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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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My boyfriend keeps naked ex pictures and is online dating--help!
Q. Please can someone offer me some reassurance or advice. My boyfriend of 5 months has a naked picture of his ex in a sexual pose. I saw it and he said he threw it away, but it is still sat in his drawer. Now I have discovered he has joined an ...
A. 5 July 2007: Woo so ur pregnant (sorry if i got it wrong lol) gud luck chick, but ur man isnt bein a good person the way he is acting towards you.. x x x... (read in full...)
He has behaved badly and now my parents dont want me to see him!
Q. im so lost i need help!!! i am 18 and my boyfriend has just turned 22. We have been going out for 2 years and i love him very much. it was all very well with my family and both them and him were close. however they logged into my e mail and found ...
A. 5 July 2007: Hi babe, that is the only other option then, it is mean but he was a complete arse with u by spittin in ur face.. you need to get over him -by finishing him- you have to get over him you are worth so much better!! mail me if u wanna talk x x x x x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his ex are going away together without me
Q. My boyfriend of 6 months still talks to his ex. He doesn't try to hide anything but says they are still friends. They are both going to an out of town wedding of a mutual friend. I am very concerned about this and wonder if I should tell him how I ...
A. 3 July 2007: Hi, so you chose not to go.. but that was before you knew the ex was goin.. is there completely no chance of another ticket for you to go? if not, then as long as you trust your boyfriend, and maybe keep daily contact with him, u should be ok, mail ... (read in full...)
I have recently found out that my best friends boyfriend has been cheating on her!
Q. hi i have recently found out that my best friends boyfriend has been cheating on her! My boyfriend was the one who told me (as my friends boyfriend is his mate) but he said if i tell my best friend he will finish with me. i don't think he would ...
A. 2 July 2007: Um first off your mates boyfriend is being a dick to her and she deserves to know..but the thing is, you boyfriend isnt playing fair, telling you he will finish you if u say anything.. that is blackmail.. would you rather save ur mate from hurt by ... (read in full...)
Sex is still hurting after several times of doing it
Q. A couple of weeks ago i had sex for the very first time with my boyfriend of 3 months. Since then we've had sex a LOT...the weird thing is though, its still hurting me and Im pretty sure my hymen is still, intact. Can anyone PLEASE explain w...
A. 2 July 2007: Hey babe, no ur hymen wont still be intact if he is actualy having sex with you, you may not be wet enough, he may be going in too deep, he may have a large 'penis'.. there are many reasons chick. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x ... (read in full...)
Does sex hurt the first time?
Q. hey my friends say that when you first have sex it hurts. Does it auctually hurt or what? Please explain...
A. 2 July 2007: Hi babe everyone is different... my friend said it didnt hurt, he fingered her and licked her for about and hour before.. maybe that could work for you? mail me if u wanna talk x x x ... (read in full...)
He constantly texts another girl and says she's the only one he can talk to
Q. hey, i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 months now. And honestly he is the most amazing guy i could have dreamed of having. But there is a part of me that wonders if he is sincere in being only mine... and I want to think that its just me ...
A. 2 July 2007: Hey babe i understand what you are sayin, id be the same but people will probly say ur just jelous.. you need to let him know, make him understand, maybe you txt a lad hes not met before.. Ohh he hasnt been txting her since .. well i think you need ... (read in full...)
Does anyone think i still have a chance? Tell me what I want to hear!
Q. so. back in march i met this guy, we were hanging out for a while and he kissed me... which was cool, cuz i like him. So, im may, we were hanging out again, things went pretty well, actually got a little serious. Now, I'm out of state for the summ...
A. 2 July 2007: Im not sure, theres a chance he just wanted to be close, and not in a relationship.. but you should maybe email him again to let him know you are still there.. good luck, mail me if u wanna talk x x x x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his ex are going away together without me
Q. My boyfriend of 6 months still talks to his ex. He doesn't try to hide anything but says they are still friends. They are both going to an out of town wedding of a mutual friend. I am very concerned about this and wonder if I should tell him how I ...
A. 2 July 2007: Hi babe, talk to him, i understand how this worries you, as it would certainly worry me.. let him know how you feel, why arnt you invited? mail me if u wanna talk x x x xx... (read in full...)
I accidentally got hot oil in my eye, now I can't see 100% clearly
Q. I was cooking eggs for dinner. Some splashes of hot olive cooking oil went into my eye. My eye doesn't hurt. I went to go rinse my eye with water, but not right away b/c i want to finish dinner. I could see clearly, but not that clearly. Theres like ...
A. 2 July 2007: Hey babe u need to go to the doctor soon, cos this isnt a good thing.. if you continue not being able to see properly your eye will get used to it and then it will take longer to get back to normal.. trust me u need to see the doctor soon x x x x... (read in full...)
We haven't had sex in our 5 year relationship because of contraceptive worries
Q. I'm a rare brand of guy, I'm 22 and a virgin. I've been with my girlfriend for slightly under five years now. We never had sex yet because well, I always assumed at some point she would get birth control. I was hoping she'd get the birth contr...
A. 2 July 2007: You're not that rare, being a 22 year old virgin.. talk to her, and the pill does have side effects but the side effects arnt deadly or anything.. you cant help your nerves and im sure she is the same.. keep showing your love to her, and gently ... (read in full...)
YOU CAN HELP: Spread the word about DearCupid!
Q. Hi, I want to ask a really big favour of everyone who uses, likes and has been helped by DearCupid. Help spread the word this weekend, by doing some of these suggestions: * Tell your friends and family about DearCupid * Talk about and ...
A. 2 July 2007: Hey i have just left school and i made a poster to represent this website and wrote the html on it and gave it to the learning mentor which people who have all sorts of problems go to.. and ive porsted it around various parts of my school.. x x x... (read in full...)
She cheated on me but I still love her
Q. Hi i am a 16 year old male i have just broke up with my girlfrend she got blind drunk at a party and had sex with another man. she said she didnt meen for that to happen i do believe that. We broke up that night she told me, she said she had lost ...
A. 2 July 2007: Hey babe, yea it gunna be hard.. but honestly, you need to stop thinkin bout her, or at least try to think of other things.. the more you think about her the more you will be upset.. the next relationship you get into take it slow babe incase this ... (read in full...)
I want to break up with my shy boyfriend for another guy--is that wrong?
Q. I recently started going out with this guy but since I've been back at school (I was on holiday for 2 weeks) I haven't felt the same for him and I really like this other guy. I've liked the other guy for some time now but I gave up hope on him ...
A. 1 July 2007: Hi babe, if ur feelings for ur b/f arnt there anymore then you have to end it, dont lead him on.. the longer you stay with him, the harder it will get to end it.. are you definatly sure this other lad likes you, because it could ruin your ... (read in full...)
I'm straight and love men, but when I come, I think of women--what does it mean?
Q. Hi, I'm a straight girl but as long as I remember whenever I masturbate or have sex I can only come by thinking about girls having sex with each other or with me. I've never fancied a girl in my life, I love men and I've always felt satisfied in ...
A. 1 July 2007: Hia babe, theres no reason to worry, its normal babe, its makin you happy and makin u have the besst orgi of ur life -id expect?- lol have fun babe.. x x mail me if u wanna talk x x x ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend isn't sure he loves me...what do I do now?
Q. What do you do when your boyfriend of 2 years isn't sure if he loves you or wants to be with you anymore? I'm heartbroken, but I'm still holding on to him, to a future we promised together. He says he just needs time to find himself, but I have a ...
A. 1 July 2007: Hia babe, 2 years is a hell of a long time.. people change.. people grow out of love (people sy it isnt true but it is) and some people just miss the single life.. some even get bored.. let him think for a while.. he needs his time and space.. but ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend read my chat logs...I feel like my trust has been violated!
Q. Hello all, first time so thanks in advance for your thoughts. I caught my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years reading my internet chat logs behind my back... I was really upset and felt like he invaded my privacy (although, in honesty I have nothing to ...
A. 1 July 2007: Hia babe, as im sure you know, trust is very important in a relationship and he has breached your trust.. do you want to take it within yourself to forgive him? Yes he has lied, but is he generally looking at your logs, to protect you, and trying ... (read in full...)
I slept with someone else everytime I temporarily broke up with my boyfriend..is this okay?
Q. i broke up with my boyfriend because we always fight and argue a lot. I hate the fact I did. Anyway, when we broke up...I slept with someone else because I thought it was really going to be over this time and I should move on. But a couple d...
A. 1 July 2007: Hia babe, no it wasnt cheating, and it was ok.. but you are messing yourself around.. does your b/f know you slept with someone else everytime you split up? if you break up again, think to yourself.. am i going to want to break up again and again in ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend dumped me without warning...what do I do now?
Q. I've just broken up with my girlfriend of 5 months but during this time the relationship was very serious. Last week everything was fine and then I received a text saying she wasn't ready for a relationship and we were over. We are both at the same ...
A. 1 July 2007: Hi babe, shes been a real cow with you.. you deserve a hell of a lot better.. and she finished you by txt =O forget her..! dont spend one more mintute tryin 2 contact her! try think about other things.. more important than her.. mail me if u wanna ... (read in full...)
What can I do to show my girlfriend how much I love her?
Q. My girlfriend and I just went through a really rough period - we had quite a lot of arguments - and I wanna do something to show her how much I love her. I want it to be really special, but I can't think of ANYTHING good enough. Please, I need s...
A. 1 July 2007: That second answer is completely immature but funni.. take her out.. cinemas, food, walk?? you dont have to buy her anything though to prove your love.. if you love her so much (you dont need to be an artist) make her a card.. and explain how much u ... (read in full...)
My husband still says 'I love you' to his ex!
Q. My husband still tells his ex-girlfriend that he loves her. Am I wrong to fell up-set about this? I don't mind them still being friends, I find it very disrespectul that he contiues to tell her he loves her after I have told him how I feel about the ...
A. 1 July 2007: Hi babe, i dont think that is something he should be doing, especially knowing you arnt ok with him..you have made me aware he knows you dont like it, and you have clearly warned him.. i think it is time to say, you change and dont say it to her ... (read in full...)
I like a boy who has a girlfriend and I already have a boyfriend
Q. So I like this boy that really cares about me alot but he has a g/f. and i have a boyfriend that turns out to have had sex 3 times. and every time i here a country song i think of the other boy and i dont know which one to go with.i mean my b/f is ...
A. 1 July 2007: Um hi babe, u need to decide.. and so does he.. thing is, you have a b/f and he has a g/f, you shouldnt mess with other ppls relationships babe.. if u think ur relationship at the moment isnt working, dont be in the relationship.. it isnt fair on ur ... (read in full...)
She's on birth control but she was spotting, could she be pregnant?
Q. My girlfriend is on the birth control patch. After her period, we had sex. She had her new patch on for less than 24 hours. When I pulled out, I saw that she was still spotting. I didnt wear a condom. If I am correct, spotting means that ...
A. 1 July 2007: Babe honestly.. there are SO many reasons as to why someone was spotting, and if you have just had sex and she was spotting it is probably near to her period. get her a pregnancy test, just to rule out the possibility.. ther is a chance of course.. ... (read in full...)
She cheated on me but I still love her
Q. Hi i am a 16 year old male i have just broke up with my girlfrend she got blind drunk at a party and had sex with another man. she said she didnt meen for that to happen i do believe that. We broke up that night she told me, she said she had lost ...
A. 1 July 2007: Um ok babe, seems to me that you have forgiven her, and when she told you, it was her who ended it because she needed time to think.. it should have been you. im not gona tel u wot shes dun (cheating) cos im sure u no.. the fact she slept with ... (read in full...)
My husband kissed another man and he and I don't have sex
Q. People might find this question funny or stupid but I'll go ask anyway. How will you feel if you see your husband kissed another man... on lips. Will it occur to you that he's gay? I was disturbed and I confronted him about it and he said it's a j...
A. 1 July 2007: Hi babe, well i dont know ur husband but it depends what kiss it was.. to realy understand if it was a full-on-snog, a peck on the cheek/lips..etc..You realy need to sit him down and maybe have a talk with him about his habbits, he needs to pay more ... (read in full...)
Is it worth telling my ex how I still feel about her?
Q. I used to see this girl we dated for eight months then one night she calls me and tells me that she wants to take a brake from us because our relationship was getting to serious for her “the whole sex thing”. So she broke it off with me and she ...
A. 1 July 2007: Ok, she finishes you by phone, for the reason ur gettin 2 serious because of 'the whole sex thing'?? what does that mean? she just wants to be friends, and thats what you gotta get used to babe, i no it will be hard, but for the time bein she just ... (read in full...)
He's gone off sex and doesn't know why; I'm getting frustrated
Q. My boyfriend has gone off sex but says he doesn't know why. He won't talk about it and whenever I bring it up it creates a massive argument. I'm feeling extremely frustrated, not just physically more mentally that he can't share things with me. I ...
A. 1 July 2007: Talk to him.. babe u need 2 talk.. explain ur feelings, make him aware u r feeling this way.. there is no other way to resolve a problem like this. For your frustration, maybe a toy? he needs to know your problem, and if he is just staying with you ... (read in full...)
I want to tell her in a way that says I love you with all my heart, and make her feel really special that she is the chosen girl kind of thing but I just don't know how to put it all together.
Q. Hey everyone, Sooo my girlfriend and I recently had sex for the first time. She is not a virgin. However I WAS but she does not know this. I would happily tell her but she has never asked and also I am a few years older than her so I thought it ...
A. 1 July 2007: Hey babe, when i met my boyfriend, a year ago, he was a virgin i wasnt. he told me he loved me and said i want you to be my first, because you mean the most to me, baby i love you etc.. maybe something like that? make sure she knows how special she ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with him, but he's pushing me away all the time, what do I do?
Q. well theres this boy im totally in love with him wen im with him he treats me absolutly amazin. then once im not with hes totally horridble towards me and he meets up with other girls i no your going to say chuck him but im to much in love with him ...
A. 1 July 2007: Hia babe, ok, i wont say chuck him, but u no im thinkin it =p Babii talk to him, explain how ur feelin, let him know u no about his other side.. and ur not liking it.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x... (read in full...)
I love him loads but he says he doesnt fancy me and is abusive!!
Q. Right ive wrote this problem out times before but ive never got an answer im happy with and what i could do ill tell you the basics of my problem. Theres a boy who i like and have liked for 2 years we've been out in the past and done things(s...
A. 1 July 2007: Youve never got an answer ur happy with? its not our fault babe wer tryin 2 help.. Babe the fact he is abusive towards you should be enough to tell u to leave him alone. he has used you, and is still denyin it. he doesnt deserve u babe. mail me if... (read in full...)
Why did she break up with me for five days??
Q. Whats going on? My girlfriend of 14 weeks last week dumped me. out of the blue no reason just told me " i need time to my self " i thought at first she had dumped me for this guy shes been chatting to on MSN for a month called TOM but she told me ...
A. 1 July 2007: Hia babe there are many reasons to why her mum doesnt like you, but all u can do it try (be nice). She may have needed space, time to think your relationship through.. Just because u didnt cry doesnt mean that much, but maybe u had more feelings for ... (read in full...)
We were intimate and then he suddenly stopped!!
Q. I was with a guy and we were getting pretty intimate (nowhere near sex) but he started to fondle my breasts. It felt really good and I thought I was conveying that, but then he just stopped. I think he stopped because I didn't do anything. I didn't ...
A. 1 July 2007: There could be planty of reasons, maybe he isnt ready to do things like that? Umm, when he does that to you again, give him some encouragement by helping him do it (your hand on his) or maybe you play with his penis, or stroke him, like his neck ... (read in full...)
I think my teacher fancies me...and I'm starting to fancy her!
Q. I know this sounds daft but I think my teacher fancies me. 2 years ago we got too close and were told this by another teacher, however i got in trouble for being too close to the teacher and nothing happened to her. Nothing happened between us, ...
A. 1 July 2007: Hey babe, simple as this lol ignore her, spend most ur time wiv ur girl (if shes at school with u) n look away if she looks, dont say anythin to her.. just .. ignore .. her lol but she does seem to be tryin 2 get involved with u babe.. dont let her ... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about my teacher...now I'm dreaming about her!
Q. Hi I've written here before about me me not being able to stop thinking about a female teacher not in a sexual way by the way but I just generally keep thinking about her and I posted in my last question how I went back to that school for work ...
A. 1 July 2007: Hey babe, ur not gona see her that much, apart from out of school, where you dont talk, you need to get a gf/bf, and take ur mind of it.. this is (my advise here lol) just a crush, she hasnt said anything to you about it has she and its not like ... (read in full...)
How do I talk to her...and tell her my real age?
Q. Hi. I recently got a summer job which I've had for about a week. There is a girl who is also a summer student who I think is cute and upon hearing conversations and having VERY brief talks about work-related stuff I've grown attached and lik...
A. 1 July 2007: Hey babe, ur nearly 18.. so she would only have to feel hurt that u lied. let her know ur real age as soon as.. but that short difference should matter.. mail me if u wanna talk x x xx x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps naked ex pictures and is online dating--help!
Q. Please can someone offer me some reassurance or advice. My boyfriend of 5 months has a naked picture of his ex in a sexual pose. I saw it and he said he threw it away, but it is still sat in his drawer. Now I have discovered he has joined an ...
A. 1 July 2007: Hey babe, happytochat is right.. babe he aint someone you wanna spend time with.. keepin ex's naked pik with him, and also now joining on a chat site, for sex.. leave him, or if not, let him know you know, and demand a resonable explanation.. mail ... (read in full...)
Is my penis too big to have pain-free sex?
Q. My penis is 7 1/2 inches long and I'm still growing--will this hurt a girl too much to have sex in the future?...
A. 1 July 2007: Hey babe, the first answer is completely immature.. 'go bang ur girl' lol anyhoo babe, many girls are different, some dont mind the size, and some like it big/small.. go slow with a girl, and make sure she is enjoying it.. Mail me if u wanna talk x ... (read in full...)
Do teen boys like shaved pubic hair?
Q. I'm 14 and I'm wondering, do majority of the boys my age like shaved pubic hair or not?...
A. 1 July 2007: Hey babe. at your age.. most lads havent matured enough, and most would think it weird to have hair.. But still you should not be pleasing other people. Im 16, and been with my boyfriend a year, and he prefers no hair.. but that is our personal ... (read in full...)
I like a guy who has a girlfriend--how can I break them up to get what I want?
Q. Well, I really fancy this lad. I have been talking to him on msn for ages but the thing is he has just got a new girlfriend (he is my sister's best mate's cousin) and lately everything I tell him he sends my conversations to his girlfriend to read ...
A. 1 July 2007: Urm hey babe, dont break them up, that is so out of order! Do you not realise.. He doesnt like you enough to date you, if he is sending off your conversations.. I dont blame his girlfriend for sayin that to you.. How would you feel?!?! Leav... (read in full...)
Is it safe to ejaculate more than once in a single condom?
Q. I practice safe sex but I am unsure if it is a good idea to ejaculate more than once in a single condom. That would increase the chance of breakage if I were to do that, right? Thank you for your advice....
A. 1 July 2007: I wouldnt advise the first coment because that can cause serious problems, for the penis.. if ur gonna cum twice, use 2 condoms, and what the first comment said, put another on top of it.. why do that when you can just take it off and put on ... (read in full...)
is it normal for a straight person to have homosexual dreams?
Q. I'm a female and I would like to know is it normal for me to have lesbian dreams of women often?I know that some straight people has homosexual dreams but what are the different reasons for it?...
A. 30 June 2007: Hia baby, there is absolutly no problem with it at all.. there are so many reasons, and explanations, that could be what turns you on.. you may be getting realy close to a female friend.. Just your subcontious (sorry for spell) playing you about.. ... (read in full...)
I just found out my Dad is not my Dad, and I want to know who really is my Dad!
Q. Recenlty, my mum told me that the person who I thought was my dad wasnt! Im really upset because I want to Know where I came from and Its become awkward because I dont know what to call the person who I thought was my dad. Also , I want to find out ...
A. 30 June 2007: Hey babe i half know what you are going through, maybe there is a real reason to why your mum is protecting you from this man. you realy need to sit down wiv ur mum and talk about him, demand you need to know and let her know what u r going to do ... (read in full...)
He has behaved badly and now my parents dont want me to see him!
Q. im so lost i need help!!! i am 18 and my boyfriend has just turned 22. We have been going out for 2 years and i love him very much. it was all very well with my family and both them and him were close. however they logged into my e mail and found ...
A. 30 June 2007: Erm darlin.. he grabbed u by the hair and spat in ur face. i can only say one thing to that. leave him.. he is complete and utter rubbish.. (i chose my words carefully) honestly babe he isnt worth ur time..it is ur choice.. to do WHATEVER you want!! ... (read in full...)
He wants me to get a brazilian, but I dont think I want to
Q. My boyfriend wants me to get rid of my hair in the genital region. I'm not too sure about this. I feel like I have to because he won't find me atrractive if I don't but at the same time, why should I HAVE to do it? The main reasons why I don't want ...
A. 30 June 2007: Hey babe, who is sayin u HAVE to do it? if ur boyfriend is.. he doesnt care about u as much as hes making out.. you dont HAVE to do anything. You most likely will get a shaving rash as most people do (easy way to reduce redness is to wash over the ... (read in full...)
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