just come out of a 5 year relationship which ended bitterly. Me and the new guy were hav...
A. 18 June 2007: Hia babii, you have done the right thing.. he was getting the wrong end of the stick and its great that he now knows where he stands. yes he may be heartbroken but it would have been worse in the long-run. i hope i helped, mail me if u wana talk x x ... (read in full...)
Ladies! I want her to miss me. How do I go about doing this?
Q. Hi, okay, ladies please help!! My ex and I have been broken up 3 weeks now...last week i phoned her on monday, left a message, and she called right back. She is leaving for Italy for business today. I said on monday, "can we get together before ...
A. 18 June 2007: Babe u and her are over.. but you want her to miss you?? i dont get it lol.. maybe u to are just friends now?? i dont know but if u want to ring her then ring her =] mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
I'm 58 and I'm with a 19 year old polish waitress. Am I just a silly old fool, and if so, should I call it a day?
Q. Last Christmas when I was out eating with friends they dared me to ask out a young Polish waitress. Now I'm 58(and Single) and I was amazed when she said yes.I later found out she is 19. We had a tremendous time and I've been seeing her ever since. ...
A. 18 June 2007: Hia no matter how much i hate the fact im gona say this.. my grandad who is 60, is going out with someone who is 20.. so i cant exactly say anything.. i mean its alrite if u wanna have fun n all that.. but watch out she doesnt try u for ur money.. ... (read in full...)
I'm muslim and I'm in love with a muslim boy but he doesn't love me back. What can I do? I won't give up!
Q. iam a girl 19 years old i never have any relation before because i am muslim girl but my question is that i love a boy he is muslim too but not from my country I love him too much but he doesn't love me but i feel he like he knows I love him what ...
A. 18 June 2007: Hey, you say he doesnt love you.. if he has told you he doesnt, then its time to move on.. you cant make someone love you.. it hurts but its the only thing you can do.. hope i helped.. mail me if u wana talk x x x ... (read in full...)
I lied to him about an abortion. He got back with his ex. I still love him. We've kissed but he doesn't feel the same way! What should I do?
Q. To cut a long story short, I've liked this guy for over a year and a half now. We had oral sex and I lied about being pregnant and having an abortion because he got back with his ex after, but he doesn't believe me. Since they have split up and we ...
A. 18 June 2007: Hia babii, first off, mail me about the cutting, i know youve just stopped but i stopped about 3 months ago and have recently started again.. so mail me to talk about that. Babii just think you and this lad have been through this now.. do you see ... (read in full...)
I am only 11, but I am two months pregant!
Q. (ok my original profile thing iz batman but i did something and made a new profile) alright well i am 11 and now 2 monthes pregnant! im really scared cuz me and my boyfriend r both ganna need to take care of this child 2gether and im still liv...
A. 18 June 2007: Hia babii, im not gonna tell u you shouldnt have had sex, because whats done has been done. Babii wheres your parents, you dont mention them? There have been people given birth at 11 but they have always had their parents around.. You need to talk ... (read in full...)
Period troubles. Please help!
Q. Im 14 and when Im on my period i get wind and poo aswell is this normal? because it makes me feel ill or something....
A. 16 June 2007: Hia babii yea thats completely normal babii so dont worry at all.. if it gets too painful go to your doc, he/she can provide you painrelief mail me if u wana talk x x x... (read in full...)
Does sperm taste good? Should I give him oral?
Q. my boyfriend likes me to give him oral sex, and he wants me to swallow. Some of my friends that have done that sais it tastes awfull. In a way i kinda want to know what it tastes like but then again i dont.. i dont know what i should do??...
A. 16 June 2007: A lot of people have their own opinions but jeez lol poisonkiss.. wow lol gob full of sea water.. all semen tastes different as well.. depending on what they eat drink and smoke.. have a try (IF UR COMFORTABLE WITH IT) but remember in order to do ... (read in full...)
Does sperm live when it's thrown out of the window?!
Q. me and my gf had sex in the car and I threw the condom out the window and it went into the bush on the side of the road, is there anyway that sperm can survive? or be traced after a freezing night? It's a silly queston and I just wanted to know and...
A. 16 June 2007: The sperm wont live outside the body for that long.. and can i just say.. wot makes u think they will be bothered.. lol but wen me and my boyfriend do it in the car no one seems to know but im sure they do.. but if they got the condom and were that ... (read in full...)
Do teen girls like 'beefy' boys?
Q. Do you think there are any teenage girls that find beefy teenagers a turn on ? ...
A. 15 June 2007: Hia babii for most birds its about personality. mail me if u wanna talk x x x hope i helped x x x... (read in full...)
I think it's important to celebrate mile stones in a relationship but my boyfriend thinks otherwise...
Q. well i just tried to post this question but aparantly it wasn't clear enough! Me and my boyfriend have been together for one year on the 1st of July. I think it is important that you celebrate being together for a year (im 16, my boyfriend is ...
A. 15 June 2007: Thanks.. but ive tried to talk to him and he jsut wont listen.. every time i bring it up he says shut the *uck up or leave it...or it doesnt matter.. and i dont see anything else i can do.. i thaught i knew what i could do/say to turn him round but ... (read in full...)
He's already made out with her and he's only TEN!
Q. Recently My 10 year old cousin who lives with us has got a new girlfriend but shes 13 and I dont trust her and when she comes round , they run straight up to his bedroom and if I walk in they suddenly jump and shout at me to get out and he's already ...
A. 15 June 2007: wow that is a problem babii tel an adult a parent or someone.. that is realy wrong and if you actualy looked up the rules and legal stuf.. anyone under 12 doing sexual stuf with someone over or under is illegal.. no matter if they are consenting.. ... (read in full...)
I am seeing my friends brother.....but have a partner of my own!!
Q. I am seeing my friends brother and she dont no but i also have a partner of my own. I dont like the deceit but what can i do? I can't leave my partner because i dont work. I'm on the sick due to a car accident and i need him to pay my mortgage...
A. 15 June 2007: You need to leave him. You should not cheat on him and you should not use him for his money. imagine if it was the other way around and it was him doing it to you. leave him, for this other guy or for someone else. this man deserves the truth and ... (read in full...)
My daughter had oral sex with another boy when she (first went out with him)!!
Q. I'm a parent, I snooped on my daughter's messages. My daughter had oral sex with another boy when she (first went out with him)!! He goes to her school. My guess is also that she has done it several times before with another boy. I have had "the ...
A. 15 June 2007: Hia you didnt say the age of your child? Now-a-days people are interacting in sexual relationships to experiment. it is a horrible feeling of knowing this as a parent but honestly if you jhave given her the sex talk then there isnt much else you can ... (read in full...)
Is my fiancee pregnant?
Q. Ok, the other day, my fiance and i made love with each other. It was first time for both and she had some blood coming out of her vagina during the intercourse, which we both know is normal the first time. However, i didn't come and stopped for the ...
A. 15 June 2007: it takes around 3 weeks for a pregnancy test to work and.. if it has only been a few days i wouldnt expect her to feel any different to be honest.. but the fact is.. you had unprotected sex and it doesnt matter if you came in her or not.. get her to ... (read in full...)
She's an online gf..is it possible to be in love with her as we have never even met??
Q. Heya guys, I love this gal but have neva met her. i chat to her on the fone and stuff but i have no idea of what she is like in real life so i guess my question is can i be in love with some1 i have never met ? Is it possible ? I'll be very grat...
A. 11 June 2007: Hia babii its possible yea !! but babe like wat bubbloo said.. maybe its the person you know online that u love, she could be different in person.. have you seen her on webcam or picture? but yea babii in answer to ur question it is possible to be ... (read in full...)
I love this girl with all my heart and I couldn't stand it if I found out she cheated on me, especially with a girl.
Q. I've been going out with this girl for about 4 months now, and I've fallen in love with her; she says she feels the same way. We get on well all the time; we rarely have arguments because apparently I have a short temper and get angry over small ...
A. 10 June 2007: You r exactly like my bf who is (20) if ur girlfriend says she is not bi anymore, you can only believe her, girls at a young age are extremily obsessed with friends, like having sleepovers every night and being together 24/7, this is normal i was at ... (read in full...)
Think my school-teacher was hitting on he... he took time off but is back this week!
Q. I am in need of serious help. Me and my English teacher, Mr?, get along really, really well. I feel comfortable talking to him about almost anything. He keeps me behind sometimes from class so we can chat and I often see him at my after school ...
A. 10 June 2007: Hey chick i would advise you to go talk to someone, a teacher, friend, adult.. anyone who you trust, even if this happens to be nothin, he needs to know you are feeling this way and needs 2 learn to back off. hope i helped, mail me if u wanna talk x ... (read in full...)
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